First let me recap a bit for those who haven't read my other thread about this Libra. I'm a Gemini girl who has been seeing this Libra guy since early december, we met through a dating site and have only hung out together three times so far (because we were both out of town for the holidays) and have talked via text quite a bit, as well. I would say we still have a lot to learn about each other though. So my question is, how well do Libra men usually receive physical affection early on? We both have already clearly established that we are physically attracted to one another, he's given me compliments and I have done the same to him, and we have kissed. There hasn't been any "talk" of deeper feelings from either of us yet though, other than desire to spend more time together. For me, I really like this guy and I'm having a blast learning about him, little by little. Yesterday we hung out for awhile and watched a movie, I wanted to cuddle up to him so badly but I was nervous that such a move might freak him out. I'm naturally a very touchy feely person, when I like someone, but I'm kind of traumatized from my last relationship with a Cancer who usually wanted nothing to do my affections most of the time. So I'm always kind of hesitant to make a move first, though I really want to. Would it be a bad idea to try to get a little cuddling and hand holding going when Libra and I are together? lol
Would it be a bad idea to get some cuddling and hand holding? Short answer, hellz no!!! As a libra he'll be more hesitant at making the first moves then you but all the signs are there, you've both stated your affections for each other and you've kissed. So I say the next time you guys watch a movie slide on over and snuggle up 🙂 but ill warn ya, you may not end up watching the movie! Lol
Make the first move, hold his hand. If he's uncertain about how you feel, he could just be waiting for you to make a move. I'm the same way if someone is hesitant, but when I feel that its right from weighing our relationship i can be the initiator lol. You can also tell him you enjoy his company and just snuggle up to him while watching a movie, etc.
Thanks guys, good to know that Libra's usually aren't the initiators when it comes to this kind of thing. I came close to trying to snuggle last time, I leaned over next to him and was going to rest My head on his shoulder, but I accidentally like bumped my head into his shoulder instead somehow and just had a moment of awkwardness. He proceeded to sit there all chilled out, so I was kind of like ehh I don't know if this is too soon to be trying to snuggle etc. haha next time I'll just go for it and not be so clumsy.
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So my question is, how well do Libra men usually receive physical affection early on? We both have already clearly established that we are physically attracted to one another, he's given me compliments and I have done the same to him, and we have kissed. There hasn't been any "talk" of deeper feelings from either of us yet though, other than desire to spend more time together. For me, I really like this guy and I'm having a blast learning about him, little by little. Yesterday we hung out for awhile and watched a movie, I wanted to cuddle up to him so badly but I was nervous that such a move might freak him out.
I'm naturally a very touchy feely person, when I like someone, but I'm kind of traumatized from my last relationship with a Cancer who usually wanted nothing to do my affections most of the time. So I'm always kind of hesitant to make a move first, though I really want to. Would it be a bad idea to try to get a little cuddling and hand holding going when Libra and I are together? lol