Childish..

I find it childish that people get upset because they can't get what they want. I don't think god made this world for one person, and you will have some ups and downs. Please deal with it like everyone else. What do you guys think?

Childish...No...!!!

Ignorant...Yes..!!!

I don't really care that much about the degree of emotional response in other people - everyone finds disappointment in varying circumstances - who am I (or you for that matter) to question the validity of the method in which an individual reacts to life?

If it develops into behavior that has an adverse effect on you in some way, then deal with that particular circumstance when and if it occurs. I just find all-encompassing blanket statements a little naive.

Well, to cortica, I just don't like someone acting that way with me. I don't need that negativity around me. Don't subject other people to that. I know everyone has feelings but respect me and also realize it makes you look so bad.

The way I read the statement- you are talking about someone throwing a tantrum right? I would personally say it was childish behaviour and not ignorance b/c ignorance is related to knowledge and the response as I see it more of an emotional one.

I also don't believe that GOD made the earth at all and can't really connect the relevance of that statement to the other.

I also agree with Corica in so much as if someone does chuck a tanty then deal with it...or walk away.

It would depend on exactly what the situation was and what was going on!

I use to work around the public and you would see rude people show their a $ $ es all the time.
I never let it bother me becauese it had no reflection on me. Sometimes it is necessary in order to make people wake up!

Good answers, Cortica and WB! Also, good point about the tantrum, Lawgoddess. I am curious Lawgoddess, what is your theory of how the Earth came to be?

My thoughts are that we can't control anyone else, so control what you can (your reaction).

Agree with your final statement Star..absolutely (common sense really isn't it).

My theory about beginningless time...well personally I don't have one myself but agree that the answer lay in science. Personally I am more concerned with the here and now and getting through life as best I can. I kinda am in a position of acceptance of the way the universe and nature is. B/c any debate you and I have over logisitcs will not change the fact for the moment at least, the Earth etc.. IS here.

Good point, Lawgoddess! "the Earth, etc...IS here." LOL!

Yes, I agree...so many things are common sense...but, many do not seem to use what was given them...

Love and Light,
Star

Ok Childish, everyone had the right to thier own feelings and for them to be able to express that is fine. I dont think that it is right to talk butter about ur boyfriend and then turn around and go home and be all lovey dovey. You are just about as crooked twinkee than anyone else so until u get ur butter togeather dont talk about someone else.

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Well, I won't respond to this in a bad way because I am 25 years old and a woman. I am very happy with my man. I love him. We have had problems and yes I do talk about him out of hurt of frustration. This is very normal. So don't say you have never done this. The way you are even responding to me extremely crooked and childish. But, if that's the way you need to vent, go right ahead. If it makes you feel better, shout it out! I don't care. You are wasting time talking about it on this board. I never came at you in a negative way and you know it. You are upset because you didn't get your way. Oh well, guess what, that's the world! I haven't always gotten what I wanted it either. I don't have any negative energy towards you. I just see someone overreacting. I mean really, am I really to blame? Take it up with someone higher dear because they made the decision. I can see how much of friend you were by reacting the way you did. It was never my fault. Do you really think I was supposed to decline? Yeah right. You need to ask them why they made the decision, not take it out on me. I think they already told you why, but you didn't want to hear it. As far as listening to you talk about it, I had enough of the negativity. I mean, blame someone else, not your so-called friend scorpio woman. But guess what, you still harboring this makes you look very bitter. No one else is concernd. I am the same chick I was, and I can speak to everyone INCLUDING you with no problem. If you don't speak back, I'm not losing sleep dear. That's being an adult and being a WOMAN.

End the drama already! Folks, this is kinda personal, so please excuse this drama!

I dont think anyone knows what is going on including me, so dont worry too much about the drama or personal stuff.

I dont think that u know what it feels like twinkee and I feel like I have been a woman about things, I have never gotten in ur face or stared u down, I just feel like I would have expected more.

The main thing that I dont understand is how u can talk butter about so many ppl and then turn around and u are thier best fiend, and I guess that u pulled the same cloth over my eyes, I feel like when we were friends that I treated u with respect and that we had a good time.

I guess that since I called u a friend when I was so frustrated about things u were not there to see how I was doing or let me vent to you or anything.

I hope you two will work this out! At least you will know where you stand with one another when all is said and done!

Peace and Love for both!
SuzyQ

I do too, I wish the best for her I am just a little hurt and discouraged, with time I will be able to peice it all togeater just for right now I need time, I want to make ammends right now I just need time, I dont want to think of us being enemys to one another and making the work place so tense.

It will be ok SW, and you can always vent to me and I will listen to you and try and help if you want me too! Stay happy life is too short to sweat the small stuff!

Suzy

SW,

It takes me a little time to figure out what is going on sometimes, and I get very lost; but if you are patient, I can usually get to the bottom of things! If I react right aways, I tend to make things alot worse. Sometimes I need to re-read it many times and sometimes it is better to let it sit and get cold and then respond. This way no one gets hurt un-necessarily!!! Communicating is very hard this way, but I would keep trying still!!!

SuzyQ

Well that's not true. I have gotten on messenger and asked you how you were and you ignored it. Also, you have also talked about people and talked to them the next day. Who says their my best friends? I can't ignore people all day. I can make small talk. Ya know, I am going to stop all of that. My b-friend told me to quit being buddy buddy at work and I see why. When you don't talk anymore, they tell all of your business on a post. Well, I have never told anyone about your biz, and I never will. It is not my place. I hav spoken to you before and you ignored. I was being a woman. Oh well, I won't do it again because I don't kiss up to anyone. Also, I didn't want to hear you talk about how much i didn't deserve the job. I am just as qualified. I mean you can't blame me for a decision I didn't make. That's hating. There have been times I didn't get what I wanted and I was upset briefly, but moved on. If it was vice versa, I wouldn't have acted that way with you. If you wanted to vent to me you should have done it differently. I am started to wonder if this is a black and white thing, but I don't know. Two blacks got the positions. Well, I am sorry that you are going thru this, but I won't tolerate negative things. I wish you the best.

Please don't be hypocritical SW. You have done everything I have as far as talking about people. Everyone at that place does it including them. I have heard them do it and that includes you . Please don't act like you don't. And if anyone there says different they are lying because I have heard it! I am hear to make money and that is it! I am not one of those who cares who likes me, but I will remain civil and friendly. Guess what I know they have talked about me, but do I care? No! It makes their day better and makes them feel better about themselves.

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After you respond to this, I really don't want to deal or talk of this anymore. This is getting very messy. I don't like mess. The people I work with are cool with me. I won't say nothing else to anyone around this place because it spreads all over the center somehow. I will watch my mouth. I am here to work from now on.

I am not racist by any means!!!!! You above all ppl should know that.

Geez, what—?? This is ridculous LMAO! You to ought to just stay away from each other or e-mail each other privatley; nobody wants to hear y'all friending constantly!!!

I know suzy but I dont know if she wants to talk to me, like I have said before she has not spoken to me since so....I dont know what to do.

I feel really hurt that someone would call me racist that is being childish....I have never done or say anything about anyone in a racist manner.


Sorry guys about this.......twinkiee if u want to talk to me, u know where to find me.

Well, the racist thing was just a thought. I am sorry to offend you. I didn't know what else it could have been. I am also sorry about this dxpnet guys! Sw, you have had plenty of times to speak to me when I spoke to you. I don't mind talking to you, but without negative comments.

I think any way you guys can work this out, is fine. If message boards are the way, I say go for it...whatever facilitates a reconciliation or an amicable separation. I do wish the best for you both.

Amends have been made so no more bickering or tensness between us anymore.