My Libra Girlfriend is driving me Mental

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Hotorey
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Am Aquarius, she's a Libra. We've been together for about 7months now, with everything going smoothly, except a few hitches here and there, but we've always found a way to make up. But 2months now, she's acting too strange for me. He has this likeness for making money demands so much that I'm finding it hard to keep up with.

Issue got bad when I left the town where I met her at for a job in a different location, without telling her, a next town, and her sister got to know about it.

She got so angry at me, I had to come down to explain why I didn't tell her, because I was still hoping on coming back to start a job in the same town again, so I thought there was no need, and I also come in and out. She taxed me for money, I obliged, gave it to her for peace to reign.

Days later was my birthday, she didn't call me, or even a message throughout the day. I called her the next day to ask why, she said she forgot, that she had lots of things on her head. I was angry, she became angry at me to for being angry at her for forgetting my birthday. We didn't talk for two days. The next time she called me was to ask for money. I told her I didn't have, she later texted me that if I don't give her the money I should forget about her. I called her to smoothen things over. I gave her some money, it was incomplete, but there was no problem again.

Days later, I used her picture as my WhatsApp dp. She became angry, that I should take it down else we would have a big problem. I removed it to avoid problems with her, because she too don't use her pictures on social media.

Days later, I was in town, I called her so we can see, she told me she won't be seeing me because she was with her friend. I didn't make a fuss. Late in the night, she demanded I come to her house and get her food. I told her it was late, and that she should have told me during the day, when I called her. She won't have any of that, then said if I loved her as I claim, I will bring her money to eat. I didn't go, but gave her money the next day.

Things went back to normal.

Then yesterday I called her that I wanted coming to spend time with her. She emotionlessly told me it won't be possible, then disrespectfully slammed the phone on me. I didn't react. Later in the evening, she called me that she needed urgent money. I told her I don't have, now she's angry.

I honestly do not know how to manage this issue because I love her so much, but these her monetary demands is an issue. Want us getting married, but am afraid of how it will be in future with this habit.

Its now so bad that every time I call her, she's always placing one demand or the other, am now afraid of calling and communicating with her.

I once heard that Libran females are so dependable on their men when in a relationship, I never expected it to be like this.

Is this how Libra females take relationships, or make demands on their lovers? I want to know how I can deal with this issue because am lost here. Am 28, she's 23.
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Scenic
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To answer your question - no, it's not a libra thing.

Having trouble understanding why you're sticking around when she hasn't been respecting you or loving you. I guess some people stick around and get used because emotions, but that's kind of a dumb thing to do. What do you think is gunna happen when you tell her you're not giving her any more money? She isn't gunna stick around, because that's all she's getting out of the relationship right now. And, if you keep giving it to her, that will be all there is to the relationship.

What happened two months ago? Maybe she's started seeing other guys, doing drugs, mental health issues, who knows. But you know, there's always a possibility that serious stuff like this is going on without you knowing.

But, if you want to know how it'll be in the future, try saying no every single time she asks for money. You'll find out which is more important to her - the money, or you.
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What makes you think she is your girlfriend? I mean what "girlfriend" would want to have as little to do as possible with her SO? Ignore him completely ON HIS BIRTHDAY?

Do you know how women who offer sex and then ask you to pay them are called, right?

And are you "in love"? No silly, you are just having a reaction to justify yourself why you are REFUSING to accept that you are being played, that you are being disposable, and that you deserve a good relationship with a woman who actually wants to be with you.
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jane84
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Posted by FknNerd
Dump her and dont take her back when she comes crawling. But also watch out because she might try to murder you for your money like that one libra chick in that infamous vid where the cops knew she tried to kill her husband for his life insurance, but they let her act all innocent for the camera. Bro, you cant be this desperate for a girlfriend.
I thought she was a Pisces? But I remember that vid
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Sounds more like a Pisces
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Posted by tiziani
Posted by jane84
Posted by tiziani
Posted by FknNerd
Dump her and dont take her back when she comes crawling. But also watch out because she might try to murder you for your money like that one libra chick in that infamous vid where the cops knew she tried to kill her husband for his life insurance, but they let her act all innocent for the camera. Bro, you cant be this desperate for a girlfriend.
I thought she was a Pisces? But I remember that vid
Sounds more like a Pisces
We're biased though lol
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I'll admit to that... yup. Lol
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Posted by Hotorey
Am Aquarius, she's a Libra. We've been together for about 7months now, with everything going smoothly, except a few hitches here and there, but we've always found a way to make up. But 2months now, she's acting too strange for me. He has this likeness for making money demands so much that I'm finding it hard to keep up with.

Issue got bad when I left the town where I met her at for a job in a different location, without telling her, a next town, and her sister got to know about it.

She got so angry at me, I had to come down to explain why I didn't tell her, because I was still hoping on coming back to start a job in the same town again, so I thought there was no need, and I also come in and out. She taxed me for money, I obliged, gave it to her for peace to reign.

Days later was my birthday, she didn't call me, or even a message throughout the day. I called her the next day to ask why, she said she forgot, that she had lots of things on her head. I was angry, she became angry at me to for being angry at her for forgetting my birthday. We didn't talk for two days. The next time she called me was to ask for money. I told her I didn't have, she later texted me that if I don't give her the money I should forget about her. I called her to smoothen things over. I gave her some money, it was incomplete, but there was no problem again.

Days later, I used her picture as my WhatsApp dp. She became angry, that I should take it down else we would have a big problem. I removed it to avoid problems with her, because she too don't use her pictures on social media.

Days later, I was in town, I called her so we can see, she told me she won't be seeing me because she was with her friend. I didn't make a fuss. Late in the night, she demanded I come to her house and get her food. I told her it was late, and that she should have told me during the day, when I called her. She won't have any of that, then said if I loved her as I claim, I will bring her money to eat. I didn't go, but gave her money the next day.

Things went back to normal.

Then yesterday I called her that I wanted coming to spend time with her. She emotionlessly told me it won't be possible, then disrespectfully slammed the phone on me. I didn't react. Later in the evening, she called me that she needed urgent money. I told her I don't have, now she's angry.

I honestly do not know how to manage this issue because I love her so much, but these her monetary demands is an issue. Want us getting married, but am afraid of how it will be in future with this habit.

Its now so bad that every time I call her, she's always placing one demand or the other, am now afraid of calling and communicating with her.

I once heard that Libran females are so dependable on their men when in a relationship, I never expected it to be like this.

Is this how Libra females take relationships, or make demands on their lovers? I want to know how I can deal with this issue because am lost here. Am 28, she's 23.

What do you like about her? Why do you want to be with her?