Libra man so confusing... I'm 100% lost

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Scorpiasgirl on Monday, January 6, 2020 and has 24 replies.

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@Scorpiasgirl
6 Years

Hey everyone ! I'm new here I though I might find answers here !

So I'm a scorpio girl and I met a libra male in september. As soon as we met we match really well and we used kiss a lot and laugh a lot.

Since then we see each other every week end with our friends in clubs, bars.

One day he was with all his friends and I was with mine, and he propose me to go with him and his friends see some movie at a friend's house. So I went, we sleep together, nothing sexual happened except hugs, kiss on the shoulder...

We went to his house then, we eat, talk a lot about our personal life, nap and then I kissed him he said "finally" as if he was waiting for me to do it.

Anyway, I went home and the day after he was talking to me a lot on messenger, and after one day he stopped replying to me but was still replying on some messenger group conversation (he knows that I'm part of this group so he knew that I was seeing him not replying to our conversation).

I started distance myself, respond to his text 24 hours later and when I was seeing him I was to shy and didn't know how to act so I kind of ignored him (I say hi to him but I was talking to everybody except him... I'm an asshole I know).

One day I was too drunk and apparently I kissed 5 guys in front of him, I totally blacked out so I don't remember a thing ...

Since then, he was talking to me a lot less, and then one day he said to me "I cannot be in a relationship right now", obviously my dumb ass reply "me neither !!" 🙂 🙂

We distance ourselves a lot and it started again, we were at a party together, he came to sit next to me and told me "Hey, I like you !" and insisted "Like, I really like you!" I told him that me too and that I hope that he was appreciating me (I try to act friendly I hate appearing needy), then we went with our friends at a festival for New Years Eve, and he was so kind to me, so funny we were talking all the time (also something I notice is that he is ALWAYS staring) and at the first minute of 2020 he came to me and kiss me like he never kissed me :o He wanted to hug afterwards !!

Now we are back at our respectives homes and since saturday night we are texting each other non stop, apparently I put him in a super good mood

So my question is : WHAT IS THE ACTUAL FUCK ? Does he have friendzoned me ? Or does he likes me ? I really don't get it ! (also he was seeing a girl like 1 month ago, but he kept saying that he was ghosting her blabla, also he told me last week that he was single)

I'm sorry for the mistakes english is not my native language .. :/

Thank you !!

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@Havoc077
8 Years

Holy crap, it never stops surprising me just how stupid, irresponsible and outright immature grown-ass adults can be in today's world. Yes, go for him - he sounds a little like a simpleton and you seem very fit for him because you're both ridiculous.

10/10 for entertainment value but my god - I think it's actually harmful to others to read this trash, if only for that sliver of a chance someone might see this and think it's okay to emulate.

I refuse to believe this is an actual situation between two people.

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@Librasetting777
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by thethescorpio
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Posted by Librasetting777

Sounds like you took five dicks too lol

Bro you suppose to be a libra why you so rude

You suppose to be the forgiving one that everyone takes advantage of bro cmon whats happening


too much fire in me but you didn't deny it lol is there a video? Is it on pornhub 😄

bro bro calm down ur a libra

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yeah I am a libra so what?

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@Librasetting777
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777

Sounds like you took five dicks too lol

Bro you suppose to be a libra why you so rude

You suppose to be the forgiving one that everyone takes advantage of bro cmon whats happening


too much fire in me but you didn't deny it lol is there a video? Is it on pornhub 😄

bro bro calm down ur a libra


yeah I am a libra so what?

libras are bches. Bro being a bch is ur birthright

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🤣 right

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

I don’t see his behavior as confusing at all.

He cooled off due to the signals of disinterest that YOU sent aka kissing other men in front of him, not responding to his messages, etc.

Hes shown he’s interested fairly consistently, despite seeing you kiss other men, so he must really REALLY like you. Up to you now to meet his enthusiasm and stop sending mixed signals. Then things will progress naturally.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by LadyNeptune

I don’t see his behavior as confusing at all.

He cooked off due to the signals of disinterest that YOU sent aka kissing other men in front of him, not responding to his messages, etc.

Hes shown he’s interested fairly consistently, despite seeing you kiss other men, so he must really REALLY like you. Up to you now to meet his enthusiasm and stop sending mixed signals. Then things will progress naturally.

She was drunk tho not her fault

and its a libra who cares people take advantage of them all the time. They forgive you its fine

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She chose to drink to the point of blacking out in front of him. And he is still interested so it’s a moot point.

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@DonnaLibra
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by thatlibralife
Posted by Scorpiasgirl

Hey everyone ! I'm new here I though I might find answers here !

So I'm a scorpio girl and I met a libra male in september. As soon as we met we match really well and we used kiss a lot and laugh a lot.

Since then we see each other every week end with our friends in clubs, bars.

One day he was with all his friends and I was with mine, and he propose me to go with him and his friends see some movie at a friend's house. So I went, we sleep together, nothing sexual happened except hugs, kiss on the shoulder...

We went to his house then, we eat, talk a lot about our personal life, nap and then I kissed him he said "finally" as if he was waiting for me to do it.

Anyway, I went home and the day after he was talking to me a lot on messenger, and after one day he stopped replying to me but was still replying on some messenger group conversation (he knows that I'm part of this group so he knew that I was seeing him not replying to our conversation).

I started distance myself, respond to his text 24 hours later and when I was seeing him I was to shy and didn't know how to act so I kind of ignored him (I say hi to him but I was talking to everybody except him... I'm an asshole I know).

One day I was too drunk and apparently I kissed 5 guys in front of him, I totally blacked out so I don't remember a thing ...

Since then, he was talking to me a lot less, and then one day he said to me "I cannot be in a relationship right now", obviously my dumb ass reply "me neither !!" 🙂 🙂

We distance ourselves a lot and it started again, we were at a party together, he came to sit next to me and told me "Hey, I like you !" and insisted "Like, I really like you!" I told him that me too and that I hope that he was appreciating me (I try to act friendly I hate appearing needy), then we went with our friends at a festival for New Years Eve, and he was so kind to me, so funny we were talking all the time (also something I notice is that he is ALWAYS staring) and at the first minute of 2020 he came to me and kiss me like he never kissed me :o He wanted to hug afterwards !!

Now we are back at our respectives homes and since saturday night we are texting each other non stop, apparently I put him in a super good mood

So my question is : WHAT IS THE ACTUAL FUCK ? Does he have friendzoned me ? Or does he likes me ? I really don't get it ! (also he was seeing a girl like 1 month ago, but he kept saying that he was ghosting her blabla, also he told me last week that he was single)

I'm sorry for the mistakes english is not my native language .. :/

Thank you !!

You lost me when you mentioned kissing 5 guys in front of him. Being drunk is no excuse. And then distancing yourself and playing games to boot...you're confused for all of these reasons...nothing to do with him being a libra....

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Yeah he probably does like you and can't wait for sex with you because after he saw you kissing 5 guys he thinks you are a freak and will do anything sexually. Probably can't wait for it to happen. Be careful because after he's gotten enough he will ghost.

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@DonnaLibra
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Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by DonnaLibra
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Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777

Sounds like you took five dicks too lol

Bro you suppose to be a libra why you so rude

You suppose to be the forgiving one that everyone takes advantage of bro cmon whats happening

LOL, what you heard about Libra's is a myth.

Nah its pretty accurate and you know it

You have no idea what I know and nobody takes advantage of me.

Yea u dont have balls and you know it

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You would be correct, I have a vagina.

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@Librasetting777
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777

Sounds like you took five dicks too lol

Bro you suppose to be a libra why you so rude

You suppose to be the forgiving one that everyone takes advantage of bro cmon whats happening

LOL, what you heard about Libra's is a myth.

Nah its pretty accurate and you know it

You have no idea what I know and nobody takes advantage of me.

Yea u dont have balls and you know it

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lol actually that's scorpio the #1 sign from male to female transgenders.makes sense since it's a female sign and sexual transformation guess it's their rebirth lol.

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@LadyNeptune
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Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by LadyNeptune

I don’t see his behavior as confusing at all.

He cooked off due to the signals of disinterest that YOU sent aka kissing other men in front of him, not responding to his messages, etc.

Hes shown he’s interested fairly consistently, despite seeing you kiss other men, so he must really REALLY like you. Up to you now to meet his enthusiasm and stop sending mixed signals. Then things will progress naturally.

She was drunk tho not her fault

and its a libra who cares people take advantage of them all the time. They forgive you its fine

She chose to drink to the point of blacking out in front of him. And he is still interested so it’s a moot point.

I dont understand what you mean

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My comment is not about blaming her for making out with others. My comment is addressing the topic title of ‘he is so confusing’.

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@Librasetting777
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Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777

Sounds like you took five dicks too lol

Bro you suppose to be a libra why you so rude

You suppose to be the forgiving one that everyone takes advantage of bro cmon whats happening

LOL, what you heard about Libra's is a myth.

Nah its pretty accurate and you know it

You have no idea what I know and nobody takes advantage of me.

Yea u dont have balls and you know it


lol actually that's scorpio the #1 sign from male to female transgenders.makes sense since it's a female sign and sexual transformation guess it's their rebirth lol.

Ok buddy thats a little too far. You are out of your safe zone

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it's the truth not my fault you cant handle it lol. Guess it has cross you're mind once or twice it's okay its 2020 go for it.

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@LadyNeptune
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Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by LadyNeptune

I don’t see his behavior as confusing at all.

He cooked off due to the signals of disinterest that YOU sent aka kissing other men in front of him, not responding to his messages, etc.

Hes shown he’s interested fairly consistently, despite seeing you kiss other men, so he must really REALLY like you. Up to you now to meet his enthusiasm and stop sending mixed signals. Then things will progress naturally.

She was drunk tho not her fault

and its a libra who cares people take advantage of them all the time. They forgive you its fine

She chose to drink to the point of blacking out in front of him. And he is still interested so it’s a moot point.

I dont understand what you mean

My comment is not about blaming her for making out with others. My comment is addressing the topic title of ‘he is so confusing’.

tbh ur confusing

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@Librasetting777
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777

Sounds like you took five dicks too lol

Bro you suppose to be a libra why you so rude

You suppose to be the forgiving one that everyone takes advantage of bro cmon whats happening

LOL, what you heard about Libra's is a myth.

Nah its pretty accurate and you know it

You have no idea what I know and nobody takes advantage of me.

Yea u dont have balls and you know it


lol actually that's scorpio the #1 sign from male to female transgenders.makes sense since it's a female sign and sexual transformation guess it's their rebirth lol.

Ok buddy thats a little too far. You are out of your safe zone


it's the truth not my fault you cant handle it lol. Guess it has cross you're mind once or twice it's okay its 2020 go for it.

Are you denying libras are weak willed and losers?

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stop deflecting bro go become women like you really want too. Its 2020 no one cares anymore go be who you really want to be.

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@Librasetting777
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Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777

Sounds like you took five dicks too lol

Bro you suppose to be a libra why you so rude

You suppose to be the forgiving one that everyone takes advantage of bro cmon whats happening

LOL, what you heard about Libra's is a myth.

Nah its pretty accurate and you know it

You have no idea what I know and nobody takes advantage of me.

Yea u dont have balls and you know it


lol actually that's scorpio the #1 sign from male to female transgenders.makes sense since it's a female sign and sexual transformation guess it's their rebirth lol.

Ok buddy thats a little too far. You are out of your safe zone


it's the truth not my fault you cant handle it lol. Guess it has cross you're mind once or twice it's okay its 2020 go for it.

Are you denying libras are weak willed and losers?


stop deflecting bro go become women like you really want too. Its 2020 no one cares anymore go be who you really want to be.

Bro its alright libra is all about fashion and shit. You can become a girl if you want. Just make sure you avoid confrontation

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lol more deflection.that's your choice and right to live in denial I'm only try to help you become the person you really want be.

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Posted by Havoc077

Holy crap, it never stops surprising me just how stupid, irresponsible and outright immature grown-ass adults can be in today's world. Yes, go for him - he sounds a little like a simpleton and you seem very fit for him because you're both ridiculous.

10/10 for entertainment value but my god - I think it's actually harmful to others to read this trash, if only for that sliver of a chance someone might see this and think it's okay to emulate.

I refuse to believe this is an actual situation between two people.

Right! Irresponsible, messy and childish af.

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@Librasetting777
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777

Sounds like you took five dicks too lol

Bro you suppose to be a libra why you so rude

You suppose to be the forgiving one that everyone takes advantage of bro cmon whats happening

LOL, what you heard about Libra's is a myth.

Nah its pretty accurate and you know it

You have no idea what I know and nobody takes advantage of me.

Yea u dont have balls and you know it


lol actually that's scorpio the #1 sign from male to female transgenders.makes sense since it's a female sign and sexual transformation guess it's their rebirth lol.

Ok buddy thats a little too far. You are out of your safe zone


it's the truth not my fault you cant handle it lol. Guess it has cross you're mind once or twice it's okay its 2020 go for it.

Are you denying libras are weak willed and losers?


stop deflecting bro go become women like you really want too. Its 2020 no one cares anymore go be who you really want to be.

Bro its alright libra is all about fashion and shit. You can become a girl if you want. Just make sure you avoid confrontation


lol more deflection.that's your choice and right to live in denial I'm only try to help you become the person you really want be.

even the way you talk is non confrontational bro you are a psy its time you look in the mirror

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whatever lies you have to tell yourself to feel better. Lol I'm not the one having a emotional outbreak here just because I gave you a statistic.

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Posted by Scorpiasgirl

Hey everyone ! I'm new here I though I might find answers here !

So I'm a scorpio girl and I met a libra male in september. As soon as we met we match really well and we used kiss a lot and laugh a lot.

Since then we see each other every week end with our friends in clubs, bars.

One day he was with all his friends and I was with mine, and he propose me to go with him and his friends see some movie at a friend's house. So I went, we sleep together, nothing sexual happened except hugs, kiss on the shoulder...

We went to his house then, we eat, talk a lot about our personal life, nap and then I kissed him he said "finally" as if he was waiting for me to do it.

Anyway, I went home and the day after he was talking to me a lot on messenger, and after one day he stopped replying to me but was still replying on some messenger group conversation (he knows that I'm part of this group so he knew that I was seeing him not replying to our conversation).

I started distance myself, respond to his text 24 hours later and when I was seeing him I was to shy and didn't know how to act so I kind of ignored him (I say hi to him but I was talking to everybody except him... I'm an asshole I know).

One day I was too drunk and apparently I kissed 5 guys in front of him, I totally blacked out so I don't remember a thing ...

Since then, he was talking to me a lot less, and then one day he said to me "I cannot be in a relationship right now", obviously my dumb ass reply "me neither !!" 🙂 🙂

We distance ourselves a lot and it started again, we were at a party together, he came to sit next to me and told me "Hey, I like you !" and insisted "Like, I really like you!" I told him that me too and that I hope that he was appreciating me (I try to act friendly I hate appearing needy), then we went with our friends at a festival for New Years Eve, and he was so kind to me, so funny we were talking all the time (also something I notice is that he is ALWAYS staring) and at the first minute of 2020 he came to me and kiss me like he never kissed me :o He wanted to hug afterwards !!

Now we are back at our respectives homes and since saturday night we are texting each other non stop, apparently I put him in a super good mood

So my question is : WHAT IS THE ACTUAL FUCK ? Does he have friendzoned me ? Or does he likes me ? I really don't get it ! (also he was seeing a girl like 1 month ago, but he kept saying that he was ghosting her blabla, also he told me last week that he was single)

I'm sorry for the mistakes english is not my native language .. :/

Thank you !!

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that's so outrageous.

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listen, you're what? 19? 20? don't worry about it. kiss some more guys. have some fun. don't get caught up on any one guy. be young. be stupid. it's the only time in your life you can get away with it.

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Posted by thethescorpio
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Posted by DonnaLibra
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Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777

Sounds like you took five dicks too lol

Bro you suppose to be a libra why you so rude

You suppose to be the forgiving one that everyone takes advantage of bro cmon whats happening

LOL, what you heard about Libra's is a myth.

Nah its pretty accurate and you know it

You have no idea what I know and nobody takes advantage of me.

Yea u dont have balls and you know it


lol actually that's scorpio the #1 sign from male to female transgenders.makes sense since it's a female sign and sexual transformation guess it's their rebirth lol.

Ok buddy thats a little too far. You are out of your safe zone


it's the truth not my fault you cant handle it lol. Guess it has cross you're mind once or twice it's okay its 2020 go for it.

Are you denying libras are weak willed and losers?


stop deflecting bro go become women like you really want too. Its 2020 no one cares anymore go be who you really want to be.

Bro its alright libra is all about fashion and shit. You can become a girl if you want. Just make sure you avoid confrontation

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yeah man, we're all about fashion and shit man...and pretty cocktails.

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@Librasetting777
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Posted by Librasetting777
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Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by DonnaLibra
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Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by thethescorpio
Posted by Librasetting777

Sounds like you took five dicks too lol

Bro you suppose to be a libra why you so rude

You suppose to be the forgiving one that everyone takes advantage of bro cmon whats happening

LOL, what you heard about Libra's is a myth.

Nah its pretty accurate and you know it

You have no idea what I know and nobody takes advantage of me.

Yea u dont have balls and you know it


lol actually that's scorpio the #1 sign from male to female transgenders.makes sense since it's a female sign and sexual transformation guess it's their rebirth lol.

Ok buddy thats a little too far. You are out of your safe zone


it's the truth not my fault you cant handle it lol. Guess it has cross you're mind once or twice it's okay its 2020 go for it.

Are you denying libras are weak willed and losers?


stop deflecting bro go become women like you really want too. Its 2020 no one cares anymore go be who you really want to be.

Bro its alright libra is all about fashion and shit. You can become a girl if you want. Just make sure you avoid confrontation


lol more deflection.that's your choice and right to live in denial I'm only try to help you become the person you really want be.

even the way you talk is non confrontational bro you are a psy its time you look in the mirror


whatever lies you have to tell yourself to feel better. Lol I'm not the one having a emotional outbreak here just because I gave you a statistic.

whatever you say lol. Feel better

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