Movies that depict intimacy

This topic was created in the Libra forum by sunshine101562 on Wednesday, October 12, 2005 and has 19 replies.

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@sunshine101562
21 YearsLibra

I need help with finding a movie that would help someone understand intimacy. Emotional and sexual, but more important the emotional. Anyone have any ideas? I'm having a hard time explaining it verbally. It is my last ditch effort to save a relationship, please, please help. The man involved is a Taurus and truely has no clue. A friend of mine suggested "Sweet November", the more movies the better. Thanks so much!

Sunshine...

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@Alana
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Bridges of Madison County??
Captain Cornelli's Mandolin??

Lassie - come home........I joke for this one...but it sure made me cry when I was a little girl:-)

Good luck S.

Ax

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@moloko
21 YearsCancer

Dirty Dancing, i know the name dosn't sound perfect but parts of that film have an intimacy thing going on. It was on tv the other night here.

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@Alana
21 Years1,000+ Posts

The way we were—? Babs S. and Bobby R....now that was a tear-jerker!

Dirty dancing.......strange think Moloko.....the girl in that film (can't think of her name now..Jennifer something - well she had cosmetic surgery on her face, she is so different now that you'd swear she was someone else........

Why did she do it—......OK she probably wouldn't win Ms. World.....but she had just so different looks than the normal hollywood babe!!!

I digress...............

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@moloko
21 YearsCancer

I didnt know that about her, she looked fine to me, quite pretty, its a shame if someone changes thier looks to fit in with hollywood and the whole showbiz thing, like the female from black eyed peas, i think they call her Fergie, she was pretty, and then seems to have had a lot of facial work done and dosn't look anything like how she did.

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@Alana
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Yes, I noticed that about that woman in bep!!...but wasn't too sure.

Why don't people learn......it's not because you look stunnning or amazingly attractive that people are seduced and allured!!.......it's because you look "different"!!!

I learnt that lesson when I was about 12 yaers old from my mother's pal....we were at the beach watching the kids and dogs play and splash in the water.......immediately I noticed a dog with a long tail (no not ponytail!!) - but his tail was up and very, very crooked and I laughed at the dog....she just told me....look at how the people stare at that dog...and forget the rest....he is "different" from the rest of the crowd!!!......same applies to people.

When I walk into a room, I don't want people to think oh she's beautiful or gorgeous - I just want them to think I am different! that's my trick:-)

Sorry sunshine..........I guess it's "an all about me" day.......

Back to you and your situation!!!

Keep us posted.

A x

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@sunshine101562
21 YearsLibra

Hey Guys,

Thank you so much...very good suggestions! I'll let you know how it turns out, never had a situation like this before. Who would have thought at my age I'd be having a class about intimacy with the man in my life....LOL

Alana,
You crack me up, sound alot like myself. What sign are you?

Moloko,
Been years since Ive seen that movie, Ill have to check it out.

Sunshine...

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@Alana
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Sunshine.....me aquarius:-) - the Chinese Horse:-)!!!

Truly though, wish you the best.......and you must promise to tell us how it all goes........at your age 43!!!— whatever age!!!!.....no-one knows everthing there is to know on any one topic especially intimacy!!!!.......snippets, tids and bids, we are all learning every day.......

Good luck Lady.

A x

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@sunshine101562
21 YearsLibra

Hi Alana,

Well that explains it...Aquarius...I love Aquarians...Your right about us learning something everyday, thanks so much for your support. I will let you know how it goes. *S*

Sunshine...

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@yattayattahey
20 Years

Hi Sunshine,
This may seem like a strange one, but I recommend "Enemy at the Gates"
1) it's a great great movie
2) it's not a "girly flick" so you won't have to convince him to watch it
3) there is a scene in it that is well, to me, the definition of intimacy
Even if you don't get the result you are after, you will have watched a fab movie!

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@sunshine101562
21 YearsLibra

Hey YattaYatta,

Never heard of that movie before, what type is it? I also wanted to post soemthing, I cant believe it has been 2 days since someone posted this room. Chat with ya soon.

Sunshine...

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@yattayattahey
20 Years

And yeah, were are all the Libras? Out celebrating their birthdays maybe. Hehe!
I sure pushed the boat out this year, too much fun.

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@sunshine101562
21 YearsLibra

Hey YattaYattahey,

Just wondering where your at, Ive never heard of that movie. Im in California. what year did it come out? Your right about the B-days, that is probably where everyone is at. You know us libras, we make it a birthday month, not a day..LOL

Sunshine...

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@yattayattahey
20 Years

Ha! yeah, I've been goin at it hard since Thursday! Going to take a night off tonight tho.
It came out in 2001, starring Jude Law and Rachel Weisz.
And I'm in Canada 😄

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@sunshine101562
21 YearsLibra

YataYata,

Ive decided I dont want to show anyone about intimacy. Im learning to confront the situation from another thread...LOL. Thanks for everyones responses.

Sunshine...