Virgo women

Dear fellow libra's,

What are your opinions on the compatibility between libra men and virgo women? I've found myself interested in one of them for a while and would like to understand what difficulties could be expected if they get involved in a relationship with eachother.

It's easy to acknowledge their attractiveness, but they seem to think in a completely different than libra's do.

Any input would be more than welcome...

lol thx. libra is too flighty and superficial for us
dont worry. we dont like u too 😉

Posted by the dutchman
Dear fellow libra's,

What are your opinions on the compatibility between libra men and virgo women? I've found myself interested in one of them for a while and would like to understand what difficulties could be expected if they get involved in a relationship with eachother.

It's easy to acknowledge their attractiveness, but they seem to think in a completely different than libra's do.

Any input would be more than welcome...

I've seen a couple Libra Men/Virgo Woman couples and I think it takes a lot to make it work, but it can work. Imma be really honest right now, I am seeing this Cancer and he has NOTHING on my best friend, who happens to be a Libra. Libras are spontaneous, fun, witty, charming, great dressers, always smell good, make you laugh; Cancers? Ugh, needy sacks of bullshit wrapped in constant insecurity.

I think if you guys start off as friends (Libra and I have been friends for 10 years) it can be a great relationship. I don't know what it is, but I just DON'T find most guys I'm SUPPOSED to find appealing, appealing for very long; Cancers, Pisces, Tauruses- BLECH! Gimme a Libra, Sag, or Leo anyday!

Thank's for the replies!



I've seen a couple Libra Men/Virgo Woman couples and I think it takes a lot to make it work, but it can work. Imma be really honest right now, I am seeing this Cancer and he has NOTHING on my best friend, who happens to be a Libra.

I think if you guys start off as friends (Libra and I have been friends for 10 years) it can be a great relationship. blockquote>


@bohemiangelnoir: I've already found out that it takes quite a while to get to know eachother. When we first met it was even hard to have a regular conversation because they never seemed to get any dept. But that's getting better by now. Are you suggesting to start off as friends to gain trust and understanding?

p.s. I love your username

Could anybody tell me a bit more about the whole "libra/virgo conflict"? I've noticed some tension at the virgo board as wel.

Posted by the dutchman


@bohemiangelnoir: I've already found out that it takes quite a while to get to know eachother. When we first met it was even hard to have a regular conversation because they never seemed to get any dept. But that's getting better by now. Are you suggesting to start off as friends to gain trust and understanding?

p.s. I love your username

Could anybody tell me a bit more about the whole "libra/virgo conflict"? I've noticed some tension at the virgo board as wel.

Oh gods, when my BFF and I first met we couldn't STAND each other. LOL! As time went on and we started hanging out we became inseparable, I mean he's always had my back and I've always had his. The conflict can arise that, sometimes, he seemed unappreciative and sometimes I was just a nitpicky bitch. But over the years he's shown me how to laugh at myself, and he's come to appreciate my brutal honesty. He even told me today, I'm the only woman who's never lied to him.

I do think it's good to start off as friends first, as I tend to think that air and earth don't "come together" as easily as air and fire or earth and water.

It's funny you like my username, it's one I've used for awhile and it was one of my other Libra friends who insisted I "stick with it" as he thought it suited me very well. LOL!

Posted by the dutchman
Dear fellow libra's,

What are your opinions on the compatibility between libra men and virgo women? I've found myself interested in one of them for a while and would like to understand what difficulties could be expected if they get involved in a relationship with eachother.

It's easy to acknowledge their attractiveness, but they seem to think in a completely different than libra's do.

Any input would be more than welcome...

For the most part they do think very differently. The only solid compatible aspects of the two minds are in the sexual and spiritual aspects of personality. Everything else though is pretty frustrating.

The hardest part is the way the two view the world. Libra is most secure when able to take things as they come. We are at our best when addressing things in the moment because we are talented when it comes to thinking and acting on our feet. We exist in a world of concepts and principles rather than systems and details providing us the freedom to get things done in a manor of perpetual motion rather than focused energy.

All of this drives the Virgo mind crazy. They are completely opposite in the way they conduct and manage their lives and express themselves. From a distance the differences are intriguing and each can appreciate and even admire the other. When they become mutually dependent on each other, the Libra guy can usually still see the differences as intriguing if maybe a little difficult but the Virgo just simply can't deal with having to live her every day life from moment to moment. She has to plan and systematically approach everything...where we get frustrated they get stifled and a stifled Virgo is a really nasty Virgo.

Luckily the Virgo woman is always able to comfort and inspire confidence in Libra guys (they think that they aren't ego stroker's but they really are) but their constant pleading for us to be more decisive and grounded eventually wears them out and just like any attempt to "fix" or "change" us creates distance.

I think this is a relationship where both parties have to not only be content, but motivate the other to do their own thing because both like to do things their way and the two methods are so opposite it's aggravating quickly. One thing that I always struggled with when it came to Virgo women is that when they are upset they feel entitled to be bitchy.

We are noto

@nico:your comment was very insightful and confirmed most of the expectations i already had. The situation is stil a bit strange, but we'll see what the future brings.