Posted by muwik
Libra and Cancer together = awful
I'm sorry for you. and to hear this story.
my advice is to stay away of us. librans
( is that the good word, for mutiple libra people .. ) lol
always a lot of problems. between libra and cancer.
I am a libra. and I don't understand the people under the cancer sign.
and they don't understand me....
the only couple that I know who made it!
is T.I. and his wife.
a libra man and a cancer woman... together ?!
it's strange. I don't understand him
Posted by aquarius09
I just don't understand to this day why oh why this pairing doesn't work?!!!! 😡 I mean they both are so similar!! Every time I come across a guy that comes across as
Emotional
Clingy
Metrosexual
Effeminate
I automatically place my bets on him being libra or cancer and they usually turn out to be one or the other. No joke. The most feminine guy turned out to be a libra sun and cancer moon. He was talking like a bimbo and I really thought he was gay.
When I was dating my libra, I felt like I was in a relationship with one of my cancer guy friends. In fact my cancer guy and girl friends understood my ex better than Idid. Relationship advice from my cancer female and male friends on handling my libra ex was sacred elixir that worked like a charm every time.
So explain to me whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy it doesn't work between cancer female and libra male? They are two peas in a pod from an outsider looking in point of view.
Secondly, how long did your respective relationship with the cancer last? Lastly, how old were you both when you were dating.
Thanks. This question is for all cancers and libras who dated each other.
Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09
I just don't understand to this day why oh why this pairing doesn't work?!!!! 😡 I mean they both are so similar!! Every time I come across a guy that comes across as
Emotional
Clingy
Metrosexual
Effeminate
I automatically place my bets on him being libra or cancer and they usually turn out to be one or the other. No joke. The most feminine guy turned out to be a libra sun and cancer moon. He was talking like a bimbo and I really thought he was gay.
When I was dating my libra, I felt like I was in a relationship with one of my cancer guy friends. In fact my cancer guy and girl friends understood my ex better than Idid. Relationship advice from my cancer female and male friends on handling my libra ex was sacred elixir that worked like a charm every time.
So explain to me whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy it doesn't work between cancer female and libra male? They are two peas in a pod from an outsider looking in point of view.
Secondly, how long did your respective relationship with the cancer last? Lastly, how old were you both when you were dating.
Thanks. This question is for all cancers and libras who dated each other.
I have dated three Libra's (for some strange reason I always end dating Libra or leo men) but in my opinion none of them were clingy or emotional however they are very controlling. Also all of them were HUGE man whores. As far as them being effeminate, could it be that you may just look and act manlyclick to expand
Posted by Librapride18
Libras are not manly at all, maybe are voices area little deep but manly we are not, but for those women who are masculine You can find someone too. It's all about preference.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by Librapride18
Libras are not manly at all, maybe are voices area little deep but manly we are not, but for those women who are masculine You can find someone too. It's all about preference.
You missed the point. However, thanks for agreeing that they are feminine.
My point was both cancer and libras are feminine so how does it not work between the two signs.
click to expand
Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09
As for looking manly, nope. I'm petite, slim with subtle features. Not masculine there. I do feel manly compared to the cancer and libra guy friends I have because the guys I'm friends with are always doing things associated with women like crying, whining, gossiping, cutting other men up (jealousy and envy). Although these are very much human traits, they are usually associated with women. I don't like men who are always crying over women. That's femin
Why don't you post a pic of yourself. That was a typo I meant to say the are man whores. I think you just attract men who act like bitches (being that the hang out with you) they have those type in every sign.click to expand
Posted by Librapride18
I've never dated a cancer but I would because I think there could be a balance between the different feminine energies. Cancers and Libra's are different but compliment each other well when they don't take each others viewpoints personally and when libra doesn't see cancer man in my case, weak.
Posted by aquarius09
I don't think you would notice the emotional or clinginess because cancer themselves are like that. So there must be plenty of compatibility there for it to go unnoticed. Yes, they are pretty controlling but cancers like to be dominated so I don't understand the issue there. What makes you say they are manwhores? I'm not disagreeing but I'd like your input.
Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09Posted by Librapride18
Libras are not manly at all, maybe are voices area little deep but manly we are not, but for those women who are masculine You can find someone too. It's all about preference.
You missed the point. However, thanks for agreeing that they are feminine.
My point was both cancer and libras are feminine so how does it not work between the two signs.
Even if they are feminine is something wrong with that wasn't Hitler a Libra and Alexander the Great a Cancer.click to expand
Posted by aquarius09
Thakt's feminine to me and if you think it's not, then I guess I'm manly.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09Posted by Librapride18
Libras are not manly at all, maybe are voices area little deep but manly we are not, but for those women who are masculine You can find someone too. It's all about preference.
You missed the point. However, thanks for agreeing that they are feminine.
My point was both cancer and libras are feminine so how does it not work between the two signs.
Even if they are feminine is something wrong with that wasn't Hitler a Libra and Alexander the Great a Cancer.
Wasn't Alexander also presumed to be gay?
Besides like I said earlier, placements matter. How do you know Alexander or any other dictator or conqueror isn't fire dominated?click to expand
Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09
Thakt's feminine to me and if you think it's not, then I guess I'm manly.
I think that men who stay at home and let women go out and work are feminine. I think men who let women flip the bill are feminine. I think that men who don't take care of their financial responsibility with their children is feminine. What you have describe is them being emotional. My brother is a Taurus he cries ALL the time.click to expand
Posted by aquarius09Posted by Librapride18
I've never dated a cancer but I would because I think there could be a balance between the different feminine energies. Cancers and Libra's are different but compliment each other well when they don't take each others viewpoints personally and when libra doesn't see cancer man in my case, weak.
What are these differences you speak of between these signs?click to expand
Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09Posted by Librapride18
Libras are not manly at all, maybe are voices area little deep but manly we are not, but for those women who are masculine You can find someone too. It's all about preference.
You missed the point. However, thanks for agreeing that they are feminine.
My point was both cancer and libras are feminine so how does it not work between the two signs.
Even if they are feminine is something wrong with that wasn't Hitler a Libra and Alexander the Great a Cancer.
Wasn't Alexander also presumed to be gay?
Besides like I said earlier, placements matter. How do you know Alexander or any other dictator or conqueror isn't fire dominated?
My point was both of them almost conquered most of the known world ever with them being feminine. That why I said ever if they are feminine whats wrong with thatclick to expand
Posted by aquarius09Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09
As for looking manly, nope. I'm petite, slim with subtle features. Not masculine there. I do feel manly compared to the cancer and libra guy friends I have because the guys I'm friends with are always doing things associated with women like crying, whining, gossiping, cutting other men up (jealousy and envy). Although these are very much human traits, they are usually associated with women. I don't like men who are always crying over women. That's femin
Why don't you post a pic of yourself. That was a typo I meant to say the are man whores. I think you just attract men who act like bitches (being that the hang out with you) they have those type in every sign.
Well you will just have to take my word because I don't care to prove myself to you.
Of course every sign can have that given what their placements are, especially if its in the sign of cancer, libra or Pisces.
I have never seen a fire or air or even earth dominated charts being what I described earlier.click to expand
Posted by Librapride18Posted by aquarius09Posted by Librapride18
I've never dated a cancer but I would because I think there could be a balance between the different feminine energies. Cancers and Libra's are different but compliment each other well when they don't take each others viewpoints personally and when libra doesn't see cancer man in my case, weak.
What are these differences you speak of between these signs?
Well cancer is very emotionally responsive to everything and usually go throughout life making emotional pleasing decisions just like scorpio and Pisces, and libras think this is ridiculous because we see beyond emotional fulfillment into the future of consequence. Libras are solely mental, cancers are not! At all lol. Cancers appear weak and emotional to libra and libra appears aloof and unemotional but that's not so. Libras are emotional in our heads not bodies....but it all depends on the person too and how you were raised...click to expand
Posted by aquarius09Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09
Thakt's feminine to me and if you think it's not, then I guess I'm manly.
I think that men who stay at home and let women go out and work are feminine. I think men who let women flip the bill are feminine. I think that men who don't take care of their financial responsibility with their children is feminine. What you have describe is them being emotional. My brother is a Taurus he cries ALL the time.
Everything you mentioned points to shamelessness, not feminine.
Crying all the time for a manis feminine/emotional because women are emotional.click to expand
Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09
As for looking manly, nope. I'm petite, slim with subtle features. Not masculine there. I do feel manly compared to the cancer and libra guy friends I have because the guys I'm friends with are always doing things associated with women like crying, whining, gossiping, cutting other men up (jealousy and envy). Although these are very much human traits, they are usually associated with women. I don't like men who are always crying over women. That's femin
Why don't you post a pic of yourself. That was a typo I meant to say the are man whores. I think you just attract men who act like bitches (being that the hang out with you) they have those type in every sign.
Well you will just have to take my word because I don't care to prove myself to you.
Of course every sign can have that given what their placements are, especially if its in the sign of cancer, libra or Pisces.
I have never seen a fire or air or even earth dominated charts being what I described earlier.
I can agree with you when it comes to cancer and pisces, but I think Libra is just a different species then those two signs.click to expand
Posted by aquarius09
Hitler wasn't crying over some girl or wondering about how much gel orhighlights to put in his hair as he was putting thousands of beautiful Jewish girls in the oven.
Posted by aquarius09
Libra is a different species in what sense though? There are a lottttttt of similarities between the two and I'm saying this as an outsider looking in who has plenty of cancer and libra friends.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by Librapride18Posted by aquarius09Posted by Librapride18
I've never dated a cancer but I would because I think there could be a balance between the different feminine energies. Cancers and Libra's are different but compliment each other well when they don't take each others viewpoints personally and when libra doesn't see cancer man in my case, weak.
What are these differences you speak of between these signs?
Well cancer is very emotionally responsive to everything and usually go throughout life making emotional pleasing decisions just like scorpio and Pisces, and libras think this is ridiculous because we see beyond emotional fulfillment into the future of consequence. Libras are solely mental, cancers are not! At all lol. Cancers appear weak and emotional to libra and libra appears aloof and unemotional but that's not so. Libras are emotional in our heads not bodies....but it all depends on the person too and how you were raised...
"Libras are solely mental and cancers are not". Wow! So when you were having a sporadic wedding to the Scorpio, that was a mental decision on your part in which you like a libra saw "beyond emotional fulfillment into the future of consequences"? Lol.
You lack self awareness about your sign.click to expand
Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09
Thakt's feminine to me and if you think it's not, then I guess I'm manly.
I think that men who stay at home and let women go out and work are feminine. I think men who let women flip the bill are feminine. I think that men who don't take care of their financial responsibility with their children is feminine. What you have describe is them being emotional. My brother is a Taurus he cries ALL the time.
Everything you mentioned points to shamelessness, not feminine.
Crying all the time for a manis feminine/emotional because women are emotional.
However when men do these sameless thing the first thing women say is "he not a real man" My point is let's go hard on the men who don't take care of kids and the ones that are as you call it "feminine" lets cut them a little slack. What wrong with a man being emotional as long as he handles him manly duties.click to expand
Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09
Libra is a different species in what sense though? There are a lottttttt of similarities between the two and I'm saying this as an outsider looking in who has plenty of cancer and libra friends.
Maybe my Libra boyfriend just didn't act that way with me because i was fucking him. So you have your answer right there. Cancer and Libra's probably can get along in a non sexual friendship but not a sexual one. I wish that my Libra was more feminine and emotional around me if he was it probably would have worked out.click to expand
Posted by aquarius09Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09
Thakt's feminine to me and if you think it's not, then I guess I'm manly.
I think that men who stay at home and let women go out and work are feminine. I think men who let women flip the bill are feminine. I think that men who don't take care of their financial responsibility with their children is feminine. What you have describe is them being emotional. My brother is a Taurus he cries ALL the time.
Everything you mentioned points to shamelessness, not feminine.
Crying all the time for a manis feminine/emotional because women are emotional.
However when men do these sameless thing the first thing women say is "he not a real man" My point is let's go hard on the men who don't take care of kids and the ones that are as you call it "feminine" lets cut them a little slack. What wrong with a man being emotional as long as he handles him manly duties.
I'm not calling major issues that men have like not paying support as feminine because
1) that's not my topic. I'm trying to llearn about cancer libra relationship dynamic;
2) Men beating women or not paying child support makes him unmanly, but not feminine. Feminine is being emotional or woman like or doing
things that women do.
I don't understand how you are thinking that I'm calling being emotional a bad thing. I'm saying both libra and cancers are feminine so why don't they work out.click to expand
Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09
Thakt's feminine to me and if you think it's not, then I guess I'm manly.
I think that men who stay at home and let women go out and work are feminine. I think men who let women flip the bill are feminine. I think that men who don't take care of their financial responsibility with their children is feminine. What you have describe is them being emotional. My brother is a Taurus he cries ALL the time.
Everything you mentioned points to shamelessness, not feminine.
Crying all the time for a manis feminine/emotional because women are emotional.
However when men do these sameless thing the first thing women say is "he not a real man" My point is let's go hard on the men who don't take care of kids and the ones that are as you call it "feminine" lets cut them a little slack. What wrong with a man being emotional as long as he handles him manly duties.
I'm not calling major issues that men have like not paying support as feminine because
1) that's not my topic. I'm trying to llearn about cancer libra relationship dynamic;
2) Men beating women or not paying child support makes him unmanly, but not feminine. Feminine is being emotional or woman like or doing
things that women do.
I don't understand how you are thinking that I'm calling being emotional a bad thing. I'm saying both libra and cancers are feminine so why don't they work out.
And I just told you because my Libra bf was not feminine and emotional enough. I am currently talking to a Virgo he way more emotional than my Libra has ever been and I love that about him.click to expand
Posted by Librapride18Posted by aquarius09Posted by Librapride18Posted by aquarius09Posted by Librapride18
I've never dated a cancer but I would because I think there could be a balance between the different feminine energies. Cancers and Libra's are different but compliment each other well when they don't take each others viewpoints personally and when libra doesn't see cancer man in my case, weak.
What are these differences you speak of between these signs?
Well cancer is very emotionally responsive to everything and usually go throughout life making emotional pleasing decisions just like scorpio and Pisces, and libras think this is ridiculous because we see beyond emotional fulfillment into the future of consequence. Libras are solely mental, cancers are not! At all lol. Cancers appear weak and emotional to libra and libra appears aloof and unemotional but that's not so. Libras are emotional in our heads not bodies....but it all depends on the person too and how you were raised...
"Libras are solely mental and cancers are not". Wow! So when you were having a sporadic wedding to the Scorpio, that was a mental decision on your part in which you like a libra saw "beyond emotional fulfillment into the future of consequences"? Lol.
You lack self awareness about your sign.
No I don't lack awareness about my sign. When I decided to get married, it was based on my emotions and my intellect which I have both because I'm a libra! Now this doesn't mean that I don't make impulsive decisions when it comes to my love life because sometimes ummmk?? So basically I made a bad descions and will not date scorpio again...but as I said cancers are more emotional than scorpio and Pisces in my opinion.click to expand
Posted by Librapride18Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09Posted by canerleo101Posted by aquarius09
Thakt's feminine to me and if you think it's not, then I guess I'm manly.
I think that men who stay at home and let women go out and work are feminine. I think men who let women flip the bill are feminine. I think that men who don't take care of their financial responsibility with their children is feminine. What you have describe is them being emotional. My brother is a Taurus he cries ALL the time.
Everything you mentioned points to shamelessness, not feminine.
Crying all the time for a manis feminine/emotional because women are emotional.
However when men do these sameless thing the first thing women say is "he not a real man" My point is let's go hard on the men who don't take care of kids and the ones that are as you call it "feminine" lets cut them a little slack. What wrong with a man being emotional as long as he handles him manly duties.
I'm not calling major issues that men have like not paying support as feminine because
1) that's not my topic. I'm trying to llearn about cancer libra relationship dynamic;
2) Men beating women or not paying child support makes him unmanly, but not feminine. Feminine is being emotional or woman like or doing
things that women do.
I don't understand how you are thinking that I'm calling being emotional a bad thing. I'm saying both libra and cancers are feminine so why don't they work out.
And I just told you because my Libra bf was not feminine and emotional enough. I am currently talking to a Virgo he way more emotional than my Libra has ever been and I love that about him.click to expand
Do you have any female friends...because its sounds like you are missing out on feminine counsel in your life and you are trying to find it in your MA
Posted by Librapride18
Lets leave the peen in the past boo. But I honestly agree with you, my love life has always been impulsive and I've always gotten more then I've gotten back...you could say its me being a libra or maybe my sag moon but I have my regrets, but I believe that there is no reason to wait sometimes ...
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