I was talking to this Libra guy, he was really sweet, nice, I like hanging out with him, but he wanted to have sex. I haven't done anything in a year and a half plus, so I want to wait until I am in love. I am a sag btw. He told me that friends with benefits could lead to a relationship but I am not going for that. So he told me that he couldn't give me what I was looking for Love, that he wanted love to come to him. He told me that he wanted to remain friends because I was a really cool, chill person. So my question is when a Libra makes up his mind that you are just friends, is that set in stone? I don't think I can be his friend, I like him to much, and there isn't very many guys that I have a real interest in. Should I just leave him alone?
Question to Libra men?

There's one two people I know that are Libra males on here. Good luck in your adventures.

Posted by Mic2016See how he dangled a relationship in front of your nose like a carrot in order to get what he wants, SEX. When you stand firm he calls it quits cause he needs to get his dick wet, and if your not gonna put out he's gonna move onto girls who will.
He told me that friends with benefits could lead to a relationship but I am not going for that. So he told me that he couldn't give me what I was looking for Love

This guy is full of bullshit.
Forget him.
Forget him.

Posted by Mic2016
Should I just leave him alone?
Imma leave him alone point, blank, period! Thanks everyone! :-)
I was suffering with Libra man same way.. I can say I still like him

Posted by sagiluvPlease disregard this, OP. You know exactly what the guy is looking for and it's not favorable to you in any way, shape, or form. Those suffering from beaten wife syndrome shouldn't be taken seriously in the advice department.
I'm sag dating a libra man. In my experience I begin to date him but we knew each other for a very long time, when it came time to be intimate we both enjoyed it, in my case I catch feelings with intimacy. & I did. I told him how I felt & soon enough he confessed the same feelings for me. He reminds me on a daily basis that he truly loves me. I was very patient with this man because he was very unpredictable in the beginning. With time I understood him & now I feel that were progressing every day. Relationships are not ever perfect but it's perfect to us, because we work on it daily. In your case, I'm not sure your libras intentions but in my case intimacy did lead to a stronger relationship to both of us, every relationship varies. I recommend in your case, hanging out, getting to know him, notice his actions towards you, if you don't feel prepared don't rush into sex, time will tell you if this libra deserves you! Your time your effort your feelings ect. .. His actions will tell you if he worth your while. In my case mine has been & yes libra men must be handled with care & must be understood at all times, they require tons of love & patience.....tons!!! But once they are in love with you it's pretty damn amazing especially for us the sag/libra combo.
I mean really, your dude clearly stated what he wanted and she's still "not sure" what his intentions are. It makes my eyes bleed when women are so fucking stupid like this and refuse to see what's obviously in front of them. Good for you for acknowledging total bullshit and choosing to drop it. A guy can be painfully forward about his intentions and some stupid twats STILL don't get it. It's pretty damned sad and pathetic that they're that hard up for a dick.

Posted by NaturallyAmazing how that works, isn't it?
I went on a few dates with a libra he seem like a gentleman, but he slightly switched up wen I said we couldnt go back to his house
I had a similar experience. All was fine and dandy until sex was denied. Then it was psychotic behavior.
It's amazing how manipulative some guys are when it comes to their dicks. It must be a sad existence to revolve your life around an appendage.

Posted by sagiluvPosted by rockyroadicecreamGet on with your bitter self ... Please!Posted by sagiluvPlease disregard this, OP. You know exactly what the guy is looking for and it's not favorable to you in any way, shape, or form. Those suffering from beaten wife syndrome shouldn't be taken seriously in the advice department.
I'm sag dating a libra man. In my experience I begin to date him but we knew each other for a very long time, when it came time to be intimate we both enjoyed it, in my case I catch feelings with intimacy. & I did. I told him how I felt & soon enough he confessed the same feelings for me. He reminds me on a daily basis that he truly loves me. I was very patient with this man because he was very unpredictable in the beginning. With time I understood him & now I feel that were progressing every day. Relationships are not ever perfect but it's perfect to us, because we work on it daily. In your case, I'm not sure your libras intentions but in my case intimacy did lead to a stronger relationship to both of us, every relationship varies. I recommend in your case, hanging out, getting to know him, notice his actions towards you, if you don't feel prepared don't rush into sex, time will tell you if this libra deserves you! Your time your effort your feelings ect. .. His actions will tell you if he worth your while. In my case mine has been & yes libra men must be handled with care & must be understood at all times, they require tons of love & patience.....tons!!! But once they are in love with you it's pretty damn amazing especially for us the sag/libra combo.
I mean really, your dude clearly stated what he wanted and she's still "not sure" what his intentions are. It makes my eyes bleed when women are so fucking stupid like this and refuse to see what's obviously in front of them. Good for you for acknowledging total bullshit and choosing to drop it. A guy can be painfully forward about his intentions and some stupid twats STILL don't get it. It's pretty damned sad and pathetic that they're that hard up for a dick.
Stop acting like a libra savvy you know nothing. & stop repeating yourself over & over like a broken record! Learn a new phrase please the "beaten wife syndrome" is getting old.... Let's find you some new ones —?
Sorry but I'm over the negative repetitiveness in your messages... Knowing a few libras doesn't mean anything!!!
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Why? It describes you every time you post here because that's what you are.

As a wise / lucid Sag once said: Libra men are not relationship material. Now you know.

Posted by YuyaExcuse me, but you need to get some manners and start your own thread. Piggy backing on someone else's thread for advice is rude.
Hi, I'm a virgo girl,I've hanged out lately with a libra man who seemed to like me alot and everything went really well, after the date we did chat a bit during the night but the day after he didnt send me any message but usually he does , and so i sent him a message but he was vey cold to me and then didn't reply at all, and the day after it was the same.it's been only 3 days but we used to talk everyday I don't know what to think , and I don't know if I did anything wrong, why is he becoming so cold , is he just considering the situation or something like that?

Posted by LibrasettingThis is retarded.
Look I'm a Libra man and too me it's a test too see if you're faithful to yourself and aren't a slutty whore! And this is how we work you even typed it out yourself without even realizing it.....he wants love to come to him this translate to i want you to want me!!! You need to let him know that you want him!...you have to remember we are ruled by Venus..we are very protective of our hearts...just like you woman it's really not that hard to understand us you put too much thought into it and make it more complicated then it really is.
YOU are retarded.
"Testing" is what immature twat monkeys do.

Posted by Librasetting
Look I'm a Libra man and too me it's a test too see if you're faithful to yourself and aren't a slutty whore! And this is how we work you even typed it out yourself without even realizing it.....he wants love to come to him this translate to i want you to want me!!! You need to let him know that you want him!...you have to remember we are ruled by Venus..we are very protective of our hearts...just like you woman it's really not that hard to understand us you put too much thought into it and make it more complicated then it really is.
I must say I never trust people who want to test me. For my taste they have little IQ and EQ. Maybe because of not aspected Neptune.
I mean my presence offers enough information to be processed, why don't they start with that?

For me anybody who comes with a statement directly about labels: marriage, relationship, FWB and like has either low IQ and EQ or they plan to abuse another human being without getting bad conscience.
All the socially and emotionally intelligent people know how to get what they truely need. By that I mean love, friendship and companionship. This is why you see often losers are using others. And top people go for King-Queen partnerships.
All the socially and emotionally intelligent people know how to get what they truely need. By that I mean love, friendship and companionship. This is why you see often losers are using others. And top people go for King-Queen partnerships.

I had a similar experience with a libra. He wanted to have sex before committing to a more serious relationship. He even said he doesn't know how to get serious until we are intimate. It was almost like he wanted to test the waters before deciding if I was worthy.
But I really wasn't sexually attracted to him at all. He was an awful kisser (the worst ever) which means he definitely would have been terrible in bed too. Plus he was a cry baby when he didn't get his way so I ended it.
But I really wasn't sexually attracted to him at all. He was an awful kisser (the worst ever) which means he definitely would have been terrible in bed too. Plus he was a cry baby when he didn't get his way so I ended it.
Posted by Mic2016I'm detecting you're a liar. He didn't tell you "friends with benefits could lead to a relationship". That makes it hard to believe your entire story. I know how much people lie on here to get others to tell them what they want to hear.
I was talking to this Libra guy, he was really sweet, nice, I like hanging out with him, but he wanted to have sex. I haven't done anything in a year and a half plus, so I want to wait until I am in love. I am a sag btw. He told me that friends with benefits could lead to a relationship but I am not going for that. So he told me that he couldn't give me what I was looking for Love, that he wanted love to come to him. He told me that he wanted to remain friends because I was a really cool, chill person. So my question is when a Libra makes up his mind that you are just friends, is that set in stone? I don't think I can be his friend, I like him to much, and there isn't very many guys that I have a real interest in. Should I just leave him alone?
Yes leave the guy alone. Lol. You don't have to make a fabricated story. Just leave.
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