Moving in together

How do yall feel about moving in with someone so early or ever in a relationship?

It was a bad decision for me, i wont say why on here but it was a bad one, especially if you are not ready for it. Its alot to ask for when you are still discovering yourself and wish to be alone


your thoughts>

It is a big step. If two people stay together long enough it is one they will have to address but if both people aren't ready it is a mistake. To me, my home is my castle. Letting someone move in is significant. It is my safe haven from the outside. It is where I am vulnerable.

I have a bad habbit of moving myself into peoples houses. At the start of a relationship I always rush everything then just stop until the relationship has caught up with my actions, something I am working on as I do not want to keep making the same mistake. For some reason it feels so right at the time, but I have learnt from experience that it is a big decision that should not be rushed into. If you really love and care about a person then there is no need to rush, you have your whole lives to make such decisions

Of course there are exceptions...


But generally speaking...


Bad idea. Take it slow.

It is a big move that takes maturity, i will never do it again though. I am a man who does have a hunger for privacy and boundaries. I have days where i am moody, by myself i am silent and quiet but my emotions and nerves are hair triggered on those days and one wrogn word can set me off, thats alot for someone to handle but i think it comes from feeling smothered and subconsciously its a way of pushing someone away so you can have space


Its just too much to ask right now and libra sun i agree and relate to you 100% on that


i learned that you shouldnt do it until you look at the whole spectrum. I was staying on campus at first and i got caught up in the world of clinginess and loneliness since im being honest with myself.

well i never knew that she didnt have a job and her parents helped with the apartment along with her school refund. Eviction.

My life has been an unblanced nervre racking hell ever since and i wish i would have established boundaries, stood my ground on no relationship and stayed on campus b/c the life has been throughly sucked out of me