Libra woman interested again?

So I liked a Libra and she showed heavy signs of interest back. Sometimes we would have small talk but I always got stuck in my head so I never got talked for long. When I didn't push for conversation after long enough, she lost interest. Skip 9 months and now that I've been boxing (Sparring sessions leave me with alot of bandages on my face. I don't like how it makes me look dangerous), working out, and ended up getting tatted on both arms (Went from around 140 and skinny to about 175 lean with muscle. Think Micheal B. Jordan from Creed), she's coming around and acting interested again. How am I supposed to approach this?

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She wants you..I think of you want her you need to go out of your way to get her.

Posted by Sola
She wants you..I think of you want her you need to go out of your way to get her.

Is it common for Libra to like someone, lose interest, and then gain interest again in said person (I know usually when a guy makes a positive change in his life, it can be attracting to others but I'm not sure if that's shallow on her part)?

What causes that to happen though?

You said it yourself that you didn’t push for conversation. Maybe she felt like you weren’t into her as much as she was into you, so she let go. Honesty, if I feel like a guy isn’t interested in me, it’s cool, I continue to live my life.

Then over time, she’s still single, wondering what’s up with you and sees all these changes you’ve made and it peaks her interest again.

How does that make her shallow? Lots of people look back at people they were interested in when single.

She was into you when you didn’t look that way and you admitted to demonstrating traits of a guy “who’s not that into you” (although some are just really shy or not big on conversation, it’s just hard to tell when talking to some guys.)

If you like her, get out of your head and TALK to her. Conversation is stimulating for Libras!

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Posted by Sola
She wants you..I think of you want her you need to go out of your way to get her.

Is it common for Libra to like someone, lose interest, and then gain interest again in said person (I know usually when a guy makes a positive change in his life, it can be attracting to others but I'm not sure if that's shallow on her part)?

Bro everyone is shallow when it comes to aesthetics.

It's common for anyone to jolt back and forth with interest.. Dude are u human.

Go ask her out. Chicks dig feral gaping scars. You're a shoe in.

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Capricorn Sun

Scorpio Moon

Libra Rising

Libra (females) like to win over any competition. So if you're currently smokin hot..she's interested. It sounds shallow, but from the attraction comes deeper feeling.

If someone doesn't give me attention or keep interesting dialogue going- I lose interest quick.

It can be revived with doing the above again.

Go for it OP. Good for you for making changes. It sounds like she's definitely taking note. But yes, talk to her!

I've heard that Libras are one of the few signs that likes to come back into a person's life for whatever reason, air I guess lol.

Just know that you all may be different people (Libras and Caps can accentuate each other but are fundamentally different, but the attraction is there).

Sound like me OP. How old are you?

Posted by GOATAction
Go for it OP. Good for you for making changes. It sounds like she's definitely taking note. But yes, talk to her!

I've heard that Libras are one of the few signs that likes to come back into a person's life for whatever reason, air I guess lol.

Just know that you all may be different people (Libras and Caps can accentuate each other but are fundamentally different, but the attraction is there).

Sound like me OP. How old are you?

21 on Dec 26.

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Posted by GOATAction
Go for it OP. Good for you for making changes. It sounds like she's definitely taking note. But yes, talk to her!

I've heard that Libras are one of the few signs that likes to come back into a person's life for whatever reason, air I guess lol.

Just know that you all may be different people (Libras and Caps can accentuate each other but are fundamentally different, but the attraction is there).

Sound like me OP. How old are you?

21 on Dec 26.

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Little younger than me lol, I'm 28. But your scenario sounds like mine. My ex-Libra I matched with 4 years ago on Tinder, posted some IG story back in Nov, she gave me some kudos, we dated for a bit, but stopped seeing each other per her request. But I always get the feeling that she's never gonna be completely out of my life and if I were to post some super gorgeous pic, she'd be asking me how I'm doing.

Libras never stress for attention, especially females, but I feel like most go on from partner to partner.

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Go for it OP. Good for you for making changes. It sounds like she's definitely taking note. But yes, talk to her!

I've heard that Libras are one of the few signs that likes to come back into a person's life for whatever reason, air I guess lol.

Just know that you all may be different people (Libras and Caps can accentuate each other but are fundamentally different, but the attraction is there).

Sound like me OP. How old are you?

21 on Dec 26.

Little younger than me lol, I'm 28. But your scenario sounds like mine. My ex-Libra I matched with 4 years ago on Tinder, posted some IG story back in Nov, she gave me some kudos, we dated for a bit, but stopped seeing each other per her request. But I always get the feeling that she's never gonna be completely out of my life and if I were to post some super gorgeous pic, she'd be asking me how I'm doing.

Libras never stress for attention, especially females, but I feel like most go on from partner to partner.

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She's got Venus in Leo/Sagittarius Mars on top of Pisces Moon though.

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Go for it OP. Good for you for making changes. It sounds like she's definitely taking note. But yes, talk to her!

I've heard that Libras are one of the few signs that likes to come back into a person's life for whatever reason, air I guess lol.

Just know that you all may be different people (Libras and Caps can accentuate each other but are fundamentally different, but the attraction is there).

Sound like me OP. How old are you?

21 on Dec 26.

Little younger than me lol, I'm 28. But your scenario sounds like mine. My ex-Libra I matched with 4 years ago on Tinder, posted some IG story back in Nov, she gave me some kudos, we dated for a bit, but stopped seeing each other per her request. But I always get the feeling that she's never gonna be completely out of my life and if I were to post some super gorgeous pic, she'd be asking me how I'm doing.

Libras never stress for attention, especially females, but I feel like most go on from partner to partner.

She's got Venus in Leo/Sagittarius Mars on top of Pisces Moon though.

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Ahh, didn't find out my girl's Venus/Mars. Best of luck man.

She may be feeling you out, but it could also simply be a game. I had a Libra pull this on me as well, so don't fall for it. After we stopped dating, the Libra would randomly contact me to make sure my door was still open. After that she'd run away. I realized that she would only hit me up out of a sense of nostalgia and wanting some emotional stability (but also because she was bored).

She probably just wants to know that you're still available as an option. She might just be looking to flirt at the moment, with no real intent to move things forward. Unless she says something to you or makes a clear indication she's trying to get your attention (some Libras will be direct, but many will be more passive on how they confront), just keep doing what you're doing. Libras don't respect romances that come too easily. They bore easily, so you'll need to remain steadfast and allow her to come to you. No harm is talking/flirting back though. Just don't push anything.

When a Libra wants you though, they'll be fairly direct about it. If she does come back, just be sure it's because she wants YOU and isn't between guys at the moment.

Posted by Chuckcem
She may be feeling you out, but it could also simply be a game. I had a Libra pull this on me as well, so don't fall for it. After we stopped dating, the Libra would randomly contact me to make sure my door was still open. After that she'd run away. I realized that she would only hit me up out of a sense of nostalgia and wanting some emotional stability (but also because she was bored).

She probably just wants to know that you're still available as an option. She might just be looking to flirt at the moment, with no real intent to move things forward. Unless she says something to you or makes a clear indication she's trying to get your attention (some Libras will be direct, but many will be more passive on how they confront), just keep doing what you're doing. Libras don't respect romances that come too easily. They bore easily, so you'll need to remain steadfast and allow her to come to you. No harm is talking/flirting back though. Just don't push anything.

When a Libra wants you though, they'll be fairly direct about it. If she does come back, just be sure it's because she wants YOU and isn't between guys at the moment.

Heard this. It's one of the things so frustrating about them. I find a good chunk of Caps are pretty direct or at least are when we know exactly what we want, but most Leebs aren't and that scares them when people are. Most women need validation but I think Libras especially, will go to tons of lengths to get it.

Think it's a long game with them, and even then, probably not one you'll likely win. But they blow like the air, so there's always a shot of them coming back.

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Posted by Chuckcem
She may be feeling you out, but it could also simply be a game. I had a Libra pull this on me as well, so don't fall for it. After we stopped dating, the Libra would randomly contact me to make sure my door was still open. After that she'd run away. I realized that she would only hit me up out of a sense of nostalgia and wanting some emotional stability (but also because she was bored).

She probably just wants to know that you're still available as an option. She might just be looking to flirt at the moment, with no real intent to move things forward. Unless she says something to you or makes a clear indication she's trying to get your attention (some Libras will be direct, but many will be more passive on how they confront), just keep doing what you're doing. Libras don't respect romances that come too easily. They bore easily, so you'll need to remain steadfast and allow her to come to you. No harm is talking/flirting back though. Just don't push anything.

When a Libra wants you though, they'll be fairly direct about it. If she does come back, just be sure it's because she wants YOU and isn't between guys at the moment.

Heard this. It's one of the things so frustrating about them. I find a good chunk of Caps are pretty direct or at least are when we know exactly what we want, but most Leebs aren't and that scares them when people are. Most women need validation but I think Libras especially, will go to tons of lengths to get it.

Think it's a long game with them, and even then, probably not one you'll likely win. But they blow like the air, so there's always a shot of them coming back.

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That's been my experience.

I've never looked back after leaving a relationship or partner. Most Libras always have someone waiting to date them and move on. It would have to be a really special person to pull them back in once they leave.

Posted by Jarax
So I liked a Libra and she showed heavy signs of interest back. Sometimes we would have small talk but I always got stuck in my head so I never got talked for long. When I didn't push for conversation after long enough, she lost interest. Skip 9 months and now that I've been boxing (Sparring sessions leave me with alot of bandages on my face. I don't like how it makes me look dangerous), working out, and ended up getting tatted on both arms (Went from around 140 and skinny to about 175 lean with muscle. Think Micheal B. Jordan from Creed), she's coming around and acting interested again. How am I supposed to approach this?

Hello, I am a Libra.

Personally, Libras never close the door on a potential partner. Because, well, you never know. People change. So if I find a person is not mature enough or maybe something is off in the looks department, I don't cut off ties, I simply disappear until I feel like I want to come back. This is why Libra's tend to have a "waiting line" even if they are in a relationship because they know how desirable they are (there's nothing wrong with knowing how much you are worth!)

If she's coming around and acting interested again, congrats you sparked her interest again. If you still want to pursue something with her, play it cool. It definitely is a push and pull. I prefer when guys initiate, but don't mind making plans here and there. Libra's like persistence because it shows that person really wants us, which is really attractive. Just make sure you don't come off too over bearing or else that can be seen as clingy, and once we feel like we have you wrapped around our finger, you put yourself in a vulnerable position to get played.

I find myself being attracted to 1) guys who are mysterious and I never can seem to figure out guys or 2) guys who are completely honest about how much they want me. Pick your poison, good luck.

Posted by DonnaLibra
I've never looked back after leaving a relationship or partner. Most Libras always have someone waiting to date them and move on. It would have to be a really special person to pull them back in once they leave.

I second this.

Posted by DonnaLibra
I've never looked back after leaving a relationship or partner. Most Libras always have someone waiting to date them and move on. It would have to be a really special person to pull them back in once they leave.

Hear hear.

Never did this looking back thing either.