Should I believe him & what he promises ? (Page 4)

7 years later, still never heard it.
I might get the occasional "you're cute" or some shizzzz like that. But that's about it.

There's never been a discussion like 99 things I love about you. (Except for that adorable letter he wrote me back in highschool with stick figures and what not.)

Pshh that's some "bitch" talk 😛 😛 😛

Posted by Freetobe007
Emily, what I had to say is not worthless. You're just saying all that because it's true and you don't want to just accept reality. 🙂 Maybe if you would stop acting like an over sensitive, emotional 14 year old girl and at least pretend that you have a pair then this wouldn't be such an issue for you!! Seriously, get some thicker skin!!!

Lmfao OK whatever. Lets agree to disagree because you dont get my point and to me you dont even have a point, SO either stop whatever your tyring to get across or get off MY thread. I'm not gonna say something I have repeated again 142 times. If you want to argue go re-read my post we had between eachother and argue by yourself.

Posted by Emilyk1991

Posted by Freetobe007
Emily, what I had to say is not worthless. You're just saying all that because it's true and you don't want to just accept reality. 🙂 Maybe if you would stop acting like an over sensitive, emotional 14 year old girl and at least pretend that you have a pair then this wouldn't be such an issue for you!! Seriously, get some thicker skin!!!

Lmfao OK whatever. Lets agree to disagree because you dont get my point and to me you dont even have a point, SO either stop whatever your tyring to get across or get off MY thread. I'm not gonna say something I have repeated again 142 times. If you want to argue go re-read my post we had between eachother and argue by yourself.

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that is all

Itsa Sag thing

Lol def a Sag thing, get with it or get lost. If I dont care for something I dont care. Its not like I dont have a conscience or cant face facts I just DONT CARE. The stuff I do care about I care for but if I dont I dont.

Posted by amethyst2002
If you don't care so much stop effing bringing it up. Sheit.

Lol, Im done with it, shes the one that brought it up. I was all fine & dandy... if she saw I wasnt talkin about it anymore she shouldnt have brought it up.

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Posted by brianafay
Itsa Sag thing

Sags are cuddly

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-_- only you lol

Posted by amethyst2002
Kitty on a titty

Haha where do you guys be finding these pictures

Give him your ALL!!! I know, I'm goin to hell. 😄

I always put people before me, the one time I dont it makes me a selfish person ? & to me I dont think I should be judged or talked at any kind of way. If you wanted to help me you shouldn't have came out in a negative tone (which you did you even admitted to it) since my problem is GONE I dont think I should be lectured on something when theres plenty of other pages people can read that dont offfend them (like it did me) because someone was being rude. Being rude does not help anything, it only pushes them away. People have already gave me advice on my situation & I got thier point because they didnt go & judge me and disrespect me ... dont even say you wern't disrespecting me because you were. Just like Nefer said she came off as a cookiemonster to you and you became all defensive. Same with me, If you cant come on here and talk to me MATURE instead of sayin I did this & I'm a that. Other people who seemed like they wanted to help I took there input into consideration. If you say something to me IM GOING TO SAY SOMETHING BACK. Thats YOUR choice to not add fire to the fuel I honestly could careless if I do. I dont know you, you dont know me. I think its worthless two cents because the situation WAS OVER, I dont know how you were helping. Trying to make me feel guilty ? YES. I do think you wre but it didnt work. You just said what everybody else said before you in a bitchy way & thats why I came off bitchy to you.

Lmao nooo, I wasnt talking to you I was talking to FreeToBe, sorry for the confusion. I know what I did was wrong & I learned from it I completely understand. Humans make mistakes its apart of life thats why I just dont judge. You either learn the hard way or easy way, its my choice of what decision I made. I came on here for help not be judged you know? I know you guys arn't therapist but I think you should know what to do and what not to do when someone asks you for advice.

For example:

A student goes to his teacher and asks how to raise his grade up ( D- ) form last term . The teacher doesn't lecture the student about the grade its done and over with ... the Teacher might go "Your grade is bad, why didnt you come to me before earlier?" ... the techer then shows the student a way to get his grade up. Not "YOUR A BAD KID, YOU ARE DUMB, WHY DIDNT YOU DO YOUR HOMEWORK ?!, YOUR GOING TO STAY BACK!" Lol see what I mean ?

Posted by Nefer

Lies are my big thing.. I can't STAND them.. all along, I told him not to tell those bs little lies, like I need my feelings "protected"?? Not me.. give me the TRUTH, marker!.. and waited to see if he would adjust the behavior that was making it so hard for me to TRUST him. He says he'd never lie about big stuff (like cheating).. I say.. if you'd LIE about who you treetrunked while we were broken up.. how can I TRUST you'd tell the truth about bigger stuff?? Little lies, big truths? Does not compute!

And so I realized right then.. I can't go on with my trust wiped out, I'd become someone even *I* would hate..

Posted by Gemini70

It's not that I didn't like him,I didn't like ME. I've been never like that. And it bothered me.I wanted my own self back.

Nefer,sorry to hear that.I felt the same way when I broke up with my Libra.He did come back. I'll quote him:
"Please, love me.I need your help.I had your mind, and I lost it. I want it back.Stay with me,and you will be in heaven,I promise."

As you said, it's hard to rebuild the trust. It's not going to happen over night.He has to prove what he says first. Otherwise it's just words... And I'm not ready yet,too.

Emilyk1991,my advice for you. No, don't believe what he promises... Believe on his acts,not on his words.I have nothing to add,Nefer said everything.

Thanks again Nefer

Posted by Freetobe007
omfg Emily, I truly, sincerely really don't give a f u c k. I don't care about your little unnecessary explanations about yourself like how you need to keep arguing until someone sees your point (btw you can't force someone to see things the way you do) or how you put everyone before you. I could care less if you think I'm a b i t c h just because you can't handle the reality I gave you. I. don't. care. You can't even say I'm immature and act like you're mature because you keep coming back here to say something so that you can get the last word. Over an argument that you have said is stupid and not worth fighting over. Yeah, that's real mature! I didn't come up here trying to disrespect you and talk you into guilt. I gave my honest opinion. You just didn't want to hear it because it's true. I can see that you're genuinely not that smart. First of all, the ridiculous idiocy of your situation and now you're up here repeating the exact same things over and over in different words as if you truly believe you look smart saying it! 😄 We're not all impressed by your amazing ability to debate (because it doesn't exist from what I've seen lol)...you just look stubborn and bratty! It's annoying. point blank! You're really not all that b i t c h y...but okay, I'll pretend you are if it makes you feel better lol So...on that note,you can keep talking but I'm not going to be around here to comment because like I said idgaf. I'll let you have the last word so you can shut up about the situation. I would say sorry for coming off as a rude b i t c h if you weren't such a pain in the ass 🙂

Sorry you wasted your time.

OMG.. 18, 19 year old Fire chicks! Wheeeeeeeeee! 😄

Seriously.. think we can shake hands now? Or should I get the fire hose?

IT RUBS THE LOTION ON ITS SKIN, OR ELSE IT GETS THE HOSE AGAIN! haha

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Posted by Emilyk1991
Lmao nooo, I wasnt talking to you I was talking to FreeToBe, sorry for the confusion. I know what I did was wrong & I learned from it I completely understand. Humans make mistakes its apart of life thats why I just dont judge. You either learn the hard way or easy way, its my choice of what decision I made. I came on here for help not be judged you know? I know you guys arn't therapist but I think you should know what to do and what not to do when someone asks you for advice.

For example:

A student goes to his teacher and asks how to raise his grade up ( D- ) form last term . The teacher doesn't lecture the student about the grade its done and over with ... the Teacher might go "Your grade is bad, why didnt you come to me before earlier?" ... the techer then shows the student a way to get his grade up. Not "YOUR A BAD KID, YOU ARE DUMB, WHY DIDNT YOU DO YOUR HOMEWORK ?!, YOUR GOING TO STAY BACK!" Lol see what I mean ?

my apologies i have her on
ignore...

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Lmao, I dont blame you -________-

Posted by Freetobe007
I didn't waste my time. I'm sure some girl will come along and see this and need a dose of reality in the not so nice way so that she'll wake up and pay attention! So therefor, I didn't waste my time with my answer 🙂 Arguing with you wasn't a waste of time because I ultimately shut that s h i t down!! 🙂

....lol! ok I'm really not a bizzatch! I only started arguing with you because I was bored and it was hella entertaining! Drama is entertaining! why do you think shows like "If you really knew me..." and "Intervention" get the highest ratings!? I'm actually a sweetheart believe it or not haha! I'm so sweet and cuddly and nice that after this argument, you truly would believe I had multiple personalities if you got to know me! Sorry for offending you! I really didn't mean to come off as a judgmental bizzatch that's trying to talk you into a guilt trip. I was just expressing my opinion...with a bit of fiestiness...I mean I guess I did kinda...sorta ...maybe just a little bit...kind of rub things in your face :/ I know that doesn't feel good, so sorry!

I didnt need a reality check,I solved the problem before hand & didnt need your unessacary comments but ok.

"I only started arguing with you because I was bored and it was hella entertaining! Drama is entertaining!"

That shows you wern't trying to help at all, so you have no point.

"I mean I guess I did kinda...sorta ...maybe just a little bit...kind of rub things in your face :/ I know that doesn't feel good, so sorry!"

Still shows you wern't helping but I accept your apology.

It was a waste of time & energy, clearly.

& you probaly are a nice person, you cant know someones life story over a computer.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
The clattering of keys doesn't expel that much energy does it though ?🙂

I mean wasted energy of arguing, but my hands did cramp a lil =/

Okay, I wish you both would shut the he'll up. Damn. The argument is beginning to get redundant, you both are posting the same things over and over again and it doesn't even sound intelligent anymore. Seriously fire ladies just let it goooooooooooooooooooo lol

*Hell

Sorry the iPad autocorrects unneeded shit... Grrrrrrrr lol

Libra contacted me today, I ignored him 🙂

Posted by Emilyk1991
Libra contacted me today, I ignored him 🙂

🙂