To all you folks looking for Libra help.

Golden Rule: We lust after the ones that seem to be unphased by our charms in someway.

Fact of the matter is most people immediately do. When you don't, we don't initially notice, then we seem to go "Wait, WTF is going on here? You don't love me? You don't want to knock down my door to get me?... Oh, hell no! You will love me!"

I have so many Libra friends and we all came to this agreement. Some of you may disagree but I bet if you look into your past, the ones you've really loved, are the ones that first could take it, or leave it.

Our egos and NEED to be loved by ALL, will make us go crazy if we think you don't. That's why Libras are known as flirts, not because we want to be with all these people. We just want to capture you in some faint way. It's that desire to please all and why most Libras I know are fickle about relationships. We at some core level want to enchant all. Only when we fight for it, does it matter. I think most Libras will fall-in-love and marry someone that they feel in someway they don't have a COMPLETE grasp on. The mental air quality wants to find out what it is we don't have that you might want, we are intrigued by it. We want to be the ultimate seducers and we will work on you...subtly and until we feel it has been achieved.

You can't fake it either, has to be genuine. Remember this upon your initial meeting of a Libra.

It's mostly subconscious. You may think it applies to all signs like the saying "You want what you can't have". I think it reads MORE true for Libras. It's egotistical at it's dirtiest but it's the damn truth. Every person we meet we want to desire us in some way... I promise you that.

I was stating it was MORE than a "I want what I cant have" type of thing. I think on a very deep level Libras NEED to be desired by all. We won't chase, we won't freak... But I think a lot of us will try and figure out what it will take to feel that unspoken desire. Not rejection either, a subtle cue that you aren't immediately taken by our ways. That peaks and sustains Libra interest. Obviously we need balance and partnership etc. I'm talking courting process. I find this very true of Libra females.

To me the proof is in the pudding. Take a look at this board. Libras are flirts, some cheaters and I think it comes from an unspoken and subtle need to be desired and seek attention. My two Libra best friends claim they even find themselves trying to "seduce" people of the same sex. It's not sexual, it's not intentional... it's mental.

I think it's well known that Libras are considered flirts. I think it's also well known that Libras tend to seek attention. Hence the reputation of being "players". It most certainly doesn't apply to EVERYONE. In love with the idea of love. I'm just saying that a lot of the Libras I know seek that affirmation, when they don't get it, it spikes their interest. I've noticed that they can become bored with someone that just seems to be completely enthralled... this is after awhile because at first they are delighted. I really believe that LONG term a Libra would like someone they feel a slight challenge to keep enchanting, to keep flirting... to keep that desire for mental stimulation and need to know they still "have it". Again, I mean it on a deeper level than just wanting what you can't have. It's an ability to continue the art of seducing over a period of time. I don't know if I've clearly stated this how I hoped to, as I'm slacking at work to write this. haha. I've had two Libra Ex's that were this way and several friends. Maybe it's more so true for an unbalanced Libra... but their is definitely some truth in it. Just my lil two cents after a night out with all my Libra pals!

You were right on the money when you stated the tendency to " I want what I can't have " thing about libras. Everything else - Oh yes, spot on !

I can see what you mean. But it all sounds like a game to me that you are proposing as well.

HAHA. I'm a traitor! You know, obviously every situation and person is different. I just see this A LOT. I think it's especially true of the more fickle Libras. You know the ones.... walking around lopsided due to their imbalanced scales! Straighten them out by hitting that ego 🙂

@GEM20 I agree with u on that, I don't know why Gems attracted Libra's like a magnet. Its crazy BTW im a Gemini to

heliumfiasco Thanks for sharing your insights on a Libra I feel u hit it right on point

You forgot to say that Libra after they get what they want, even they get it easy or hard, they disappear =)) They are crazy , not normal at all ..

ehh fuck them Libras.

@Julya22

Why are u mad

The libra never made it official with u, he just wanted to have some fun and keep it lite, but u wanted more, don't blame him for ur delusions

@GEM20 Agreed we do have that something special, but one thing about us we don't play games. We are upfront people and I think that's one thing that attract Libra's to us. I guess we kinda keep those scales balanced.

I don't know...I'm gonna have to disagree as well.
I don't bother with pursuing rejection. Simply because I don't want to be viewed as a creep.
Plus, I'm sort of the lazy Libra. I'd rather just fire off some charm and get a yes and if not, move on. Perhaps I also don't want to be investing a lot of myself into someone who probably isn't even the right one for me anyways.

@GEM20 Well said I agree with u my fellow Gem

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
ehh fuck them Libras.

That sounds about right!

Posted by CluelessCancer
Question, are Libra's drama prone, like do they like to create chaos, but act innocent?

I think they create chaos and act innocent. Disguised as keeping balance.

cunninglinguist U play with that Scorpio u will get stung. They are not the sign to play with. Tread softly Libra, cuz u all play to many games.

As an Aries, I would agree with both Helium and Tizi, however there needs to be a balance. Not giving a Libra what he wants has them wanting it more, but there needs to be a tiny inkling that the POI (person of interest) is at least invested, even minimally. Otherwise chasing becomes foolish, no?

MY OPINE SHAKEN NOT STIRED.

I certainly don't think that is ALL Libras are about. I suppose it does sound rather shallow, oh well.
And I 100% agree that there has to be some interest coming from the other party. What I am saying is that to entice a Libra, be GENUINELY unphased by their charms on some deeper level, see through the BS. This is due to mental stimulation more than ego. We pride ourselves on our ability to be charming and to be well liked. Take that away on a deep level, and we will take notice. I still strongly stand by what I said, I generally think a Libra is best suited LONGTERM with someone who is not fully "taken" by them... Not to say they aren't partners and aren't fully committed and in love. I'm saying keep us trying, keep us mentally sharp in the art of seducing you. To where we subconsciously FEAR losing you. If you aren't fully charmed how can we use that to our advantage when we misbehave? We all know a Libra will charm their way out of trouble, even the "rough around the edges" Libra knows how to charm when needed. Take that ability from us and you have us BY THE BALLS.

A Libra can misbehave and defend it in the name of balance with a dashing smile. Don't let em.

heliumfiasco I agree with u those Libra's can and will charm their way out of trouble in a heartbeat. All they do is flash that smile and your taken in and for them to do it all to u again. That's not right

Posted by heliumfiasco
Golden Rule: We lust after the ones that seem to be unphased by our charms in someway.

Fact of the matter is most people immediately do. When you don't, we don't initially notice, then we seem to go "Wait, WTF is going on here? You don't love me? You don't want to knock down my door to get me?... Oh, hell no! You will love me!"

I have so many Libra friends and we all came to this agreement. Some of you may disagree but I bet if you look into your past, the ones you've really loved, are the ones that first could take it, or leave it.

Our egos and NEED to be loved by ALL, will make us go crazy if we think you don't. That's why Libras are known as flirts, not because we want to be with all these people. We just want to capture you in some faint way. It's that desire to please all and why most Libras I know are fickle about relationships. We at some core level want to enchant all. Only when we fight for it, does it matter. I think most Libras will fall-in-love and marry someone that they feel in someway they don't have a COMPLETE grasp on. The mental air quality wants to find out what it is we don't have that you might want, we are intrigued by it. We want to be the ultimate seducers and we will work on you...subtly and until we feel it has been achieved.

You can't fake it either, has to be genuine. Remember this upon your initial meeting of a Libra.

It's mostly subconscious. You may think it applies to all signs like the saying "You want what you can't have". I think it reads MORE true for Libras. It's egotistical at it's dirtiest but it's the damn truth. Every person we meet we want to desire us in some way... I promise you that.

I disagree that there is a need to be loved by all...
My Libra (and others I know) seem truly unfazed by people's opinions. He doesn't seem to care if people like him or not...he surely doesn't worry about disagreeing with someone or speaking his mind.

However, if he wants you to like him...either because he wants you, or he needs something from you (as bad as that sounds)... he will definitely work on you until you're his new number one fan. & if you were to resist or act unfazed/unamused it will most likely not discourage him...only make him lay it on thicker.


They do enjoy a challenge like anyone else...when they want you, they are persistent & damn smooth about it too.
When my Libra met me I wa

haha So true!^^^ We may be indecisive but if we've weighed it out and have come to a final decision. You better watch your butt, we're coming! That "hidden" drive is NO joke, and it the right circumstances I think can give other signs a run for their money.

Everyone is kind of misunderstanding my words. I've tried to clarify it a few times, after my initial post. I never meant it to come across as Libras want unrequited love (not at all). I've stated in every reply that I think LONG-TERM relationships will be best suited with someone who is a constant challenge on a deeper mental level, not a superficial level. That it needs to be a natural, some what indifference to Libras "charms". Not that the person doesn't love us or that we're masochists, or that it's PURELY an ego drive. Jesus, No. Just someone who naturally ignites a fight in us, that makes a challenge. Obviously, this helps in the initial attraction phase... which I think everyone is hanging on from my original post, which is kind of my fault via my wording.

The Libras saying they have no care for what people think of them, I'm certain you do on some level. I also bet if you DECIDE you need/want something, that you do in fact know how to turn your charms on quite well. That is a tool that we we're born with. When and why you decide to use them is completely personal. But in a love relationship where you have obvious desire, don't we all?

I've said it's more than simply a "I want what I can't have thing." from the very beginning.

MOST Libras are people pleasers and do want to be liked, some take it to a higher level, of needing to be desired as well. This is very basic.

To what degree this needs to take place is obviously going to be determined on a lot more than Sun sign.

Helium, you gotta remember that when it comes to this site, you can clarify what you mean 5839534 times and people will still not understand or twist it around.

People here are insanely illiterate and read what they want to read.