What should I do? Can someone help?

Hi,can someone please help— I met an oversea man and we have been communicating for quite a while and at first I thought he was just joking with me that he love me,but recently I realised that he really love me so much to the extend that he's coming over to my country to look for me. He was madly in love with me and so do I. He said he really love me very much although he knew that I have already got someone with me. I also love him very much. Now,both of us really don't know what to do. That day both of us were very sad and crying as both of us knew that we need each other so badly but just can't be together. I have someone with me he ever looked for another girl,and now our relationshiop is not like before. I find that now both of us are suffering as we love each other but can't be together. He cares so much for me than the one with me now. We still communicate with each others every now and then. I have never met a very nice man like him before and I'm afraid I will lose him,but I hope he can forever be my best friends as he has told me about it,and he said he will love me forever because he just love me for who I am and so do I. I really don't know what to do if he really come to my country to look for me as both of us fell madly in love with each other.

Sad and worry.

You have to decide what you want to do. Nobody can help you do that; matters for the heart are way to critical. If I was to give you my opinion, would it really matter? You will figure out what you really want, and I'm sure what will be will be. Everything in our lives, happens for a reason. We don't always understand it at the time. Down the road it all becomes very clear. I wish you very much happiness!!