Libra men can you IMMEDIATELY read her?

This is kind of like the intuition/paranoia thread, but a little different. Mostly for libra guys, but the girls can share their experiences too.

I'm wondering, libra guys. . . When you find a girl attractive and that seek and destroy (lol I meant chase) vibe kicks in; Are you guys immediately able to read her and decide what the perfect date should be, whether she's comfortable at a bar knocking back beers, eating a fancy meal with a glass of wine, or having a romantic picnic? Can you "read" her and decide how she likes to make love, if she's a snuggler, or crys easily? Can you immediatelt tell what makes her uncomfortable or comfortable, if she likes a big party or if she'd rather be at a small intimate gathering?

Are you guys able to do that, or are you just really good guessers?

Oh, and I have to add this is before you really know her. You just saw her only a couple of times and you can't get her out of your head. Do you immediately start to read, chase and charm?

Posted by Kiara478

Are you guys able to do that, or are you just really good guessers?

I call it being a good listener, not a good guesser. Women will tell you all this stuff very easily if you know how to ask. I do think I read people well but I do it during conversation. If I spend a little time with someone I can tell you a lot about them.

But no, we don't decide anything instantly 🙂

I just keep asking questions & use deduction. I usually start w/ compliment -> "where'd you get (insert item)" -> leads to questions about where they usually shop (which gives clues to their personal style , spending habits, color schemes -> personality & moods). Then I'll talk about going to a friends bday this weekend -> ask when their bday is (gives sun sign, more indication about their personality, habits, etc.). It's all about questions, compliments, mental speed, & comprehension; pretty much cold-reading & when you get things right, you follow up w/ related questions & front like you're psychic lol (but chances are my intuition is correct).

As far as chasing, I'm pretty picky & hardly ever chase. Crushes don't last that long for me so I don't really bother unless she's on my mind for more than a month, is the first thing I think of when I wake up, & is on full-blown head-over-heels status. That's only happened once though.