Seriously, what the hell is it with these women in relationships all wondering about these male "friends" of theirs? If you aren't ready to be in a committed relationship, go fucking be single. Trying to have your cake and eat it too just makes you look like a selfish twat. :/
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You're engaged, honey. Why do you care about what the guy thinks, especially considering that you two barely know eachother?