What is the best way to get over Scorp male?

Hi Rabbit...

What?

Do I use it as a c--k ring or do I force feed it to him?

No sex was involved. It's all mental/emotional for me.

Thx Rabbit...

I thought you were a Libra. 🙂

The ignore option is already in place. It's the wave of emotions that are exhausting...I guess I will just have to feel them...until I don't...

Rabbit,

Last night as I was browsing the board, Scorp board to be specific, is when I learned that you are a Scorp. You say you don't have charm but you have a cool font, IMO 🙂

The odd thing is when I Google - "How to get over Scorpio Male?"
My results come back as - "How to get what you want from Scorpio Male." O_o

Booze

getting under another scorpio male

then stay and watch them kill themselves from the sidelines while eating popcorn.

Posted by Damnata
getting under another scorpio male

then stay and watch them kill themselves from the sidelines while eating popcorn.

Where's the fun in that? She should date a taurus instead.

Had my issues with a Scorpio (albeit it was a she not a he). It quite literally took me a year to not be bothered by her anymore. What seemed to help (and I believe this to be true of any relationship) is to think of all the terrible things they did to lead to this point. I had her on quite the pedestal, but after reviewing all she did that was not right I could see I was holding onto nothing. If you can actually land them Scorpio are great, but boy are they rough otherwise. People complain about us, but Scorpio's take our worst traits and magnify them by 10 for sure. To name a few say they'll be somewhere and then just not show. Or to really jab you send you messages they'll be there and then ignore you when you attempt to contact them. Never give you the full truth and only when push comes to shove give you an honest answer. And my favorite, show no interest in you, but when interest from another is in play suddenly they've inserted themselves again.

Wow.

My problem with him is I believe he told me a crazy ass lie to cover a small infraction. Why? I can't stand when anyone offers me a lie. he made an attempt to see me but I said no which stunned him. Next he came by my job under the guise of business and I gave him the look of death as he spoke to me like nothing happened...hmpf! So now we are not speaking at all and I am feeling the effects.

Scrops are naturally untrusting and secretive. I don't tend to see them lie as much as I see either half-truths or just out and out not telling you something. In my case she was talking to then in a relationship with someone the entire time we were talking and it wasn't until a planned trip that I was told (albeit being me I knew she was seeing someone about 8 months before she finally told me). Your best bet is to move on and just do other things. Dwelling will just lead to more sadness and ultimately allowing him back in. It was literally a few months of not speaking to her that got us to the point where we can have short conversations.

Stop pining over it. You won't move on if you let it dwell in your mind.

ughhhhh scorpio are so horrible to date... just think of all of the nasty things he probably did to you (most scorpios i've encountered have been nasty in some way, the stinging remarks or actions) or secrets he's kept from you and realise you are so much better off without him.
i'll be honest, when i was getting over a scorpio ex, i made an effort to look good and flaunt myself in front of him and he eventually wanted me back, i slept with him a few times then completely dropped him for a virgo, who was much better in all senses. made me feel better to screw him over a bit after he screwed me.

Posted by AesmaDaeva
Stop pining over it. You won't move on if you let it dwell in your mind.

I figured my best bet is to feel the emotions. However, I am trying to distract myself at times so I don't become emotional soup. Just when I thought (i.e. kidding myself) my feelings were becoming a tad bit less intense, he came by my work today and I had a strong reaction:

He did not visit my office so I did not see him (I saw him drive up)but his presence was definitely felt - I got so sick to my stomach, weak in the legs, & a rapid heart beat. WTH, I hate that I got so shook like that - absolutely hated it.

Where's is my Libran detachment & lack of depth when I NEED it, damnit?! Sigh.

Posted by londonlibralady
ughhhhh scorpio are so horrible to date... just think of all of the nasty things he probably did to you (most scorpios i've encountered have been nasty in some way, the stinging remarks or actions) or secrets he's kept from you and realise you are so much better off without him.
i'll be honest, when i was getting over a scorpio ex, i made an effort to look good and flaunt myself in front of him and he eventually wanted me back, i slept with him a few times then completely dropped him for a virgo, who was much better in all senses. made me feel better to screw him over a bit after he screwed me.

Romance may not be in the cards w/this scorp male but way deep inside I feel like there's a lot to gain from just knowing him. He crossed my path for a reason...and I want to know what it is. It's beyond dancing with the devil, thrills, sex, physical etc. (Although I want(ed) to experience those things in spades from him) I feel, that with him, I would learn more about me, life, etc. Knowledge of self is the ultimate life lesson...when the student is ready, the teacher will show up. Yes?

Posted by intheair
Wow.

My problem with him is I believe he told me a crazy ass lie to cover a small infraction. Why? I can't stand when anyone offers me a lie. he made an attempt to see me but I said no which stunned him. Next he came by my job under the guise of business and I gave him the look of death as he spoke to me like nothing happened...hmpf! So now we are not speaking at all and I am feeling the effects.

So you're not really mad and are just being a brat? If the lie wasn't a big deal, don't make it one. Say, no more lies, forgive, and move on. If it is that big a deal then just remind yourself they are a liar. Anything you feel could be based on one of those lies. Remember, don't trust someone who lies to you and don't lie to someone who trusts you.

Posted by theGrinch
Scrops are naturally untrusting and secretive. I don't tend to see them lie as much as I see either half-truths or just out and out not telling you something. In my case she was talking to then in a relationship with someone the entire time we were talking and it wasn't until a planned trip that I was told (albeit being me I knew she was seeing someone about 8 months before she finally told me). Your best bet is to move on and just do other things. Dwelling will just lead to more sadness and ultimately allowing him back in. It was literally a few months of not speaking to her that got us to the point where we can have short conversations.

Re: Your last 2 sentences...

I have to be real with myself and that means knowing that I will dwell on this. Simply put, the man made a deep, lasting impression on me (although some of that impression is owing to me hyping him up in my mental 🙂 )

I plan to use the path of least resistance (what you resist, persist) and he will unknowingly help me. What I mean is, the more he stays away, with time and space between us, I will have to overcome this. I am very stubborn - especially when I am right. I don't like anyone that beats me getting mad when they are the offending party. Distance does not make my heart grow fonder in this instance...

Posted by LibraSid

Posted by intheair
Wow.

My problem with him is I believe he told me a crazy ass lie to cover a small infraction. Why? I can't stand when anyone offers me a lie. he made an attempt to see me but I said no which stunned him. Next he came by my job under the guise of business and I gave him the look of death as he spoke to me like nothing happened...hmpf! So now we are not speaking at all and I am feeling the effects.

So you're not really mad and are just being a brat? If the lie wasn't a big deal, don't make it one. Say, no more lies, forgive, and move on. If it is that big a deal then just remind yourself they are a liar. Anything you feel could be based on one of those lies. Remember, don't trust someone who lies to you and don't lie to someone who trusts you.

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I am very disappointed, not being a brat. Like I said, he told a huge lie for a small infraction. When I didn't fall for the okey-dokey, he pulled away...and I let him.
I've addressed his tendency to lie at the beginning - he played coy.
I've weighed his good vs his bad and his good annihilates (almost)his bad.

I'm going to go read that "sprung" thread. O_o

^^^In my next life.

Posted by intheair
Hi Librans,

What are your tried & true methods for getting scorpio male out of your system?

Or perhaps, getting to the point of indifference...

relocate

Oh to get them outta your system.. Date a gem instead... Or a sag.. They're fun and you don't need to go too deep with them...