@mystiquelibra93
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Why do people hate libra females ?
Why Are Libra Females Often Disliked
Libra females are sometimes misunderstood due to their diplomatic and social nature. Negative perceptions may stem from misunderstandings about their indecisiveness or desire for harmony. It is important to recognize that these traits are part of their personality and do not define their worth or value in the zodiac.
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Posted by Jynja
Perhaps because you allow others to "sleep on you" as you say it.However, I don't think people hate on Libras. In my experience (and not many good ones, sadly), Libras have been the ones to play the middle ground and not let others know where they truly stand, so people might just be weary or cautious of Libra females.
Or Libras in general.
Yea that's understandable I guess
I certainly don't hate Libras (my best friend is one!), but I DO hate how nonconfrontational they can be. If there's a problem, let's get it out in the open, resolve it and move on! That's the Aries speaking. 🙂
Probably because you all are so beautiful. kim k, dita von teese, gwen stefani... consider it a compliment. Ugly, angry women seeeeth with anger at beautiful knockouts. Soooooo jealous. consider it a compliment! 🙂
I don't think she meant literally sleeping around since she said "sleep ON us."
...actually I'm not sure what she meant since I have never heard that term used before. :/
OP- unfortunately, you have a lot of jack asses who ruin it for everyone within your sign. Like Jynja said, there's that bunch where you don't know where they stand, and I'd be inclined to agree with that. The ones that I had issues with were all two faced and could be easily swayed since they always stayed in the middle ground and were mostly on the look out for their own wants and needs. I've noticed that about air signs generally, actually. :/
Prior to meeting these stellar indivudals, I had very few bad experiences with Libras. THE CRAZY TRAIN CAME TO TOWN??
I'm a libra rising and i do not like confrontation either, unless i am defending someone I really care about.
I'll just sick back and drink champagne and watch chicks scream and go nuts and knock each other out and look like fools lol.
*****slow clap*****
Posted by Sweeetz
@Aesma, "sleep on us" = to not take notice of/acknowledge. The OP didn't mean "sleep with us". But +1 to your advice none the less.@OP, you keep creating these threads asking for/looking for validation. You will cease your search if you can find it from within. I have never had a problem being noticed. I don't go looking for it either. If you are whole within they will come. We all have a sign we "hate on" from time to time. What would life be without haters? Try not to take it so personally.
+1
Especially in regard to the few newcomers lately who take everything said here as a personal attack.
Posted by djbuck1
A Libra woman is a born seductress. Kept within healthy bounds, this can be remarkable to see and experience. Practiced with malicious intent, it can make a Legion of enemies.
Puh-leeze! I have never set out to seduce anybody besides my own spouse while I was married. Diss not the Living Venus. It isn't her fault so many people find her appealing.
Posted by djbuck1
A Libra woman is a born seductress. Kept within healthy bounds, this can be remarkable to see and experience. Practiced with malicious intent, it can make a Legion of enemies.Puh-leeze! I have never set out to seduce anybody besides my own spouse while I was married. Diss not the Living Venus. It isn't her fault so many people find her appealing.
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I'm starting to think that you're in dire need of sedatives.
I'm starting to think...
Good for you! Don't overwork yourself on your first try, huh?
My BBF is a libra female, and I will defend her with my life
I just luv her
^^^^
This.
I'm starting to think...
Good for you! Don't overwork yourself on your first try, huh?
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Honey, you're just providing an excellent example of what the OP has to fight against. Keep it up. Show everyone who you really are. 🙂
People generalize based on the bad eggs.
We Leebs honestly get shit for a description, too.
Supposedly we want justice and fairness and peace but are too afraid to fight for it, so we just flip our hair and sweet talk people into doing something for us.
They focus solely on Libra as a Venusian and not enough as a fuckin' Cardinal, god damn it.
Same thing with Cancers, only they don't get hate, cause it's a lot harder to hate Mom than it is to hate a pretty seductress.
^ not saying all Libs are pretty or sexy, I'm talking about the archetypes here
^^ nor am I saying that Moms are never hot tamales. There are many MILFs
Posted by munchkin
^^ nor am I saying that Moms are never hot tamales. There are many MILFs
haha you r funny
hey hey Tiz, slow down with Vedic astrology 🙂 I think its bs, I am def not a virgo with cancer moon, noooo way!
Posted by tiziani
That's why it helps to read Vedic astrology and other cultures. Western astrology is sold to the MTV generation values.Going off appearances? BAD.
Emotional validation? GOOD.
Money doesn't bring you happiness etc. etc. all the salesman cliches basically.
A Venusian sign, Cardinal or not, is rarely going to be explored in a three dimensional way in this culture. Venus is a planet about Love yes but also War.
true. Actually I think u hit the nail on the head. Venus is all about that which is objectified. Hell, we're represented by the very item that fat Jenny Craig ladies angrily kick if they don't display a small enough number.
When humans fuck up, they're seen as humans who have fucked up. VERB.
When objects fuck up, they're seen as defective. ADJECTIVE.
Which one will people give the benefit of the doubt? Which will be cast aside as worthless shit?
Posted by Lib911
hey hey Tiz, slow down with Vedic astrology 🙂 I think its bs, I am def not a virgo with cancer moon, noooo way!Hahahaha still holding onto that eh? 🙂
Remember Virgo in Vedic is not the same description as a Virgo in Western. It's not saying you're a Western Virgo Sun and Western Cancer Moon.
I'm not that big on Vedic but it helps to balance it out by reading, for me.
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really? I didn't know that. I am def not well informed when it comes to Vedic
@munchkin - where are your moon, mars and merc?
I'm starting to think...
Good for you! Don't overwork yourself on your first try, huh?
Honey, you're just providing an excellent example of what the OP has to fight against. Keep it up. Show everyone who you really are. 🙂
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Worry about your own poor example. I assure you, you sound like someone who doesn't do much thinking.
Posted by Lib911
@munchkin - where are your moon, mars and merc?
Moon Sag
Mars Scorp
Merc Libra
I don't think I'm much of a Leeb at all
Posted by Lib911
hey hey Tiz, slow down with Vedic astrology 🙂 I think its bs, I am def not a virgo with cancer moon, noooo way!Hahahaha still holding onto that eh? 🙂
Remember Virgo in Vedic is not the same description as a Virgo in Western. It's not saying you're a Western Virgo Sun and Western Cancer Moon.
I'm not that big on Vedic but it helps to balance it out by reading, for me.
really? I didn't know that. I am def not well informed when it comes to Vedic
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I notice vedic descriptions are much more detailed, but much more fatalistic and not sugarcoated to a pile of cotton candy like mainstream western ones tend to be.
Posted by Lib911
@munchkin - where are your moon, mars and merc?Moon Sag
Mars Scorp
Merc LibraI don't think I'm much of a Leeb at all
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I knew there was some fire hiding in there 🙂
Posted by Lib911
@munchkin - where are your moon, mars and merc?Moon Sag
Mars Scorp
Merc LibraI don't think I'm much of a Leeb at all
I knew there was some fire hiding in there 🙂
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😈 I'm guessing you've got LEO moon right? now that's pretty badass, more than enough to undo any Libra wimpery 😛
I'm starting to think...
Good for you! Don't overwork yourself on your first try, huh?
Honey, you're just providing an excellent example of what the OP has to fight against. Keep it up. Show everyone who you really are. 🙂
Worry about your own poor example. I assure you, you sound like someone who doesn't do much thinking.
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Your comebacks are laughable. But keep trying. The effort is appreciated.
I'm starting to think...
Good for you! Don't overwork yourself on your first try, huh?
Honey, you're just providing an excellent example of what the OP has to fight against. Keep it up. Show everyone who you really are. 🙂
Worry about your own poor example. I assure you, you sound like someone who doesn't do much thinking.
Your comebacks are laughable. But keep trying. The effort is appreciated.
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Not nearly so laughable -- or pitiable -- as your thoughtlessness.
Hate is a strong word, but people dislike some libran traits because of things such as the title of this thread. Nobody cares to always have you as a topic of discussion. Most librans have this tendency. It always has to be about you & your issues. If a libra woman has a new hair colour, I swear it's like she found a cure for AIDS...it's all she talks about. Does it suit me? Blahblahblahblah? Blahblah? Blah? It's tiring.
2 friends of mine are libra females & for some reason they seem to believe that they are the most interesting thing to talk about. That's why I avoid them sometimes. Don't call me to discuss YOUR zit. I don't care about your zit. Lord have mercy! LOL!
Posted by Sweeetz
@Aesma, "sleep on us" = to not take notice of/acknowledge. The OP didn't mean "sleep with us". But +1 to your advice none the less.@OP, you keep creating these threads asking for/looking for validation. You will cease your search if you can find it from within. I have never had a problem being noticed. I don't go looking for it either. If you are whole within they will come. We all have a sign we "hate on" from time to time. What would life be without haters? Try not to take it so personally.
+1
Especially in regard to the few newcomers lately who take everything said here as a personal attack.
Yea, like you
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Do I need to report you for stalking?
Posted by djbuck1
A Libra woman is a born seductress. Kept within healthy bounds, this can be remarkable to see and experience. Practiced with malicious intent, it can make a Legion of enemies.Puh-leeze! I have never set out to seduce anybody besides my own spouse while I was married. Diss not the Living Venus. It isn't her fault so many people find her appealing.
I said a seductress, not a tramp. You're reading too much into this. You obviously glossed right over: "Kept within healthy bounds, this can be remarkable to see and experience."
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I'm sure you mean well. Really. Your posts are always fair and well-balanced. But you have no idea what it's like to be painted as a "seductress" and somehow incurring blame from less "seductive" people for alleged "seductiveness."
Posted by djbuck1
A Libra woman is a born seductress. Kept within healthy bounds, this can be remarkable to see and experience. Practiced with malicious intent, it can make a Legion of enemies.Puh-leeze! I have never set out to seduce anybody besides my own spouse while I was married. Diss not the Living Venus. It isn't her fault so many people find her appealing.
I said a seductress, not a tramp. You're reading too much into this. You obviously glossed right over: "Kept within healthy bounds, this can be remarkable to see and experience."
I'm sure you mean well. Really. Your posts are always fair and well-balanced. But you have no idea what it's like to be painted as a "seductress" and somehow incurring blame from less "seductive" people for alleged "seductiveness."
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LOL this is hilarious. How is that even possible? Most sane people, no matter how unseductive they are, don't just hate someone based only on how they look. If you're "blamed", then it could be because of your attitude & not necessarily how you look. Well, unless you're on of those women that talk & act inappropriately around other people's men. Are you one of those people that believe everybody is jealous of them?
I'm imagining people pointing & going, "Ooh that girl is a SEDUCTRESS". Where does that happen at?
Posted by djbuck1
A Libra woman is a born seductress. Kept within healthy bounds, this can be remarkable to see and experience. Practiced with malicious intent, it can make a Legion of enemies.Puh-leeze! I have never set out to seduce anybody besides my own spouse while I was married. Diss not the Living Venus. It isn't her fault so many people find her appealing.
I said a seductress, not a tramp. You're reading too much into this. You obviously glossed right over: "Kept within healthy bounds, this can be remarkable to see and experience."
I'm sure you mean well. Really. Your posts are always fair and well-balanced. But you have no idea what it's like to be painted as a "seductress" and somehow incurring blame from less "seductive" people for alleged "seductiveness."
LOL this is hilarious. How is that even possible? Most sane people, no matter how unseductive they are, don't just hate someone based only on how they look. If you're "blamed", then it could be because of your attitude & not necessarily how you look. Well, unless you're on of those women that talk & act inappropriately around other people's men. Are you one of those people that believe everybody is jealous of them?
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Hate is a very strong word to be used in this instance. Being disliked solely based on looks is more than possible and it does happen often. There are some nasty women out there, full of insecurities and complexes.
Posted by size zero superhero
In all fairness, some people are so parched it leads to the false perception that ordinary Libran charm = seduction game.
We treat others with common courtesy until/unless that's taken for granted or aimed against us in some form or another. Don't think for a minute that this doesn't happen. Virtually every Libra knows what I'm talking about here and it isn't on the basis of looks, appeal & bragging rights.
It sounds very delusional tbh with you. I get that sometimes, some people do/will mistaken friendliness for interest, etc. It happens to me as an aqua as well, but unlike how you guys seem to believe about yourselves, I don't believe that everybody sees me in the same light. Now I'm starting to believe that libra girls think that everybody wants them. LOL! Again, how is that even possible?
And this thing seems to be happening to friendly females in general, when dealing with some guys. Doesn't mean you're seductive or whatever grandeur mental pic you have of yourself lol.
Posted by djbuck1
A Libra woman is a born seductress. Kept within healthy bounds, this can be remarkable to see and experience. Practiced with malicious intent, it can make a Legion of enemies.Puh-leeze! I have never set out to seduce anybody besides my own spouse while I was married. Diss not the Living Venus. It isn't her fault so many people find her appealing.
I said a seductress, not a tramp. You're reading too much into this. You obviously glossed right over: "Kept within healthy bounds, this can be remarkable to see and experience."
I'm sure you mean well. Really. Your posts are always fair and well-balanced. But you have no idea what it's like to be painted as a "seductress" and somehow incurring blame from less "seductive" people for alleged "seductiveness."
LOL this is hilarious. How is that even possible? Most sane people, no matter how unseductive they are, don't just hate someone based only on how they look. If you're "blamed", then it could be because of your attitude & not necessarily how you look. Well, unless you're on of those women that talk & act inappropriately around other people's men. Are you one of those people that believe everybody is jealous of them?
Hate is a very strong word to be used in this instance. Being disliked solely based on looks is more than possible and it does happen often. There are some nasty women out there, full of insecurities and complexes.
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It could be because you think that is why they dislike you...your looks. I don't believe that's always the case unless you're that one who is the fairest of them all...is it Snow White? LOL! Nah. Too many other exceptionally beautiful people out there for other people to zero-in specifically on you. Doesn't that sound delusional to you?
Posted by size zero superhero
That wasn't what I was getting at.I specified it's the thirsty ones prone to mistake general kindness for special attention & run with that assumption. A far cry from claiming that nobody/few can resist.
But weren't you agreeing with Creole's post? What does being painted for a seductress even mean? To me it means you think people see you that way. As in EVERYBODY.
No its not always the case, but it does happen very often. Maybe you are one of those cool chicks who doesn't get jealous of someone's beauty, but trust me a lot of fems are not like that, its not delusion, its a reality
Posted by Lib911
No its not always the case, but it does happen very often. Maybe you are one of those cool chicks who doesn't get jealous of someone's beauty, but trust me a lot of fems are not like that, its not delusion, its a reality
And how do you know for certain that it is because of how you look? The only time I hate on a person is when they act all haughty due to how they look. Or when they expect others to be in awe of them because of how they look. It's an energy exchange for me. If you act all cute & whatever, I pay you no attention... people like that seek attention. Because they are told by numerous people how beautiful they are, then they go around seeking the same compliments from everyone they meet. Sometimes it's directly, but much of it is indirectly. Some of us can tell when someone is fishing for appraisal.
Posted by tiziani
I don't think it's always "beautiful" looks that get hated on. Most of the time when I overhear women sniping on each other it's because of sex appeal in looks.
that too. A lot of times women are projecting their own insecurities onto other fems. Also I haven't seen much jealousy towards women who are not as good looking but have other qualities, weird
Posted by tiziani
I don't think it's always "beautiful" looks that get hated on. Most of the time when I overhear women sniping on each other it's because of sex appeal in looks.
A person can look sexy all day but the hating usually starts when they act it. By acting it I mean when they do certain things like dropping things on purpose just to reveal their cleavage, etc. You can be sexy all you want but dont draw all the attention on you if you dont want what comes with it...haters.
Posted by Lib911
No its not always the case, but it does happen very often. Maybe you are one of those cool chicks who doesn't get jealous of someone's beauty, but trust me a lot of fems are not like that, its not delusion, its a realityAnd how do you know for certain that it is because of how you look? The only time I hate on a person is when they act all haughty due to how they look. Or when they expect others to be in awe of them because of how they look. It's an energy exchange for me. If you act all cute & whatever, I pay you no attention... people like that seek attention. Because they are told by numerous people how beautiful they are, then they go around seeking the same compliments from everyone they meet. Sometimes it's directly, but much of it is indirectly. Some of us can tell when someone is fishing for appraisal.
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Because I have seen this happening over and over again. And I am not talking about myself. Cmon when a girl is nothing by nice to you and you still dislike her and it happens that she is also good looking, I don't know.. it is common sense to me, isn't it to u? 😉
Posted by Lib911
No its not always the case, but it does happen very often. Maybe you are one of those cool chicks who doesn't get jealous of someone's beauty, but trust me a lot of fems are not like that, its not delusion, its a realityAnd how do you know for certain that it is because of how you look? The only time I hate on a person is when they act all haughty due to how they look. Or when they expect others to be in awe of them because of how they look. It's an energy exchange for me. If you act all cute & whatever, I pay you no attention... people like that seek attention. Because they are told by numerous people how beautiful they are, then they go around seeking the same compliments from everyone they meet. Sometimes it's directly, but much of it is indirectly. Some of us can tell when someone is fishing for appraisal.
Because I have seen this happening over and over again. And I am not talking about myself. Cmon when a girl is nothing by nice to you and you still dislike her and it happens that she is also good looking, I don't know.. it is common sense to me, isn't it to u? 😉
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TBH, I haven't seen it with my own eyes, but I've seen it in people that believe that is why they are disliked. Usually their attitude is always the culprit imo. My leo girlfriend thinks every other girl is jealous of her as well, but as an outsider I can see why. She likes to be wanted. Believes she is wanted. It's all in her brain. Delusional.
^I agree with u, there are those who are delusional, not gonna deny that
Posted by tiziani
Hahahahaha I thought dropping things on purpose only happens in movies!
Think again lol. Some females do unbelievable things to get attention.
Posted by size zero superhero
That wasn't what I was getting at.I specified it's the thirsty ones prone to mistake general kindness for special attention & run with that assumption. A far cry from claiming that nobody/few can resist.
But weren't you agreeing with Creole's post? What does being painted for a seductress even mean? To me it means you think people see you that way. As in EVERYBODY.
No, I wasn't. I don't know the details of her personal experience(s), and needless to say nobody can be certain about how others collectively perceive them.
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My bad then. +1 on the last part. It's laughable to believe otherwise.
Extracted from Huff post article about jealous:
'In recent years, the —sisterhood?? has had to contend with the spread of women-on-women jealousy as a social norm. From Bridget Jones to Bridesmaids, there's a popular expectation that we??ll envy one anothers?? perfect hair, houses and husbands.
—Jealousy among women is such a common phenomenon because of insecurities that are implanted when we are young. It is especially common in young females with so much emphasis placed upon body shape, beauty and dieting,?? says clinical hypnotherapist David Samson.'
Did you notice how jealousy of someone's wit is not even mentioned. That's the reality *shrugs*
Posted by Lib911
Extracted from Huff post article about jealous:'In recent years, the —sisterhood?? has had to contend with the spread of women-on-women jealousy as a social norm. From Bridget Jones to Bridesmaids, there's a popular expectation that we??ll envy one anothers?? perfect hair, houses and husbands.
—Jealousy among women is such a common phenomenon because of insecurities that are implanted when we are young. It is especially common in young females with so much emphasis placed upon body shape, beauty and dieting,?? says clinical hypnotherapist David Samson.'
Did you notice how jealousy of someone's wit is not even mentioned. That's the reality *shrugs*
I've been jealous of other women myself, but never actually disliked them for having things I wish I had. Example, there was this one girl where I used to stay. We were the same height, almost the same weight but her body was more toned. PERFECT. One day I made myself a plate of fattening food & as I was about to eat...I saw her through the window! Needless to say, I lost my apetite. LOL! I wanted her body so bad & seeing her reminded me of the gut I needed to lose, etc. I liked her, we talked sometimes but I was still envious lol. Now I've just triggered myself, all this extra stuff needs to be gone by June 😄
Posted by Lib911
Extracted from Huff post article about jealous:'In recent years, the —sisterhood?? has had to contend with the spread of women-on-women jealousy as a social norm. From Bridget Jones to Bridesmaids, there's a popular expectation that we??ll envy one anothers?? perfect hair, houses and husbands.
—Jealousy among women is such a common phenomenon because of insecurities that are implanted when we are young. It is especially common in young females with so much emphasis placed upon body shape, beauty and dieting,?? says clinical hypnotherapist David Samson.'
Did you notice how jealousy of someone's wit is not even mentioned. That's the reality *shrugs*
I've been jealous of other women myself, but never actually disliked them for having things I wish I had. Example, there was this one girl where I used to stay. We were the same height, almost the same weight but her body was more toned. PERFECT. One day I made myself a plate of fattening food & as I was about to eat...I saw her through the window! Needless to say, I lost my apetite. LOL! I wanted her body so bad & seeing her reminded me of the gut I needed to lose, etc. I liked her, we talked sometimes but I was still envious lol. Now I've just triggered myself, all this extra stuff needs to be gone by June 😄
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LOL! You are talking about healthy jealousy. I have had those. I see them more as a motivation to better myself. The only woman I was so jealous of is Yahoo CEO Marissa Mayer - beautiful, super smart, super successful. Its just painful LOL. My friends are making fun of me all the time cuz I always say stuff like 'that bitch Marissa destroyed yahoo, my email sucks, the layout of yahoo front page sucks, she is prob not doing anything there' haha...
Posted by tiziani
Hahahahaha I thought dropping things on purpose only happens in movies!You took the words out of my mouth, that's totally reminiscent of a scene from a generic romantic comedy flick. Actually I'm pretty sure that happened in Legally Blonde, when the older lady awkwardly tried to holla @ the mailman.
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One girl was having her hair braided under a tree last weekend & when she was done she took off her shirt to remove hair from it. She wasn't wearing a bra! And there were men playing soccer not too far from where they were sitting. This girl & her sister are known for liking men here in these flats. Always walking around semi-naked to be whistled at. I don't understand behaviour like that in some women. Too confident, I guess. Her boobs were nice from the view of my window lol.
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I feel like somebody always has something bad to say about them!! I feel like we get less valued in the zodiac department. Alot of people sleep on us !!