Cup of tea?

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by Luz on Monday, November 11, 2002 and has 10 replies.

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@Luz
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Because when you're in love with your hubbie OR boyfriend, do people like to have sex a lot or is it those relationships where people believe "yes, we dont need sex, because our love is stronger"? Ehh..

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@donkeybutter
21 Years

It can totally depend...I don't think a relationship could last forever without getting on the good foot and doing the bad thing, but, different couples have different needs, most definitely. I have had a couple 6 month long relationships that didn't involve that, but then at the time I was still a virgin and was planning to remain so until marriage. I was also 15 and 16 at the time. Whatever you do, do not feel societal pressure to give it up. You move to that step when you are totally ready and ONLY when you are totally ready.

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@Luz
21 Years1,000+ Posts

yeah ofcourse, i have respect for myself, and if someone does care bout their virginity then i guess it doesnt matter to them. But for me, i like to give it to someone special, and the guy im with IS special, so im wondering if married couples of have sex a lot cus sometimes married couples or boyfriend/girlfriends just do it becus thats the only thing they have in their relationship if that makes sense.

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@donkeybutter
21 Years

It does make sense Luz, I don't think I can fairly tell you what you want to know though since I'm not married. I think after a lot of time together though, you get less and less "all about the nookie" if you know what I mean. lol.

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@Star
21 Years1,000+ Posts

It depends...before children, Sex is the baby! You nurture it, you watch it grow, you play with it, you have fun with it, you feed it...it is whenever time is available! It is fun! After children...your life revolves around this/or these little creature/s and sex becomes secondary 😢