PDA

I was wondering how some people felt about public display of affection—

I dont mind it alot of the time but I hate to see someone sucking face or otherwise where it can be seen by all, holding hands and a peck here or there is fine.

What is ur opinion—

Well Scorpio Woman, you of all the people in the world know how I feel about PDA.

I dont believe that getting it on is appropriate, which includes sucking face to the point of trying to choke someone with your tongue, but if you can not show some affection in public then it henders the relationship.

Let people know that you love eachother, just dont start foreplay in the middle of the mall.

-MarineSag

yeah....holding hands and a few pecks is fine with me, but i don't take it further in public. There are private places for that lol.

AMEN!

I will hold hands in public, I will let my bf put his arm around me in public, I will give and recieve quick pecks on the cheek and lips in public...but I don't want to see anyone's body parts being fondled, tongue darting in and out of their s.o.'s mouth, or anything like that...I mean ugh, how rude is that—! I figure if it's something I wouldn't want to witness other ppl doing, then it's something I won't make other ppl witness ME doing. That's what porn movies and magazines are for: beautiful ppl getting down is one thing...witnessing it in real life (usually between not so beautiful people) can be quite revolting I think. lol.

Not that whether the couple is good looking has anything to do with it, it's just that seeing it "up close and personal" kind of makes the couple seem icky to me.

Right: I agree keep it at home.

Hang on a minute, didnt you scorpio woman and marinesag get in on in a lake? *Libragirl scratches her head in wondermeant.

Yes we have but it was out so far that u coulnt tell we were doing anything when we do do it it is not just all out in front of people, we do have some modesty in us.

the lake was one of those spontanius adventures every one has em. LIBRAGIRL you of all people should no better than to be like that towards us.

Why is our personal life the center of your attention? Are you jealous or just plan rude.

We keep the PDA to a minimum. We just have those times when your hormnes get the best of you.

Alright now let's not fight...I'm sure Libragirl meant no harm...love and peace and happiness all...lol : )

I am sorry libra for bursting out like that. It was a little surprising and caught me off gaurd, our display of affection in plan view is one thing, versus the display of love, affection and hormones in such a manner that no one could tell but us. It was not like we were going at it so hard we were making waves and a big scene.

I do apologize for the rude comment, it is not rude for someone to say something that we have both made public knowledge.

Marinesag,
Your apology is accepted but you did make it public knowledge and i was only asking. I still dont understand the "you of all people", comment. Can you please clarify? It seems hypocritical that you dont like public displays of affection yet you 'got it on' in a lake, infront of kids but anyway, you've explained it as one of those "spontaneous adventures", like most other people who fondle in public i imagine!!!

Scorpio woman, i wasnt critisizing you or implying you had no 'modesty' in any way, i was merely asking a question.

Anyway, to answer the question, i dont know how i feel about PDA. I saw one just then (on my way home) and it was funny. I suppose i find them amusing, especially when two people are drunk and are trying to go at it against a wall, lol!

As for during the day, i find it more offensive than during the night because you can see more. I think those kinds of PDA's should be reserved for the bedroom.

Anyway, no hard feelings. Maybe just clarify next time before you jump to the wrong conclusion. I appreciate your apology 🙂

I am also sorry if I was rude. I dont know why we did what we did, as far as thier being children there we were so far away, that people could barley see our heads much less bodies.

That is the only time that PDA has been a big thing with me, I dont like to draw attention to myself at all.

Hey scorpio woman,
Im glad we could clear that up. I think you might have had your back up because of that nasty poster. I just wanted to clarify and the last thing i want to do is fight, i enjoy this service, as should we all. Its been nice chatting with you and marinesag and its always good to get other peoples points of view.

Im sure i will be seeing a lot more of you around here 🙂

Libragirl.

Yes!!! I will be around her forever, I have gotten attached to this site.