Emilyk1991
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Should I believe him & what he promises ?
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d everyone, story time!
Posted by Emilyk1991
This Libra male is in an off and on relationship with another girl, I started talking to him for a month he got back with his girlfriend & still continued to talk to me
That's a rough start. Question!!! Are you the 'other woman' or is she? Okay so commitment may be a problem for this guy... how does he treat woman?Posted by Emilyk1991
he likes me and cant believe he still is talkin to me after 6 months because he gets bored with girls easily.
That's not a good sign. So, what do you think the problem is?Posted by Emilyk1991
I just have trust issues
Oh, so you think he may actually be a good guy and the problem is with you? What does he say about that?
Posted by Emilyk1991
[he]tells me not to trust him hes a dog
Wow, so he admits being a player who gets bored of a girl in justa few months and moves on to the next. He also admits to being an untrustworthy dog (his words not mine)... how did you feel about that?Posted by Emilyk1991
i felt like he was no good for me and we wern't going anywhere
Yeah and you said you did this several times too. Breaking up and getting back together. Each time you end it again because you believePosted by Emilyk1991
hes stringing ME along
Yeah that story sucks. Good for you for breaking it off with him though.
Wait what?
....
you have a question?
Go Ahead.
Posted by Emilyk1991
Should I trust in his wordclick to expand
Looks legit to me...
I just want someone to look at the overall picture & not the negative, hes so confusing.
Ok then...
Big picture
There's someone else out there who will be just as charming, just as funny, and make you feel just as good when you're with him BUT he won't cheat, intentionally break your trust, play games.
Big picture
He is testing you to see how much you are going to let him get away with.
That answer by itself is not bad. If someone new to me asked how they knew they could trust me I'd tell them they don't know. They are going to have to take a chance on me and find out for themselves that I am trustworthy. HOWEVER he has already told you that he is not.
Big picture
There's someone else out there who will be just as charming, just as funny, and make you feel just as good when you're with him BUT he won't cheat, intentionally break your trust, play games.
Big picture
He is testing you to see how much you are going to let him get away with.
Posted by Emilyk1991
I ask him again how do I know what you say is real & he told me you dont know you'll have to find out, if you choose to stick around.
That answer by itself is not bad. If someone new to me asked how they knew they could trust me I'd tell them they don't know. They are going to have to take a chance on me and find out for themselves that I am trustworthy. HOWEVER he has already told you that he is not.
Sorry, started rushing to post so I could go home lol. All I have to go on is that first post up there. Of course those few sentences aren't the whole story but they're all I got. Based on those few sentences... No do not trust him. I have a feeling you're just looking for someone to justify his behavior though.
NO! ...DON'T TRUST HIM!
Okay, first i wana let you know i understand your frustration with this libra man. I've only dated one libra man, and when i met him he told me he and his gf were going through an on and off stage, and that he COULD go back to her IF he wanted to, but he didnt have to. I asked how long were they together before they began this on-off spell, when he told me 2 yrs that was enough for me to lock up all deep emotions. Whipe out all thoughts off us being a personal item, because chances are he could go back to her at any given time. Still he said he had sooo much fun with me. loved being around me, even entertained thoughts of giving a relationship with me a chance. It felt good to hear him say those things, but i didnt get my hopes up, i just enjoyed spending time with him. I appreciated his honesty, and all that other mess was irrelevant until he showed me in action.Which in the end, he wound up going back to give her a chance.We're still good friends. and I wasnt hurt because i listened to him.I heeded his silent warnings. Im telling you this because, when a libra (male or female) lets it be known they are in a relationship, whether they are happy or not the relationship obviously means something to them,and chances are they are still hanging onto it. And judging on how indecisive we libra's can be it can take AGES before we make a descion on whether we want to stay or go, and if we TRULY love the person it may take even longer. You seem like a nice girl, so my advice is to back off! And fast before you get hurt. This libra WILL hurt you, if he hasn't already. And the sad part is,he will act innocent when you confront him about it, he'll prolly say "I dont know what your talking about? What did i do?" and you'll prolly want to wring his no good neck. But before you do, be sure to wring your own neck first. Because if you go back and listen, HE WARNED YOU! A lesson your mom should've taught you, " IF A MAN SHOWS YOU WHO THEY ARE, BELIEVE THEM!" open your eyes girlie. GOOD LUCK =)
I asked him if I was still his baby and he said obv and i said I dont feel like your baby & he said because I'm crazy & im always telling him I dont want to talk to him or have sex with him and be hurt when we both know Im not going anywhere. (which is true) We set rules for eachother. I told him to just be real with me, & dont play with my head intentionally, also dont be confusing. He said ok & he told me to stop trippin so much. I came across his gf facebook & saw her say "Love you" to him & he said "Luh you" to her & I got mad and annoyed & texted him saying "You love your girlfriend, dont talk to me anymore. Have a good life" ... He has always told me he doesnt have me hostage theres no gun to my head & if I dont want him to talk to me anymore tell him & he wouldnt bother me again. I regret ending it like that, & I'm so mad at myself because usually when I break it off with him he comes back & I dont think hes gonna come back. What do you think about the situation ? =/
I feel sorry for the girlfriend jeeze
Posted by amethyst2002
He's a player and you're an idiot. *facepalm*
For the first time, i agree with her.
I mean damn girl, did u even read ONE sentence i wrote...lol. You should've and maybe you wouldnt look like a homewrecking sideline chick that he THINKS he has wrapped around his finger. Which in my opinion he does. NO! Thats not good. I dont mean to sound harsh, but maybe you need it to be given to you hard and straight, i know i do sometimes. So here it goes...NO MAN WANTS A WOMAN HE CAN WALK ALL OVER...You have to show him you mean buisness. Hince i said SHOW HIM you mean buisness, NOT tell him just because you went on fb and saw some shit, now you mad and you wana be done AT THAT MOMENT, i mean look at you, he has even responded and already you going soft. If you are not careful, this man is going to use your sympathy and your love for him, against you. He KNOWS that HE IS your weakness. That is not good. And how the hell you gone get mad becuz HIS gf told HER boyfriend (NOT YOURS!) that she loves him, and he told HIS gf that HE loves her back. HE'S...NOT...YOURS..! So you need to be ready to see this type of stuff all the time. Sad thing is, he will be back. But he wont be back for the right reasons. He'll be back to finish what he started, (IF YOU LET HIM)...and when i say finish what he started i mean he'll be back to milk you for everything he can,and i dont mean materialistic i mean emotionally and mentally, and THEN he will be FINISHED! And you WILL be heartbroken. because he will be done with you. And libras can be pretty cold when they are like him, because he sounds young. He will drop out of your life and you wont know what hit you, you will NEVER even see it coming. I mean hey, look on the bright side, at least he wont be breaking any of your rules...he wont be doing it "intentionally" no no, they're much too "nice" for that.lol
I'm here to update you on the Libra, well I did tell him to not talk tome anymore & to have a good life. Then I fell back & ended up talking to him again. I was acting way to over emotional with him & I'm not so emotionaly attached anymore but I do still like him. I told him I miss the way things use to be since he started acting distant with me & he agreed. Everytime I mess something up he always say "Its cool" but he doesnt seem "cool" after. I told him it seemed like he didnt wan tme and was pushing me away & he said because I dont show emotions. We both have decided we still do want to see eachother and hangout but he told me things WILL happen if we do. I told him we shouldnt because our emotional and mental connection is not balanced out & I dont want us to be based on sex & he said were not it doesnt have to be strictly sexual. Im pretty much stuck where I was before =/. We have a a strong sexual connection he admitted to it also. I keep Re-thinking about what he said before & since I'm not so much attached or gettin my hopes up about anything maybe I should just enjoy the ride if it lasts. He said he doesnt hit and run if the sex is good he keeps hittin it (Im not plannin on having sex with him anytime soon TRUST ME) he said he wouldnt leave me (which he hasnt I've always been the one to leave, hes went cold on me for maybe a week but has never ended it), he said that hes not a lil boy and doesnt need to mess with a girls head to have sex. He doesnt tell girls what they want to hear he tells them what he wants but I cant trust him hes a dog ? But he said what have I told you that sounded like I was playin you ? He said that there will be a time we are together and hes not tryna wife me yet and he said there would be a time or he wouldnt waste his time and its my choice to decide to stay or go. He said hes not a lil boy and if it was just a sexual connecttion I wouldnt have lasted this long. & everytime I bring up his girl with a sly comment and be like "I dont think your girl would be down with that" he gets mad ? like he doesnt say it but when we talk and I bring her up he acts different.
I... just don't even know what to say. -_-
Ughhhh -_________- Im sorry, me either ...
Dzzzaaaaaaaaaaayuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuum. Wow. Mamaz, I know that I'm not in any position to chastise anybody cause my stuff is dang sure far from perfect but... Wow.
As a person who has been in a crazy relationship w/a libra for a while now and who sometimes needs guidance herself I don't mean to sound like a hypocrite here, but maybe its easier to give someone advice when you are on the outside, looking in, and not in the situation directly, so, here it goes:
"I'm here to update you on the Libra, well I did tell him to not talk tome anymore & to have a good life. Then I fell back & ended up talking to him again"
- By doing that, (saying what YOUR GONNA DO, all TALK zero ACTION) your just making him take you as a big fat JOKE. So now the next time that he does some bullshit your gonna threaten him and he's gonna laugh at you (maybe not to your face) and he's gonna say to himself "Yeah, right." Take it from me, you'd get a waaaay better reaction by just skipping past the threats and giving him the good ol silent treatment instead of just telling him some bs to get a REACTION out of him. Let you silence be your sword girl.
"I was acting way to over emotional with him & I'm not so emotionaly attached anymore but I do still like him."
-hmmmm, I have such a hard time believe that you are "not so emotionally attached anymore" this fast loveyyy, but okay
"Everytime I mess something up"
-tell me EAXCTLY HOW? do you mess things up? Because thats a trick my Libra ALWAYS pulls... Its always me me me and then im stuck trying to be the bigger person apologizing for some bullshit that I know in my heart I didnt do wrong. Eff that dont fall into that trap. HE'S the one two timing, yet he tries to make it seem like your all drama? Typical Libra, Typical Player, they stir up the bull yet claim so religiously they want "no drama." ugh.
"I told him it seemed like he didnt wan tme and was pushing me away & he said because I dont show emotions."
-AGAIN, something he's doing that he's made your fault. Don't believe his petty words, believe in his actions. If he's pushing you away, then he's pushing you away. Nothing more or less.
As a person who has been in a crazy relationship w/a libra for a while now and who sometimes needs guidance herself I don't mean to sound like a hypocrite here, but maybe its easier to give someone advice when you are on the outside, looking in, and not in the situation directly, so, here it goes:
"I'm here to update you on the Libra, well I did tell him to not talk tome anymore & to have a good life. Then I fell back & ended up talking to him again"
- By doing that, (saying what YOUR GONNA DO, all TALK zero ACTION) your just making him take you as a big fat JOKE. So now the next time that he does some bullshit your gonna threaten him and he's gonna laugh at you (maybe not to your face) and he's gonna say to himself "Yeah, right." Take it from me, you'd get a waaaay better reaction by just skipping past the threats and giving him the good ol silent treatment instead of just telling him some bs to get a REACTION out of him. Let you silence be your sword girl.
"I was acting way to over emotional with him & I'm not so emotionaly attached anymore but I do still like him."
-hmmmm, I have such a hard time believe that you are "not so emotionally attached anymore" this fast loveyyy, but okay
"Everytime I mess something up"
-tell me EAXCTLY HOW? do you mess things up? Because thats a trick my Libra ALWAYS pulls... Its always me me me and then im stuck trying to be the bigger person apologizing for some bullshit that I know in my heart I didnt do wrong. Eff that dont fall into that trap. HE'S the one two timing, yet he tries to make it seem like your all drama? Typical Libra, Typical Player, they stir up the bull yet claim so religiously they want "no drama." ugh.
"I told him it seemed like he didnt wan tme and was pushing me away & he said because I dont show emotions."
-AGAIN, something he's doing that he's made your fault. Don't believe his petty words, believe in his actions. If he's pushing you away, then he's pushing you away. Nothing more or less.
"We both have decided we still do want to see eachother and hangout but he told me things WILL happen if we do. I told him we shouldnt because our emotional and mental connection is not balanced out & I dont want us to be based on sex & he said were not it doesnt have to be strictly sexual. Im pretty much stuck where I was before =/. We have a a strong sexual connection he admitted to it also."
-Ugghhh . This whole damn paragraph made me mad. I mean, if u wanna have sex with the guy then by all means do you but How you gone let HIM tell YOU what "will" happen? You need to tell him hell no instead of "umm geee, maybe we shouldn't". At least make sure he knows he ain't in control when it comes to THAT.. your body is a temple....
"maybe I should just enjoy the ride if it lasts."
-Please love, we all know it will not and cannot be that casual at least not on your part. You really dig this guy. I mean you HAVE to right? You've let him treat you like this.....
"He said he doesnt hit and run if the sex is good he keeps hittin it"
-Wow. Can we say ASS. lol Hey, least he's honest....................(not)
-Ugghhh . This whole damn paragraph made me mad. I mean, if u wanna have sex with the guy then by all means do you but How you gone let HIM tell YOU what "will" happen? You need to tell him hell no instead of "umm geee, maybe we shouldn't". At least make sure he knows he ain't in control when it comes to THAT.. your body is a temple....
"maybe I should just enjoy the ride if it lasts."
-Please love, we all know it will not and cannot be that casual at least not on your part. You really dig this guy. I mean you HAVE to right? You've let him treat you like this.....
"He said he doesnt hit and run if the sex is good he keeps hittin it"
-Wow. Can we say ASS. lol Hey, least he's honest....................(not)
"(Im not plannin on having sex with him anytime soon TRUST ME)"
-Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay🙂
"he said he wouldnt leave me (which he hasnt I've always been the one to leave, hes went cold on me for maybe a week but has never ended it)"
-Please dont feel too special. He may have never left but think about it. What does he have to lose? He's the man right now. Kickin it back, relaxin, got TWO broads (maybe more) YOUR the one in the down position not him. Maybe THATS why he never left. hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....
"he said that hes not a lil boy and doesnt need to mess with a girls head to have sex. He doesnt tell girls what they want to hear he tells them what he wants but I cant trust him hes a dog ?"
-That, my friend, sounds like a whole bunch of bull to me. In fact, sounds like he's MESSING WITH YOUR HEAD!!!
"But he said what have I told you that sounded like I was playin you ?"
-Really?
"He said that there will be a time we are together and hes not tryna wife me yet and he said there would be a time or he wouldnt waste his time and its my choice to decide to stay or go."
-Why not now? You willin to be his saftey net until he decide otherwise? YOUR putting yourself in this position noone else.... smh
"& everytime I bring up his girl with a sly comment and be like "I dont think your girl would be down with that" he gets mad ? like he doesnt say it but when we talk and I bring her up he acts different."
-Why the question mark? You dont expect him to get mad?? Thats immature. You bringing her up. Truth be told there shouldnt even be another "her" 😢
I just want to always have him in my life, I dont want to be commited right now maybe in the future but not now, before I was scared of him hurting me but now I am good with just friends with benefits hopefully bestfriends with benefits with time ( Im a virgin I'm not gonna let him take something away from me when I know I cant get it back its gonna be a whileeeeeee if he wants to hit this). I just want to enjoy his company and hope for more in the future at the right time. Im not planning on having sex with him & if we hangout more maybe we will build a better long time bond & maybe eventually something will happen. What is there really to lose ? Am I missing something ? I love him as a person I just dont want to lose him.
And, Like someone else said.. I do feel for that other chica because she is the one true victim here. Think about her, and if you cant think about her, think about YOU. If she leaves him and then YOU become Mrs. do you really think he wouldnt do the same to you?
Hey, Artisa.. Nefer —'s you!!
type this: The & (ampersand) symbol.. then the word "hearts" (no quotes though) ..and then end it with a ; (semicolon) symbol
Put it all together, like one word. Voila!
Put it all together, like one word. Voila!
*back lol
♥
He is an ass, but I cant get over him =/. I dont know how someone can be so shallow but I STILL love them as a person.
Pssshhhhh I know how, Trust me.................
They dont say love is blind for no reason...............
They dont say love is blind for no reason...............
OMG.lol. im so done. I knew you were gon fall right back in. And your a virgin...i'll bet everything thats the REAL reason you lasted this long...he's jus marinating his time (the little time he does give, anyway) i say that because, ask yourself this
1. Has he taken you on a date yet?
2. Does he call on a regular?
3. Why does he get mad when you bring up ole girl? (WAIT i know the answer to this one: Its because in his mind you supposed to play your role "Sideline bimbo with no brain, and no questions" basically his puppet. (Not saying you are but i can BET that what he thinks)
With all this being said, he is NEVER gona wife you. I can promise you that, because you are okay with him having one girl and you, its like a code that signals men that you dont respect yourself enough to demand better or walk away. Think about it, i bet if you bossed up told his ass to kick rocks let him see you being a bomb diva out here and other guys were flocking to you, he'd start to second guess his self and he'd be the one needing advice and trynah see whats up. MARK MY WORDS.With men like him you have teach him how you want him to treat you or else he'll give you whatever he wants, and it will be a "take it or leave it" type of situation. (Sound familiar) " Im not trying to wife you right now, its your choice to stay or to leave" In so many words this is what your saying he told you...Sounds like a "take it or leave it" thing to me...SMH... =/
1. Has he taken you on a date yet?
2. Does he call on a regular?
3. Why does he get mad when you bring up ole girl? (WAIT i know the answer to this one: Its because in his mind you supposed to play your role "Sideline bimbo with no brain, and no questions" basically his puppet. (Not saying you are but i can BET that what he thinks)
With all this being said, he is NEVER gona wife you. I can promise you that, because you are okay with him having one girl and you, its like a code that signals men that you dont respect yourself enough to demand better or walk away. Think about it, i bet if you bossed up told his ass to kick rocks let him see you being a bomb diva out here and other guys were flocking to you, he'd start to second guess his self and he'd be the one needing advice and trynah see whats up. MARK MY WORDS.With men like him you have teach him how you want him to treat you or else he'll give you whatever he wants, and it will be a "take it or leave it" type of situation. (Sound familiar) " Im not trying to wife you right now, its your choice to stay or to leave" In so many words this is what your saying he told you...Sounds like a "take it or leave it" thing to me...SMH... =/
Posted by pinklibra
OMG.lol. im so done. I knew you were gon fall right back in. And your a virgin...i'll bet everything thats the REAL reason you lasted this long...he's jus marinating his time (the little time he does give, anyway) i say that because, ask yourself this
1. Has he taken you on a date yet?
2. Does he call on a regular?
3. Why does he get mad when you bring up ole girl? (WAIT i know the answer to this one: Its because in his mind you supposed to play your role "Sideline bimbo with no brain, and no questions" basically his puppet. (Not saying you are but i can BET that what he thinks)
With all this being said, he is NEVER gona wife you. I can promise you that, because you are okay with him having one girl and you, its like a code that signals men that you dont respect yourself enough to demand better or walk away. Think about it, i bet if you bossed up told his ass to kick rocks let him see you being a bomb diva out here and other guys were flocking to you, he'd start to second guess his self and he'd be the one needing advice and trynah see whats up. MARK MY WORDS.With men like him you have teach him how you want him to treat you or else he'll give you whatever he wants, and it will be a "take it or leave it" type of situation. (Sound familiar) " Im not trying to wife you right now, its your choice to stay or to leave" In so many words this is what your saying he told you...Sounds like a "take it or leave it" thing to me...SMH... =/
Yup, Spoken perfectly. But im not gone lie I feel bad for her .. shes stuck. But your right . Hope she can take your advice and just walk away.
I said this "Clearly you dont want me bad enough & with that said you dont deserve anything from me. Im going to give another man a chance who's worth my time and wants me bad enough & isnt afraid to show it. Im better than this."
Did I do good ? lol
Did I do good ? lol
Monica - Sideline Hoe ... I'm gonna listen to this everytime I feel like I'm gonna go back >.
Welll, one can't really judge if you did good our not by what you say it's all about what you do I told you that. I think you would have done much better not saying anything at all. So....just be strong do what you got to do .
I want to ask you this... What do you think he would do if his girl found out about yu two? You dont think that he would drop you like last weeks shoes? Ever ask him that?
Noo I never asked him that because I never wanted to know the answer =/
I know hes gonna be back though, idk what Im gonna do -_____-
He wasnt taken when I first met him, if he was I wouldnt have even talked to him. Its waaaaay more complicated then you think Im only given you the main points. & its not a blame me game so dont even try to say I dont deserve anything. I didnt waste 7 months on him for nothin, I actualy really liked him.
Maybe if you were me, you would undestand ... but instead you judge.
I read your other posts. He was single. Told you he was in an on-again-off-again relationship.... Then when you guys were on a break he got back with his girl or something like that if I remember correctly right? What does that tell u about this dude? Granted I can kinda see where you comin from I mean you were already invested in this guy BEFORE he was with this girl but still. He freakin just upped and got back with this broad and then thought he could keep you two? pssshhh ! Bullshit! lol
Lol yea, well I gave him a peice of my mind when he did that & he never responded then a week or two went by & I told him I just wanted to be friends (Sine we only were talking for about a month & I wasn't so attached) & well he didnt respond back so I moved on & he contacted me saying he changed his number and he just saw my texts from his old phone (Total lie) but then he started talking with his charm and I fell for him even more & thats how it pretty much started. Yes I know I'm dumb for it all but ... -_______-
Hes my first Libra man experience & I'm staying away from them for now on. Or I'll be prepared for the next one who strolls along in my life.
Girl, This boy is two kinds of crazy. So he aint even respond to you? Then YOU had to hit him up..... He's...something else lol.... Ever ask him why he can't just be mature, be real, be the bigger man and not a dog?
Do you know his gf?
Posted by Emilyk1991
Hes my first Libra man experience & I'm staying away from them for now on. Or I'll be prepared for the next one who strolls along in my life.
Haha.. They can actually be lovely if you find the right one... Sometimes hehe
I dont know why hes so scared, its pathetic I've alway had to be the one to say "Since you wont end it I will" & he comes back like nothing happend saying "You know I wouldn't let you stop talking to me that easy" -___- ... About his girlfriend idk her personaly but I have seen her Facebook, she thinks he the best boyfriend she ever had smh but shes also a Libra.
Hmmm.. well... even if he STARTED OUT single with you.. NOW he is splitting his time and attention between TWO women.. so if my math is correct, that means you have HALF a man there. You really wanna go through all of this for HALF a man? To sell yourself THIS short and end up with a guy who will take your virginity.. and likely repeat his pattern and start chatting up ANOTHER girl while you're together? So you'd get to FEEL what it's like to be the "other woman" AND then "cheated girlfriend".. by this HALF man?
I'd upgrade to a whole one.. they're much nicer and more satisfying. 😉
I'd upgrade to a whole one.. they're much nicer and more satisfying. 😉
Nefer I understand COMPLETELY now lol
Yes he deff has issues, thats kind of what intrigued me more about him. I wanted to know his life story, I wanted to sort of fix his unhappiness because hes deff not happy ... not with his relatinonsip but just with himself, sort of a cry for help lol.
Posted by Emilyk1991
I dont know why hes so scared, its pathetic I've alway had to be the one to say "Since you wont end it I will" & he comes back like nothing happend saying "You know I wouldn't let you stop talking to me that easy" -___- ... About his girlfriend idk her personaly but I have seen her Facebook, she thinks he the best boyfriend she ever had smh but shes also a Libra.
Well, hon.. he's SHOWING YOU what kind of "boyfriend" he is.. even to a girl he's obviously "committed" to (at least, that's what he TELLS her).. you shake your head cuz she's so blind and foolish, has NO IDEA her Libra man is dogging her out and juggling another girl and telling her he WILL take her virginity. He's already PLANNING to straight up physically cheat this girlfriend of his.. and he's been emotionally cheating her the whole time he's been juggling YOU too!
So tell me.. what makes you think he'd treat YOU any better, even if he leaves this girl and commits to you? YOU know he doesn't honor his commitments, you're seeing it in action.. and HE knows you know.. and in his eyes.. that makes you the kind of girl he can get away with walking all over. He already is.. and you already are taking all of his bullshit. He's SHOWING you what he's about, what he's like, what he does to women... and YOU'RE showing him that's cool with you, cuz you're still there.
Pick up the pieces of your heart, hold your head high, and cut this clown loose. If you want ANY chance of making this guy realize that YOU are the awesome woman he wants to (faithfully?) be with, you will have to SHOW him that you won't accept less and that you're worth more. Cuz all he sees now is a doormat, a sexy conquest, a chick who says no no no go away, but then keeps giving in cuz she's weak where he's concerned. And he will TAKE ADVANTAGE of that, and he WILL "keep hitting that" as long as he wants to (or you allow him to).. but he will never, ever fall in love with you for it.. because you aren't showing him you feel WORTHY of being loved and honored... and YOU know YOU better than anyone else does.. and if YOU don't feel you're worth more.. then obviously you aren't, so why give more to someone who accepts less?
Reaaal harsh King of Libra, unnecessary. You dont KNOW me. You only know ONE of my problems in my life so just stop or go bring your negative, shallow comments somewhere else. You are suppose to be here to HELP not be rude & bitter.
I understand now Nefer, I ended it FOR GOOD last night & told him I was worth more.
Posted by THEKingofLibra
Sideline Hoe.. rofl
Well when you are 18-25, can you really expect to be in a long term relationship? On the other hand if someone doesn't even give you the straight answer then that person has issues. Its not like there are 2 kinds of people in this world - cheaters and noncheater, its that all people can be either one of those at any given time.
But yeah for all this talk about guys being dogs, girls cheat much more often than guys.
Nope, KoL.. I agree with you.. 18-25's rarely if ever build lasting, solid relationships. Early relationships are for learning, so you're (theoretically haha) better prepared for your later ones. But it's NOT too much to expect that if you're going to commit to someone, don't cheat. If you aren't ready to settle down (even in a 'young' relationship).. don't commit. Nope, not too much to ask.
And DUDE.. who said women don't cheat? Of course they cheat (I really couldn't say which cheats 'more', guys or girls) - both genders, all signs, anyone can be a cheater. But in THIS sad little tale.. we're discussing the guy who IS emotionally cheating, playing another girl, and planning to sleep with her.. while he has a "committed girlfriend".. so.. umm.. yeah, that's a cheating dog. Who knows, though -- maybe HIS Libra girlfriend cheats her ass off too, even while they're making all these public lovey-dovey kissy posts to each other on FB. *shrug* But since the guy SHE'S theoretically sneaking around with isn't here posting about it and revealing her cheating ass... all we can say for sure is the THIS Libra guy is shady and a cheat.
And my hands feel.. dirty. -__-
Posted by Emilyk1991
Yes he deff has issues, thats kind of what intrigued me more about him. I wanted to know his life story, I wanted to sort of fix his unhappiness because hes deff not happy ... not with his relatinonsip but just with himself, sort of a cry for help lol.
And as harsh (as usual) as KoL's answer was...
OMG EMILY, WTF?!!?
You want to FIX this man?? That's NOT your job.. PLUS, it's IMPOSSIBLE! You can't FIX him!
Upgrade to a non-fixer-upper WHOLE man... leave this broken, unfixable HALF man by the road!
Besides, he probably doesn't think he's broken, you know. Cuz no matter how "unhappy" you think he is.. he's clearly not "unhappy" enough to do anything about it. Plus.. he's got TWO women all up on him, yeah buddy. One's his "main girl" with the FBO status for the world to see.. and the other's the "sideline secret".. the sexy virgin he plans to "break in" cuz she's too weak to stand up for herself. haha.. no, I bet he's not "unhappy" at all.. but if he can make YOU think he's sooo sad and unhappy.. well, you obviously feel bad for him and bend over backwards to try "making him happy".. that's some real powerful ego-stroking there.. no, I doubt he's unhappy at all. I think he likes this little "deal" he's got going on, this deal that is to HIS advantage more than it is to BOTH you girls combined!
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