Was he crying out for attention? What to do with my libra husband

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btaylor91
@btaylor91
8 Years

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I'm going to keep this as short and simple as possible.

I'm a sag dec 8 my husband is a libra born Oct 19

Married for almost a year together for almost 2. We first and were completely in love and inseparable. We both came out of 5 year relationships and started dating a few months after. Life got in the way, I got pregnant early on so I was

Very Emotional. We planned to become pregnant. He's now 10 months old. We have had our ups and downs when it's good it's really good when it's bad it's pretty damn bad. We have had trust issues on both sides but have both never cheated. His ex really screwed him over and cheated they broke up so she took her child and she's on in off with him being able to see her. I was a stripper before I met him so he's had trouble believing I'm not a "hoe" when I was very clean never did extra just

danced. He is insecure because he said im so good at sex, im a sag it comes natural lol. He's been in and out of jobs. and we've moved a few times. Before we got married we'd take breaks for a couple of days but end up back together a couple days later. We just had a really bad fight a couple weeks ago he told me to leave and I did for a couple days but I came back to my son and the whole time I was gone I was telling him we can make it and that I was sorry for whatever I did and just showing my love to him. He kept saying it was really over. Well I come home and he leaves to a hotel to catch up on sleep. Take in mind we have been withholding our feelings on and off our almost entire relationship. I'll love him but he won't show me and vice versa, never really meeting in the middle. Just being scared and stubborn because we both are but I know we really love each other. Anyways he gets a hotel. I find out days later when everything is okay he made a plenty of fish profile it said seeking to date but nothing serious, he also made a live me and had a Kik. He refused to tell me the truth until I did some digging and found he was talking to another woman on Kik and was being sexual with her. She is a stranger and lives in a different state. He was saying he was just trying to get his mind off me and get over me. He said he couldn't get into it and that it made him realize his love for me. One we are married so there is no breaking up so I feel betrayed in a sense that he cheated and 2 that we has only not been together for 4 days when he did that. We had sex that next morning when he came home and all I can think about is how he might of been thinking of the night before. I'm so heartbroken and idk what to do. I am very sexual with him all the time we have sex at least 4 times a week he's too tired from work to do it more. I can't find it in your heart to wanna forgive him. Was it a cry for help? Or was he just being a lying slut?
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rockyroadicecream
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*sees a time machine in the corner*

SAGILUV?? IS THAT YOU?

*cough*

"Sanctity of marriage" my ass. Idiots like this are off getting married AND having kids when they're both fucked up. Getting married when there's obvious red flags? Having a kid when they haven't been together all that long?

You shouldn't be surprised. You saw the bs before you got married yet you STILL married the dude. You're on your own, here honey. You made your bed. Sleep in it.

I don't feel sorry for you at all. You both are fucking idiots.



...And you're an asshole for willfully bringing a kid into this dysfunction, which is what actually pisses me off about your situation. You're both selfish assholes. You want to fuck around and act like immature jack asses who do this on again/off again shit, fine. But you're dragging an innocent child into this bullshit and that's just deplorable. Please don't have anymore children. Kthx.
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btaylor91
@btaylor91
8 Years

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Excuse me for leaving out a lot of detail and including the details that I am hurt over and would like answers to.WE ARE MARRIED. It can not be over in a marriage until divorce is final and believe whatever you treetrunking trunks want but until it is final whatever you do until then is adultrey. We made vows and promises. What are you doing with your lives? On this forum trolling and putting out negative energy? It's stupid enough to even believe in astrology and think this is just how people are, based on some gas filled lights in the sky! I guess it's just me clinging to find answers that really only my pos husband will know.