Libras and Capricorns

Does it ever work? I hear that they don't get along but from what I've seen and was told that one is close.

my exp with my cap ex.. no good... to me cappy female is very selfish , rude and greedy.. my relationship with her last for only 3months and i went thru hell.

anymore? Reason why I'm asking. My first libra went after a cap after I left him. Second libra, the same. Going after a cap. I dropped them both. ok, after typing this makes me sound like a loser that the past libras that I was with went for something that may not get along well. From what I've seen, the first libra guy I was with is just using her. the second one I don't know much about but the second tells me that she's just darn difficult and has too many issues and no, I don't just go after libras, for some reason I end up with them when I'm not looking.

how do libras deal with a partner that swings in and out of depression?

Posted by jsharck
how do libras deal with a partner that swings in and out of depression?

depends how much i like them and whether they act charmingly depressed or annoyingly depressed. in the latter case, i lose patience and lose interest. in the former, i try to give them more affection or more space or whatever it is that's best for them.

i've always had a thing for a stoic air of sadness. it seems so poetic. kinda a turn on.

hence my thing for virgos. since they do that best.

diddy is pretty funny

could work if placements are good but I agree both cardinal signs create tensions, someone has to compromise.

Cappys mood swings won't help, will have to see if libras are patient to endure. I know I drive my hubby crazy sometimes but I always apologize and explain why I behave the way I am. Libras enjoy spending money, I know my hubby does, and I don't always approve but damn charm always wins me over and I sorta regret afterwards but not really because my sag side helps so I lighten up, probably has a lot to do with a taurus moon too with spending; not sure. Long story short, placements are very important.

my cappy ex she also have that moodswing which i can endure it for awhile till she got my family & friends involve in her crazy acts, diss me all you want i'm cool but don't mess with my family you got2go.

Posted by Diddylibra
my cappy ex she also have that moodswing which i can endure it for awhile till she got my family & friends involve in her crazy acts, diss me all you want i'm cool but don't mess with my family you got2go.

She dissed your family? Thats just real bad, I would have put my guy out if he ever went there. That is also a no no in my area. Family is pretty important. Sorry diddy for your bad experience with your cappy but we are not all I like that.

i understand that , its jus her personality not her signs.. after a few months struggling she finally give up on me.

cappy or cancer is a waste of time for libras. i am sure some cancer or cappy will jump right in and start flaming but its the honest truth. libra wont work with cappy or cancer unless libra is desperate or depressed or retarded and ready to put up with any sht. cardinal-cardinal works only btween polar opposites. libra goes well with aries and cancer goes well with cappy.

Posted by thelibran
cappy or cancer is a waste of time for libras. i am sure some cancer or cappy will jump right in and start flaming but its the honest truth. libra wont work with cappy or cancer unless libra is desperate or depressed or retarded and ready to put up with any sht. cardinal-cardinal works only btween polar opposites. libra goes well with aries and cancer goes well with cappy.

I am sure you would justify your arguments with your experiences but don't go around calling people desperate or depressed and retarded, for one you do not know my husband and you do not know me. I have had experiences with cancer females and males and no they do not work well with me, maybe for some other cappies but not moi.

Posted by thelibran
cappy or cancer is a waste of time for libras. i am sure some cancer or cappy will jump right in and start flaming but its the honest truth. libra wont work with cappy or cancer unless libra is desperate or depressed or retarded and ready to put up with any sht. cardinal-cardinal works only btween polar opposites. libra goes well with aries and cancer goes well with cappy.

i rarely get along with any aries people. even as friends. it's very rare.

i can get along well with cancers, but there ends up being a clash eventually. the females and their pathetic need for constant male attention and tendency to get competitive over stupid shit. the males, well...i've been attracted to a ton of cancer guys in my life. they are either slutty, possessive, or slutty and possessive. and if you don't give them enough attention, they get bitchy too. usually great for sexual chemistry though.

i have good chemistry with cap-aquarian cuspers too, but not full-on caps.

Lunamistress, my arguments are hardly based on my experiences. there are a lot many more poor libra victims who have been living with grandmom cappies and keeping their mouth shut.

Wow, actually I think a Libra is a waste of time for a Cancer and especially a Capricorn lmao... he will eat her alive. She'll never be the same, they're too straight forward and career oriented for carefree, flirtatious Libra. Libras indecisiveness, gullibility, and thoughtless behavior will irritate the water signs, and I imagine infuriate the earth signs. I have yet to see the charm they're said to possess, maybe one day.

Posted by thelibran
Lunamistress, my arguments are hardly based on my experiences. there are a lot many more poor libra victims who have been living with grandmom cappies and keeping their mouth shut.

I think this comment says everything about why cappies loathe certain librans. Some librans overestimate their supposed charms and fail to see that their tendency to come out with caustic barbs makes the nice side look totally fake.

Having said that I get on well with librans in real life and I think a lot of cappies do, we always have loads to talk about and have a laugh about. The diffference with caps is not that we cannot be charming if we want to, it's just we cannot be bothered with putting on this social butterfly front if we are not in the mood. Librans can be just as boring & grumpy as the rest of the population. It really depends on the libran. They can be loners despite being sociable often being slightly outside the crowd even when they are the centre of attention. As friends they are ok, but cappy libra relationships are difficult to maintain.

Cappy does not like the caustic side of libra. Libra can have far more of a sting in the tail than scorpio. Perhaps because they pretend to be all sweetness and light it is more of a shock to experience the opposite extreme from them when they are in the wrong mood. Because we appear as a group to have fluctuating emotions, cappies like someone who is fairly stable emotionally. I myself like intelligent, easygoing, sociable men with a healthy sense of humour and without a bitchy/nasty side.

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Posted by thelibran
Lunamistress, my arguments are hardly based on my experiences. there are a lot many more poor libra victims who have been living with grandmom cappies and keeping their mouth shut.

I think this comment says everything about why cappies loathe certain librans. Some librans overestimate their supposed charms and fail to see that their tendency to come out with caustic barbs makes the nice side look totally fake.

Having said that I get on well with librans in real life and I think a lot of cappies do, we always have loads to talk about and have a laugh about. The diffference with caps is not that we cannot be charming if we want to, it's just we cannot be bothered with putting on this social butterfly front if we are not in the mood. Librans can be just as boring & grumpy as the rest of the population. It really depends on the libran. They can be loners despite being sociable often being slightly outside the crowd even when they are the centre of attention. As friends they are ok, but cappy libra relationships are difficult to maintain.

Cappy does not like the caustic side of libra. Libra can have far more of a sting in the tail than scorpio. Perhaps because they pretend to be all sweetness and light it is more of a shock to experience the opposite extreme from them when they are in the wrong mood. Because we appear as a group to have fluctuating emotions, cappies like someone who is fairly stable emotionally. I myself like intelligent, easygoing, sociable men with a healthy sense of humour and without a bitchy/nasty side.

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The major reason behind libras and cappies being friendly is bcoz libra has a huge tolerance level and unlimited supply of optimism. Deep inside we hate laughing with cappies and it always adds to our frustration. But then we often find some decent nature and intentions in cappy. that makes us think its ok to put up with the negative side bcoz a part of cappy is worth being friendly with. Libra dont display wat exactly we feel inside or think bcoz our nature is to find good in everyone and keep looking for it. So whenever we find something negative, immediately our brain will begin to defend the cappy and list our the positive sides of cappy. Just bcoz we dont like many things cappies do, doesnt give us e

Posted by thelibran

The major reason behind libras and cappies being friendly is bcoz libra has a huge tolerance level and unlimited supply of optimism. Deep inside we hate laughing with cappies and it always adds to our frustration. But then we often find some decent nature and intentions in cappy. that makes us think its ok to put up with the negative side bcoz a part of cappy is worth being friendly with. Libra dont display wat exactly we feel inside or think bcoz our nature is to find good in everyone and keep looking for it. So whenever we find something negative, immediately our brain will begin to defend the cappy and list our the positive sides of cappy. Just bcoz we dont like many things cappies do, doesnt give us e

Librans rarely have a huge tolerance level. If they don't like something they are very vocal. I would say it's the next most critical sign after virgo. The fact is that many cappies/libras like each other enough to be friends. I have some planets compatible with libra but it's not enough for romantic compatibility. Libra is a complex sign. What librans like to be seen as and what they are like are two different things. Librans are in fact far more emotional than the stereotype. They are not that happy go lucky.

I have recently made a very good Cap friend. We get along famously and have everything in common. No idea what her other placements are. But she has a wonderful sense of humour and very similar interests.

I also had a really wonderful male Cap friend. We are at different points in our life now so we don't hang out, but who knows down the line.

Both these friendships have a creative component that I enjoy. I see both of these people as partners for creative projects.

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Posted by prettyladii
Wow, actually I think a Libra is a waste of time for a Cancer and especially a Capricorn lmao... he will eat her alive. She'll never be the same, they're too straight forward and career oriented for carefree, flirtatious Libra. Libras indecisiveness, gullibility, and thoughtless behavior will irritate the water signs, and I imagine infuriate the earth signs. I have yet to see the charm they're said to possess, maybe one day.

How can you allow people to have so much power on you ?

u r so bitter.. so bitter..

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Actually i'm not bitter this is just an observation as well as experience. It doesn't surprise me you would take this so personally, as many of them do even when simply expressing an opinion that isn't in their favor. A lot of the things I said are even on websites on google to describe them. Just like mysterious and jealous and possessive can be said for Scorpio, practical, hard working, and complex can be said of Capricorns. Doesn't mean I don't like them but it is what it is. I just said why I can't imagine Capricorn getting on with Libra. Libras aren't exactly known for their work ethics, or hard work, or being practical, or career oriented all things Capricorns need. On top of that they aren't really big on being faithful to their partners another major conflicting factor.

Posted by prettyladii

. Libras aren't exactly known for their work ethics, or hard work, or being practical, or career oriented all things Capricorns need. On top of that they aren't really big on being faithful to their partners another major conflicting factor.

Actually libras can be very hard working and career oriented. If you are not born rich and want to buy the nice things in life it helps to have a career. They are generally very capable of getting a job done. But they need that libra charm because they can be quite blunt when putting their point across if they are working in a team. So in terms of success and career they are compatible with cap. I'd not say that cappy is always the most faithful partner. They both love to chat. I think the main problem is that they are both cardinal signs and cappy doesn't like to be led. We both need a different kind of partner. As friends they both don't try to lead & both have a light touch friendship with lots of talking about all kinds of topics so it works out ok. Not all caps are depressed, friendless hermits.

I think its funny how some ppl on here dont like the name calling thing seemingly cuz the person doing it has "lack of experience" but this seems to be a place on the forum everyone comes to to call ppl liars and much more bs. I had to speak on the double standard cuz thats a nuisance so carry on

And I get along wit capricorns even tho they spur random hateful shit just like any other sign esp. if they see u as a person who cant keep up to standard then they wont spare their vengeful remarks capricorns require patience cuz their moods are long standing cuz my aunt(who is like my second mother)and my father are capricorns and they dont call me back or answer my calls for days and when they do they sound tired, burned out but its understandable cuz they are hardworkers. I look up to capricorns cuz of their realistic approach and as moody as they seem they are dependable, honest, and will give you advice WITHOUT always shunning you for asking, a trait alotta ppl need

Posted by prettyladii
Wow, actually I think a Libra is a waste of time for a Cancer and especially a Capricorn lmao... he will eat her alive. She'll never be the same, they're too straight forward and career oriented for carefree, flirtatious Libra. Libras indecisiveness, gullibility, and thoughtless behavior will irritate the water signs, and I imagine infuriate the earth signs. I have yet to see the charm they're said to possess, maybe one day.

you need to grow your little cry baby ass up, the only things u got to say about a libra is strictly based off what you google and then in your sick twisted world you turn your computer off and daydream about a relationship and issues you will never had and then wake up and throw it in a category of expereinces and then out of whatever imagined hate you've got for any born in october you come on here and use some dumb researched knowledge and use it in a quick and evasive manner so you wont have to worry about any backlash, all this name calling and this sign would do whatever to this sign is stupid your shallowminded ass is just immature, ive been with cancers, you cant even have a friendship with a cancer cuz they think everything was done for them and it zaps the fun outta shit saying i love in two weeks when all u wanna do is chill and then when u be honest with them they throw fits and say they dont wanna be a round you cuz you offended them when all u did was not give them their way, anything irritates a cancer if they cant get what they want,

you have yet to see anything any sign is said to possess b/c you've yet to leave your computer and step in the real world and the fact that you are looking for the charm further proves that you never met one you just read about them, you need a life or dildo one cuz you got deeper problems if you're upset over a sign, moreso one thats not yours

"they dont call me back or answer my calls for days and when they do they sound tired, burned out but its understandable cuz they are hardworkers. I look up to capricorns cuz of their realistic approach and as moody as they seem they are dependable, honest, and will give you advice WITHOUT always shunning you for asking, a trait alotta ppl need"

I'm like that and I'm a Leo. I do have a cappy boss and we get along well, she is just as you explained.

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Posted by prettyladii
Wow, actually I think a Libra is a waste of time for a Cancer and especially a Capricorn lmao... he will eat her alive. She'll never be the same, they're too straight forward and career oriented for carefree, flirtatious Libra. Libras indecisiveness, gullibility, and thoughtless behavior will irritate the water signs, and I imagine infuriate the earth signs. I have yet to see the charm they're said to possess, maybe one day.

you need to grow your little cry baby ass up, the only things u got to say about a libra is strictly based off what you google and then in your sick twisted world you turn your computer off and daydream about a relationship and issues you will never had and then wake up and throw it in a category of expereinces and then out of whatever imagined hate you've got for any born in october you come on here and use some dumb researched knowledge and use it in a quick and evasive manner so you wont have to worry about any backlash, all this name calling and this sign would do whatever to this sign is stupid your shallowminded ass is just immature, ive been with cancers, you cant even have a friendship with a cancer cuz they think everything was done for them and it zaps the fun outta shit saying i love in two weeks when all u wanna do is chill and then when u be honest with them they throw fits and say they dont wanna be a round you cuz you offended them when all u did was not give them their way, anything irritates a cancer if they cant get what they want,

you have yet to see anything any sign is said to possess b/c you've yet to leave your computer and step in the real world and the fact that you are looking for the charm further proves that you never met one you just read about them, you need a life or dildo one cuz you got deeper problems if you're upset over a sign, moreso one thats not yours

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Bitch please you're the one who needs to grow up gettin all crazy over what I had to say. It had some truth to it and you got offended, don't be mad. This is the description that is out there on your sign. And yes I have met plenty of scattered brained Libras as yourself, and some can be nice and intelligent, then others are the typical. It's funny you say I got such problems yet you're the one throwing a fit over a mere opinion

Oh and I don't care about who talks about or hates cancer, I will laugh with them.

Size Zero: This is what my gut is telling me about this combo match. That's why I started this thread since my past two libra guys I was with are with Cappys. My exhusband happily with his cappy, I left him and he quickly met her a year after our divorce then my recent ex boyfriend has a close friend that's a cappy but from what I've seen think that they are and could be quite a couple. Both the negatives and positives of the signs I think will weave together well. with cappys good looks, libra will fall for, cappy being just there and not all over the top like me, leo when they know someone likes them draws libra more interested in cappy. my ex bf tells me that they are good friends and that is just that but when I see the look in his eyes when he talks about her I know there is something there. He tells me that there is this tension and he see's lots of flaws in her that he is not attracted to her with love because of the flaws but I see differently that the flaws are something that he is attracted to. in any case, I'm not so close to my ex libra anymore but she is still around so there you have it, I think even though he tells me that there is something there and that its much stronger than he thinks. for me it seems like a great match if the two work at it and the negative and positive is what makes it a stronger bond. Then sex, both I know are amazing so put together I think would be the best match, I think the libra I know may be in denial or just avoiding telling me the truth.