life's stepping stones

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this has been such a fun year so far, but each time i take a direction and find myself in a new place, i find there are about 3 more choices to make from that point.
it seems as though i am hopping from stone to stone, to get to the other side of the river. the only unsure thing is that i don't know what is on the other side.
romance must be dancing in some of the other signs as all the libra's i know as well as me seem to be getting a bit more comfortable with the fact that we might be alone for awhile.
perhaps, this is decision making time about where we want to be in our lives. tough decisions, when there are so many options.
any one else have a comment to make on being faced with a multitude of decisions.
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Romance is not dancing in my life either. I've never been completely alone before. I always had a boy/guy/man in my life -- someone I was infatuated with. At this point in my life, I am 26, I fell for a man really hard but things did not work out with us. It was love at first sight and I expected a lot from him. Ever since him, I haven't had anyone in my life. I am fine with that. I am almost happy with that because I've realized that my priorities such as going back to school and being a strong, independent woman is more important than having someone around. I've learned to enjoy dating myself... for a change. Good luck🙂 It's hard being a libra - we can almost never be alone - there are always people in our lives. They're drawn to us. We're drawn to people🙂
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It is hard being alone. I am doing the same thing right now, dating myself so to speak. I have been making some changes in the appearance department. buying a few new clothes that make me feel good, not someone else. Reading some self-help books and dealing with a lot of inner garbage, throwing out what I have dealt with and do not need to rehash.
The last love made me feel complete, but I was not the one for him. After the pain of watching him with other women in our close social circle, I finally realized it would never have worked in a commitment. Time to move on inside. Time to be alone and make some changes to discover what it is that would make me interested in my life again besides romance. I don't want to live through someone else, I want to be my own person and be able to enjoy alone or with someone special. It is time to become more independent now. I enjoyed reading your post. I suppose none of us are truly alone. There are a lot of us going through these growing pains.