Difficulty letting go?

if they cheated on me or used me then no. but if we broke up on mutual terms then yeah i do have a hard time letting go, all of our happy moments replay in my head :/
what went wrong?

Well it takes awhile for us to let go. But think about it, i guarantee you he isn't thinking about you, so why think about him. I always say it's that persons loss because you was good to him. Not many people can handle a Cancers love. I know, because the same thing happened to me with a Scorpio lady 2yrs ago. There's nothing wrong with thinking about them from time to time. It's normal for us Crabs because we may be over that person; but we still cling with our Claws to the memories of that person. See the difference. You just miss the memories my crab sistah lol.

Plus if he is ment to be in your life he would have made the efforts necessary. He is just a reason why you deserve better. So pray about it & delete anything you have of him. It'll take take, but i promise you, it'll get better. He's the one who should be feeling bad 🙂

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Posted by QueenVictoria22
if they cheated on me or used me then no. but if we broke up on mutual terms then yeah i do have a hard time letting go, all of our happy moments replay in my head :/
what went wrong?

I don't really know what went wrong! I'm not sure if he just started to lose interest....or what...

One day I noticed him being more distant, he was taking 3-4 days to contact me rather than every day, I called him out on it, he apologised but then eventually disappeared. Later explained that he wasn't ready for a relationship, but not sure if that was the real reason or not. :/

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Hmm, this kinda sounds like miscommunication to me. Have you tried talking to him? with a friendly approach?,not a "i miss you ,come back to me" approach

@cancerrose miscommunication always happens with text messages. That's why i hate them. It's better to talking things on the phone & IN person. At least in person you can easily spot a lie since Cancers are intuitive. But his actions alone cleary speaks about his feelings towards you. If he Cared, trust me you wouldn't be here asking us lol. So don't worry, it's not your fault it didn't work out. So don't place the burden on you. Cancer woman are strong & smart. A man should be lucky to be in the presence of greatness lol. It's true 🙂

yeah if he ignores you ,stop contacting him.i had that kind of problem with my aqua ex. just focus on yourself,if you keep thinking about him and wondering if he'll ever come back to you,you'll be hurting yourself.i know it's hard but try to forget about him and if he comes back dont respond right away ,make him wait

@2BlackIndian3 can you please give me advice on the topic i made on the Aquarius forum? I updated it and i would greatly appreciate it 🙂

Umm ok, i'll see what i can do

@QueenVictoria22 i answered your questions the best i could. I hope you feel better. i did the best i could my fellow Crab. I hate seeing Cancer women worried. Remember You Cancer Women are the best 🙂

Posted by cancerrose
Do any of my fellow cancerians find it really hard to let go of past relationships?

I think this is particularly difficult for most Cancers as well as for people who have a lot of Cancer if their chart.

Based on experience, that's a yes. It was brief but real. He broke up with me when I needed him the most. Harry Potter saved me.

Forgot to say ex was a scorpio.

Posted by cancerrose
Do any of my fellow cancerians find it really hard to let go of past relationships?

I met a scorpio man who I thought was my perfect match, only lasted 3 months, yet 2 months later still struggling to let go and forget about him. Deep down I know he won't come back, yet all I can do is hope for him to come back and I just keep thinking about him. I struggle to think logically, but my emotions are taking control...

Scorpios will always come back. You kind of have to drill it into their heads if you want them to stop. But just because he comes back, doesn't mean he'll want you that way again. They're a possessive sign, so they have to check up on you. They have to make sure you don't dislike them, even if they're wrong. They can't stand it.

Posted by cancerrose
Do any of my fellow cancerians find it really hard to let go of past relationships?

I met a scorpio man who I thought was my perfect match, only lasted 3 months, yet 2 months later still struggling to let go and forget about him. Deep down I know he won't come back, yet all I can do is hope for him to come back and I just keep thinking about him. I struggle to think logically, but my emotions are taking control...

What caused this relationship to go sour?

CR,
He will come back the moment you let him go. If the connection you mentioned before was sincere, he will sense that you aren't his anymore and come back to keep you strung out
If he's a nice man,then he probably reappeared because he sensed you fretting.

Depends on how it ended. I've had that problem before to be honest, but it's not something for every relationship. Usually, when it's over it's over. I look onward and upward, and continue my life like he was never there. No more mentions of him, looking at pics, texts, or anything.