I am a leo and recently met a libra girl...we hit it off within 5 min chatting online. The chemistry has been out of the ballpark. She has within a week confided a lot to me about her own personal life even she say even she is surprised. so we continue to leave msgs online offline etc. But sometimes she is MIA...I start 2nd guessing our connection....but she will always bounce bak n chat only to me online for hohrs....but somtimes I find her flighty?? . sbe says wait in her msg n never to return to continue chat.....weird????
anyways.....She hasnt dated for a long while and I believe its because of past relationships failing that she feels indecisive to date again. The thing is I do care about her n try to encourage her to date locally other great guys. If she can find.
it was a sincere suggestion....that I suggest she try to open up n date someone local so she won't b so lonely.
I am just wondering if u libra ladies would think this was ok to have suggested. I am not trying to push her away. ...I just want what's best in her interest. ...I am thru being the selfish Lion in my ex relationships. i believe if somone was meant to b wth me they will eventually orbit my way. .. no need to lock down somone n control them.
No, you're sending her mixed signals. If a guy tells me that, that's exactly what I'd do and I won't look back nor give you my undivided attention. If you like her, go for it! Why tell her to find someone else?
I don't mean any disrespect, nor do I think this is how she would feel, but IDF any guy gave me advice like what you gave, I'd be super annoyed.
Your advice would be the equivalent to this scenario...
Pretend I was complaining to you about never knowing what to cook, like making dinner is such a chore for me that in the end I prolly just eat out... In my mind the problem is that I need to plan better, I could think of things to make..plan out meals..anyway, I'm lament my 'problem' to you and you reply...
"Well, if you go to the grocery store, you can buy food to take home with you, that way you won't be hungry"
OK its sound advice, its logical and makes sense..,but internally I am annoyed...really??! Go to the store? THAT's your solution??? Do you think I am a moron, that something as ' going to the store would be not apparent to me??? Clearly you ethier think I am an idiot or you do not grasp what it is that U am saying so I'll figure it out on my own.....
Does this make sense?? I am not saying she feels that way she could very well be taking your advice and that is why she isn't as engaged...but to me obvious advice frustrates the hell out of me.
thx libras....I guess I suggested because the LR thing can get tiring n I have done it countlessmake. .. the family times. also I have no clue as to whether she likes me. libras flirt so do we leos...but libras trump n stump us when it comes to confirming the feeling.
and we leos r too good for our own good sometimes... I do care about her but cannot forsee a real relationship developing. I use to be all leap of faith kinda guy...say I love u within weeks...but now I dont want to ruin a good connection.
about my comment about being weird...leos do wat we promise ...if I said brb I would come right bsk n not leave the other side waiting...but she just said b bak n never came bak....??? it makes me feel as if I am being taken granted for? I wouldn't do that to frds..its a respect thing.
Not a Libra but I do have a Libra moon though... guess that makes me honorary Libra She may have a life outside of the internet but doesn't seems likes she as invested in this relationship as emotionally as you are. I'd say hang back and let the chips fall where they may with this one. Don't spend too much energy worried over this one because I feel that if she was really interested, at least as in the same strength as you, than she wouldn't leave you on tender hooks.
I mean once and a while is a Libra thing (air sign thing) they get caught up in other things sometimes but if it's habitually than I would say cut the cord and let her loose.
If she ain't showing you respect than she just ain't that into you.
thx xtina.....I think that helps...n that's why I havnt wanted to get too close n suggested she go date. libras are known for the hot n cold...I just dont want to get caught in the cold n be left hanging. respect is important to us leos.
yes she had a failed relationship.... that's why I have been trying to coach her to rediscover that dating doesnthow much i do like her have to be a bad thing. I do like her but with the distance thing its hard for leos n libras to keep for longrun.
I dont like pushing her to confess any feelings she has for me n I also am hesitant.
how can you tell if a libra girl likes you? Sometimes I think maybe I am second guessing.
Being a leo I am courageous but somehow this girl makes me care. ..n worry that I would lose her..
Libra hot and cold happens when we get mixed signals. Obviously, I'm a dude, but same as everyone else said, if a woman encourage me to see other people, that's as bout as clear as you get, they aren't interested. I will chase, but not if I realize you're running away. That's what it sounds like when you suggest something like that.