Update from the Libra Pisces Story

I like to deal with my problems alone. If I'm surrounded by people who would try to give me advice or 'help' without me asking, then I would close off even more. If I don't leave a situation and spend some alone time, the process of getting over what's causing me issues will be delayed.

You're not in a relationship with him, correct? If I was in a really stressful place in life and I had a potential love interest, any time I would think of them I would probably become more stressed. Thinking about starting something new with someone while I have so many other issues to deal with is not ideal for me. I would only see more issues until I really got my shit together. Not saying this is what your pisces thinks. But I suppose it's always a possibility. I think having a male opinion would be better on this issue, though.

If you can't handle the disappearing then maybe you should look elsewhere. It seems many signs stereotypically have those that like to disappear when they have issues, though.

Pisces and Libra doesnt work. Thats what is boils down to. Move along now.

Posted by LibWman

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
Pisces and Libra doesnt work. Thats what is boils down to. Move along now.

Actually I find a lot of places/people say libra and Pisces can work quite well. Everyone has their differences.

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Those places/People are wrong

Posted by tiziani

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
Pisces and Libra doesnt work. Thats what is boils down to. Move along now.

Damn Thirsty

First

The fish needs to say,

"Something ain't right about this

Camel ride -

And I'm

Feeling so damn

Thirsty."

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So deep.
If you replace fish with scales you have the truest words ever spoken on dxp! 😛

I'm glad I came across this..

I can tell you, I understand him. And you too.

You said closing off everyone when dealing with a bad period in life is the last thing you would do: well, you're both different then. You expect him to be like you, (probably) stepping out to others when you're having a bad time.
But there are people who can't handle others when they're feeling very bad. This can be out of trust issues or, in my case, feeling like you're the one who has to fix others, not the other way around. Which takes (a lot of) energy.

I can tell you it hurts very bad to lose people who don't understand this.
I've been in situations where I felt worse than ever and lots of people wanted to help me, while I politely said no thanks because I needed time for myself - leaving them thinking I was an asshole for not appreciating their help.

So, if he says it's nothing personal when he doesn't want to talk to you, believe him. Not everyone is the same, or like you. I understand you may think that, not judging 😉

Now reading through the posts and seeing some people said the exact same thing in a much clearer shorter way. I'm so bad at telling shit.

Posted by RoseAngel

It is as if I have fallen off the end of the world the way I am reacting. I can barely deal with myself let alone others. I don't want to go out or do things or see people or talk to people. I just dont feel like me. I am embarrassed in a way by what has happened to me: I lost my job. I am rudderless and worried and dont know what to do and in a way dont want people to see me like this.

Pffff I recognise this, that's me.
It makes you feel stuck, doesn't it?