Libra - Scorpio Cusp...anyone?

So, tell us all about yourself.

🙂

I am good 🙂

My friend's husband is one. He is social but doesn't like to go out. Only has friends over all the time instead. Very opinionated and married to a Gemini-who never has an opinion and just goes with what everyone else is doing.

OPinions are good though...If you don't have your own,you just end up drifting along/sucking up what everyone and anyone else says/dictates....
Plus,you can always change them............

so true- LOL

libra/scorpio cusp here... last day, october 25th.

My mom is a Libra/Scorpio Cusp but on the libra side

well I call her the benevolent dictator! and she laughs cause she knows its true lol

Ohh.. where do I start.
He's a charmer, with a tenacity of scorp. An enduring charmer.
The way he talks is filled with erotic romanticism. No-one does that as well as a Libra-scorp.
Never wants to be controlled, but wants to be desired.
A juxtaposition of hard and soft, gentility and unspoken dominance.
He looks fragile, yet his inner character is strong beyond belief.
Also, appears socialable, but is really a miserable recluse inside.

That's just about how I figure him out to be. The rest, can wait as it slowly unfolds 🙂

wow spica... I couldn't have described myself better. It seems Libras and Scorpios are like night and day... and to be on the cusp of both!

Spica,

Your description sounds so much like my guy! He's Oct. 21. I always wondered if he had a bit more Scorpio in him because he doesn't always sound like other Libras.

So how do you deal with this dual personality?

I'm no longer with the Libra/Scorpio cusp guy. He also had a Pisces moon.
**MUCH** more watery, deep, and emotional than most Libras.

Me, personally, I just took things as they came with him.
He was extremely emotional and always wanting my support, help, and love. No problem there except that once I was sucked into whatever problem he was going through at the time, he would turn around and attack me for giving him the help that he asked for. 😢

He had a good heart and was very sweet, kind, and loving, but I had a problem with the attacks that came after the problems. Hopefully yours doesn't have that trait. Except for that one thing, he was just about perfect - faithful, romantic, thoughtful, generous, honest.... The list goes on and on.

He wanted to get married but I couldn't see having to protect myself from my partner for the rest of my life. Especially after we may have just gotten through a hardship. This is the person I should be able to turn to for support and he should be able to turn to me as well. But if after we've gotten through it then he wants to attack me....

Nah. I can do bad all by myself.

Wanted to add:

When I say "attack" I mean after asking me for advice, input, support, and help he would tell me he didn't need my help and I needed to mind my own business. After a while I stopped giving anything and was just willing to listen to whatever was going on with him, but he would *BEG ME* to tell him what I think. *BEG ME* to give him advice and tell him what I would do, what he should do. I would remind him what happened before when I did and he would assure me that he wouldn't attack me again. But after I gave him what he asked for, he would turn around and attack me. Again.

I got worn out emotionally because I genuinely cared about what he was feeling and going through. When he was in pain, I was in pain. So after the pain of whatever problem passed for him, he would lay into me for helping him. Pffft... 😢

My guy is similar: sweet, loving, a good heart. He does seem like he wants support and love, but so far he hasn't asked me to help him with any problems. He does seem to like having me as a sounding board, but never specifically asks for help.

The "help-me-now-I'm-mad-at-you" sounds like the Libra in-balance that can happen.

Thank you Bling and Curios.
My guy is also Oct.21, Maygirl.

I don 't know how to deal with his dual personality. I'm a mid-libra III.
To me, he's very libran, but when I got to know him deeper, he's more scorpio. As in he's scorpio-ish in relationships. It does pose quite a bit of problems though.
He's pretty hot-cold, and likes to alternate.
He also likes to play relationship games - he thinks it's fun; either that or he has problems with intimacy.
But overall, as you described, he's very sweet, loving, charming, sexy, irrisistable...
One reason is because he's a pro at making himself seem desirable.

He sets the stage well, and exudes just the correct amount of sensuality, effort and interest. Just the right amount and not exceeding.

And just the right amount of scorpio mystery, coupled with the libran sensual teasing, subtlety and double entendres. Basically he's an actor, and a very good one.

leo/virgo, I think I know what you mean. He likes to "disarm", "attack", "hurt", to see how far he can go.. My guy does that too, in the beginning. It's a dominance thing, if you allow it. I guess that's a way of evoking emotional response.

Then he likes to creep up on you unsuspected, deep inside your soul. He sets traps this way, and I think it's a scorpio style .

Oct. 25th cuspian here...

I am very opinionated, need attention but only from those of my selective choosing, like to have fun but feel there is a deep and serious side to everything and everyone...laugh a lot but secretly cry a fair amount too, understand everyone elses lack of jealousy and possessiveness but can't quite squelch mine, have many fairweather friends but perhaps two actual people I can really trust and count on so really very few true friends...am likeable to almost all people but this is probably because I hide my negative scorp traits extremely well...could go on forever 🙂

Oh and I'm dating an Aries/Pisces cuspian. (They say the cuspians are attracted to each other)

fuck a cusp


10/25- first decan, bitchesssss!

lol@blingers

I'm right smack in the middle of Libra/Scorpio.. with a rising Gemini.. 23rd... Needless to say, I'm a very complicated individual. I may have a dark side, but people are drawn to my charisma & my lightheartedness.. until i have a mood swing & break things... I can be extremely social, however, I really prefer to sit at home with my Cancer... (unless my libra's feeling frisky) All in all, we have a good relationship. But because I'm at constant war with myself, me & him tend to bump heads.. Yet, we also tend balance each other out. & since being with him, its a bit easier to grasp onto reality. Its kinda hard when you can't get your brain to stop thinking because you have so many different ideas & thoughts running throughout your heads. I don't like help (assistance) in nearly anything I do, unless I;m in a good mood & it doesn't mean anything to me, I haven't sat there working on it for someone to come invade my bubble & run off my state of mind. then feel like crap when you lash out a couple remarks. don't really mean anything by it, just frustrated beyond belief. & i'm sorry for doing so, but its just one more thought that you can't really think about right now that'll gonna run through your mind now that tramples it all. or, after sitting there pondering the situation, feeling retarded, someone else comes up & presto! finico!! you've just made me feel like an idiot. It's really nothing personal when ya snap. I'm sorry about it. but just get off my ass right now. I love you, but right now i can't handle your presence, your pressure, your questions, stares, or antics.

Wow.... see... i don't even understand half of that

>>wow spica... I couldn't have described myself better. It seems Libras and Scorpios are like night and day... and to be on the cusp of both!

Hi peoples! Well I'm a libran/scorpio person cuz my birthday is october 22! I'm a good mix between both. I'm mostly libran though! I love peace and am very out going! I'm gullible and indecisive. My scorpio side is a part of me too though. I'm sensitive (though i've learned to control it to some degree) Possesive, obsessive , and emotional. I can pretty much tell i'm more of a libra though cuz my best guy friend is a libra and my boyfriend is a scorpio so as always, I'm stuck in the middle 🙂. My libran guy friend is the more soft spoken, nice, caring, fun person. My boyfriend is more aggressive and forceful and passionate and sweet person.

I'm more of a libra though cuz I hate being left alone..well no i can't say that exactly. lol. see what i mean by indecision! Anyways, I'm a little bit bipolar, but am usually very happy and outgoing. It wasn't until two months ago that I realized being a libra isn't all of my personality. I get jelous rather easily, but i try to contain it. I'm not very aggressive though. I don't like compitition. It makes me anxious. lol wow, I'm sorry if i sound like a wussy hahaha. I love having a good time and partying. I'm not sure i'm very "intense" or whatever, but my boyfriend is haha. He's very sweet and gentle with me though.

I'm not sure any of my blabbering helped, but I do hope it did. If u have anymore questions about being a Libra-scorpio u can ask me. I love helping and giving advice 🙂. Oh and maybe i'm just contridicting myself, but if anyone has a good website for cusp personalities please give it to me. I may be able to describe myself well, but i relly want to know if i'm actually like a libra/scorpio cusp should be 😉

Posted by spica
Ohh.. where do I start.
He's a charmer, with a tenacity of scorp. An enduring charmer.
The way he talks is filled with erotic romanticism. No-one does that as well as a Libra-scorp.
Never wants to be controlled, but wants to be desired.
A juxtaposition of hard and soft, gentility and unspoken dominance.
He looks fragile, yet his inner character is strong beyond belief.
Also, appears socialable, but is really a miserable recluse inside.

That's just about how I figure him out to be. The rest, can wait as it slowly unfolds 🙂

That hurts cause it's SOOO TRUE!!!

Libra/Scorp myself.

Posted by 10-23>Schitzo
I'm right smack in the middle of Libra/Scorpio.. with a rising Gemini.. 23rd... Needless to say, I'm a very complicated individual. I may have a dark side, but people are drawn to my charisma & my lightheartedness.. until i have a mood swing & break things... I can be extremely social, however, I really prefer to sit at home with my Cancer... (unless my libra's feeling frisky) All in all, we have a good relationship. But because I'm at constant war with myself, me & him tend to bump heads.. Yet, we also tend balance each other out. & since being with him, its a bit easier to grasp onto reality. Its kinda hard when you can't get your brain to stop thinking because you have so many different ideas & thoughts running throughout your heads. I don't like help (assistance) in nearly anything I do, unless I;m in a good mood & it doesn't mean anything to me, I haven't sat there working on it for someone to come invade my bubble & run off my state of mind. then feel like crap when you lash out a couple remarks. don't really mean anything by it, just frustrated beyond belief. & i'm sorry for doing so, but its just one more thought that you can't really think about right now that'll gonna run through your mind now that tramples it all. or, after sitting there pondering the situation, feeling retarded, someone else comes up & presto! finico!! you've just made me feel like an idiot. It's really nothing personal when ya snap. I'm sorry about it. but just get off my ass right now. I love you, but right now i can't handle your presence, your pressure, your questions, stares, or antics.

Wow.... see... i don't even understand half of that

Wow, you must be like my long, lost twin.

Its kinda hard when you can't get your brain to stop thinking because you have so many different ideas & thoughts running throughout your heads.

If I could just shut it off sometimes like CPU..

I may have a dark side, but people are drawn to my charisma & my lightheartedness.. until i have a mood swing & break things...

Never could understand why people just want to approcah me and get in my life than think I'm weird or crazy afterwards when the sweet side vanishes for a brief second

But because I'm at constant war with myself, me & him tend to bump heads..

My long lost twin you have a Cancer at home too. He doesn't understand my intensity or when I'm venting as

I think girls born in this cusp are hot.

Wow it was fun to read all your interpretations of yourselves! I'm born on October 22..... at 11:57 at night..... although i have found that I favor the librian side.... lately I have found that my scorpio is coming out! Now Here are somethings you all might be able to help me out with! So i have been through more than most 80year old men..... and I don't say that lightly!!!! Now i have found that I am so guarded and yearning to let myself go. I don't know if it is due to my extreme life experiences or it just how I am! I am gotten out of a 9 year relationship and have all of a sudden I have developed this fear of commitment, yet that is what i expect! I have always sat on the fence... it is a libra thing... to over think everything... and I do over think everything... unless it is an impulse... then I'm sold! Ok but really I have gotten into sexual relationships.... I don't want a clingy man... and I am not needy, but the little time I ask for, if I am not given it... it makes me angry enough to just walk away! See that is it, I don't ask for much, but when I am not given the specific thing I do ask for, it causes me to just get so angry and I just don't want it! I think that is the Scoripo to just feel dramatic and just make a bold FUCk you statement! See I am blunt abrasive and kinda a bitch at stating what I want and need, and i lay it out on the table..... but when I get angry I become secretive about how I feel and will just make a rash choice and not let anyone in on it! Im frustrated with myself cause I cant make my mind up in my own head! The insane part is to the world I look very put together, can see everything from everyone else's point of view, and and sure about all that I do! the problem is that in my own head I am fighting the Libra to make her mind up, and not want to indulge in every hearts desire... then with the blunt and rash Scorpio to rear its tail just to sting others when I don't like what you are doing! problem is you don't usually know it is me stinging you!

Now food for thought, I have a Libra/Scorpio friends who wants to date eventually..... we can talk about everything.... am afraid on how to make that work

Ok so I have found that Gemini's are a huge part of my life! The biggest choices I have made are with Geminis! My mother, my ex hubs, my son, my cousin... and I have many more.
I have found so much comfort and security in my Leo friends, have found them to be a great source of balance for me (which if you know a Li