Why do people try to trick you?

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More specifically, why someone try to make you think they've changed when they haven't?

More importantly, why do I keep believing this one?

How can I never speak to someone again if I will be forced to speak to and see them?

Oh and why fuck with me now? She knows I am having surgery in the morning. She knows I have been sick and messed up in the head and heavily medicated for the last few days. No fair picking on people who aren't able to defend properly.

Sorry, I'm medicated, high, and I had a surprise bad day leading up to the few I was expecting. I'm just ranting.
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That blows. I think most people's negative actions are a result of insecurities. They'll do whatever it takes to make themselves feel like hot shit. Also people want what they can't have. If it's a past relationship that clearly isn't going to work anymore... instead of leaving things be, some people like to be bitter and watch things burn instead. I hate when people behave like that. Maybe it's stupid conquest shit or something? Pretending to be something she's not just to get your attention for her own selfish satisfaction - feedin' the ego.

Who knows? So many people are just fucked up.

Regardless, J-bone has a message for her:

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Also, sorry to hear your health is not well. Get better soon. Maybe a little ganj-healing would help?

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Posted by EmotionalMoon
Being a Cancerian Ill beat around the bush and he just doesnt get it! LOL! He askes me all the time "you would tell me if you needed something would you?" I always reply "NO". LOL!



Ask him for help if you want/need it. There's nothing wrong with that and we can be dense. If you don't tell him he may never figure it out.


Thanks for the well wishes everyone. Yeah it was issues with the ex. I just got frustrated. She knows she is special to me, even though there will never be a relationship again I still care and wanted to help when she came to me. She just isn't done playing games yet, so fuck it. All's well, and Z I'm all over your prescription. When I get home later I'll be on all kinds of their medicine, then I'll take my own. I have a week or so coming up of pain killers and smoking. I'll probably be on here rambling about something.

Haha.
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Posted by LibraSid
Posted by EmotionalMoon
Being a Cancerian Ill beat around the bush and he just doesnt get it! LOL! He askes me all the time "you would tell me if you needed something would you?" I always reply "NO". LOL!



Ask him for help if you want/need it. There's nothing wrong with that and we can be dense. If you don't tell him he may never figure it out.


Thanks for the well wishes everyone. Yeah it was issues with the ex. I just got frustrated. She knows she is special to me, even though there will never be a relationship again I still care and wanted to help when she came to me. She just isn't done playing games yet, so fuck it. All's well, and Z I'm all over your prescription. When I get home later I'll be on all kinds of their medicine, then I'll take my own. I have a week or so coming up of pain killers and smoking. I'll probably be on here rambling about something.

Haha.
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Just a heads-up. I'm making a "Thoughts of High LibraSid" thread for you to utilize. haha.
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we like to like people, and we're gullible.

once i learned to view it as a matter of ideals (we're also very idealistic), i've been a lot harder to take advantage of.

if someone takes advantage of someone who is nice and handing out chances like they're pamphlets about the "end times" (that is, eagerly, and to people who don't particularly want them or will even outright reject them), it's because they are a bad person. a good person wouldn't do that. a nice person deserves to be treated well. hell, everyone deserves to be treated well, but especially the nice person.

so even though i think i can handle mistreatment, i won't let myself be mistreated, because i'm part of the human population, and no one in the human population deserves to be treated that way. and if i allow myself to be treated that way, i'm only encouraging people to treat others badly too, because i'm giving them positive reinforcement.

does that make sense?