My lack of decision making skills.#@*&%$

I don't know what to do about it. I can barely decide what to eat for lunch, let alone important life choices. If I don't make a decision right when something is happening then I will sway and question myself to the bitter end. This causes so much anxiety and stress in my life that it's becoming a serious problem. I can feel one way about something and feel I've come to a solid decision and then hours later retract.

Has anyone else had this problem? If so what have you done to curve this behavior? I want to be an Aries or crawl under a flippin' rock.

Sun Libra 12 house
Moon Gemini 8 house
Mercury Libra 12 house
Venus and Mars Virgo 11th house
Saturn Scorpio 2nd house
Pluto Scorpio 1st
Uranus Sagittarius 2nd house

Are these terrible placements for decision making or am I just insane?

Lol it's your Gem moon 😉

You're fine otherwise 🙂
(Well the Venus/Mars Virgo combo may be a prob, but not effecting you with regards to this thread)

Posted by lildol
Lol it's your Gem moon 😉

You're fine otherwise 🙂
(Well the Venus/Mars Virgo combo may be a prob, but not effecting you with regards to this thread)

Venus/Mars combo does what? Is this why I beat myself up over EVERYTHING I do. I kick my own arse daily. I'm over myself. hahaha

What I usually do is remind myself that certain choices aren't life and death. I too run into that issue with choosing where to eat. When I get really ramped up, I stop and just say to myself "no one will die if I choose one place over another." I agree it's maddening, but usually the underlying issue is something else is unbalanced in your life. That is derailing your every day decisions, so figure out what it might be and start working on fixing that. Everything else will fall into place after 😉

Posted by Peaches
Definitely your gem moon! one ex was Libra sun + rising, with a gem moon and libra merc.
Forget it.
Most our convos (when we wouldn't argue) would go like this :

- What do you feel like eating tonight?
- Not sure, what are you in the mood for?
- (libra gave like 4 options for me to pick from. Major mindfuck!) We can have a Thai, Erythrean or Chinese? Or even an Italian, or Lebanese.
- Yeah I'm fine with Chinese or Thai or Lebanese, what about you?
- I was thinking maybe Lebanese or Erythrean but why not an Italian?
- yes, why not, Italian then?
- Well yes, but then theres this new Thai place...
- As you wish
- maybe Italian or how about Japanese?!
- Pick one!!!!
- (him visibly confused/amused) let's flip the coin?

LOL

This made me LOL! Me in my house every night!