More Money?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Kiara478 on Wednesday, October 27, 2010 and has 9 replies.

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@Kiara478
16 Years

Hey Libra maless, how would you feel if you're girlfriend or wife made more money than you? Does it make you insecure or are you ok with it because you expect to "share" everything your spouse/girlfriend has?

I hear Libras love money and love to spend money, so my other question is: Would you stay in a relationship with a girl who doesn't have a job and is basically going nowhere, just expecting you to take care of her and she's spending all of YOUR money and driving your car?

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16 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

Im not a male but there is no way I would be letting a guy do that and I cant imagine any of the Libra guys I have been with being like that. In general Libra's tend to be pretty generous and will quite happily buy people things, but I personally do not like to do that if i feel i HAVE to or it is being expected of me. I like things to be equal.

Cancer males would probably get a kick out of that kind of thing though.

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@Kiara478
16 Years

Yeah, that sounds like a Cancer male now that you mention it. This particular guy has a cancer ascendant but he is libra sun with aquarius moon. Anyway whenever he is away working, (he travels a lot for work)his girlfriend doesn't want to do anything to improve herself ( like take courses at the local college)or anything. She doesn't want to help him with the rent or car payments or anything; AND she has a 3 year old daughter.

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@Kiara478
16 Years

QLIbraMale: But what about the second part of my question. Would you happliy accept your girlfriend basically taking your money, driving your car, and not doing anything to help you out with the expenses?

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@libra sun
16 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

Posted by sucha_d0ll

Posted by CasperChief117
libras are pretty petty when it comes to money and social status, IMO

This can often be true.

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I have heard this quite a lot but I have never actually come across any Libra's like this. Obviously there must be though since so many people say it lol. However I do recall my Libra cousin once saying that she would rather her man didnt have a job than work at mcdonalds?! i'm still not sure if she was being serious.

All the Libra's I have known quite happily dole out their money to the people they care about. My ex,when i met him, had no job lived at home with his mum and had been recovering from a drug addiction and that didnt stop me, I quite happily paid for everything for the both of us until he had a job, and I still paid for most things after as I earned practically double his wage. Obviously he contributed his half to household expenses and stuff, as I wouldnt be with no freeloader! lol

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Posted by Kiara478
Hey Libra maless, how would you feel if you're girlfriend or wife made more money than you? Does it make you insecure or are you ok with it because you expect to "share" everything your spouse/girlfriend has?

I hear Libras love money and love to spend money, so my other question is: Would you stay in a relationship with a girl who doesn't have a job and is basically going nowhere, just expecting you to take care of her and she's spending all of YOUR money and driving your car?

well ive been thru the latter

first off, it wouldnt make me insecure, i thought marriage and reltionships(intimate ones)was about joint assests, "ours" not "yours" and "mine". Only reason i would want to make more than my girl is so i can take care of her, but if it never happens that way then fine, i would still be happy love aint about who makes the most money

Now i have been with a girl who didnt have a job, nor ever had one, and i was working two jobs and going to school online. I stayed, but what ended it was other reasons that shouldnt be addressed on here. I dont mind taken care of my woman, im a man thats my job to hunt and provide BUT she is not going to be spending all of my money and driving my shit, Im making the money and I will be the one deciding where it goes, i dont mind spoiling but only after rent has been paid

man people must think we have no sense of masculinity b/c some of these questions just amaze me