Libras with breaks up

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ThatGemGuy336
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Posted by AesmaDaeva
Nah, maybe she just wants some form of validation from you. See how you're doing, see if you've moved on. How long has it been since the break up?

How bad was it? It depends. My break ups were extremely bad esp with the last one. It was one of those things where you realize someone will end up dead if we didn't break up.

If yours was THAT bad then no, no 2nd chances.

No it's was like she left me for someone else and I wanted her back she came back and then she left again this time I wanted to be friends until her other guy said it was me or him she pick him And i said some things she said some things and we just stop talking also I was a really bad bf I went college and just really stop talking to her it's been 2 years but in those 2 years she texted me randomly saying just hi and she love me and when i responded she never did ... And yeah I guess your right she has a boyfriend now but mutal friends say that he reminds them of me a lot ... Sorry for any typos I'm speed writing in class
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This is a very dysfunctional relationship. She wants you as a side piece. Someone to boost her ego or someone to validate her.

I'm sorry you gotta keep yourself away from that. She doesn't want you bad enough to stay with you. Whenever there's someone else she goes after that one. That's a terrible spot to put yourself in.

It's not fair to put you through that. This girl is no good. Keep away from her. Just be thankful it's over & consider it a learning experience.
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Posted by AesmaDaeva
This is a very dysfunctional relationship. She wants you as a side piece. Someone to boost her ego or someone to validate her.

I'm sorry you gotta keep yourself away from that. She doesn't want you bad enough to stay with you. Whenever there's someone else she goes after that one. That's a terrible spot to put yourself in.

It's not fair to put you through that. This girl is no good. Keep away from her. Just be thankful it's over & consider it a learning experience.

Friends have told me she said the only reason she left was because the other guy gave her more attention.. But you right I will stay away.. I have grown as a person from the relationship and i'm a lot happier now and will never turn back thank you for the advice 🙂
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Well if that's the case, she should be happy now that she's getting the 'attention' from the new BF, right?

And it's not that bad, she could've stated what she needed & given you the chance to meet her expectations but instead, she chose to dump you thinking someone can do better but still tries to reach you. That's BS!

Let's hope sugarfoot is right & your ex just wanted to be friends. For me personally though, I never keep any ex as a friend either out of respect for my SO. I don't want that sort of drama in my life. Past is part of the past & that's how I wanna keep it.