Bondage

What do you think of it? Does it float your boat? Do you think it's perverted?

Geez, what a topic. What do I think about bondage? I think whatever you want to do in the privacy of your home, is your biz.

Personally, I think it is perverted and leads to damage in a relationship, because people tend to take things to far, and someone ends up getting hurt. After that happens, you really want nothing more to ever do with the person because you won't trust them!

Whats to like about slavery or servitude?? I do it because I want to, not because I'm in bondage. I don't find it very sexy or appealing at all. The point of bondage is about domination and submission but to the point of degredation! It is different then say spanking or simulated rape(which is not like rape at all) etc...a little rough is okay, but don't go to far!!!

Yeah, I agree Suzy-Q!
But, I seem to be the only one on my wagon...

I can be very sexy...but, I do NOT think I should dress in this manner for all to see...it should be private!

The media has helped to create a situation where women dress skimpy in public...yet, I believe the statistics state that a rape occurs every 6 minutes or some such VERY frequent number! So...why publisize what you got when it aint for everyone! Women have allowed themselves to be exploited to the max! (I know I am a broken record...but, what else am I to do! It irks me!!)

There is that stupid male mag called FHM (I believe it stands for F****** Humping Male), which totally exploits women in what they consider a cool, hip, sexy kind of way! Yeah! Whatever!

I don't get it...I never did...

The saddest thing in the world to me is that we women allow it!

I think that if a person needs the weird to become aroused...then they are indeed sad also...
I agree that it can go too far and trust becomes an issue...

I detest the world at times!
I am better off when I don't read or watch the news...I do not like to know of all the crap that is out there!!

Phoenix, my boat wants to leave the Earth and go someplace safe...someplace where men and women are actually equal and we truly appreciate each other...not abuse each other!

OK...maybe it is a bad PMS day for me...but, I am sick of this kinda crap!

Good post Star!!!

I think men also developed the underwires that go in my bras!

Ever have this happen to ya. The wire cuts throught he material and ends up poking into your skin??

Every single one of mine ends up getting ripped out because they pop out of the material and end up jabbing me! But then they don't have the support anymore. I swear I have marks on me from it!

Male conspiracy I think! Another form of bondage, the bra!

another thing...what's with all the violence today? Is it perhaps from today's culture? I can't believe what I see on the news everyday. Some guy going around shooting people for no reason etc...this is just sickening! Everyday it is something sick!!! You never know what will happen when you leave the house these days.

Ok, be safe out there!

"OK...maybe it is a bad PMS day for me...but, I am sick of this kinda crap!"

Yeah, I've got it too!

Geez, were like a pack of wolves, aren't we!

Don't come to close, or will tear ya to pieces.LOL!

Great posts girls...I actually agree with both of you. I do like a little roughness, but I wouldn't want it to escalate to actual pain really. And I'm less about props than just hands or whatever.

I'm also waiting for the day when men and women will be more equal with one another.

I also get poked by my underwire bras...that is so annoying! And another funny thing, we are all PMSing at the same time. That is hilarious!

(Maybe that's why I started this topic...lol)

Anyway thanks for your opinions!

LOL! Isn't PMS grand!!
Also LOL about the underwire bras!! I know exactly what you mean!!
Thanks for lightening up my mood with your humor, Suzy and Phoenix!

"And another funny thing, we are all PMSing at the same time. That is hilarious!"

Look out we are defintely a running wolf pack now, and everyone is in the danger zone now! All you men out ther are mince meat LOL!

I think that I remember a woman who walked on a homicide using the PMS defense? I can't remember the details, but I now it makes us do some weird stuff. I am only normal for about 7 days a month and the rest of the time I can be and angel or the devil's daughter! But, I am like clock work, so if you know this, you are aware of it in advance. Actually, I become alot more moody, because I am in so much freaking PAIN and discomfort!!!

bondage rocks my boat 😉

Yeah, Luz, but when someone starts crying and saying stop, then enough is enough!!! How does it feel to you when you hurt someone for you pleasure, it ain't right!

by the way, Luz, what is it about bondage that gives you so much pleasure? I would like to know? Were you a victim of childhood trauma. or are you really a man who is acting as a women. I can understand a man having this mind set but not a woman, unless you were traumatized. I may be getting personal here, but you opened the door!

If you are a woman and like it so much, then I would say you have some problems!

Get outa town, Im pmsing as well, how funny! Dont you find you get really motivated to clean?

Bondage, boring. Why do people have to role play? Arent they happy with who they are? Within a relationship its dysfunctional and as for wanted to do it with a stranger, — I can understand the need for a bit of rough and tumble but you are with the person to be with them, not to act out a fantasy. I think it all stems from a deep level of self loathing and self disgust. Why else would anyone want to punish themselves so much? Its like self-flagelation. Just my opinion, not my thing but each to their own, as long as they leave me out of it. The thrill for me is in the chase and in the mind. If someone can turn me on mentally, it is oh so sexy for me. I think the mind is the most erotic organ 🙂

IG,

I agree! Holy love does this mean I might be gay?!

And I am always chasing dirt, and I find it is a waste of precious time! It is always going to be there! So, I now my goal is simply the quest for sanitary and not a freaking shrine!!! Give that idea up, woman there are better things to spend time doing!

That should have been addressed to LG! You get it, I'm sure!

by the way, Luz, what is it about bondage that gives you so much pleasure? I would like to know? Were you a victim of childhood trauma. or are you really a man who is acting as a women. I can understand a man having this mind set but not a woman, unless you were traumatized. I may be getting personal here, but you opened the door!

If you are a woman and like it so much, then I would say you have some problems!i opened the door?? a question that obviously would have their own right to answer but telling me i have problems? da hell is YOUr problem with victimizing ppl— and no one said anything about bondaging ppl who DIDNT wanna do it ok? everyone has their own different desires, my god

OK, Luz! I was just wondering what you found fulfilling with it, that is all. I was wrong to paint you a victim if you are not, so SUE me! You still didnt answer my question?? Oh! let me think....everyone has their own desires. Why then that? Do you like having the c r a p knocked out of you? Does that feel good? Or to be degraded? Maybe we are not talking about the same thing? I am not talking about a little rough house; I am talking about a beating! Hope you never find out!

lol dude, i dont think im gonna whore around and have me bondaged all the time ok? i just think its sexy to think that MY MAN can treetrunk me hard ok? while tied down, i dont know? i just like that sometimes, everyone has different moods for different things for sex sometimes, sometimes i like it romantic and full of passion, sometimes gentle and sometimes rough alrite?

f*ck

ok this is stupid, we shouldnt be argueing about some topic about bondage, we all have our differences so hope we're friends 🙂

yeah, Luz, and i still think you are a MAN!

LOL ok

" i just think its sexy to think that MY MAN can treetrunk me hard ok? while tied down, i dont know? i just like that sometimes, everyone has different moods for different things for sex sometimes, sometimes i like it romantic and full of passion, sometimes gentle and sometimes rough alrite?"

LOL! Luz your up kind of early darlin! Not a whole lot of S&M going on last nightLOL yeah me either.

OK, I admit it. I like it! But, only if I could trust him, but if he got carried away that would be the last time!!!

Come on and stir it up little darlin
its been along long time
since I got you on my mind
now you are here
and its ok
to see what we can do,baby
just me and you
ooh stir it up
Bob Marley (this is my morning music!!)
come on stir it up, little darlin

you push the wood, i'll blaze the fire
then i'll satisfy your hearts desire

oh, will you quench my thirst?
come on cool me down when i'm hot
your recipe, darlin, is so tasty,
and you can stir the pot!

Woooo, I'm all stirred up!!! funny how music can easily set the mood, for me it does!

Yeah Luz, You are right...no sense in arguing and fighting...we are all friends!

Actually, I wouldn't mind being the dominant one...not that I would actually hurt him...just tie him up...OK, OK, maybe I would spank him! But, I wouldn't cause any permanent pain...just let him know who is in charge! LOL!!

Suzy, I do think music can be extremely sexy! Definitely affects my mood!

LOL star, YES I WOULD LOVE TO DOMINATE OVER HIM also..LOL

I dont think that being donminated is bad, I think is it how u do it and what u are using to do it with. For some reason I have always loved candle wax, the way that it feels in my hands and how it makes my skin soft and for some reason I have always has this weird idea in the back of my head to be hancuffed to the bed (where I can get loose if I need too) and just have wax lightly warmed and then poured on my body.

Luz,

You crack me up, next time i go to pick someone up im gonna say "hey, how would you like to come back to my place and treetrunk?". The look on their face? Priceless...

Lol, I think what im trying to say is that the look on their face will be better than the treetrunk itself, hehe, Ill go now before i embarrass myself any further :>

HAHA LOL yeah, its always nice to shock ppl just for ur own amusement..me and my friend do it all the time...er..LOL

I've always seen bondage not so much as a pain/dominance thing, but rather acts that emphasize the transgression of boundaries. Sex has become so in your face in so many ways and the idea of what is taboo (which is so often a mental turn on) is becomming eroded to the point of non-existence. Bondage is one way to search out personal limitations and become empowered by exceeding them (not confined to the dominant side).

It's a process that demands a hell of a lot of trust and exploring such issues generally creates a deeper sense of intimacy with a partner......um...or so i've been told...lol.

Each to their own though.

This is so fascinating I can't tell you how thrilled I am to see this topic.

There is nothing better than being totally ravished by a man or making the guy quiver all over!

I have never tried it before, but I am completely in the game, with the right guy!

I think I would like to be the dominatrix! 🙂

Excellent points , Cortica!

Hi, Mom!

I'm totally for it! Wish my bloody partner was!

Now the cat is finally out of the bag! I knew I couldn't be the only Diva on this site! hahaha

Star,

I think you are just such a sweety and funny as hell! I think we could have a ball if we were to meet up sometime.

Love,

Your Mother
also a air sign
Libra/Aquarius rising

Hi Mom!

I think we could have loads of fun also! Wow! Libra/Aquarius rising...that sounds like an interesting combination!

I love your name by the way! You crack me up...I love reading your responses to CB!! Glad you find me funny as well...I do love to laugh...sometimes, I get the impression some don't know when I am joking...

Talk to you later, Mom!
Love,
Star