I think ima just leave her alone. Ur right it is making it worse
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Oh man reminds me of why I stopped talking to a Gem guy. What are you feeling??!!!! © lol That was always my thoughts. I even remembered asking him. Do you want more from me than friendship? (Because he sent me flowers.) He said no, just friendship, then he confessed crazy feelings later...like way later. Lol
I moved on before he did...
You should too. I mean you can tell her, but it might not make a difference now if she has already moved on. It may even turn her off from you, even as a friend.
I moved on before he did...
You should too. I mean you can tell her, but it might not make a difference now if she has already moved on. It may even turn her off from you, even as a friend.
Posted by yung_wisegemi do understand you. believe me, i'm almost certain the libra did something wrong here too. no one is ever fully to blame.
U don't seem to understand. I know im in the wrong. I'm not saying the Libra has done anything wrong. It was all my fault. Just tried to see where I went wrong from a libras perspective. Now I see how I fucked up.
i do think you need to work on yourself though. if you believe that you are not worthy of someone caring about you. it doesn't matter if that person professes their love 1000 times a day, you won't be able to hear it.
if you come from a place of being guarded, thinking if something is too good to be true, then it probably is, thinking that if only people saw the real you then they would run away quickly, you're not going to be successful and you're going to mess with an innocent party. save you and her the heartache.
i don't know what you need to do to get out of this funk; maybe you live at home and need to move out, maybe you need to have new experiences which build up your self esteem, maybe you need to talk to someone about it.
leave her alone. you're 20. when you have a better sense of who you are as a young man and have a few personal successes under your belt, then evaluate the situation and see where you are.
Posted by jane84Yea I know. Like @jeane and the other Gem said I'm only making matters worse.
Oh man reminds me of why I stopped talking to a Gem guy. What are you feeling??!!!! © lol That was always my thoughts. I even remembered asking him. Do you want more from me than friendship? (Because he sent me flowers.) He said no, just friendship, then he confessed crazy feelings later...like way later. Lol
I moved on before he did...
You should too. I mean you can tell her, but it might not make a difference now if she has already moved on. It may even turn her off from you, even as a friend.
Posted by jeaneIt's not that I have self esteem issues. I have trust issues. Have a hard time letting people in. Would u want someone to KNOW EVERYTHINHG about u? Lol I think I need to give up on libras. We just seem to be on two different wavelengthsPosted by yung_wisegemi do understand you. believe me, i'm almost certain the libra did something wrong here too. no one is ever fully to blame.
U don't seem to understand. I know im in the wrong. I'm not saying the Libra has done anything wrong. It was all my fault. Just tried to see where I went wrong from a libras perspective. Now I see how I fucked up.
i do think you need to work on yourself though. if you believe that you are not worthy of someone caring about you. it doesn't matter if that person professes their love 1000 times a day, you won't be able to hear it.
if you come from a place of being guarded, thinking if something is too good to be true, then it probably is, thinking that if only people saw the real you then they would run away quickly, you're not going to be successful and you're going to mess with an innocent party. save you and her the heartache.
i don't know what you need to do to get out of this funk; maybe you live at home and need to move out, maybe you need to have new experiences which build up your self esteem, maybe you need to talk to someone about it.
leave her alone. you're 20. when you have a better sense of who you are as a young man and have a few personal successes under your belt, then evaluate the situation and see where you are.click to expand
Posted by yung_wisegemeveryone has trust issues. you're not the first person to be scared of vulnerability.Posted by jeaneIt's not that I have self esteem issues. I have trust issues. Have a hard time letting people in. Would u want someone to KNOW EVERYTHINHG about u? Lol I think I need to give up on libras. We just seem to be on two different wavelengthsPosted by yung_wisegemi do understand you. believe me, i'm almost certain the libra did something wrong here too. no one is ever fully to blame.
U don't seem to understand. I know im in the wrong. I'm not saying the Libra has done anything wrong. It was all my fault. Just tried to see where I went wrong from a libras perspective. Now I see how I fucked up.
i do think you need to work on yourself though. if you believe that you are not worthy of someone caring about you. it doesn't matter if that person professes their love 1000 times a day, you won't be able to hear it.
if you come from a place of being guarded, thinking if something is too good to be true, then it probably is, thinking that if only people saw the real you then they would run away quickly, you're not going to be successful and you're going to mess with an innocent party. save you and her the heartache.
i don't know what you need to do to get out of this funk; maybe you live at home and need to move out, maybe you need to have new experiences which build up your self esteem, maybe you need to talk to someone about it.
leave her alone. you're 20. when you have a better sense of who you are as a young man and have a few personal successes under your belt, then evaluate the situation and see where you are.click to expand
would i want someone to know everything about me? yes. that's the definition of intimacy isn't it? i have nothing to hide from my partner. what do you have?
Posted by yung_wisegemNot necessarily but perhaps you just met the wrong one. Not everyone Gem is the same, likewise neither is every Libra. I recall when I was 20 years old, I wasn't even focusing on relationships. I was doing what I had to do to get things in order. If I wanted fun I hung out with friends and went out. Bigger things are coming your way that never crossed your mind. You are too young to be putting so much emphasis on this.Posted by jeaneIt's not that I have self esteem issues. I have trust issues. Have a hard time letting people in. Would u want someone to KNOW EVERYTHINHG about u? Lol I think I need to give up on libras. We just seem to be on two different wavelengthsPosted by yung_wisegemi do understand you. believe me, i'm almost certain the libra did something wrong here too. no one is ever fully to blame.
U don't seem to understand. I know im in the wrong. I'm not saying the Libra has done anything wrong. It was all my fault. Just tried to see where I went wrong from a libras perspective. Now I see how I fucked up.
i do think you need to work on yourself though. if you believe that you are not worthy of someone caring about you. it doesn't matter if that person professes their love 1000 times a day, you won't be able to hear it.
if you come from a place of being guarded, thinking if something is too good to be true, then it probably is, thinking that if only people saw the real you then they would run away quickly, you're not going to be successful and you're going to mess with an innocent party. save you and her the heartache.
i don't know what you need to do to get out of this funk; maybe you live at home and need to move out, maybe you need to have new experiences which build up your self esteem, maybe you need to talk to someone about it.
leave her alone. you're 20. when you have a better sense of who you are as a young man and have a few personal successes under your belt, then evaluate the situation and see where you are.click to expand
Posted by yung_wisegem“When you get to the end of all the light you know and it's time to step into the darkness of the unknown, faith is knowing that one of two things shall happen: either you will be given something solid to stand on, or you will be taught how to fly.”Posted by jeaneIt's not that I have self esteem issues. I have trust issues. Have a hard time letting people in. Would u want someone to KNOW EVERYTHINHG about u? Lol I think I need to give up on libras. We just seem to be on two different wavelengthsPosted by yung_wisegemi do understand you. believe me, i'm almost certain the libra did something wrong here too. no one is ever fully to blame.
U don't seem to understand. I know im in the wrong. I'm not saying the Libra has done anything wrong. It was all my fault. Just tried to see where I went wrong from a libras perspective. Now I see how I fucked up.
i do think you need to work on yourself though. if you believe that you are not worthy of someone caring about you. it doesn't matter if that person professes their love 1000 times a day, you won't be able to hear it.
if you come from a place of being guarded, thinking if something is too good to be true, then it probably is, thinking that if only people saw the real you then they would run away quickly, you're not going to be successful and you're going to mess with an innocent party. save you and her the heartache.
i don't know what you need to do to get out of this funk; maybe you live at home and need to move out, maybe you need to have new experiences which build up your self esteem, maybe you need to talk to someone about it.
leave her alone. you're 20. when you have a better sense of who you are as a young man and have a few personal successes under your belt, then evaluate the situation and see where you are.click to expand
”• Edward Teller
Posted by jeaneSee that's the difference between us. U want ur partner to know everything. I don't. There's a part of me that nobody needs to see. That part is for only me. I see u give all ur secrets and such up to ur partner without question. What if something goes wrong in the relationship? Or a best friend? Or a family member? U done gave up everything for nothing. Too risky. I can see if I've known a person all my life.Posted by yung_wisegemeveryone has trust issues. you're not the first person to be scared of vulnerability.Posted by jeaneIt's not that I have self esteem issues. I have trust issues. Have a hard time letting people in. Would u want someone to KNOW EVERYTHINHG about u? Lol I think I need to give up on libras. We just seem to be on two different wavelengthsPosted by yung_wisegemi do understand you. believe me, i'm almost certain the libra did something wrong here too. no one is ever fully to blame.
U don't seem to understand. I know im in the wrong. I'm not saying the Libra has done anything wrong. It was all my fault. Just tried to see where I went wrong from a libras perspective. Now I see how I fucked up.
i do think you need to work on yourself though. if you believe that you are not worthy of someone caring about you. it doesn't matter if that person professes their love 1000 times a day, you won't be able to hear it.
if you come from a place of being guarded, thinking if something is too good to be true, then it probably is, thinking that if only people saw the real you then they would run away quickly, you're not going to be successful and you're going to mess with an innocent party. save you and her the heartache.
i don't know what you need to do to get out of this funk; maybe you live at home and need to move out, maybe you need to have new experiences which build up your self esteem, maybe you need to talk to someone about it.
leave her alone. you're 20. when you have a better sense of who you are as a young man and have a few personal successes under your belt, then evaluate the situation and see where you are.
would i want someone to know everything about me? yes. that's the definition of intimacy isn't it? i have nothing to hide from my partner. what do you have?click to expand
Why ask a personal question like that on a forum? See what I mean? People be sooo quick to give up their everything for a person they have only known for less than five years. That's just not me
Posted by yung_wisegemgod, that's not the only difference.
See that's the difference between us. U want ur partner to know everything. I don't. There's a part of me that nobody needs to see. That part is for only me. I see u give all ur secrets and such up to ur partner without question. What if something goes wrong in the relationship? Or a best friend? Or a family member? U done gave up everything for nothing. Too risky. I can see if I've known a person all my life.
Why ask a personal question like that on a forum? See what I mean? People be sooo quick to give up their everything for a person they have only known for less than five years. That's just not me
yes, i want my partner to know me. i want to know my partner. that's what a relationship is. it's trusting someone. it's putting your heart in their hands. if you can't do that, then any relationship you have is just scratching the surface.
it's not without question and what if something goes wrong? then something goes wrong. shit, that's life. that's the chance you take. it's a risk we all take because the pay off is so incredibly good. i give everything for the chance at more than i could ever begin to imagine.
what's the personal question? what have you got to hide? it was rhetorical but the way you write it is like none of us would ever have encountered it before.
Posted by jeaneI love this convo.Posted by yung_wisegemgod, that's not the only difference.
See that's the difference between us. U want ur partner to know everything. I don't. There's a part of me that nobody needs to see. That part is for only me. I see u give all ur secrets and such up to ur partner without question. What if something goes wrong in the relationship? Or a best friend? Or a family member? U done gave up everything for nothing. Too risky. I can see if I've known a person all my life.
Why ask a personal question like that on a forum? See what I mean? People be sooo quick to give up their everything for a person they have only known for less than five years. That's just not me
yes, i want my partner to know me. i want to know my partner. that's what a relationship is. it's trusting someone. it's putting your heart in their hands. if you can't do that, then any relationship you have is just scratching the surface.
it's not without question and what if something goes wrong? then something goes wrong. shit, that's life. that's the chance you take. it's a risk we all take because the pay off is so incredibly good. i give everything for the chance at more than i could ever begin to imagine.
what's the personal question? what have you got to hide? it was rhetorical.click to expand
So ur saying take a leap of faith with any girl I partner up with. U want me to trust especially when women who like to run their mouth and backstab u when shit dont got their way? Just cus ur willing to take that leap doesn't mean others HAVE TO. Would u break up or not mess with a person just because he wouldn't tell u something that's extra personal which would be only for him to know. If so that's fucked up.
Posted by yung_wisegemwho is saying you have to? you're the person who came here telling us your tales of woe in trying to snag this woman. i'm not a dating agency, i'm not trying to set you up.Posted by jeaneI love this convo.Posted by yung_wisegemgod, that's not the only difference.
See that's the difference between us. U want ur partner to know everything. I don't. There's a part of me that nobody needs to see. That part is for only me. I see u give all ur secrets and such up to ur partner without question. What if something goes wrong in the relationship? Or a best friend? Or a family member? U done gave up everything for nothing. Too risky. I can see if I've known a person all my life.
Why ask a personal question like that on a forum? See what I mean? People be sooo quick to give up their everything for a person they have only known for less than five years. That's just not me
yes, i want my partner to know me. i want to know my partner. that's what a relationship is. it's trusting someone. it's putting your heart in their hands. if you can't do that, then any relationship you have is just scratching the surface.
it's not without question and what if something goes wrong? then something goes wrong. shit, that's life. that's the chance you take. it's a risk we all take because the pay off is so incredibly good. i give everything for the chance at more than i could ever begin to imagine.
what's the personal question? what have you got to hide? it was rhetorical.
So ur saying take a leap of faith with any girl I partner up with. U want me to trust especially when women who like to run their mouth and backstab u when shit dont got their way? Just cus ur willing to take that leap doesn't mean others HAVE TO. Would u break up or not mess with a person just because he wouldn't tell u something that's extra personal which would be only for him to know. If so that's fucked up.click to expand
i'm saying that once you find a woman you like, feel you can trust and enjoy the company of, if you want a relationship, then part of that is giving them the power to hurt you.
"women who like to run their mouth and backstab you when shit don't got their way"....hmm, i'm getting aromats of misogyny....
hang on....where did this come from? "Would u break up or not mess with a person just because he wouldn't tell u something that's extra personal which would be only for him to know. If so that's fucked up."
is that what happened? she asked you questions you were uncomfortable with answering?
ooooh, i got you. i've got your number now.
silently angry young man who has been deeply hurt in the past by someone close to him.
welcome to club. you'll find all of us are card carrying members.
silently angry young man who has been deeply hurt in the past by someone close to him.
welcome to club. you'll find all of us are card carrying members.
Posted by jeaneLOL
ooooh, i got you. i've got your number now.
silently angry young man who has been deeply hurt in the past by someone close to him.
welcome to club. you'll find all of us are card carrying members.
Posted by jeanePosted by yung_wisegemwho is saying you have to? you're the person who came here telling us your tales of woe in trying to snag this woman. i'm not a dating agency, i'm not trying to set you up.Posted by jeaneI love this convo.Posted by yung_wisegemgod, that's not the only difference.
See that's the difference between us. U want ur partner to know everything. I don't. There's a part of me that nobody needs to see. That part is for only me. I see u give all ur secrets and such up to ur partner without question. What if something goes wrong in the relationship? Or a best friend? Or a family member? U done gave up everything for nothing. Too risky. I can see if I've known a person all my life.
Why ask a personal question like that on a forum? See what I mean? People be sooo quick to give up their everything for a person they have only known for less than five years. That's just not me
yes, i want my partner to know me. i want to know my partner. that's what a relationship is. it's trusting someone. it's putting your heart in their hands. if you can't do that, then any relationship you have is just scratching the surface.
it's not without question and what if something goes wrong? then something goes wrong. shit, that's life. that's the chance you take. it's a risk we all take because the pay off is so incredibly good. i give everything for the chance at more than i could ever begin to imagine.
what's the personal question? what have you got to hide? it was rhetorical.
So ur saying take a leap of faith with any girl I partner up with. U want me to trust especially when women who like to run their mouth and backstab u when shit dont got their way? Just cus ur willing to take that leap doesn't mean others HAVE TO. Would u break up or not mess with a person just because he wouldn't tell u something that's extra personal which would be only for him to know. If so that's fucked up.click to expand
i'm saying that once you find a woman you like, feel you can trust and enjoy the company of, if you want a relationship, then part of that is giving them the power to hurt you.
"women who like to run their mouth and backstab you when shit don't got their way"....hmm, i'm getting aromats of misogyny....
hang on....where did this come from? "Would u break up or not mess with a person just because he wouldn't tell u something that's extra personal which would be only for him to know. If so that's fucked up."
is that what happened? she ask
Posted by jeaneAngry? Like I said I love this convo. From ur blvery first post u seemed angry. Everyone else came at me a different way. U came in hard. Like where the hell did all this come from?
ooooh, i got you. i've got your number now.
silently angry young man who has been deeply hurt in the past by someone close to him.
welcome to club. you'll find all of us are card carrying members.
My 2 cents, if y'all are friends on social media comment something friendly on her witty post that you guys have in common. Don't be to aggressive. She might think of you as c0cky. She might be still bruised from the rejection.
Wait for her to come at you. If she cares she'll come. And she'll come with questions. Libras move on logic not emotions. She'll understand your shyness fully with your answers... be prepared to give your honesty.
Then ask her out to talk more on a deeper level. Something simple like coffee and dounuts in a park (we like sweets). Make it fun and light make her laugh... you laugh.
And go from there.
Wait for her to come at you. If she cares she'll come. And she'll come with questions. Libras move on logic not emotions. She'll understand your shyness fully with your answers... be prepared to give your honesty.
Then ask her out to talk more on a deeper level. Something simple like coffee and dounuts in a park (we like sweets). Make it fun and light make her laugh... you laugh.
And go from there.
Posted by yung_wisegemthat was your interpretation. sarcasm? yes. straight talking? sure. anger? no way.Posted by jeaneAngry? Like I said I love this convo. From ur blvery first post u seemed angry. Everyone else came at me a different way. U came in hard. Like where the hell did all this come from?
ooooh, i got you. i've got your number now.
silently angry young man who has been deeply hurt in the past by someone close to him.
welcome to club. you'll find all of us are card carrying members.click to expand
Posted by jeaneAmen Jeane, Amen.Posted by yung_wisegemi do understand you. believe me, i'm almost certain the libra did something wrong here too. no one is ever fully to blame.
U don't seem to understand. I know im in the wrong. I'm not saying the Libra has done anything wrong. It was all my fault. Just tried to see where I went wrong from a libras perspective. Now I see how I fucked up.
i do think you need to work on yourself though. if you believe that you are not worthy of someone caring about you. it doesn't matter if that person professes their love 1000 times a day, you won't be able to hear it.
if you come from a place of being guarded, thinking if something is too good to be true, then it probably is, thinking that if only people saw the real you then they would run away quickly, you're not going to be successful and you're going to mess with an innocent party. save you and her the heartache.
i don't know what you need to do to get out of this funk; maybe you live at home and need to move out, maybe you need to have new experiences which build up your self esteem, maybe you need to talk to someone about it.
leave her alone. you're 20. when you have a better sense of who you are as a young man and have a few personal successes under your belt, then evaluate the situation and see where you are.click to expand
Posted by jeaneUr assumptions are ridiculous. Lmao u called me a silent angry young man. That actually made me laugh.Posted by yung_wisegemthat was your interpretation. sarcasm? yes. straight talking? sure. anger? no way.Posted by jeaneAngry? Like I said I love this convo. From ur blvery first post u seemed angry. Everyone else came at me a different way. U came in hard. Like where the hell did all this come from?
ooooh, i got you. i've got your number now.
silently angry young man who has been deeply hurt in the past by someone close to him.
welcome to club. you'll find all of us are card carrying members.click to expand
I actually stopped talking bout her. I started talking about trust. U easily trust. I don't. U want ur partner to know everything about u. I don't. Simple as that
Posted by jeaneU kinda remind me of p-angel lolPosted by yung_wisegemthat was your interpretation. sarcasm? yes. straight talking? sure. anger? no way.Posted by jeaneAngry? Like I said I love this convo. From ur blvery first post u seemed angry. Everyone else came at me a different way. U came in hard. Like where the hell did all this come from?
ooooh, i got you. i've got your number now.
silently angry young man who has been deeply hurt in the past by someone close to him.
welcome to club. you'll find all of us are card carrying members.click to expand
Posted by yung_wisegemlaughter would be your reaction. i'm not surprised.Posted by jeaneUr assumptions are ridiculous. Lmao u called me a silent angry young man. That actually made me laugh.Posted by yung_wisegemthat was your interpretation. sarcasm? yes. straight talking? sure. anger? no way.Posted by jeaneAngry? Like I said I love this convo. From ur blvery first post u seemed angry. Everyone else came at me a different way. U came in hard. Like where the hell did all this come from?
ooooh, i got you. i've got your number now.
silently angry young man who has been deeply hurt in the past by someone close to him.
welcome to club. you'll find all of us are card carrying members.
I actually stopped talking bout her. I started talking about trust. U easily trust. I don't. U want ur partner to know everything about u. I don't. Simple as thatclick to expand
i don't trust easily. like i said, i am a card carrying member too. i was a very silently angry young woman who trusted no fucker and couldn't even contemplate the possibility of doing so.
i trust my partner wholeheartedly though because i love him and being with him means being open and honest and vulnerable. if you don't want to be emotionally or mentally intimate with your future partner then you aren't going to have much of a relationship. constantly keeping up your guard and the walls means you are left alone. maybe that's what you want but if you are daydreaming about a girl and wondering if she still thinks of you then i don't think that is true.
Posted by blackphasebingo.Posted by yung_wisegemI have been through a lot with my Libra and jeane has been the most helpful! She is not angry, just trying to put things into perspective for you.Posted by jeaneAngry? Like I said I love this convo. From ur blvery first post u seemed angry. Everyone else came at me a different way. U came in hard. Like where the hell did all this come from?
ooooh, i got you. i've got your number now.
silently angry young man who has been deeply hurt in the past by someone close to him.
welcome to club. you'll find all of us are card carrying members.
Now seeing other things that you've posted and knowing how hard of a time you have opening up and trusting others / not wanting to show parts of yourself.. I have a better understanding. Your young still and you will continue to grow and overcome obstacles in your path. A large part of being in a relationship is being open and sharing things with one another.. that means being a bit vulnerable at times. I know that doesn't sound like a very comfortable position for you right now, but being open and sharing things with someone, even if it is not your partner, will help you in the long run. It's really hard to hold everything inside all the time. Having a relationship with someone who truly loves you and cares about you can help you grow and learn how to be open and share your thoughts and feelings. It's a relief to have someone that you can talk to about how you feel inside and not feel as though you are burdening them, they love you and are there to help you, to listen and be by your side. If you never open up to people in fear of revealing what you do not like about yourself, you'll have a very difficult time in relationships. I suffer from projecting my negative qualities and in turn it only causes my partner to see all of those negative qualities becasue I focus on them and put them in the spotlight. If there are things you are unhappy about within yourself, focus on them and work to overcome them. We all have things we'd rather people not know about us, but that is the beauty of having a relationship with someone who truly cares about you.. they look passed those things and will help you overcome them even. Take baby steps.. it's not easy and you're not in a relationship yet.. but don't let the things that you dislike about yourself hold you back from attempting a relationship.click to expand
Posted by blackphaseaww, i love p-angel! i don't always agree with her but she's her own person. i respect her immensely.Posted by yung_wisegemOmg! Don't say that. That's a slap in the face to anyone and jeane is a very respectable member.Posted by jeaneU kinda remind me of p-angel lolPosted by yung_wisegemthat was your interpretation. sarcasm? yes. straight talking? sure. anger? no way.Posted by jeaneAngry? Like I said I love this convo. From ur blvery first post u seemed angry. Everyone else came at me a different way. U came in hard. Like where the hell did all this come from?
ooooh, i got you. i've got your number now.
silently angry young man who has been deeply hurt in the past by someone close to him.
welcome to club. you'll find all of us are card carrying members.
She's really only trying to help.click to expand
Posted by jeaneCareful! You will give her a reason to come in here!Posted by blackphaseaww, i love p-angel! i don't always agree with her but she's her own person. i respect her immensely.Posted by yung_wisegemOmg! Don't say that. That's a slap in the face to anyone and jeane is a very respectable member.Posted by jeaneU kinda remind me of p-angel lolPosted by yung_wisegemthat was your interpretation. sarcasm? yes. straight talking? sure. anger? no way.Posted by jeaneAngry? Like I said I love this convo. From ur blvery first post u seemed angry. Everyone else came at me a different way. U came in hard. Like where the hell did all this come from?
ooooh, i got you. i've got your number now.
silently angry young man who has been deeply hurt in the past by someone close to him.
welcome to club. you'll find all of us are card carrying members.
She's really only trying to help.click to expand
There is a code word for understanding Libras I guess, and that's 'natural'. If a Libra likes someone, and that someone is interested (meaning that he shows it, offering a date, getting involved, is OK with keeping us company) than there is really nothing else a Libra girl needs or wants. I know, that's what should happen to everybody, uncomplicated goodness. In that way, Libras are really not that hard to figure out. But forcing ourselves on someone who doesn't like us, or getting attention from someone we don't like, being controlled or control someone else, it's not what a Libra is after. The good thing is if we like someone, and nothing went really wrong, or it did, but some time passed and the attraction is still there and the bad vibes disappeared, all you have to do is be natural. If you coped with the fact that you like her, and that she likes you, just ask her out, spend time with her, get to know her, and that's it. We may have friends, but we also have boundaries and communicate directly if someone can only be a friend or something more. Good luck!!
Posted by blackphasethank you. and i, you.Posted by jeaneLove even! WOW.Posted by blackphaseaww, i love p-angel! i don't always agree with her but she's her own person. i respect her immensely.Posted by yung_wisegemOmg! Don't say that. That's a slap in the face to anyone and jeane is a very respectable member.Posted by jeaneU kinda remind me of p-angel lolPosted by yung_wisegemthat was your interpretation. sarcasm? yes. straight talking? sure. anger? no way.Posted by jeaneAngry? Like I said I love this convo. From ur blvery first post u seemed angry. Everyone else came at me a different way. U came in hard. Like where the hell did all this come from?
ooooh, i got you. i've got your number now.
silently angry young man who has been deeply hurt in the past by someone close to him.
welcome to club. you'll find all of us are card carrying members.
She's really only trying to help.
I am just soft. I am the type of person who is easily bothered by people picking on others. It upsets me.. So I clearly never developed any respect.
But I do respect you! 🙂click to expand
i think we all have a bit to contribute. it might not be wrapped up in the parcel we like it to be but sometimes she is bang on the money. if nothing else she gives a different perspective. i like the rich tapestry.
yeah, i've see her pick away but we're all big girls and boys here. everyone has to fight their corner.
Posted by gemguyaz34hee hee 😄Posted by jeaneCareful! You will give her a reason to come in here!Posted by blackphaseaww, i love p-angel! i don't always agree with her but she's her own person. i respect her immensely.Posted by yung_wisegemOmg! Don't say that. That's a slap in the face to anyone and jeane is a very respectable member.Posted by jeaneU kinda remind me of p-angel lolPosted by yung_wisegemthat was your interpretation. sarcasm? yes. straight talking? sure. anger? no way.Posted by jeaneAngry? Like I said I love this convo. From ur blvery first post u seemed angry. Everyone else came at me a different way. U came in hard. Like where the hell did all this come from?
ooooh, i got you. i've got your number now.
silently angry young man who has been deeply hurt in the past by someone close to him.
welcome to club. you'll find all of us are card carrying members.
She's really only trying to help.click to expand
Posted by 2MoonPosted by yung_wisegemPosted by 2Moon
messages are too long. we can't see them..
this is what I wanted to say:
this is what im talking about playboi.
I don't have the patience to deal with some crazy games like this.
are yall geminis stupid in relationships and love!? dont know how to date or some shit. only good for best friends and I appreciate their art. thats it
I dated 1 gemini girl. like 16 months ago? she played too much head games like you. I knew she was fake.
at the end, she disappeared. 6 months ago, same thing again with another gemini girl.
you guys disappear when everything is going very well. doing it on purpose or what? it gets on my nerrrrrve.
every time a relationship is at his highest. when everything is perfect and the communication is awesome. They fucking disapear.
no warning, no more messages.............
Posted by jeaneShe called me a dumbass. I have lost all respect for her alreadyPosted by blackphaseaww, i love p-angel! i don't always agree with her but she's her own person. i respect her immensely.Posted by yung_wisegemOmg! Don't say that. That's a slap in the face to anyone and jeane is a very respectable member.Posted by jeaneU kinda remind me of p-angel lolPosted by yung_wisegemthat was your interpretation. sarcasm? yes. straight talking? sure. anger? no way.Posted by jeaneAngry? Like I said I love this convo. From ur blvery first post u seemed angry. Everyone else came at me a different way. U came in hard. Like where the hell did all this come from?
ooooh, i got you. i've got your number now.
silently angry young man who has been deeply hurt in the past by someone close to him.
welcome to club. you'll find all of us are card carrying members.
She's really only trying to help.click to expand
Posted by gemguyaz34Lmaoooo. I'm glad I didn't @ herPosted by jeaneCareful! You will give her a reason to come in here!Posted by blackphaseaww, i love p-angel! i don't always agree with her but she's her own person. i respect her immensely.Posted by yung_wisegemOmg! Don't say that. That's a slap in the face to anyone and jeane is a very respectable member.Posted by jeaneU kinda remind me of p-angel lolPosted by yung_wisegemthat was your interpretation. sarcasm? yes. straight talking? sure. anger? no way.Posted by jeaneAngry? Like I said I love this convo. From ur blvery first post u seemed angry. Everyone else came at me a different way. U came in hard. Like where the hell did all this come from?
ooooh, i got you. i've got your number now.
silently angry young man who has been deeply hurt in the past by someone close to him.
welcome to club. you'll find all of us are card carrying members.
She's really only trying to help.click to expand
Posted by workingirlTHIS. thank you. uncomplicated, straight forward, simple, loving, honest. That is what we want. Just match our effort if you feel the same. Don't play games.
There is a code word for understanding Libras I guess, and that's 'natural'. If a Libra likes someone, and that someone is interested (meaning that he shows it, offering a date, getting involved, is OK with keeping us company) than there is really nothing else a Libra girl needs or wants. I know, that's what should happen to everybody, uncomplicated goodness. In that way, Libras are really not that hard to figure out. But forcing ourselves on someone who doesn't like us, or getting attention from someone we don't like, being controlled or control someone else, it's not what a Libra is after. The good thing is if we like someone, and nothing went really wrong, or it did, but some time passed and the attraction is still there and the bad vibes disappeared, all you have to do is be natural. If you coped with the fact that you like her, and that she likes you, just ask her out, spend time with her, get to know her, and that's it. We may have friends, but we also have boundaries and communicate directly if someone can only be a friend or something more. Good luck!!
Posted by blackphaseyeah, in a funny way i do. ok, so she is not abusing her grandparent but p-angel is pointing out that it is a kind of fucked up situation the op has put herself in. i didn't read the original thread so i can only go off what she quoted.
How do you honestly respect this though?
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/this-virgo-is-abusing-her-grandparents-6334822/
Goes out of her way to do this sort of thing to people. I just can't.. the cruelty breaks my damn heart 😢
Yes, we are all big girls and boys, but she really has a way of singling people out.. and it's always in a very far fetched manner I feel.
her point of view counts. like i said, not delivered in a way that is particularly palatable but does she give the op food for thought? is there validity to her view? maybe.
she does single people out on occasion. it's up to them whether they want to take notice of it or not.
Posted by yung_wisegemwere you being a dumbass? if you were, then it's a fair call. if you weren't and sure you weren't, then you ignore her. it's just an opinion. she's entitled to it. you don't have to give it any value.Posted by jeaneShe called me a dumbass. I have lost all respect for her alreadyPosted by blackphaseaww, i love p-angel! i don't always agree with her but she's her own person. i respect her immensely.Posted by yung_wisegemOmg! Don't say that. That's a slap in the face to anyone and jeane is a very respectable member.Posted by jeaneU kinda remind me of p-angel lolPosted by yung_wisegemthat was your interpretation. sarcasm? yes. straight talking? sure. anger? no way.Posted by jeaneAngry? Like I said I love this convo. From ur blvery first post u seemed angry. Everyone else came at me a different way. U came in hard. Like where the hell did all this come from?
ooooh, i got you. i've got your number now.
silently angry young man who has been deeply hurt in the past by someone close to him.
welcome to club. you'll find all of us are card carrying members.
She's really only trying to help.click to expand
Posted by yung_wisegemIt would be good to really find out what you want. If not then just stay single and have fun.Posted by jane84Yea I know. Like @jeane and the other Gem said I'm only making matters worse.
Oh man reminds me of why I stopped talking to a Gem guy. What are you feeling??!!!! © lol That was always my thoughts. I even remembered asking him. Do you want more from me than friendship? (Because he sent me flowers.) He said no, just friendship, then he confessed crazy feelings later...like way later. Lol
I moved on before he did...
You should too. I mean you can tell her, but it might not make a difference now if she has already moved on. It may even turn her off from you, even as a friend.click to expand
If someone is wanting to be in a relationship with you, then they will want to know more about you. In a way to guard their own heart too. Why spend time with someone who isn't willing to show you who they truly are? I show my partner who I am, which gives them the chance to see if I am who they want to be with as well. Too many people get into something long term without truly knowing who the other person is. But you are only 20. Not saying you don't know anything, but experience has a way of really showing us what and who we want in life, but more importantly who is BEST for us. Like someone else said, maybe she wasn't the right woman for you and you were not the right man for her.
She may have wanted a relationship from you (and in turn wanted to know about you, wanted you to say something that meant you wanted to be with her too), but you were still figuring out what you wanted. It wasn't the right timing, that's all.
Also, I'm a triple Libra.. I will straight out ask a guy his intentions, but I will not chase anyone. People say that's a lazy libra thing, no it's an understanding thing. If I feel or you show me/tell me there isn't anything.. I'm going to move on with life and you'll be friend zoned or I'll just stop talking to you. No drama. ‰
Posted by jeaneYea I was a dumbass‘. Like I said u remind me her.Posted by yung_wisegemwere you being a dumbass? if you were, then it's a fair call. if you weren't and sure you weren't, then you ignore her. it's just an opinion. she's entitled to it. you don't have to give it any value.Posted by jeaneShe called me a dumbass. I have lost all respect for her alreadyPosted by blackphaseaww, i love p-angel! i don't always agree with her but she's her own person. i respect her immensely.Posted by yung_wisegemOmg! Don't say that. That's a slap in the face to anyone and jeane is a very respectable member.Posted by jeaneU kinda remind me of p-angel lolPosted by yung_wisegemthat was your interpretation. sarcasm? yes. straight talking? sure. anger? no way.Posted by jeaneAngry? Like I said I love this convo. From ur blvery first post u seemed angry. Everyone else came at me a different way. U came in hard. Like where the hell did all this come from?
ooooh, i got you. i've got your number now.
silently angry young man who has been deeply hurt in the past by someone close to him.
welcome to club. you'll find all of us are card carrying members.
She's really only trying to help.click to expand
Posted by blackphaseyou're right. i agree with you. i take her as she is though. i think i read once where she wan't pointing things out for the benefit of the op but more for the peanut gallery. a a ticket holder of the gallery, i like reading her take on things.Posted by jeaneI just think that she would actually get through to more people if she delivered it better. Most times she just upsets the OP and they give zero thought to what she has said becasue of her delivery. She does make good points at times, but I think it gets over looked by the person it was aimed toward simply becasue of the way she says it. I often just find that she takes a small amount of information and sort of runs with it.Posted by blackphaseyeah, in a funny way i do. ok, so she is not abusing her grandparent but p-angel is pointing out that it is a kind of fucked up situation the op has put herself in. i didn't read the original thread so i can only go off what she quoted.
How do you honestly respect this though?
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/this-virgo-is-abusing-her-grandparents-6334822/
Goes out of her way to do this sort of thing to people. I just can't.. the cruelty breaks my damn heart 😢
Yes, we are all big girls and boys, but she really has a way of singling people out.. and it's always in a very far fetched manner I feel.
her point of view counts. like i said, not delivered in a way that is particularly palatable but does she give the op food for thought? is there validity to her view? maybe.
she does single people out on occasion. it's up to them whether they want to take notice of it or not.click to expand
(I think my tolerance and even enjoyment of her may be because of my leebness.)
Posted by yung_wisegemlol, i'll take that. i don't mind.
Yea I was a dumbass‘. Like I said u remind me her.
Posted by blackphase😆 exactly.Posted by jeaneHahaha! When in doubt.. blame the Libra placements 😛 LOLPosted by blackphaseyou're right. i agree with you. i take her as she is though. i think i read once where she wan't pointing things out for the benefit of the op but more for the peanut gallery. a a ticket holder of the gallery, i like reading her take on things.Posted by jeaneI just think that she would actually get through to more people if she delivered it better. Most times she just upsets the OP and they give zero thought to what she has said becasue of her delivery. She does make good points at times, but I think it gets over looked by the person it was aimed toward simply becasue of the way she says it. I often just find that she takes a small amount of information and sort of runs with it.Posted by blackphaseyeah, in a funny way i do. ok, so she is not abusing her grandparent but p-angel is pointing out that it is a kind of fucked up situation the op has put herself in. i didn't read the original thread so i can only go off what she quoted.
How do you honestly respect this though?
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/this-virgo-is-abusing-her-grandparents-6334822/
Goes out of her way to do this sort of thing to people. I just can't.. the cruelty breaks my damn heart 😢
Yes, we are all big girls and boys, but she really has a way of singling people out.. and it's always in a very far fetched manner I feel.
her point of view counts. like i said, not delivered in a way that is particularly palatable but does she give the op food for thought? is there validity to her view? maybe.
she does single people out on occasion. it's up to them whether they want to take notice of it or not.
(I think my tolerance and even enjoyment of her may be because of my leebness.)click to expand
but what happened to her threads - they just disappeared - I was observing all the shock and awe posts ... does she have some sort of hold on this site or something - abrasive as she is, she is entitled to her opinion - I'm just not into her way of relating - these things happen in families all the time and they sort them out themselves - it's part of learning and growing and for others to judge and rally is just not real cool in my book - but again, that is my book ... I can and do always walk away ...
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