Errrr, an I love you after less than two weeks, and y'all haven't even met yet? I don't know anything about Libras, but if a guy can throw those words around so easily, and you have not even had physical contact (actually meeting each other), that is a big RED FLAG imo. Run Forrest, run.
Libra man keeps flaking on me ¡

Just to be clear we have hung out and he's more attractive and charming than i thought. He surprised me by showing up in my neighborhood while i was on my way home from work we smoked pot and then he took me out to eat (food and weed is where he got me) ‚‚‚ i think im just bored and over analyzing things cause hes such a flake but i know he likes me i can see that hes just a romantic and i admire that. But he does need 2 b more present if he wants to be in my life unless im gonna lose interest but i do know that its always because of his business so i can respect that .

HAHAHAHA I've been talking to a Pisces guy and I've been flaking on him so much. Oooops

Posted by K_1018Thank you for the response it was very well written. I know he likes me and i knew it when we first hung out together i think im just over analyzing cause im bored and he's mia but i shouldn't expect much right now im not exactly that invested but i do want it to work out. Today he said "it's not me and you anymore, its US" and my libra moon swooned and since then ive been fantasizing of our potential partnership LOL having a pisces sun and libra moon doesn't help when it comes to guys but i think my aqua venus balances that out.
Both. I think we flake if we don't really want to see you but he could be very busy( own business and all). I think we can also be workaholics too.
I work everyday of the week and I don't have much energy for anything outside of that, unless it worth it. Same with a libra that I see. He runs a business, attending school, and is building a house, so he very rarely is free. Which leaves to cancelled plans and the occasional meeting up.
If he's really as interested as he says he is, he needs to make time to see you in person.
You should let him know that before you invest anymore energy in him, you'd like to meet him. He can either work something out or not. nobody has time to invest in people who can't do the same.

Posted by libralotusLmaooo omg you're gonna drive him crazy. Pisces r also big flakes so you're probs just giving him a dose of his own medicine.
HAHAHAHA I've been talking to a Pisces guy and I've been flaking on him so much. Oooops

Posted by ShadesOfCoolPosted by libralotusLmaooo omg you're gonna drive him crazy. Pisces r also big flakes so you're probs just giving him a dose of his own medicine.
HAHAHAHA I've been talking to a Pisces guy and I've been flaking on him so much. Oooopsclick to expand
He always wants to hang out but I just wanna stay at home. He legit got mad that all I wanna do is lay around when I have free time. I don't know how he hasn't ditched me yet
Posted by ShadesOfCoolAaah ok! But I still think that's a little soon to be throwing around the L word, no? Me personally, if a dude said that to me after only two weeks, i'd be scared shitless, probably would never talk to him again lmao!!!
Just to be clear we have hung out and he's more attractive and charming than i thought. He surprised me by showing up in my neighborhood while i was on my way home from work we smoked pot and then he took me out to eat (food and weed is where he got me) ‚‚‚ i think im just bored and over analyzing things cause hes such a flake but i know he likes me i can see that hes just a romantic and i admire that. But he does need 2 b more present if he wants to be in my life unless im gonna lose interest but i do know that its always because of his business so i can respect that .
Just remember, guys can be veeeery smooth, and can use emotional manipulation to get what they want. I can't say for a fact that that is what he's doing, but it's a possibility.

Posted by libralotusAwe im the same way and my venus in Aquarius is so unapologetic about it lol. Pisces will take alot especially if he really likes you.Posted by ShadesOfCoolPosted by libralotusLmaooo omg you're gonna drive him crazy. Pisces r also big flakes so you're probs just giving him a dose of his own medicine.
HAHAHAHA I've been talking to a Pisces guy and I've been flaking on him so much. Oooops
He always wants to hang out but I just wanna stay at home. He legit got mad that all I wanna do is lay around when I have free time. I don't know how he hasn't ditched me yetclick to expand

Posted by ShadesOfCoolPosted by libralotusAwe im the same way and my venus in Aquarius is so unapologetic about it lol. Pisces will take alot especially if he really likes you.Posted by ShadesOfCoolPosted by libralotusLmaooo omg you're gonna drive him crazy. Pisces r also big flakes so you're probs just giving him a dose of his own medicine.
HAHAHAHA I've been talking to a Pisces guy and I've been flaking on him so much. Oooops
He always wants to hang out but I just wanna stay at home. He legit got mad that all I wanna do is lay around when I have free time. I don't know how he hasn't ditched me yetclick to expand
Actually starting to notice that
Sorry, not trying to be a downer, just realistic. I read so many of these posts about guys using girls, and them ending up heartbroken, that it's made me skeptical of said actions.
But time will tell all. I guess just go with it, but stay guarded and don't give your heart away too easily. Best of luck to you!
But time will tell all. I guess just go with it, but stay guarded and don't give your heart away too easily. Best of luck to you!

Posted by JkatsOh honey i know! When he said i love you i responded with a gif i didn't know what to do my Venus is in Aquarius so i was like um no. But i told him that im not gonna say it this early but when i do say it he'll know that its 100% true and he took it well. I dont think hes manipulating me cause ive been very detached, havent been giving him much attention because i feel that its a bit much too early and ive dealt with a smooth as Cap before him and im not really taking any of that guy charm shit.Posted by ShadesOfCoolAaah ok! But I still think that's a little soon to be throwing around the L word, no? Me personally, if a dude said that to me after only two weeks, i'd be scared shitless, probably would never talk to him again lmao!!!
Just to be clear we have hung out and he's more attractive and charming than i thought. He surprised me by showing up in my neighborhood while i was on my way home from work we smoked pot and then he took me out to eat (food and weed is where he got me) ‚‚‚ i think im just bored and over analyzing things cause hes such a flake but i know he likes me i can see that hes just a romantic and i admire that. But he does need 2 b more present if he wants to be in my life unless im gonna lose interest but i do know that its always because of his business so i can respect that .
Just remember, guys can be veeeery smooth, and can use emotional manipulation to get what they want. I can't say for a fact that that is what he's doing, but it's a possibility.click to expand

He's not into you, honey. Move along. All talk and no action. He's a loser.

Posted by libralotusThat's not something to joke or brag about, sweetie. It's a godawful trait to have and it makes you a terrible person.
HAHAHAHA I've been talking to a Pisces guy and I've been flaking on him so much. Oooops

Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by libralotusThat's not something to joke or brag about, sweetie. It's a godawful trait to have and it makes you a terrible person.
HAHAHAHA I've been talking to a Pisces guy and I've been flaking on him so much. Oooopsclick to expand
It could be worse. I get by with my "maybe"

Posted by libralotusKarma is going to get you, honey. Remember that. Every single Libra I've come across who had this attitude ended up getting theirs in the end. It wasn't pretty. Amusing, but not pretty.Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by libralotusThat's not something to joke or brag about, sweetie. It's a godawful trait to have and it makes you a terrible person.
HAHAHAHA I've been talking to a Pisces guy and I've been flaking on him so much. Oooops
It could be worse. I get by with my "maybe"click to expand
Given that he runs so many businesses, he maybe busier than most of us around. Does he just flake out or does he call you up before the fact to apologize that he wont be able to make it?
If it is the later, give him the benefit of doubt, he maybe really busy! BUT - are you rrady for such a busy person? He maybe interested and genuine BUT you eant his time, which he cant give. We may all be willing to compromise but you alone know your limits.
If it is the later, give him the benefit of doubt, he maybe really busy! BUT - are you rrady for such a busy person? He maybe interested and genuine BUT you eant his time, which he cant give. We may all be willing to compromise but you alone know your limits.

Posted by GoldigoldVery well said that makes alot of sense!
And love part, we confuse love and sex sometimes...those warm feelings he is having is the connection and infatuation. The definition of love is to have a intense deep affection for someone...
That's romantic love we need to feel this with our lover or love interest, take it as a compliment for now. Just smile and say thank you.
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