Libra with Aries Rising And Leo Moon Scorpio Venus

Any thoughts? Im having trouble at work keeping my mouth shut lol

Um... are all of these your placements?

Libra Sun will be influenced by the placement of Venus. Sun is the ego; the image. Considered stressful as a Sun, because so much effort is put into balancing everything and the 'image' wants to just be projected.

Aries Rising will be influenced by the placement of Mars. Rising is the ego-drive and the subconscious actions you do upon meeting someone for the first time.

Leo Moon will be influenced by the placement of the Sun, which in this case is Libra. Moon is the things closest to your heart that you may or may not share with the world. Usually only your closets friends know of your Moon qualities as, for one reason or another, many are embarrassed of their Moons. But you love these things and they're very important to you.

Scorpio Venus (which influences the above Libra Sun) is not so influenced by a ruler, since it's further down the chart. It is, but this is easily overshadowed by other aspects, so don't worry about it. Venus has to do with how we show affection. For females, it also has to do with initial attraction.

All placements are influenced by their housing.

Leo Moon is also considered stressful because while the Moon is supposed to be the private, close-to-heart part of one's chart, Leo wants to be in the spotlight. This is conflicting, but liveable.

These are my guys placements! & I always want to feel the scorpio intensity people always talk about but I see none if it...sigh

Scorpio as a Venus would not be very intense, at least not right away, due to his stronger (and anti-Scorpio) aspects. Venus is how we show our affections, and it is SOFT and fluffy and all the warm-feeling we can muster up. Libra Sun would think it's oh-so-icky and try to keep it at bay. But you might see it later down the line...

The quicker things to see would be coldness when he's feeling upset, as Scorpio is one of several signs that will 'hole up' when dealing with negativity. Potentially possessiveness, although that'd be more Mars-oriented (Mars is one's passion). Even as his Sun's Venusian ruler, possessiveness would be subdued by the Libra and the Leo who both have distaste for this. You will definitely notice his complete and undivided attention if he's falling for you. This can be flattering to some people, while totally unnerving to others. He may become manipulative. Libras have a way with words and charm that gives aid to Scorpio's strong urge for control. He may become jealous, but hide it.

Scorpio's jealousy scares most other signs away. Even Scorpio Suns try to subdue this for fear of spooking their partner, so a Libra definitely would want to. If EVER you are feeling overwhelmed by any sort of manipulation or jealousy, just know this... most of it is subconscious. Being 'called on it' can unfortunately activate defense mode; mostly because it was unknown to the native, is considered negative by the native, and is usually seen negatively by others! So therefore it is perceived as an attack. And most of it is caused by perceived competition. Read: perceived. Just look to see what's causing the jealousy. If it's something you've done, and you WANT TO KEEP HIM, try to make amends. If it's something he only thinks is occurring, remind him point-blank that you're into him and only him. That is, if you are. Libra Suns are very good at talking things through logically. Scorpio-anything has a knack for BS detection.

What's his Mars? That'll give you a better idea of what you're going to see the most of from him, straight off the bat. Mars is our passionate side, and it's what most guys use to pursue their mates.

His mars is in libra! You are so awesome girl!

Any who, I do notice he gets jealous sometimes, but it's always in a passive way. Like he might happen to mention someone I dated while he and I were on a break. He does it smoothly and casually, & if I didn't know better I would think he would just be bringing it up matter of factly. He'll say something like "is he going to pop up by your house while I'm here?" It will be so calm, but I know the underlying reasons for him bringing it up.

Other than that he doesn't really act too jealous, I would honestly like it if he did! Lol

I get jealous & I always show it, I think he likes it too, strangely enough. I remember him passionately kissing me after one of my fits if jealousy and saying "it's nice to know you still care." I melted bc I feel like most men would have been turned off, but he wasn't!

The one thing I don't like is, he's not very affectionate. Sometimes but bit usually. I feel weird about giving him affection first bc idk how he wil receive it.

Also, I find myself not really knowing what to do sometimes with him. His libra sun is airy and needs space and like a chase, his leo moon needs attention & his scorpio venus needs undying devotion. I never know how to act and when. Any suggestions?

Also, scorpio says he wants me to be only his. BUT, I've noticed when I tell him he's the only one or that I'm his exclusively he shrugs it off. When I get fed up with his nonchalance and say I'm done & start dating other people his interest goes WAY UP. He practically stalks me when he thinks I'm over him.

He's so hard to understand sometimes.

Above all, it is not healthy to try to be what someone else wants you to be. We can use astrology to find what someone's 'hot buttons' are, and to understand why they like things we ourselves have no interest in. It can be highly entertaining and surprisingly accurate!; much like the Myers-Briggs personality test. But just remember that when the chips are down, YOU need to BE YOU. You can modify how you express something, such as through calm words rather than heated yelling, or in private instead of PDA, but it must still be expressed and not bottled up forever. Astrology is fantastic for learning to 'speak his lingo' when you have trouble getting him to understand something. And it's fantastic for understanding him, too! Have fun with it!

Scorpio, as an aspect, is not affectionate. It is passionate when turned on, as you've noticed and crave for, but it has a hard time showing affection. This goes for Sun, Moon, Rising, Mars, and apparently Venus as well. His Scorp sounds more showy than I actually thought it would be. He must really like you!

Scorpio is highly suspicious. There are huge amounts of things that hit Scorpio's defense-mode radar, including telling him to trust you. It STARTS more open with people, more emotionally expressive when provoked (through excitement as well as anger), as a naive child, but this is often pushed down by others it meets who don't appreciate this. Some think it's improper, and reprimand Scorpio. His strong Libra aspects probably do this internally. Some think it's downright scary, and they attack Scorpio. Sometimes Scorpio children will have an angry outburst, because they're children and they're angry and they're expressing it as angry children do, and the person they're angry with becomes hurt. Scorpio is so deeply intuitive it will actually pick up on this hurt. If this person is a loved one, Scorpio feels guilty once it cools down. Enough repetition of any of these three (it is usually a combination) causes it to see its emotional side as negative. So even if no one tries intentionally subduing a Scorpio, growing up, something-or-other will eventually cause Scorpio to build that wall around its emotions. That gigantic, shove-them-down-and-hide-them-deep wall. Think "Frozen". It often connects well with Cancer, who is born with a crusty exterior and soft gushy center. But there are also often a lot of emotional-lockdown fights as the two may butt heads while hiding behind their walls.

The thing about Scorpio is it is "deep emotion". It's a water sign, like Cancer and Pisces, but it's also the most internal sign of the zodiac. External signs; you throw something at them to think about, they'll hold it for only a moment and then react right right away. Internal signs; you throw something at them to think about, they'll run it around and around and around in their minds, processing it, dissecting it, reassembling it, and then MAYBE react. MAYBE not. Virgo does this too with logic, though it's considered an emotionally external sign. They're the two most analytical signs of the zodiac, so watch a Virgo's logic processing to see comparisons to Scorpio's emotional processing.

Being highly emotional (though internalizing it), Scorpio will feel whatever it encounters. It is INCREDIBLY intuitive! But like every other sign of the zodiac, Scorpio assumes that everyone around it should see the same event in the same way. We are all guilty of this assumption, quite often. So Scorpio assumes you saw it and you felt it in exactly the same way, and this shouldn't need further explanation, through words or actions. After all, thinks Scorpio, can't you FEEL how I'm feeling anyway?

Many children of Scorpio parents complain of not enough affection growing up. The same goes for several other signs, so it's not alone in this. But they remember being able to talk to their Scorp parents about anything. Nothing is too taboo to Scorp, who enjoys digging for buried emotional treasures. In order to blend in and seem strong and capable to society, we as humans are taught to bury our emotions, our hurts, our pains. We bury them so deep we forget they're there, but then anything that subconsciously reminds us of these makes us angry or sad at the person who 'accidentally' reminds us. As if touching against a splinter. It hurts to pull at it, but it hurts to leave it. We carry habits and prejudices that protected us at one time but are no longer useful to us; perhaps even harmful. Scorpio is DRIVEN to dig these up and put them out in the open. Mean Scorpios dig them up to watch you hurt. Kind Scorpios dig them up so you may heal. But either way it is driven to diggin'.

He has A LOT of Libra, which will often overshadow most of this. For one, Libras are talkers, and Libras don't tend to internalize. Libras in fact are known rather stereotypically for playing devil's advocate. They like to throw an idea to you they don't fully believe in, or are even against, to see how you react and use you as a sounding board. Most of this is subconscious. Basically what Libra does internally, at all times and forevermore, is try to balance all the multiple sides of every situation he encounters. Libra is driven to fairness and justice and equality. He's going to have moody moments, when it all gets to be too much for him. But he'll recover quickly. Libra is an air sign, and he has it in both Sun and Mars. So his image/ego and his passionate sides are both talkative, airy Libra. And his Moon is firey Leo.

Leo loves the feeling of you being jealous. Leo IS the spotlight, ruled by the Sun itself, and adores admiration and attention. But Leo doesn't like to feel jealous. Nobody steal the spotlight from the spotlight, right? A healthy Leo doesn't mind 'sharing' the spotlight once it realizes it IS the spotlight, and that sharing doesn't necessarily take away... but it sometimes takes Leo a long time to realize that. Some realize it sooner. To many a young Leo, excessive pride is their downfall. Similar to all the talk of 'evolved' you'll read about if you research Scorp. Really, all signs have some form of understanding to come to, and become more whole and complete (and at peace) once they've reached it.

Moons are typically more of what you see in a very close relationship, such as marriage. They're also very important for compatibility. Moon is what someone will do when they want to cuddle late at night, after work, all tired; or when you're sick and need caring for, or cheering up. Leo is fire, and warmth, and generosity. Being the spotlight, it can be uncomfortable as a Moon, because the Moon is generally our more private side, which may cause him strain at times. Leo is protective and jealous but not necessarily possessive, as it wants fairness for you. A real showman, a drama king, the host of the most spectacular party! Leo is the "fun" side of fire. Dignified, graceful, and honorable. Vain, bossy, and egotistical. Depends on the mood. Depends on the person. All signs have equal pros and cons. Think of the lion, which Leo resembles. His is influenced by his Libra Sun, so that will push him to be more diplomatic.

Summary: Libra doesn't like PDA, but Leo adores it. Scorpio is wary of it but likes it when he trusts you mean it. His Aries Rising probably gets him in trouble more often than not, lol, which puts his Libra to work in smoothing ruffled feathers. Too much conflict here for any of us online folks to answer this question for you. Best bet? Ask him.

Too shy to ask directly? 🙂

You're out and about, doing your date-thing. You whisper in his ear: "I wanna --------- you." His reaction? You whisper again: "Right here. Right now." His reaction?

Thank you so much!!! I really appreciate the time you took to really dissect that for me. I really care for him so I want to get it right this time around. I feel he cares, but won't say it directly. Guess I have to go off intuition. He asked me to pick him up from the dealership after he brings his car for service, I feel like you'd only ask someone you're really comfy with something like that. So I have to look for small things like that to know that he's into me.