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Missing my Libra
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Sorry people didn't know it was this long
when was the last time you spoke to her? are you still in contact?
Posted by jeaneDidn't mean to like ur post¶. But last time I spoke with her was like 6months ago. I could get in contact with her anytime. Tho something is stopping me from doing so
when was the last time you spoke to her? are you still in contact?
Posted by blackphaseIkr. They us charming. Them fuckin libras are something else.
Those Libras sure know how to put a spell over us don't they!
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Posted by blackphasePosted by yung_wisegemThey sure are! My fella is a Libra, I've never felt so much for another person beforePosted by blackphaseIkr. They us charming. Them fuckin libras are something else.
Those Libras sure know how to put a spell over us don't they!click to expand
Why does it have to be that way tho. I wish I could over like any other girl but I cant. I just some type of closure
Posted by 2MoonWhat don't u understand? She liked me. Didn't know how to react to her liking so I ran. So She disappeared when I didn't talk to her for two days. The ln I put ylthe nail in thr le coffin by rejecting her again without meaning to. I thought she was tryna play the second go round. Like I said I overthink thingsPosted by yung_wisegemthis is why I stopped dating geminis.
It all started when I first saw my Libra lady. She seemed so full of life and very happy. I noticed her but I never thought she would notice me. I wouldn't say she made the first move but she was the first to speak as I'm a shy Gemini. But once we started talking boy did we fuckin connect instantly. We could talk about anything to each other. To me she had the most beautiful eyes. I just felt so damn comfortable round her like I had nothing to hide even though I did my true feelings from her. But anyway I was starting to get a strong feeling that she was falling for me. Me being a typical Gem how did I deal with that? I avoided her for a couple of days. Just a couple lol. Then when I just accepted how she felt about me I noticed she started to get distant on me. So then I thought to myself I should've acted on it more quickly. I anlint gon lie that shit kinda hurt lol.
Fast forward several months later. It just so happened she wanted to talk to me out the blue. She was sitting with one of her friends who also wanted to u know fuck wit me. Let me just say I screwed up on a lot of opportunities. So then she said she really misses me. Oh god I fucked up. I said u know u don't miss me. Lowkey i was think i missed her more than she missed me–. I also thought she was tryna play me in front of her friends. I thought that she couldn't possibly be missing me when I seen her interacting with a lot of other guys. I just over think shit. I could tell she was devastated cus she just looked down with disappointment. So did her homegirl who also liked me. That was the last time she talked to me.
I know I blew my chances and it's over but I still want to see her to let her know I felt. It's really fuckin with me. I've even dreamt of her several times. I didn't even know she was a Libra until recently. Which is crazy because we had a connection that most Gems and libras have without me noticing she was a Libra.
Is it possible she's still thinking bout me? If not idgaf I still need to let her know!
Sorry ( not sorry! ) but I can't understand What the fuck is going on.
this sounds like a true mess.... mix of duality shit, pull and push.
Too many head games for my taste.
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Posted by yung_wisegemif something is stopping you though then try to move on. i agree with 2moon. whether you mean it or not, there are too many mind games. librans have their own hot and cold feelings to deal with, it would be a nightmare to deal with someone else who is in the same boat.Posted by jeaneDidn't mean to like ur post¶. But last time I spoke with her was like 6months ago. I could get in contact with her anytime. Tho something is stopping me from doing so
when was the last time you spoke to her? are you still in contact?click to expand
Posted by yung_wisegemPosted by 2MoonWhat don't u understand? She liked me. Didn't know how to react to her liking so I ran. So She disappeared when I didn't talk to her for two days. The ln I put ylthe nail in thr le coffin by rejecting her again without meaning to. I thought she was tryna play the second go round. Like I said I overthink thingsPosted by yung_wisegemthis is why I stopped dating geminis.
It all started when I first saw my Libra lady. She seemed so full of life and very happy. I noticed her but I never thought she would notice me. I wouldn't say she made the first move but she was the first to speak as I'm a shy Gemini. But once we started talking boy did we fuckin connect instantly. We could talk about anything to each other. To me she had the most beautiful eyes. I just felt so damn comfortable round her like I had nothing to hide even though I did my true feelings from her. But anyway I was starting to get a strong feeling that she was falling for me. Me being a typical Gem how did I deal with that? I avoided her for a couple of days. Just a couple lol. Then when I just accepted how she felt about me I noticed she started to get distant on me. So then I thought to myself I should've acted on it more quickly. I anlint gon lie that shit kinda hurt lol.
Fast forward several months later. It just so happened she wanted to talk to me out the blue. She was sitting with one of her friends who also wanted to u know fuck wit me. Let me just say I screwed up on a lot of opportunities. So then she said she really misses me. Oh god I fucked up. I said u know u don't miss me. Lowkey i was think i missed her more than she missed me–. I also thought she was tryna play me in front of her friends. I thought that she couldn't possibly be missing me when I seen her interacting with a lot of other guys. I just over think shit. I could tell she was devastated cus she just looked down with disappointment. So did her homegirl who also liked me. That was the last time she talked to me.
I know I blew my chances and it's over but I still want to see her to let her know I felt. It's really fuckin with me. I've even dreamt of her several times. I didn't even know she was a Libra until recently. Which is crazy because we had a connection that most Gems and libras have without me noticing she was a Libra.
Is it possible she's still thinking bout me? If not idgaf I still need to let her know!
Sorry ( not sorry! ) but I can't understand What the fuck is going on.
this sounds like a true mess.... mix of duality shit, pull and push.
Too many head games for my taste.
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Posted by jeaneMind games? What mind games are y'all seeing? I need advice. Telling me there's too many mind games is not helping'Posted by yung_wisegemif something is stopping you though then try to move on. i agree with 2moon. whether you mean it or not, there are too many mind games. librans have their own hot and cold feelings to deal with, it would be a nightmare to deal with someone else who is in the same boat.Posted by jeaneDidn't mean to like ur post¶. But last time I spoke with her was like 6months ago. I could get in contact with her anytime. Tho something is stopping me from doing so
when was the last time you spoke to her? are you still in contact?click to expand
Posted by yung_wisegemok. here is advice. leave her alone and move on. it's been six months.Posted by jeaneMind games? What mind games are y'all seeing? I need advice. Telling me there's too many mind games is not helping���'Posted by yung_wisegemif something is stopping you though then try to move on. i agree with 2moon. whether you mean it or not, there are too many mind games. librans have their own hot and cold feelings to deal with, it would be a nightmare to deal with someone else who is in the same boat.Posted by jeaneDidn't mean to like ur post¶. But last time I spoke with her was like 6months ago. I could get in contact with her anytime. Tho something is stopping me from doing so
when was the last time you spoke to her? are you still in contact?click to expand
Posted by jeaneGreat advice. Thank u so muchPosted by yung_wisegemok. here is advice. leave her alone and move on. it's been six months.Posted by jeaneMind games? What mind games are y'all seeing? I need advice. Telling me there's too many mind games is not helping���'Posted by yung_wisegemif something is stopping you though then try to move on. i agree with 2moon. whether you mean it or not, there are too many mind games. librans have their own hot and cold feelings to deal with, it would be a nightmare to deal with someone else who is in the same boat.Posted by jeaneDidn't mean to like ur post¶. But last time I spoke with her was like 6months ago. I could get in contact with her anytime. Tho something is stopping me from doing so
when was the last time you spoke to her? are you still in contact?click to expand
Posted by 2Moon
messages are too long. we can't see them..
this is what I wanted to say:
this is what im talking about playboi.
I don't have the patience to deal with some crazy games like this.
are yall geminis stupid in relationships and love!? dont know how to date or some shit. only good for best friends and I appreciate their art. thats it
I dated 1 gemini girl. like 16 months ago? she played too much head games like you. I knew she was fake.
at the end, she disappeared. 6 months ago, same thing again with another gemini girl.
you guys disappear when everything is going very well. doing it on purpose or what? it gets on my nerrrrrve.
every time a relationship is at his highest. when everything is perfect and the communication is awesome. They fucking disapear.
no warning, no more messages.............
Posted by blackphasePosted by 2MoonWe are all different. You have to look passed the Sun sign guys..
messages are too long. we can't see them..
this is what I wanted to say:
this is what im talking about playboi.
I don't have the patience to deal with some crazy games like this.
are yall geminis stupid in relationships and love!? dont know how to date or some shit. only good for best friends and I appreciate their art. thats it
I dated 1 gemini girl. like 16 months ago? she played too much head games like you. I knew she was fake.
at the end, she disappeared. 6 months ago, same thing again with another gemini girl.
you guys disappear when everything is going very well. doing it on purpose or what? it gets on my nerrrrrve.
every time a relationship is at his highest. when everything is perfect and the communication is awesome. They fucking disapear.
no warning, no more messages.............
grrrr
I have NEVER ran from a relationship.. I'm always the one clinging through tough times. Fellas need a bolt cutter to get rid of this broad 😛click to expand
lol bolt cutters
Posted by 2Mooni hear ya. that push pull gemini fuckery would do my head in.Posted by jeanegosh! thank you for your understanding. it feels great when someone understands you. sigh! like a relief.Posted by yung_wisegemif something is stopping you though then try to move on. i agree with 2moon. whether you mean it or not, there are too many mind games. librans have their own hot and cold feelings to deal with, it would be a nightmare to deal with someone else who is in the same boat.Posted by jeaneDidn't mean to like ur post¶. But last time I spoke with her was like 6months ago. I could get in contact with her anytime. Tho something is stopping me from doing so
when was the last time you spoke to her? are you still in contact?click to expand
Posted by 2MoonPosted by yung_wisegemPosted by 2Moon
messages are too long. we can't see them..
this is what I wanted to say:
this is what im talking about playboi.
I don't have the patience to deal with some crazy games like this.
are yall geminis stupid in relationships and love!? dont know how to date or some shit. only good for best friends and I appreciate their art. thats it
I dated 1 gemini girl. like 16 months ago? she played too much head games like you. I knew she was fake.
at the end, she disappeared. 6 months ago, same thing again with another gemini girl.
you guys disappear when everything is going very well. doing it on purpose or what? it gets on my nerrrrrve.
every time a relationship is at his highest. when everything is perfect and the communication is awesome. They fucking disapear.
no warning, no more messages.............
Posted by blackphaseI love a clingy woman. But not too fuckin clingy like she can't do shit without uPosted by yung_wisegemIt's true is the sad part!! LOLPosted by blackphasePosted by 2MoonWe are all different. You have to look passed the Sun sign guys..
messages are too long. we can't see them..
this is what I wanted to say:
this is what im talking about playboi.
I don't have the patience to deal with some crazy games like this.
are yall geminis stupid in relationships and love!? dont know how to date or some shit. only good for best friends and I appreciate their art. thats it
I dated 1 gemini girl. like 16 months ago? she played too much head games like you. I knew she was fake.
at the end, she disappeared. 6 months ago, same thing again with another gemini girl.
you guys disappear when everything is going very well. doing it on purpose or what? it gets on my nerrrrrve.
every time a relationship is at his highest. when everything is perfect and the communication is awesome. They fucking disapear.
no warning, no more messages.............
grrrr
I have NEVER ran from a relationship.. I'm always the one clinging through tough times. Fellas need a bolt cutter to get rid of this broad 😛
lol bolt cuttersclick to expand
Posted by jeaneI guess I just have an extra hard time accepting that woman likes me plus all my flaws. Shit idk this is what I hate about myself lolPosted by 2Mooni hear ya. that push pull gemini fuckery would do my head in.Posted by jeanegosh! thank you for your understanding. it feels great when someone understands you. sigh! like a relief.Posted by yung_wisegemif something is stopping you though then try to move on. i agree with 2moon. whether you mean it or not, there are too many mind games. librans have their own hot and cold feelings to deal with, it would be a nightmare to deal with someone else who is in the same boat.Posted by jeaneDidn't mean to like ur post¶. But last time I spoke with her was like 6months ago. I could get in contact with her anytime. Tho something is stopping me from doing so
when was the last time you spoke to her? are you still in contact?click to expand
Posted by blackphaseThank u! I really am a shy mfer. I've moved on I just so happen to think of her every once in awhile.
In regard to this situation.. I don't think you were playing mind games.. You are just shy and didn't know how to approach her.. You're young, that's normal.
The thing with Libra's, as others have mentioned, is that they can be a bit indecisive so it's much harder for them if you are not constantly giving them green lights. Many of us Gems are the same. You two were just dancing around each other for far too long without letting one another know how you actually felt. In time, with age and maturity, you may find yourself more comfortable around women and may be able to approach them easier. Us Gems are a chatty bunch, just talk her ear off, get to know her, ask personal questions, show interest.. Otherwise they will just go on with their lives.
Posted by blackphasePreach it!Posted by 2MoonUs Gems with heavy water are a whole different breed 😉Posted by blackphaseI know, I know... sry.Posted by 2MoonWe are all different. You have to look passed the Sun sign guys..
messages are too long. we can't see them..
this is what I wanted to say:
this is what im talking about playboi.
I don't have the patience to deal with some crazy games like this.
are yall geminis stupid in relationships and love!? dont know how to date or some shit. only good for best friends and I appreciate their art. thats it
I dated 1 gemini girl. like 16 months ago? she played too much head games like you. I knew she was fake.
at the end, she disappeared. 6 months ago, same thing again with another gemini girl.
you guys disappear when everything is going very well. doing it on purpose or what? it gets on my nerrrrrve.
every time a relationship is at his highest. when everything is perfect and the communication is awesome. They fucking disapear.
no warning, no more messages.............
grrrr
I have NEVER ran from a relationship.. I'm always the one clinging through tough times. Fellas need a bolt cutter to get rid of this broad 😛
I'm just irritated. I might give more chances to gemini women. maybe try again, twice. 2 different gemini. but if it's not working. they are going to be banished from my list.
I don't even wanna say " lol "......
you, you look good! heavy scorpio placements. that's cool
I don't relate to any of the indecisive crap thrown around about Gemini's.click to expand
Posted by blackphasewhether intentional or not, op is a mess. and yes, it's because he is young. it's also likely because he is a gem.
In regard to this situation.. I don't think you were playing mind games...
let's go through it.
"I just felt so damn comfortable round her like I had nothing to hide even though I did my true feelings from her."
what? so he felt comfortable around her, so comfortable that he had nothing to hide...but wait....he hid how he was feeling. oh good, so there is a guy who she likes but he gives the impression he is not reciprocating her feelings.
next...
"But anyway I was starting to get a strong feeling that she was falling for me. Me being a typical Gem how did I deal with that? I avoided her for a couple of days. Just a couple lol."
lol. avoiding someone who is interested in you is hilarious! more signs to her from him that he is not interested.
and then...
"Then when I just accepted how she felt about me I noticed she started to get distant on me. So then I thought to myself I should've acted on it more quickly. I anlint gon lie that shit kinda hurt lol."
accepted? what an imposition. how generous. but oh, now he is ready, after all the signs he gave that he is not interested, it hurt him when she wasn't going to hang around for him.
more...
"So then she said she really misses me....I said u know u don't miss me."
good! dismiss her feelings! that will show her!
"I also thought she was tryna play me in front of her friends. I thought that she couldn't possibly be missing me when I seen her interacting with a lot of other guys."
so he thinks poorly of her, that she is the type of person to embarrass him in front of her friends. hang on, i thought he liked her?
"I could tell she was devastated cus she just looked down with disappointment. So did her homegirl who also liked me."
now, something else must have happened here. why would anyone (and a libra no doubt) be devastated from a bit of banter?
which brings us to now. he wants to get in touch and talk to her again but something is stopping him. the push-pull continues....
Posted by yung_wisegemthat, my friend, is a self fulfilling prophesy. you'll sabotage every potential relationship if you convince prospective partners that you are not good enough. they will believe you. it's not cute. it's not coy. it's not charming. it's tiresome and boring.Posted by jeaneI guess I just have an extra hard time accepting that woman likes me plus all my flaws. Shit idk this is what I hate about myself lolPosted by 2Mooni hear ya. that push pull gemini fuckery would do my head in.Posted by jeanegosh! thank you for your understanding. it feels great when someone understands you. sigh! like a relief.Posted by yung_wisegemif something is stopping you though then try to move on. i agree with 2moon. whether you mean it or not, there are too many mind games. librans have their own hot and cold feelings to deal with, it would be a nightmare to deal with someone else who is in the same boat.Posted by jeaneDidn't mean to like ur post¶. But last time I spoke with her was like 6months ago. I could get in contact with her anytime. Tho something is stopping me from doing so
when was the last time you spoke to her? are you still in contact?click to expand
Posted by jeaneManipulative as well.Posted by yung_wisegemthat, my friend, is a self fulfilling prophesy. you'll sabotage every potential relationship if you convince prospective partners that you are not good enough. they will believe you. it's not cute. it's not coy. it's not charming. it's tiresome and boring.Posted by jeaneI guess I just have an extra hard time accepting that woman likes me plus all my flaws. Shit idk this is what I hate about myself lolPosted by 2Mooni hear ya. that push pull gemini fuckery would do my head in.Posted by jeanegosh! thank you for your understanding. it feels great when someone understands you. sigh! like a relief.Posted by yung_wisegemif something is stopping you though then try to move on. i agree with 2moon. whether you mean it or not, there are too many mind games. librans have their own hot and cold feelings to deal with, it would be a nightmare to deal with someone else who is in the same boat.Posted by jeaneDidn't mean to like ur post¶. But last time I spoke with her was like 6months ago. I could get in contact with her anytime. Tho something is stopping me from doing so
when was the last time you spoke to her? are you still in contact?click to expand
those gems - like trying to nail jello to a wall - lol ...
Posted by jeanepreach it Jeane, preach itPosted by yung_wisegemthat, my friend, is a self fulfilling prophesy. you'll sabotage every potential relationship if you convince prospective partners that you are not good enough. they will believe you. it's not cute. it's not coy. it's not charming. it's tiresome and boring.Posted by jeaneI guess I just have an extra hard time accepting that woman likes me plus all my flaws. Shit idk this is what I hate about myself lolPosted by 2Mooni hear ya. that push pull gemini fuckery would do my head in.Posted by jeanegosh! thank you for your understanding. it feels great when someone understands you. sigh! like a relief.Posted by yung_wisegemif something is stopping you though then try to move on. i agree with 2moon. whether you mean it or not, there are too many mind games. librans have their own hot and cold feelings to deal with, it would be a nightmare to deal with someone else who is in the same boat.Posted by jeaneDidn't mean to like ur post¶. But last time I spoke with her was like 6months ago. I could get in contact with her anytime. Tho something is stopping me from doing so
when was the last time you spoke to her? are you still in contact?click to expand
Posted by jeanePosted by blackphasewhether intentional or not, op is a mess. and yes, it's because he is young. it's also likely because he is a gem.
In regard to this situation.. I don't think you were playing mind games...click to expand
let's go through it.
"I just felt so damn comfortable round her like I had nothing to hide even though I did my true feelings from her."
what? so he felt comfortable around her, so comfortable that he had nothing to hide...but wait....he hid how he was feeling. oh good, so there is a guy who she likes but he gives the impression he is not reciprocating her feelings.
next...
"But anyway I was starting to get a strong feeling that she was falling for me. Me being a typical Gem how did I deal with that? I avoided her for a couple of days. Just a couple lol."
lol. avoiding someone who is interested in you is hilarious! more signs to her from him that he is not interested.
and then...
"Then when I just accepted how she felt about me I noticed she started to get distant on me. So then I thought to myself I should've acted on it more quickly. I anlint gon lie that shit kinda hurt lol."
accepted? what an imposition. how generous. but oh, now he is ready, after all the signs he gave that he is not interested, it hurt him when she wasn't going to hang around for him.
more...
"So then she said she really misses me....I said u know u don't miss me."
good! dismiss her feelings! that will show her!
"I also thought she was tryna play me in front of her friends. I thought that she couldn't possibly be missing me when I seen her interacting with a lot of other guys."
so he thinks poorly of her, that she is the type of person to embarrass him in front of her friends. hang on, i thought he liked her?
"I could tell she was devastated cus she just looked down with disappointment. So did her homegirl who also liked me."
now, something else must have happened here. why would anyone (and a libra no doubt) be devastated from a bit of banter?
which brings us to now. he wants to get in touch and talk to her again but something is stopping him. the push-pull continues....
Posted by tctaThose Taurus' -So stubborn they don't know how to sit down and shut their face even after they have been owned - lol
those gems - like trying to nail jello to a wall - lol ...
Posted by jeaneNever said it was cute' or charming. Its actually aggravating as hell.Posted by yung_wisegemthat, my friend, is a self fulfilling prophesy. you'll sabotage every potential relationship if you convince prospective partners that you are not good enough. they will believe you. it's not cute. it's not coy. it's not charming. it's tiresome and boring.Posted by jeaneI guess I just have an extra hard time accepting that woman likes me plus all my flaws. Shit idk this is what I hate about myself lolPosted by 2Mooni hear ya. that push pull gemini fuckery would do my head in.Posted by jeanegosh! thank you for your understanding. it feels great when someone understands you. sigh! like a relief.Posted by yung_wisegemif something is stopping you though then try to move on. i agree with 2moon. whether you mean it or not, there are too many mind games. librans have their own hot and cold feelings to deal with, it would be a nightmare to deal with someone else who is in the same boat.Posted by jeaneDidn't mean to like ur post¶. But last time I spoke with her was like 6months ago. I could get in contact with her anytime. Tho something is stopping me from doing so
when was the last time you spoke to her? are you still in contact?click to expand
Posted by gemguyaz34lol !Posted by tctaThose Taurus' -So stubborn they don't know how to sit down and shut their face even after they have been owned - lol
those gems - like trying to nail jello to a wall - lol ...
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Posted by 2MoonPosted by yung_wisegemPosted by 2MoonPosted by yung_wisegemPosted by 2Moon
messages are too long. we can't see them..
this is what I wanted to say:
this is what im talking about playboi.
I don't have the patience to deal with some crazy games like this.
are yall geminis stupid in relationships and love!? dont know how to date or some shit. only good for best friends and I appreciate their art. thats it
I dated 1 gemini girl. like 16 months ago? she played too much head games like you. I knew she was fake.
at the end, she disappeared. 6 months ago, same thing again with another gemini girl.
you guys disappear when everything is going very well. doing it on purpose or what? it gets on my nerrrrrve.
every time a relationship is at his highest. when everything is perfect and the communication is awesome. They fucking disapear.
no warning, no more messages.............
Posted by yung_wisegemWhy are you seeking so much validation? You need to wait it out. GIve Libra time to re-balance. If they realize they were wrong, they'll be back. If not then, don't worry about it.Posted by jeaneNever said it was cute�' or charming. Its actually aggravating as hell.Posted by yung_wisegemthat, my friend, is a self fulfilling prophesy. you'll sabotage every potential relationship if you convince prospective partners that you are not good enough. they will believe you. it's not cute. it's not coy. it's not charming. it's tiresome and boring.Posted by jeaneI guess I just have an extra hard time accepting that woman likes me plus all my flaws. Shit idk this is what I hate about myself lolPosted by 2Mooni hear ya. that push pull gemini fuckery would do my head in.Posted by jeanegosh! thank you for your understanding. it feels great when someone understands you. sigh! like a relief.Posted by yung_wisegemif something is stopping you though then try to move on. i agree with 2moon. whether you mean it or not, there are too many mind games. librans have their own hot and cold feelings to deal with, it would be a nightmare to deal with someone else who is in the same boat.Posted by jeaneDidn't mean to like ur post¶. But last time I spoke with her was like 6months ago. I could get in contact with her anytime. Tho something is stopping me from doing so
when was the last time you spoke to her? are you still in contact?click to expand
Posted by yung_wisegemi'm not offended. my brother is a gem. i am very familiar with the sign.
Lol. U sound offended or something. What is with people and getting into their feelings on this forum?
I've already said I have issues with knowing people likes me and all my flaws. Me not understanding how a person could likee sooo much. So I pull away.
what i am trying to tell you is that your behaviour resulted in what you have now. if you want different results you must change your behavior. you're still playing games with your thumb up your arse though.
i went through what you wrote and gave you a libra perspective. if you have self esteem issues then i would say work on those first before involving another person in your world. wondering if she is daydreaming about you is the wrong focus.
they are hard to catch - being so lovable and friendly they hook up quick and stick ... when you catch one single, ya gotta put yer hooks in um ...
Posted by 2Moonyes it is and it's only logic - it's not rocket science guys!Posted by jeaneThis is amazing. lol. Well said! WowPosted by blackphasewhether intentional or not, op is a mess. and yes, it's because he is young. it's also likely because he is a gem.
In regard to this situation.. I don't think you were playing mind games...
let's go through it.
"I just felt so damn comfortable round her like I had nothing to hide even though I did my true feelings from her."
what? so he felt comfortable around her, so comfortable that he had nothing to hide...but wait....he hid how he was feeling. oh good, so there is a guy who she likes but he gives the impression he is not reciprocating her feelings.
next...
"But anyway I was starting to get a strong feeling that she was falling for me. Me being a typical Gem how did I deal with that? I avoided her for a couple of days. Just a couple lol."
lol. avoiding someone who is interested in you is hilarious! more signs to her from him that he is not interested.
and then...
"Then when I just accepted how she felt about me I noticed she started to get distant on me. So then I thought to myself I should've acted on it more quickly. I anlint gon lie that shit kinda hurt lol."
accepted? what an imposition. how generous. but oh, now he is ready, after all the signs he gave that he is not interested, it hurt him when she wasn't going to hang around for him.
more...
"So then she said she really misses me....I said u know u don't miss me."
good! dismiss her feelings! that will show her!
"I also thought she was tryna play me in front of her friends. I thought that she couldn't possibly be missing me when I seen her interacting with a lot of other guys."
so he thinks poorly of her, that she is the type of person to embarrass him in front of her friends. hang on, i thought he liked her?
"I could tell she was devastated cus she just looked down with disappointment. So did her homegirl who also liked me."
now, something else must have happened here. why would anyone (and a libra no doubt) be devastated from a bit of banter?
which brings us to now. he wants to get in touch and talk to her again but something is stopping him. the push-pull continues....click to expand
Posted by jeaneYeah but Jeane in all fairness, Libra is guilty of doing the same in some instances. I know mine did. In the end unless there is proper communication and some trial and error, it will never see the light. However it is more common I believe, due to age. Both are making assumptions of the other and this is where the failure potential comes into play.Posted by blackphasewhether intentional or not, op is a mess. and yes, it's because he is young. it's also likely because he is a gem.
In regard to this situation.. I don't think you were playing mind games...
let's go through it.
"I just felt so damn comfortable round her like I had nothing to hide even though I did my true feelings from her."
what? so he felt comfortable around her, so comfortable that he had nothing to hide...but wait....he hid how he was feeling. oh good, so there is a guy who she likes but he gives the impression he is not reciprocating her feelings.
next...
"But anyway I was starting to get a strong feeling that she was falling for me. Me being a typical Gem how did I deal with that? I avoided her for a couple of days. Just a couple lol."
lol. avoiding someone who is interested in you is hilarious! more signs to her from him that he is not interested.
and then...
"Then when I just accepted how she felt about me I noticed she started to get distant on me. So then I thought to myself I should've acted on it more quickly. I anlint gon lie that shit kinda hurt lol."
accepted? what an imposition. how generous. but oh, now he is ready, after all the signs he gave that he is not interested, it hurt him when she wasn't going to hang around for him.
more...
"So then she said she really misses me....I said u know u don't miss me."
good! dismiss her feelings! that will show her!
"I also thought she was tryna play me in front of her friends. I thought that she couldn't possibly be missing me when I seen her interacting with a lot of other guys."
so he thinks poorly of her, that she is the type of person to embarrass him in front of her friends. hang on, i thought he liked her?
"I could tell she was devastated cus she just looked down with disappointment. So did her homegirl who also liked me."
now, something else must have happened here. why would anyone (and a libra no doubt) be devastated from a bit of banter?
which brings us to now. he wants to get in touch and talk to her again but something is stopping him. the push-pull continues....click to expand
Posted by tctaTaurus will shut her face when Gem decides which face is his - lolPosted by gemguyaz34lol !Posted by tctaThose Taurus' -So stubborn they don't know how to sit down and shut their face even after they have been owned - lol
those gems - like trying to nail jello to a wall - lol ...
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Posted by gemguyaz34you're right but we don't have the libra's side. and the libra is not here looking for advice.
Yeah but Jeane in all fairness, Libra is guilty of doing the same in some instances. I know mine did. In the end unless there is proper communication and some trial and error, it will never see the light. However it is more common I believe, due to age. Both are making assumptions of the other and this is where the failure potential comes into play.
i rarely comment on the other person because the op's story is always subjective and always only a glimpse of what has happened. it's also pointless to talk about what the other person could do in this situation because all we have is the op. they need to work on what they can control and affect rather then this other party.
i'm more than happy to take libra's inventory. we can be fuckers - pure and simple. we mess people around resulting in them feeling used (and sometimes rightfully so). we can be fake. we can be selfish. we can be self interested and self absorbed. there are very few criticisms of libras that i won't see the validity of.
Posted by tctaThe Gem and the Libra alike -Are already 10 thoughts ahead of you -lolPosted by tctaTaurus will shut her face when Gem decides which face is his - lolPosted by gemguyaz34lol !Posted by tctaThose Taurus' -So stubborn they don't know how to sit down and shut their face even after they have been owned - lol
those gems - like trying to nail jello to a wall - lol ...
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Posted by TheLibraMudraawww, what sign is he ?Posted by tctaHaha yea. This seems to be true. Single then in a relationship 6 years. Single then in another relationship for 5. Single then another hopefully til I'm old and he's feeding me chocolate pudding while out great grand kids toddle around our house full of memories.
they are hard to catch - being so lovable and friendly they hook up quick and stick ... when you catch one single, ya gotta put yer hooks in um ...click to expand
that is what I read and I feel lucky to have caught one sweet, sexy, good old fashioned libra man - meow! and so far so good ... yeah, we just want to end up sitting on the front porch eatin, drinkin, and watching the grass grow ...
and I love how he is so "courtly" ...
Posted by gemguyaz34we just want you to think you are ahead - it makes us feel even more submissive - lolPosted by tctaThe Gem and the Libra alike -Are already 10 thoughts ahead of you -lolPosted by tctaTaurus will shut her face when Gem decides which face is his - lolPosted by gemguyaz34lol !Posted by tctaThose Taurus' -So stubborn they don't know how to sit down and shut their face even after they have been owned - lol
those gems - like trying to nail jello to a wall - lol ...
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Posted by jeaneOh I agree, I mean I'm not defending him by any means -there are two sides to the story. I personally believe he is seeking more validation than a willingness to see where he may have gone wrong and doing any self analyzing..Posted by gemguyaz34you're right but we don't have the libra's side. and the libra is not here looking for advice.
Yeah but Jeane in all fairness, Libra is guilty of doing the same in some instances. I know mine did. In the end unless there is proper communication and some trial and error, it will never see the light. However it is more common I believe, due to age. Both are making assumptions of the other and this is where the failure potential comes into play.
i rarely comment on the other person because the op's story is always subjective and always only a glimpse of what has happened. it's also pointless to talk about what the other person could do in this situation because all we have is the op. they need to work on what they can control and affect rather then this other party.click to expand
Posted by tctaWe don't have to "think" we are ahead when we already know we are. You have the illusion you are in control, that's the irony of it -lolPosted by gemguyaz34we just want you to think you are ahead - it makes us feel even more submissive - lolPosted by tctaThe Gem and the Libra alike -Are already 10 thoughts ahead of you -lolPosted by tctaTaurus will shut her face when Gem decides which face is his - lolPosted by gemguyaz34lol !Posted by tctaThose Taurus' -So stubborn they don't know how to sit down and shut their face even after they have been owned - lol
those gems - like trying to nail jello to a wall - lol ...
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Posted by TheLibraMudrawow - Leo and Libra - I'm learning so much about how we can all get along - my son is a Leo, me Taurus - big, strong, so handsome ... 3 grandsons - I'm so proud ! Congrats!Posted by tctaSoon to be lion hubby.Posted by TheLibraMudraawww, what sign is he ?Posted by tctaHaha yea. This seems to be true. Single then in a relationship 6 years. Single then in another relationship for 5. Single then another hopefully til I'm old and he's feeding me chocolate pudding while out great grand kids toddle around our house full of memories.
they are hard to catch - being so lovable and friendly they hook up quick and stick ... when you catch one single, ya gotta put yer hooks in um ...
that is what I read and I feel lucky to have caught one sweet, sexy, good old fashioned libra man - meow! and so far so good ... yeah, we just want to end up sitting on the front porch eatin, drinkin, and watching the grass grow ...
and I love how he is so "courtly" ...
Me wuv me wion so muchies
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Posted by gemguyaz34your Leo moon is showing - lolPosted by tctaWe don't have to "think" we are ahead when we already know we are. You have the illusion you are in control, that's the irony of it -lolPosted by gemguyaz34we just want you to think you are ahead - it makes us feel even more submissive - lolPosted by tctaThe Gem and the Libra alike -Are already 10 thoughts ahead of you -lolPosted by tctaTaurus will shut her face when Gem decides which face is his - lolPosted by gemguyaz34lol !Posted by tctaThose Taurus' -So stubborn they don't know how to sit down and shut their face even after they have been owned - lol
those gems - like trying to nail jello to a wall - lol ...
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Posted by tctayep LOLPosted by gemguyaz34your Leo moon is showing - lolPosted by tctaWe don't have to "think" we are ahead when we already know we are. You have the illusion you are in control, that's the irony of it -lolPosted by gemguyaz34we just want you to think you are ahead - it makes us feel even more submissive - lolPosted by tctaThe Gem and the Libra alike -Are already 10 thoughts ahead of you -lolPosted by tctaTaurus will shut her face when Gem decides which face is his - lolPosted by gemguyaz34lol !Posted by tctaThose Taurus' -So stubborn they don't know how to sit down and shut their face even after they have been owned - lol
those gems - like trying to nail jello to a wall - lol ...
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Posted by gemguyaz34me too. i get a sense he enjoys the drama of it as well.Posted by jeaneOh I agree, I mean I'm not defending him by any means -there are two sides to the story. I personally believe he is seeking more validation than a willingness to see where he may have gone wrong and doing any self analyzing..Posted by gemguyaz34you're right but we don't have the libra's side. and the libra is not here looking for advice.
Yeah but Jeane in all fairness, Libra is guilty of doing the same in some instances. I know mine did. In the end unless there is proper communication and some trial and error, it will never see the light. However it is more common I believe, due to age. Both are making assumptions of the other and this is where the failure potential comes into play.
i rarely comment on the other person because the op's story is always subjective and always only a glimpse of what has happened. it's also pointless to talk about what the other person could do in this situation because all we have is the op. they need to work on what they can control and affect rather then this other party.click to expand
(I added a bit more to my original post about libras)
Posted by jeaneU don't seem to understand. I know im in the wrong. I'm not saying the Libra has done anything wrong. It was all my fault. Just tried to see where I went wrong from a libras perspective. Now I see how I fucked up.Posted by gemguyaz34me too. i get a sense he enjoys the drama of it as well.Posted by jeaneOh I agree, I mean I'm not defending him by any means -there are two sides to the story. I personally believe he is seeking more validation than a willingness to see where he may have gone wrong and doing any self analyzing..Posted by gemguyaz34you're right but we don't have the libra's side. and the libra is not here looking for advice.
Yeah but Jeane in all fairness, Libra is guilty of doing the same in some instances. I know mine did. In the end unless there is proper communication and some trial and error, it will never see the light. However it is more common I believe, due to age. Both are making assumptions of the other and this is where the failure potential comes into play.
i rarely comment on the other person because the op's story is always subjective and always only a glimpse of what has happened. it's also pointless to talk about what the other person could do in this situation because all we have is the op. they need to work on what they can control and affect rather then this other party.
(I added a bit more to my original post about libras)click to expand
Posted by exxtasyxWith me everything seems to be rocket science§. It's easy for everyone in this thread to this but it's not easy for me in person
Oh God. You are so crazy.
If you want to re-connect with her then stop everything you're doing now. Shut the noise up in your head. Send her a message on social media or get her number from somewhere and contact her. It doesn't have to be rocket science.
Posted by exxtasyxNo he needs to leave her alone right now. Pushing the issue only makes the Libra pull further away.
Oh God. You are so crazy.
If you want to re-connect with her then stop everything you're doing now. Shut the noise up in your head. Send her a message on social media or get her number from somewhere and contact her. It doesn't have to be rocket science.
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