Where do you go?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by ItsWorking on Friday, March 8, 2013 and has 3 replies.

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@ItsWorking
13 Years

Dear Libras, those of you who feel the need to disappear, where do you disappear too?
Also, do you do this even though you really like the person (romantically/non-romantically, both apply). Why?

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@ItsWorking
13 Years

Posted by Loveorlust
We disappear to think things over- you know we see both sides of most situations so we have to weigh and measure the situation, what was said, how it was said why ... Everything ! Then when we finally think we got it, We spring into action then the wondering starts all over again- I personally do this in the beginnings of new relationships

I find this interesting and quite odd and fascinating. So you have to not talk to the person to do this? It's not like you disappear on everyone, right? Just them. You can see how someone could take this the wrong way, right? haha

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@sweethearts
20 Years5,000+ Posts

In my head to discuss with myself what I really really want, or with my friends to hear their feedback on what is running around in my head but that doesn't always help because often I have been shocked by what others say and interpret so in the end I talk it through with myself and it chops and changes from day to night, sometimes my heart is ruling and sometimes it's my head. Until the answer becomes perfectly clear I can easily go without talking to the person in question as the decision that I am looking for can be swayed...

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@Sola
20 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

You know i have never disappeared..just never felt the need. I think its because i "think" and analyse so much just getting into things, that i'm pretty sure that what i'm getting into is where i want to be. I like having peace to myself, i mean i just don't need special circumstances to organise my head 🙂