Libra man gone cold advice needed

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Leorosexox
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Hi there essay coming up 😂 I will start by saying I’m a Leo who got talking to a Libra man, I could tell he was a Libra just by his Instagram profile before I even spoke to him. We got talking on there and within two days it had got pretty hot and heavy. I know Libras are big flirts but he was saying everything I wanted to hear and we had so much in common, like weirdly so much in common. There’s me thinking this is the one! So after 4 days of constant messaging we met up for a walk. I thought it went really well, conversation flowed with no pause, laughing, joking and flirting he was so attractive. Now here comes me being a typical Leo I wouldn’t say I’m bad looking and usually when I meet people in person that’s it we just click, which I really felt we did. So after the walk I message straight away saying how much I’m attracted to him and I literally got radio silence. He completely cut me off and stopped speaking to me for like a week, now he will message me the odd thing being civil like what you doing this weekend? But with no conversation like before and he will just cut me off and not reply again. Did I come on too strong after we’d met and it’s put him off? I thought Libras liked being shown affection so I’m really confused!! I do still try and make the odd conversation but would anyone recommend just completely leaving it?? I’m gutted as I’ve never met someone with so much in common.
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DonnaLibra
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Posted by Timon

The thing with libras is that they're not usually direct and act polite and pleasant and sometimes people mistake that for being interested in them. From what you've written I think he doesn't seem that interested. Maybe he just didn't feel a connection when he met you in person. I'm not a man but as a libra I've experienced that too, connecting with someone online but then when I meet them there was no chemistry. I think this could be what happened. I'm always honest with them though if they want to see me again that I didn't feel a connection but I know libra men are famous for pulling the ghosting act.

I'm not a man either but I've experienced the same especially with Leos. I once went out with one who kept going on and on about how much chemistry we had and how he could feel me wanting him. I swear I felt absolutely nothing at all. This has happened to me more than once with Leo men. Now saying this Libra guy wasn't feeling anything for you but we do flirt without even realizing it and a lot of times people get the wrong impression. What are your aqes? That will give a better idea.