Pisces and libra relationships

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Im a pisces man, I got out of the dating game 15 years ago, I got sick of all the games. Ive never been happier than Ive been as a single man.

For a few months now, Ive had a libra woman flirting with me, atleast I believe she has been flirting with me. She shares personal stories, shows me pictures of her family, I constantly catch her staring at me then quickly looking away. She works at a gas station and on more than 1 occasion Ive witnessed her literally run to the cash register so she can be the one to help me. A week ago she made sure to let me know she was going to break up with her boyfriend. I take all these actions to mean that she is interested in me.

I think she is very pretty, smart and charming. We get along pretty well and share many of the same interests.

Im pretty sure she is interested, but being out of the game for so long, I wonder if I am missreading her intentions.

My questions are:

1. I know libras are huge flirts. How far will a libra go with flirting if shes not interested in anything but friendship?

2. Are Pisces and Libra a good match? If she is interested, how good of a relationship can libra and pisces have? Are there any libras/pisces on here that are willing to share their relationship stories?
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1. I know libras are huge flirts. How far will a libra go with flirting if shes not interested in anything but friendship? Libras are huge flirts, yes but once we mature that flirting will only be for the man/woman we're interested in. I'm very reserved, I don't even waste my time with small talk if I'm not interested. How old is she? The fact that she's sharing her personal life with you is an indicator that she wants more than friendship. At least that's how I am.

2. Are Pisces and Libra a good match? If she is interested, how good of a relationship can libra and pisces have? Are there any libras/pisces on here that are willing to share their relationship stories? I've never dated a Pisces man but I've seen it IRL. Personally Water + Air has never worked out for me. I'd wait for the other leebs' input though.
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I've never dated a Libra female but have been friends with a few, in fact one is still a very good friend of mine since past 7 years.

I can say from my view of friendships, they're easy to get along with, can hold a conversation with you and won't get bored of chit chats.

Now how are they in a relationship depends on all other placements like moon, mars and venus.

I'd suggest if you're so into her then ask her out, go on a date and see how it turns out. At best you get an intimate relationship with a good woman, at worst you get an experience.
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@Queenofthepheasantfairies you'd like to help him..

Just tell the girl you like her, that's always the easiest way😁

You Libras making it simple since eternity. 😆

Lol. If only Libra lived by keeping things simple
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Oh you guys make it easy for others.

For you yourself, I prefer not to speak. 😉
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Okay, my first husband was a Pisces and when we met we were seeing stars we fell so madly in love with each other. He moved me in his apartment within a month and 6 months later we were married and honeymooned at Niagra Falls. I was young and lazy at the time and he was doing all the work. Soon he started cheating on me, then I started cheating and it was over in 1-1/2 years we were divorced. We were too young to be married. We had a lot of fun together and he was one of the most poetic, romantic men I've ever met. I'll always have love for him. I really like Pisces people period.
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Thanks for the responses.

I asked her out we've been on 2 dates now and I have been hanging out with her at/after work! She's smart and fun, I really like her but I don't see us going anywhere. I think I'm a little to rough around the edges for her and she is a little to fancy for me. I don't think im going to pursue anything more than friendship with this one. It's been alot of fun though!

That said, we get along very well, I enjoy her company, I think she enjoys my company, I'm going to go with the flow and see what comes of it. Might be my future ex girlfriend lol
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Okay but… did she break up with her boyfriend yet? The one she told you about at the beginning of the original post? I feel people are skimming over the important detail. 😂

Btw both signs are romantic and artistic (not strong in practical affairs like staying grounded), and direction isn’t strong due to water and air, correct. They are both passive energies as a whole. To float with no expectations would be nice, but libra has expectations usually and pisces don’t understand what they want in the present let alone in the future (or past!). 😅
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Posted by sweethearts there you go wishy washy 🙄


An update?

I know it, I am wishy-washy lol.

We were getting pretty close very fast, I friend zoned her, I just couldn't go farther that fast. That might change in the future, let's see what happens.

I like my single life and would like to keep it, but companionship is nice too. She is awesome in her own right, beautiful smart charming, very driven and one of the hardest workers I've met in a long time. I still see her almost everyday, she is becoming one of my best friends. The more I get to know her the more I like her. If I wasn't so stubborn I'd take it to the next level. I could so easily fall in love with her but I've learned to control my emotions, for the most part, over the years. I know I hurt her feelings but she still requests my company, and I oblige her. She tests me to see what I'm willing to do for her, she tests my loyalty, she's checking me out and I'm doing the same with her.



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I had a Pisces guy friend growing up. I loved him as a friend. Still do, but we have our own families to think about now.

Once he asked me, “Why didn’t I ever fall for you? Why didn’t I ever ask you out?” while pondering why he chased after crazy girls and not me. I said, “Because I wouldn’t have let you anyway. I never wanted to lose you as a friend.” I was totally fine with just being his friend. He was a great one. That was it and we never talked about that again.

I seriously never saw a future with him. We were too different. He was sooooo low key and I was too business minded. He messed around with way more people than I ever would have also, but he didn’t even look like a guy who wanted that life. He looked like a guy who wanted a family.

A Leo finally locked him down and she’s been the boss in that relationship ever since. Lol
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She did break up with her boyfriend. Someone WILL come sweep this lady off her feet, she's classy and has alot of admirers, I probably will regret losing her romanticly but will probably end up with a good friend in the end. Maybe I'll get off my butt and snag her up and make her mine.... I dunno... I'm an indecisive Pisces after all.

We have a 13 year age gap, this bothers me.

She is very driven, going to college and working towards making herself into something... I don't want to slow her down or hold her back.
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Posted by Mtnboy

She did break up with her boyfriend. Someone WILL come sweep this lady off her feet, she's classy and has alot of admirers, I probably will regret losing her romanticly but will probably end up with a good friend in the end. Maybe I'll get off my butt and snag her up and make her mine.... I dunno... I'm an indecisive Pisces after all.

We have a 13 year age gap, this bothers me.

She is very driven, going to college and working towards making herself into something... I don't want to slow her down or hold her back.


How old are you? I understand in the US you attend studies and getting your degrees late but I’m still thinking she’s around 30?? If you’re only 17-20 then keep stepping and stop wasting this ladys time.

In fact, she’s probably not even interested in anything real with you and you’re misguided.
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I've never been as happy as when I'm single and wasn't looking for a relationship when all this started.

I might sound immature here online, but I'm pretty successful and have quite a bit to offer and lots of good things going for me. I do like to travel and ride quads and dirt bikes, and I do play hard most weekends. If that makes me immature then so be it.

My chart is full of aqua, sag, Gemini and libra. That might explain why we get along so well.
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The "7 year itch" is usually what ended my past relationships, maybe I just always pick the wrong women, heck, I dunno.

Me and this cute libra were moving to fast for my liking, good hell I've already met her whole family.

I've been totally honest with her, she knows she's friend zoned.

What does she want from me?

That was the first question I asked myself at the beginning of this. And now I still sit here wondering, what does she want from me?

We do get along very well share same interests and hobbies. We just clicked and get along, maybe she doesn't want anything and actually is interested. Anyway I've been reading more about libra women, I know she won't wait around for long. I watch her at work and every man that walks through the door flirts with her, lol. It makes me laugh, she's cute and friendly.
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Also, tonight I noticed a change in demeanor with her. She in her way got rid of me for the rest of the night! That's ok. The friends thing changed everything, I think I did hurt her a little. Like I said before though, I don't want to hold her back, she's a go-getter and is out there accomplishing her dreams and I don't want to interfere with that. She awesome, she's going to make a good friend. I'm going to chill and go with the flow, let's see what the future brings.
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The whole friends zone thing, didn't really work the way I thought it would, ill explain. I'm starting to understand her alot more, she is taking her time and actually getting to know me. I don't think she will jump into bed with anyone, she is on no hurry, she's checking to make sure I'm good relationship material. And by becoming her friend, I'm actually becoming relationship material, and vise versa. Im the same way too, I like to take my time and get to know someone before I become attached. Friends zone did the exact opposite of what I expected.

I decided to not let the age gap bother me anymore, I don't care what anyone thinks. I had her sister ask what my intent was with her sister lol. I didn't know what to say. It's going to be some work, but I'll get over it. Me and her sister get along well.

I noticed she started saying "we" and "us" alot. "We" are planning some upcoming trips, I'm excited.

Basically, old wishy washy here, changed his mind again, your not surprised are you?

I'm going to try to sweep this young lady off her feet before someone else does, like was recommended by someone on this thread!







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Posted by Mtnboy

I've never been as happy as when I'm single and wasn't looking for a relationship when all this started.

I might sound immature here online, but I'm pretty successful and have quite a bit to offer and lots of good things going for me. I do like to travel and ride quads and dirt bikes, and I do play hard most weekends. If that makes me immature then so be it.

My chart is full of aqua, sag, Gemini and libra. That might explain why we get along so well.


You could have everything to offer, the moon and stars, doesn't mean a damn thing if you are indecisive about actually putting it on offer.

If you want to be single then fair play. Just be upfront with her.

She's made it pretty clear she wants to be more than friends. Engaging further with her may send the wrong message. Step lightly.
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Posted by Mtnboy

I've never been as happy as when I'm single and wasn't looking for a relationship when all this started.

I might sound immature here online, but I'm pretty successful and have quite a bit to offer and lots of good things going for me. I do like to travel and ride quads and dirt bikes, and I do play hard most weekends. If that makes me immature then so be it.

My chart is full of aqua, sag, Gemini and libra. That might explain why we get along so well.

You could have everything to offer, the moon and stars, doesn't mean a damn thing if you are indecisive about actually putting it on offer.

If you want to be single then fair play. Just be upfront with her.

She's made it pretty clear she wants to be more than friends. Engaging further with her may send the wrong message. Step lightly.
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I have been totally honest with her. 2 weeks ago she told me she loves me, it caught me off guard but I reciprocated the feeling back to her. She gave me a month to decide what I want to do. She told me if she doesn't hear back from me she's moving on. She also said she wants me to chase her. I haven't spoke to her for 2 weeks, So tomorrow without warning I'm going to her work and see if she will let me take her to lunch. I decided I want to give it a try with her, I think the good outweighs the bad and some companionship will be nice. I hope it works out honestly.

As a side note, we finally ran our synastry. It came back surprisingly well. The only reason I mention it is because we sat and messed around with the birth times and when we go half an hour earlier or later it totally changes to mostly bad. Venus is in the first house.