Libra Man Ghosts and Unghosts - Too Many Years and Just Plain Lost

I'd text or call him and just ask what the deal is. I will admit not hearing from him in 3 weeks is not a good sign. It makes me think someone else has his attention. If I'm really into someone I wouldn't go 3 weeks without talking to them. Sorry for not having a more positive outlook. I'd definitely call or text him so you can get some answers.

Posted by AJCappie03

But my irrational side says he went back to the kid's Mom (even though he explained they were a disaster together) or found someone new. Or maybe he really doesn't want to be with me and the thought of me moving closer is too much. What a mess this is! Thoughts? I am curious to know how to get his attention back (return from the ghosting) and how not to push him away. Or is this over again?

What sign is his ex? This is very possible that he is still involved with his ex because they have kids together and it sounds like they have a passionate relationship. It's hard to leave a family you've created.

If I ghost on someone it's usually because I saw their asshole side and I lost interest. I never "unghost".

As for your dude, I believe that a man will never ghost on you if he truly wants to be with you - Libra or not.

Posted by AJCappie03

Thanks to everyone for their thoughts.

We have had the conversation about ghosting. He knows how I feel about it.

@DonnaLibra - I do not know his ex's sign. But I am guessing Aries. I guess this because every Tarot reading I have done for the past 2 months have said an Aries is involved with our situation. Although, their relationship was anything but passionate. It was more toxic if anything. (An outside source filled me in on it.)

Sorry Sweetie but if he is involved with an Aries you might as well tap out now. They have a love/hate passionate relationship with kids involved. Aries women do not let the father of their babies go easily nor do men seem to want to leave them. Especially a Libra or Aries man.