Libra man in love VS playing the field

how do you know a libra is sincerely into you? What are some signs?

He's not a flaky douchelord.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
He's not a flaky douchelord.

I third this

There won't be hot and cold nonsense

Posted by rockyroadicecream
He's not a flaky douchelord.

LMAO i guess i fourth tht 🙂 My first long term relationship was with a libra and for 5 yrs.

If libra is being over affectionate and a lil needy (yes needy but in a cute way not controlling and sh!t). If you're PMSing and being a lil bi+ch for a week and the libran still puts up with it and genuinely tries hard to get you to smile. Libra men's and women's (or any air sign for tht matter) relationship and attachment tend to only be "skin-deep" its rather hard to penetrate the soul/mind of an air sign since its so complex. But when you do they will be faithful, nurturing, lil needy, protective and def. no flaky BS!

With any guy, if you have to question whether he's into you or not, it's most likely he's not. When a guy is into you, you KNOW without a doubt.

All the hot/cold shit that leaves you questioning things is a big indicator of someone not that into you.

Problem with that is now a days people put up walls and act not interested/hot cold to protect their hearts. I blame the game.

I sound like a grandma but it's true.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
He's not a flaky douchelord.

LOL!!! Douchelord!!! I'm stealing that

Posted by kissmygrits
Problem with that is now a days people put up walls and act not interested/hot cold to protect their hearts. I blame the game.

I sound like a grandma but it's true.

It doesn't matter. If someone starts acting like that, you drop their asses and move along. Ain't nobody got time for that shit. If they want to "protect" their hearts, they can do it just fine all by themselves. They don't deserve any consideration in dating until they grow up.

I doubt is has much to do with protection of the heart and is more emotional immaturity and self absorbed behaviors.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
With any guy, if you have to question whether he's into you or not, it's most likely he's not. When a guy is into you, you KNOW without a doubt.

All the hot/cold shit that leaves you questioning things is a big indicator of someone not that into you.

Very true!

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by kissmygrits
Problem with that is now a days people put up walls and act not interested/hot cold to protect their hearts. I blame the game.

I sound like a grandma but it's true.

It doesn't matter. If someone starts acting like that, you drop their asses and move along. Ain't nobody got time for that shit. If they want to "protect" their hearts, they can do it just fine all by themselves. They don't deserve any consideration in dating until they grow up.

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Totally agree with this. Ain't nobody got time to fix an immature child who's stepping into the dating world. Being emotionally available is the best ting you can do for yourself if you are looking for a serious companion.

—its rather hard to penetrate the soul/mind of an air sign since its so complex. But when you do they will be faithful, nurturing, lil needy, protective and def. no flaky BS!??

Wow I??ve never seen anyone other than myself sum us up like this, but that's me in a nutshell. Sheesh I just revealed I'm the jealous type a few days ago (I??ve been single for a minute, so I'm learning things about myself and instead of being a typical libra and masking them, I'm learning how to accept my own ways, if I expect others to.) Anyway, I'm like this when I truly like someone. Not in an overbearing type of way, but I'm territorial over that person and I will get mad if someone else is getting attention from the guy I truly like, especially if I think she might be real competition, I??ll drop out of the game quick but not before giving him a piece of my mind. I'm working on that last part, but shoot when I disappear without saying nothing, I get the —you??re so insensitive crap??. Guess I need to weigh this out and find a medium for the next guy I truly like. Lol.

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by kissmygrits
Problem with that is now a days people put up walls and act not interested/hot cold to protect their hearts. I blame the game.

I sound like a grandma but it's true.

It doesn't matter. If someone starts acting like that, you drop their asses and move along. Ain't nobody got time for that shit. If they want to "protect" their hearts, they can do it just fine all by themselves. They don't deserve any consideration in dating until they grow up.

I doubt is has much to do with protection of the heart and is more emotional immaturity and self absorbed behaviors.

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I have been. I'm enjoying my own company more these days as I get older. Some of these people I've dealt with recently are in their mid 30s like me. So not sure if it's maturity or mental illness. Eh.

Posted by pinklibra
—its rather hard to penetrate the soul/mind of an air sign since its so complex. But when you do they will be faithful, nurturing, lil needy, protective and def. no flaky BS!??

Wow I??ve never seen anyone other than myself sum us up like this, but that's me in a nutshell. Sheesh I just revealed I'm the jealous type a few days ago (I??ve been single for a minute, so I'm learning things about myself and instead of being a typical libra and masking them, I'm learning how to accept my own ways, if I expect others to.) Anyway, I'm like this when I truly like someone. Not in an overbearing type of way, but I'm territorial over that person and I will get mad if someone else is getting attention from the guy I truly like, especially if I think she might be real competition, I??ll drop out of the game quick but not before giving him a piece of my mind. I'm working on that last part, but shoot when I disappear without saying nothing, I get the —you??re so insensitive crap??. Guess I need to weigh this out and find a medium for the next guy I truly like. Lol.

Cuz i have gemini sum+moon, probably why lol I def. agree with you abt "being insensitive"....ppl sometimes call me out for being insensitive but its just my practical side #airsignprobs

Seriously. I'm meeting people like that and it's a little baffling, haha.

He will be very protective,a bit cute jealous 🙂 caring,great listener and advisor for your problems,want to be with u when u sad and say you look so beautiful even without make-up 🙂

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by kissmygrits
Problem with that is now a days people put up walls and act not interested/hot cold to protect their hearts. I blame the game.

I sound like a grandma but it's true.

It doesn't matter. If someone starts acting like that, you drop their asses and move along. Ain't nobody got time for that shit. If they want to "protect" their hearts, they can do it just fine all by themselves. They don't deserve any consideration in dating until they grow up.

I doubt is has much to do with protection of the heart and is more emotional immaturity and self absorbed behaviors.

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