ANZAC day and other war memorial days

I can not feel gratitude for people fighting wars, I know that we are free because people died for us, but I don't think our governments do enough to keep us safe and I feel our governments think our men are expebdable so they create one fucking day to remember them by and we the people all come together on that day and glorify the deaths of the fallen who fought for us....The reason I don't mourn is because I don't see sides, I don't see us and them, maybe it's because I'm a humanitarian because I just us as humans all over and I understand that the people who died are responsible for their fair share of killing too, would things be different if they didn't kill for this country? Yes but it's irrelevant.....

Can someone talk sense into me? I'm missing the point

We fight wars for rich people, they want us to kill eachother.