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How to win my Scorpio man
How to Attract a Scorpio Man as a Libra Woman
To attract a Scorpio man, show genuine interest and confidence while maintaining mystery. Be authentic and subtle in your signals, like playful teasing and meaningful conversations. Trust and emotional connection are key for Scorpio men, so focus on building deep trust without revealing everything too soon.
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You can never win friend.
I cant see how people think they can win friends, that to me is an absurb notion however if you can prove me wrong so be it.
Well, we just recently built a friendship.I would see him at his job and I have done sweet things for him and he for me. So he trusts me.I feel that maybe he doesn't feel good enough..😢
I guess you could keep being your sweet self then that maybe will win him over?
....lol
Posted by sweetgirl22
How do I send him the right signals without directly asking him?
I used to get Libra chicks to have sex with me by saying "We will never have sex" putting the Libra off balance and forcing her to regain her inner harmony by suggesting the opposite - that we could/should/would.
You want to know how to send the right signals WITHOUT risking anything? Right?
Well f-u-c-k--y-o-u.
No risk, to us, means you're a manipulative siren who just wants him to ADMIT IT to you.
And then YOU WIN. And then you're done with him. AND HE KNOWS IT.
If that be true, you don't DESERVE him. If it is not, and you are sincere,
all you need to do is put YOUR neck on the line for him by telling him your feelings/desires
and you will win his heart and loyalty.
And I feel sorry for you. lol You have no idea what's about to happen. lol
I do know what I am in for, and extremely ready. I am serious. No games here. We are both in our 40 ' s and been hurt. There isn't anything I wouldn't do for him. I am loyal to the end..I wrote him a letter months ago with no response.
Also. I don't just want sex. I want all of him.
good luck Libra, you'll need it 😄
Posted by sweetgirl22
How do I send him the right signals without directly asking him?I used to get Libra chicks to have sex with me by saying "We will never have sex" putting the Libra off balance and forcing her to regain her inner harmony by suggesting the opposite - that we could/should/would.
You want to know how to send the right signals WITHOUT risking anything? Right?
Well f-u-c-k--y-o-u.
No risk, to us, means you're a manipulative siren who just wants him to ADMIT IT to you.
And then YOU WIN. And then you're done with him. AND HE KNOWS IT.If that be true, you don't DESERVE him. If it is not, and you are sincere,
all you need to do is put YOUR neck on the line for him by telling him your feelings/desires
and you will win his heart and loyalty.
And I feel sorry for you. lol You have no idea what's about to happen. lolclick to expand
+1
"How to win my Scorpio man"
Sounds like her Scorpio man has been reduced to some kind of "prize".
I can hear a crowd chanting "F the deal! Spin the wheel!"
Keep and enjoy the friendship. Few things are more terrifying and relentless than a besotted Scorpio male. They are true blue friends, though.
"How to win my Scorpio man"
Sounds like her Scorpio man has been reduced to some kind of "prize".I can hear a crowd chanting "F the deal! Spin the wheel!"
Yeah, I don't understand it, either. Sorry, very long workday.
They aren't that scary when besotted! Sheesh, you all are making scorp men seem like monsters. They're just giant dragons and you have to know how to pet them nicely. If you don't then you'll either watch the mystical beast disappear or get burned to a crisp. See, easy peasy....
I have several Scorpios in my family and trust that I know how to read their moods, allow them space and how to "calm" them. He is a sweetheart.. We laugh at the silliest things all the time. He would be my best friend.
I hope I don't sound like a smart aleck, but if you already know all about the care and feeding of Scorpios, why is it you're seeking advice to "win one over."
Posted by MoonArtist
They aren't that scary when besotted! Sheesh, you all are making scorp men seem like monsters. They're just giant dragons and you have to know how to pet them nicely. If you don't then you'll either watch the mystical beast disappear or get burned to a crisp. See, easy peasy....
Er. Yeah.
Because he is the first one with Moon/Virgo. A little sensitive and I do not want to mess anything up with him..
"How to win my Scorpio man"
Sounds like her Scorpio man has been reduced to some kind of "prize".I can hear a crowd chanting "F the deal! Spin the wheel!"
Yeah, I don't understand it, either. Sorry, very long workday.
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I mean, it sounds like she has "materialized" her beau to a prize product.
As if Scorpio came off the assembly line.
"How to win my Scorpio man"
Sounds like her Scorpio man has been reduced to some kind of "prize".I can hear a crowd chanting "F the deal! Spin the wheel!"
Yeah, I don't understand it, either. Sorry, very long workday.
I mean, it sounds like she has "materialized" her beau to a prize product.
As if Scorpio came off the assembly line.click to expand
Weellllll...Honestly, I think most people view a desirad suitor as a "prize," don't they?
Wow. Some of you must either have never experienced a good woman, or are very young. Otherwise, if you had read everything I have posted, you would see that I am a strong woman with depth, that appreciates a good man that I do not want to mess with his emotions. I would die, before I would ever hurt anyone, much less the man I want to grow old with.
*shakes head* No, not uppity. Just cautious.
May I suggest the tried and true classic of simply being yourself.
Then again..you could toss your curls over your shoulder, feign an ankle injury and look about with tears shimmering in your eyes.
Nah. Just be yourself.
Honesty is always the best!! And thank you. Yes. I know what I want and am gonna fight for it. 🙂
"How to win my Scorpio man"
Sounds like her Scorpio man has been reduced to some kind of "prize".I can hear a crowd chanting "F the deal! Spin the wheel!"
Yeah, I don't understand it, either. Sorry, very long workday.
I mean, it sounds like she has "materialized" her beau to a prize product.
As if Scorpio came off the assembly line.Weellllll...Honestly, I think most people view a desirad suitor as a "prize," don't they?
at least your possessiveness is consistent, I can respect that
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Qui? Moi?
Posted by sweetgirl22I wrote him a letter months ago with no response.
Posted by sweetgirl22
Also. I don't just want sex. I want all of him.click to expand
It's not happening. That's what my gut is screaming.
Posted by sweetgirl22I wrote him a letter months ago with no response.
Posted by sweetgirl22
Also. I don't just want sex. I want all of him.click to expand
It's not happening. That's what my gut is screaming.
"How to win my Scorpio man"
Sounds like her Scorpio man has been reduced to some kind of "prize".I can hear a crowd chanting "F the deal! Spin the wheel!"
Yeah, I don't understand it, either. Sorry, very long workday.
I mean, it sounds like she has "materialized" her beau to a prize product.
As if Scorpio came off the assembly line.Weellllll...Honestly, I think most people view a desirad suitor as a "prize," don't they?
at least your possessiveness is consistent, I can respect that
Qui? Moi?
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I am a little old fashioned.
You see, true love should not have to fight.
It is to be freely and faithfully exchanged between the two in a variety of ways.
Where the "fighting" comes in, is when one is at risk of being hurt by another.
That "another" being an outsider or one's self.
That being said, there's a time and place for war. To keep the peace, provoke not
the war. Let war be the very last option. Reason being, someone can be truly hurt
physically, emotionally, psychologically and spiritually.
Sometimes.... such wars are fought in the best interests of the family in ways
that are, oftentimes, never seen, let alone, appreciated.
Posted by tiziani
Yep.
I haven't a possessive bone in my body. But yea, I do view valued friends, loves, family members, pets as prizes. Even treasure. How many really terrific people do we ever meet and come to know in life?
Posted by MoonArtist
They aren't that scary when besotted! Sheesh, you all are making scorp men seem like monsters. They're just giant dragons and you have to know how to pet them nicely. If you don't then you'll either watch the mystical beast disappear or get burned to a crisp. See, easy peasy....Er. Yeah.
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lol....oh, ye of little faith!
"How to win my Scorpio man"
Sounds like her Scorpio man has been reduced to some kind of "prize".I can hear a crowd chanting "F the deal! Spin the wheel!"
Yeah, I don't understand it, either. Sorry, very long workday.
I mean, it sounds like she has "materialized" her beau to a prize product.
As if Scorpio came off the assembly line.Weellllll...Honestly, I think most people view a desirad suitor as a "prize," don't they?
at least your possessiveness is consistent, I can respect that
Qui? Moi?
I am a little old fashioned.
You see, true love should not have to fight.
It is to be freely and faithfully exchanged between the two in a variety of ways.
Where the "fighting" comes in, is when one is at risk of being hurt by another.
That "another" being an outsider or one's self.That being said, there's a time and place for war. To keep the peace, provoke not
the war. Let war be the very last option. Reason being, someone can be truly hurt
physically, emotionally, psychologically and spiritually.
Sometimes.... such wars are fought in the best interests of the family in ways
that are, oftentimes, never seen, let alone, appreciated.click to expand
I hear you. I just believe loved ones should be treasured. I have suffered significant loss early in life and I understand nothing and no one we ever welcome in our lives is guaranteed to last. Better to appreciate them and make them feel loved and know how good you've got it while you've got it?
On the topic of fighting for someone's affection...if you have to TRY really hard to get them to notice you in more than a friendly way then it's not really a good match and people are going to get hurt in the end. People are either attracted or not and that's just the weird way chemistry and attraction works.
For myself, I don't want anyone that I have to jump through hoops for. They need to love/adore me simply because I'm me and vice versa.
Posted by MoonArtist
They aren't that scary when besotted! Sheesh, you all are making scorp men seem like monsters. They're just giant dragons and you have to know how to pet them nicely. If you don't then you'll either watch the mystical beast disappear or get burned to a crisp. See, easy peasy....Er. Yeah.
lol....oh, ye of little faith!
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VERY little faith. Half my work life I'm spoiled, the other half I'm psychologically spanked and sent to the corner for whatever it is I'm doing or not doing to appreciate said spoilage.
Posted by MoonArtist
They aren't that scary when besotted! Sheesh, you all are making scorp men seem like monsters. They're just giant dragons and you have to know how to pet them nicely. If you don't then you'll either watch the mystical beast disappear or get burned to a crisp. See, easy peasy....Er. Yeah.
lol....oh, ye of little faith!
VERY little faith. Half my work life I'm spoiled, the other half I'm psychologically spanked and sent to the corner for whatever it is I'm doing or not doing to appreciate said spoilage.
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I feel sorry for you non water signs and having to deal with any of us water signs. I truly do. On behalf of all of our mind fuckery I apologize.
On another note, psychological spanking sounds sooooo deliciously naughty! 😄
"How to win my Scorpio man"
Sounds like her Scorpio man has been reduced to some kind of "prize".I can hear a crowd chanting "F the deal! Spin the wheel!"
Yeah, I don't understand it, either. Sorry, very long workday.
I mean, it sounds like she has "materialized" her beau to a prize product.
As if Scorpio came off the assembly line.Weellllll...Honestly, I think most people view a desirad suitor as a "prize," don't they?
at least your possessiveness is consistent, I can respect that
Qui? Moi?
I am a little old fashioned.
You see, true love should not have to fight.
It is to be freely and faithfully exchanged between the two in a variety of ways.
Where the "fighting" comes in, is when one is at risk of being hurt by another.
That "another" being an outsider or one's self.That being said, there's a time and place for war. To keep the peace, provoke not
the war. Let war be the very last option. Reason being, someone can be truly hurt
physically, emotionally, psychologically and spiritually.
Sometimes.... such wars are fought in the best interests of the family in ways
that are, oftentimes, never seen, let alone, appreciated.I hear you. I just believe loved ones should be treasured. I have suffered significant loss early in life and I understand nothing and no one we ever welcome in our lives is guaranteed to last. Better to appreciate them and make them feel loved and know how good you've got it while you've got it?
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^^^ I wasn't suggesting that we not treasure loved ones, but rather, fight when and where it truly counts.
Contrasting the immature notion that "If someone doesn't fight for you, they don't love you" that
leads some immature or misled people into instigating a series of "head games" to see if the other "loves" them.
That's the impression I always get when I hear someone make that statement - "You didn't fight for me"
especially when the defendant was never told to fight but had to guess or read minds.
Then.. there is the crux:
IF the defendant had fought every man in town over his woman, he'd be accused by his object of affection of being jealous.
At some point, such a man's got to ask - what gives?
It really depends on what context "fighting for" is used. In your scenario, Firebird, there's the head games. In the OP's case she's trying to instigate a connection. In another case it could be a couple already together who are having problems and trying to "fight" for saving the relationship.
As for appreciating and treasuring loved ones, as Creole says, I'm wholeheartedly agreeing. 🙂
lol....oh, ye of little faith!
VERY little faith. Half my work life I'm spoiled, the other half I'm psychologically spanked and sent to the corner for whatever it is I'm doing or not doing to appreciate said spoilage.
I feel sorry for you non water signs and having to deal with any of us water signs. I truly do. On behalf of all of our mind fuckery I apologize.
On another note, psychological spanking sounds sooooo deliciously naughty! 😄
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No apologies needed. You get what you give in life. If this is the treatment (or mistreatment) he doles out, it's because he never experienced a greater example.
Doesn't mean I won't lose my temper someday and put something on him Ajax don't wash off, but...
Posted by MrFirebird
^^^ I wasn't suggesting that we not treasure loved ones, but rather, fight when and where it truly counts.
Contrasting the immature notion that "If someone doesn't fight for you, they don't love you" that
leads some immature or misled people into instigating a series of "head games" to see if the other "loves" them.That's the impression I always get when I hear someone make that statement - "You didn't fight for me"
especially when the defendant was never told to fight but had to guess or read minds.
Then.. there is the crux:
IF the defendant had fought every man in town over his woman, he'd be accused by his object of affection of being jealous.At some point, such a man's got to ask - what gives?
OH, I see. In that context, I must agree with you. You shouldn't have to fight for honest love. That's not really what I'm talking about, though. If people didn't assign value and importance to a love interest, why the effort to obtain or maintain the relationship at all? Either it's valuable to you -- a "prize" so to speak -- or it is not. It's not a negotiable thing.
I don't know. What's the movie? If finding your match, that person who loves your good and your bad, who can communicate with you and vice versa, who can share your life and both still have your own identity, who you trust with your life, your heart and your soul and completely understands you and vice versa is looking for the movie then sign me up. I've been in the situation of not a good match, settled, etc. It's lonely, it's soul numbing, it's not how a relationship should be, but that's me and I'm a super sappy romantic with the bar set extremely high.
lol....oh, ye of little faith!
VERY little faith. Half my work life I'm spoiled, the other half I'm psychologically spanked and sent to the corner for whatever it is I'm doing or not doing to appreciate said spoilage.
I feel sorry for you non water signs and having to deal with any of us water signs. I truly do. On behalf of all of our mind fuckery I apologize.
On another note, psychological spanking sounds sooooo deliciously naughty! 😄
No apologies needed. You get what you give in life. If this is the treatment (or mistreatment) he doles out, it's because he never experienced a greater example.
Doesn't mean I won't lose my temper someday and put something on him Ajax don't wash off, but...
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Oooo, sharpie markers! Good choice 😄
OMG... LOL ... Now I have this insane visual of me doing a "Jigglypuff" impression.
Posted by MoonArtist
It really depends on what context "fighting for" is used. In your scenario, Firebird, there's the head games. In the OP's case she's trying to instigate a connection. In another case it could be a couple already together who are having problems and trying to "fight" for saving the relationship.As for appreciating and treasuring loved ones, as Creole says, I'm wholeheartedly agreeing. 🙂
I agree with appreciating loved ones. It's the right thing to do.
Of course, there are times when loved ones need a swift kick in the rear when they get out of line.
My position on the subject is based on what I am detecting the OP as doing. err that is what I am attempting to address. You see, Scorpios have this radar that picks up on these things and it can easily be taken or mistaken as an exploitation. And sometimes, these things can be really annoying
or even offensive. - Just be honest with yourself and with him and nobody gets hurt. 😉
Posted by tiziani
Lol I don't know what that means. Maybe my brain is slow today.What I meant was people just have different ways of finding commitment.
Some people like to feel each other out, others have a checklist they want to see from the other person.. any person. Doesn't matter who they are as a person AT FIRST, just as long as they can play a certain role in their life to win them over.
That is living a movie imo, and it's totally fair even if it isn't for my personal tastes. We are all getting to the same result as the end of the day even if we initially go about it in different ways.
The first year of a relationship... very different to all that follows after.
Ok, I see what you mean. I agree!
If you have to "win" someone, it's not meant to be.
Posted by MoonArtist
It really depends on what context "fighting for" is used. In your scenario, Firebird, there's the head games. In the OP's case she's trying to instigate a connection. In another case it could be a couple already together who are having problems and trying to "fight" for saving the relationship.As for appreciating and treasuring loved ones, as Creole says, I'm wholeheartedly agreeing. 🙂
I agree with appreciating loved ones. It's the right thing to do.
Of course, there are times when loved ones need a swift kick in the rear when they get out of line.
Whatever happened to a light, open-handed smack and a quietly stern warning? That works too, you know.
Just be honest with yourself and with him and nobody gets hurt. 😉
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Yes, and this is really effective if both participants do it, too.
Posted by CreoleGeisha
OMG... LOL ... Now I have this insane visual of me doing a "Jigglypuff" impression.
I'm scared....
Posted by MrFirebird
^^^ I wasn't suggesting that we not treasure loved ones, but rather, fight when and where it truly counts.
Contrasting the immature notion that "If someone doesn't fight for you, they don't love you" that
leads some immature or misled people into instigating a series of "head games" to see if the other "loves" them.That's the impression I always get when I hear someone make that statement - "You didn't fight for me"
especially when the defendant was never told to fight but had to guess or read minds.
Then.. there is the crux:
IF the defendant had fought every man in town over his woman, he'd be accused by his object of affection of being jealous.At some point, such a man's got to ask - what gives?
OH, I see. In that context, I must agree with you. You shouldn't have to fight for honest love. That's not really what I'm talking about, though. If people didn't assign value and importance to a love interest, why the effort to obtain or maintain the relationship at all? Either it's valuable to you -- a "prize" so to speak -- or it is not. It's not a negotiable thing.
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Posted by MoonArtist
It really depends on what context "fighting for" is used. In your scenario, Firebird, there's the head games. In the OP's case she's trying to instigate a connection. In another case it could be a couple already together who are having problems and trying to "fight" for saving the relationship.As for appreciating and treasuring loved ones, as Creole says, I'm wholeheartedly agreeing. 🙂
I agree with appreciating loved ones. It's the right thing to do.
Of course, there are times when loved ones need a swift kick in the rear when they get out of line.Whatever happened to a light, open-handed smack and a quietly stern warning? That works too, you know.
Just be honest with yourself and with him and nobody gets hurt. 😉
Yes, and this is really effective if both participants do it, too.
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Because kicking is more satisfying.
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I am a Libra woman that is hopelessly in love with my Scorpio friend. I know he cares too because he has shown all signs. Jealousy, calling me cute, fixed focus, asking questions, I believe I am sending him the wrong signals.I get shy and nervous when he makes cute comments, yet neither of us seem to be able to pull ourselves away from each other. How do I send him the right signals without directly asking him?