@spica
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How do you get a Lib/Sco to make a move?
How to Encourage a Libra or Scorpio to Make a Move
To inspire a Libra or Scorpio to take action, show genuine interest and create a comfortable environment. Be patient and express your feelings honestly without pressure. Building trust and understanding their emotional cues can motivate them to make the first move naturally.
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Move. Not movie.
He's set the stage, pictorially and journalistically. But it doesn't mean anything; only in his dreams.
Posted by THEKingofLibra
I meant move, it came out weird. Hey its 3 am I don't even know who is typing. Everyone checked out a while ago.
Ah then forget it. I thought I'd throw this here. This place teems with mutant Libras...
I'm not sure if all of yous are as drama mama as the one I speak of.
Thanks for being candid. So will these thoughts never end? Mind you my Lib Sco is exhibitionist; he keeps an online journal and invited me to read it so I know his thoughts. It's almost like he only writes stuff and doesn't act 😄. And that cow for free is na in this
Posted by everevolvingepithet
If it's a fox, just pat it on the nose while it eats the bait.
Or pounce on it/chase it ?
Maybe something like this? 🙂
Not funny😢.
On a side note, epithet, I predict you'll get off your peterpan pedestal at around 47 yrs, not bad🙂. And I'm quite accurate when I try to predict 😄
Sorry I meant 37 yrs
Oh yeah, thanks for both your honesty. So apart from these primary questions, nothing else? I mean, it's just the beginning of everything. The tip of the iceberg.. Imaginings, ponderings and such.
Posted by THEKingofLibra
Spica whats with the anal beads avatar? Post your story/chart and whats the real question here.. are you saying your milk is not free?
lmao I'm not that exhibitionistic. I don't post my chart because I already know how to interpret it 😉. It's you beginners who need to so people can help you interpret them.. Those are bag charms by the way. And my story is so long I could write half a book yet... :p
Posted by everevolvingepithet
I was just about to say ! 17 years is a bit much...I don't want to be one of those dodgy old lotharios in leather pants and a ponytail, fuck that.
It's mancore syndrome too, fwiw. 🙂
Lmao, I think you're the most peterpanish of the peterpans. I feel sorry for the fishes you unwittingly hooked before your line is ready 😉
Posted by everevolvingepithet
If it's a fox, just pat it on the nose while it eats the bait.
Or pounce on it/chase it ?
Maybe something like this? 🙂Not funny😢.
On a side note, epithet, I predict you'll get off your peterpan pedestal at around 47 yrs, not bad🙂. And I'm quite accurate when I try to predict 😄My bad. Why not funny ? I thought it kinda was.
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it's just not funny. And it took a long time to load.
Posted by THEKingofLibra
Spica whats with the anal beads avatar? Post your story/chart and whats the real question here.. are you saying your milk is not free?lmao I'm not that exhibitionistic. I don't post my chart because I already know how to interpret it 😉. It's you beginners who need to so people can help you interpret them.. Those are bag charms by the way. And my story is so long I could write half a book yet... :p
I don't know what 90% of that post is about, but basically you telling me you can't summarize your problem in 2 sentences?
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Yeah I thought my original post was 2 sentences. That's basically my problem, for now. Nothing else🙂
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Ah right.
It was either that or Monkey vs Tiger. Would that have be more to the lady's liking ?
Or was it just the loading up ?
I don't think I'm that childish, it's just hard to keep in mind I'm supposed to be old and stuffy at 30.
I've always blossomed late though, seriously. If that helps.
dude trust moi on this. I specialize in Lib scos (haha!). You'll def be ready to coupleup by that time and you don't know what you've missed 🙂. As for my little Lib, I hope in 2 yes he will start learning to open his mouth and speak 😄
Posted by everevolvingepithet
OK you've lost me a bit on that one.
Elaborate please oh wise astro lady.
So what have I missed ?
Who's da organ grinder ?
Dude I'm not sure, but I understand how Libs are traditionally late bloomers, ESP those with Saturn conj sun. So by that time you'll not be trying to flee like a fox who's come across a poison dart!
Posted by everevolvingepithet
So now someone's trying to sedate me ?
Damn, and the morning was going so well !
U c my point right ?
I'm tired of eating crow !
fox and the grapes?
By the way check out Randy pausch. I was reading a book of his and realized he was a mutant libra!
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Oooh, birthday twins !!🙂
Thanks for that, looks interesting 🙂
Yeah he's passed away in 2008. Not saying it'll happen with you, but that guy did way too many things in his life, and his wife is a virgo!
Posted by everevolvingepithet
lol@ mutant Libra.
there ain't no better term! 😉
fox and the grapes?
I thought that rang a bell !
Cheeky 🙂
there ain't no cheek in that. I'm not sure where the crows came from!
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Eating crow is an expression in the vein of 'humble pie' but I like it more 🙂
Meh, not everyone gets the colloquiallism. What if it *gasps* gets misinterpreted along the line? It'll be literary disaster (!)
I'm on my phone. It's hard enuf to type with fingerpads as it is ! But you made a point!!
spica why not just make a move yourself if you want him that bad?
Posted by everevolvingepithet
shit, rapper
Lmao, you old fashioned technophobe you 🙂. I gotta admit dxp is more squinty and irritating to use on these :p
Posted by brianafay
spica why not just make a move yourself if you want him that bad?
lmao, you put words in my mouth. I don't want him THAT bad. I can wait for the right time. Plus, he needs to wear the pants. I don't want him to be my lady again 😄. And don't worry, this isn't new to me !
Posted by everevolvingepithet
^ Now that's some jjiivvee turkey talking right there ! 😛😛
yes I am also going to run away though !🙂
(Sunny day, exercise these legs a bit really 🙂)
Menalwayswearthepantstheyjustlikesharingsometimes!
Ate you awake 24hrs? 😛. Na, I'll gladly wait for that cat to come home again. He's showing strong hints already. Just hints that really shouldn't be misinterpreted again.. Since there are multiple meanings ! Lib scos and their subtle implications :p
Are= ate fwiw !
Now pigeon, stop hiding a schlap under an innocuous fowlish term. I'm not here to be vilified juz because your own kind wants a buffet!
Lol wow you're really defensive. In case you aren't aware
How could I possibly know the background to the story when you never gave it?
If he has done this before....what exactly are you asking then?
I don't get it.
Posted by brianafay
Lol wow you're really defensive. In case you aren't aware
ok sorry! And you are too forward 😛. I bet you drag your Lib by the ear.. Or some other body part 😛. Jkjk 😛
Posted by brianafay
How could I possibly know the background to the story when you never gave it?
If he has done this before....what exactly are you asking then?I don't get it.
that's why, I didn't write anything at all. I'm just asking about my Libs weird behavior. I think they answered mr in the first page 😛. Thanks for your interest though 😛
What I was trying to suggest is that you can't *make* a Lib/Scorp, or any man for that matter, make a move... (not insulting your intelligence, helping you rationalize)
If he's not making a move there are two reasons...one, he's doesn't want to. Plain and simple. (Which according you you probably isn't the case if he's done this before.) Or two, he's hesitant out of some sort of fear or concern in his own mind.
If you really want him, which you clearly do, or you would not have created this thread... I stick by my intial advice and suggest making a move yourself so he knows he's in the clear.
Posted by brianafay
Lol wow you're really defensive. In case you aren't awareok sorry! And you are too forward 😛. I bet you drag your Lib by the ear.. Or some other body part 😛. Jkjk 😛
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you're turned on huh?
down girl. 😛
Posted by brianafay
What I was trying to suggest is that you can't *make* a Lib/Scorp, or any man for that matter, make a move... (not insulting your intelligence, helping you rationalize)
If he's not making a move there are two reasons...one, he's doesn't want to. Plain and simple. (Which according you you probably isn't the case if he's done this before.) Or two, he's hesitant out of some sort of fear or concern in his own mind.If you really want him, which you clearly do, or you would not have created this thread... I stick by my intial advice and suggest making a move yourself so he knows he's in the clear.
thanks for your advice. 🙂 but I have already decided what I will do!! As I already mentioned, I know what is going on, so don't worry! Plus, humes aren't objects. You can't get them just because you want them fir whatever reason. The best way is to move forward in the same direction!
Posted by brianafay
Lol wow you're really defensive. In case you aren't awareok sorry! And you are too forward 😛. I bet you drag your Lib by the ear.. Or some other body part 😛. Jkjk 😛
you're turned on huh?
down girl. 😛
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Heard that phrase too often perhaps? And no, you.
Posted by brianafay
What I was trying to suggest is that you can't *make* a Lib/Scorp, or any man for that matter, make a move... (not insulting your intelligence, helping you rationalize)
If he's not making a move there are two reasons...one, he's doesn't want to. Plain and simple. (Which according you you probably isn't the case if he's done this before.) Or two, he's hesitant out of some sort of fear or concern in his own mind.If you really want him, which you clearly do, or you would not have created this thread... I stick by my intial advice and suggest making a move yourself so he knows he's in the clear.
thanks for your advice. 🙂 but I have already decided what I will do!! As I already mentioned, I know what is going on, so don't worry! Plus, humes aren't objects. You can't get them just because you want them fir whatever reason. The best way is to move forward in the same direction!
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Whatever suits you. 🙂
Posted by spica
Now pigeon, stop hiding a schlap under an innocuous fowlish term. I'm not here to be vilified juz because your own kind wants a buffet!A buffet ?
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sorry, buffet like wanting a cake and eating it too? Red carpet treatment anyone?
And it's dried prune juice lmao (jokin')
Posted by everevolvingepithet
^ Now that's some jjiivvee turkey talking right there ! 😛😛
yes I am also going to run away though !🙂
(Sunny day, exercise these legs a bit really 🙂)
Menalwayswearthepantstheyjustlikesharingsometimes!Ate you awake 24hrs? 😛. Na, I'll gladly wait for that cat to come home again. He's showing strong hints already. Just hints that really shouldn't be misinterpreted again.. Since there are multiple meanings ! Lib scos and their subtle implications :p
No.Usually about 16 hours a day.
I thought women liked subtle, until they go "nah, I want direct!"click to expand
dude, one has to shift -or evolve- with the times and stages. Being slim shady will only create a mirage, as Plato so aptly says in a cave! Now I bet you will know what I'm talking about!! 😛
No idea on those. Music players?
Ok what I meant was being subtle and evasive, is hiding triple innuendoes in words and expressions may be advantageous as multiple exit routes, but it is as a mirage because the intent is diffused through misinterpretation. Sort of like the analogy of shadows being cast in the cave- they aren't real, just phantasms of multi thoughforms. That was to your comment on subtle to direct!
And do elaborate on the musical references if u will 😛
Posted by brianafay
Lol wow you're really defensive. In case you aren't awareok sorry! And you are too forward 😛. I bet you drag your Lib by the ear.. Or some other body part 😛. Jkjk 😛
you're turned on huh?
down girl. 😛
Heard that phrase too often perhaps? And no, you.
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mreow.
I like this chick haha
Posted by brianafay
Lol wow you're really defensive. In case you aren't awareok sorry! And you are too forward 😛. I bet you drag your Lib by the ear.. Or some other body part 😛. Jkjk 😛
you're turned on huh?
down girl. 😛
Heard that phrase too often perhaps? And no, you.
mreow.
I like this chick haha
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😛😛
Posted by everevolvingepithet
"Sort of like the analogy of shadows being cast in the cave- they aren't real, just phantasms of multi thoughforms. That was to your comment on subtle to direct!"
I thought you meant shadows cast on caves !
But then I thought is she being like really smart like a question within a question or something ?
Which in turn kinda backs up your point, ha.🙂🙂
Like the organ grinder/monkey reference ?
Well, the organ grinder is the one that's the top of the chain so to speak, the monkeys could be various right ?
So if I was to speak to the organ grinder, I'm talking to the source, can ya dig ? 🙂
Good call on the multiple meanings as exit routes, I'm kinda guilty of that sometimes without realising, other times it's to try and create some stimulation and intrigue as to the persons answer (in a nice way) 🙂
Sh!t, I don't understand the organ grinder thing 😢 can you talk layman please? I dont want to misconstrue your words and then make up some witty line that stems from a wrog interpretation. 😛
And yes, stimulation and intrigue indeed 😛 The Plato thing is a short passage on how prisoners are tied up facing the cave wall, and they don't see the light. So when lights shine on them, they only see their shadow, and they think it is reality, when it is not. This is like the subtle triple/ quadruple innuendoes that can make a person think something is intended when nothing really is 😛
Posted by spica
Instead of waiting in the shadows like a fox who has put out his bait?
How do you get a mutant libra to speak or do action without manipulating that Beest?they are selfish, why you want to deal with a selfish who hides as a fake angel. they are FAKE. libran men are, so are scorpio men, its all APPEARANCE.
find saggi bf aquarius. fuck the libra. he is a selfish person and no he will never give u anything back, if that is what u think. ask a guy on here, none of them, starting from the cheated librasid. he is a fake. he did something and i know what he did, so i can tell you, they show a FAKE face, they are all fakes. so are taureans too, look at them in here, its the same in real life. they do stuff to please themselves and tell themselves they are good. but the truth is they arent good. a real good person, wants nothing back and gives no matter she/he encounters ungrateful bastards. she/he doesnt even complain until he she decides that she/he's done with helping them.
brianafay doesnt know that her bf is USING her.
people argue to please some bastards. why—
i dont get it, its actually really stupid i believe!!! why i cant have a good man like me— am a good girl. i want a truly good man. not a fake bastard. so now am gonna go with a good aquarius man.
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I pray you find a suitable man for yourself. You deserve the best! 🙂
Is that huckabees? I watched it long ago, and my motto was "I hate huckabees" 😛 Pseudo philosophy 😛
Posted by M
You would make that your motto...
You just can't handle my infinite nature :p
Everyone is infinite, not only you.. so take off your superiority cloak 😛
what happens when you stand in a meadow at dusk?
is this a trick question?
you have no shadow?
Posted by oldskoolflavor
see..
that 3rd decan libra lied about seeing someone..
I was effing pissed, didn't get much sleep that night,
had decided to go cold on her..(till I found out it was a lie 😄)
Duude, that is a Lib/Sco tactic, see I can't pull it off. He did, though.. my usual self let go.. and, HE was pissed 🙂
He did presume I was seeing someone else though.. his presumption, and there's no backing nor facts in it.
And no, not moving to GF status.. just speaking directly to me instead of going through 3rd parties and public announcements 😄
Posted by THEKingofLibra
I meant move, it came out weird. Hey its 3 am I don't even know who is typing. Everyone checked out a while ago.Ah then forget it. I thought I'd throw this here. This place teems with mutant Libras...
I'm not sure if all of yous are as drama mama as the one I speak of.drama makes a situation more spicy, spicachu..
what do you mean by make a move ?
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He wants ME to make the move, always.. I refuse to budge. I'll let his hints all come out.. I can wait! 😄
Yes, HE is the Drama King! Cusp of Criticism and Drama?
Posted by amethyst2002
If you want a Libra/Scorp guy to make a move, tell them you're gonna fuck them. That'll make them move pretty quickly.Fun~ney!
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Shh, I never listen to such advice. They're guaranteed to do you in!
Posted by amethyst2002
If you want a Libra/Scorp guy to make a move, tell them you're gonna fuck them. That'll make them move pretty quickly.Fun~ney!
Shh, I never listen to such advice. They're guaranteed to do you in!
Good morning Spica! 🙂You know, I know that does not work, it takes waaaaay more than that. I'm a 3rd decan. But it was humorous and I had to admit that! Good morning Spica! 🙂
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Good Mornthemorn to you!
Posted by oldskoolflavor
(still can't believe she got me pissed.. must be that venus in scorpio)
Why u suddenly datin' a 3rd declan? 😉 where's her venus?
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Instead of waiting in the shadows like a fox who has put out his bait?
How do you get a mutant libra to speak or do action without manipulating that Beest?