dating a cousin-in-law

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Is it perfectly alright? Is it gonna be awkward?
blood-related?


Nope
then why mention he's a cousin?

if you know he s not related to you by blood, he s not even a cousin.

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just to stir us up. lol

by putting cousin, but we only saw cousin, not the in law so much 😆 😛
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used to have a cousin-in-law flirt with me every year (family reunion)

he thought i was dating one of his cousins at first until im all like:

"i am your cousin." 😆

but then again, one of my friends married her second cousin so.. *shrugs
Haha. When it's cousin in law, you are only related by marriage, not blood, so it's not that weird 😛
thank god coz i did feel very attracted to him
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It could be because it's convenient. I had one of mine do it and ppl were weirded out in away but I mean it depends on how strong u think the bond is and not the "D". You may face some trials with that especially if the couple has children but u would possibly still be cousins to them as well. Hey if it's worth it go for it but remember if u guys end or even on bad terms u will always see him and his new girl at the family reunion which could make u feel butt hurt. Like they say don't eat where u shit or mix biz with pleasure. I always like meeting someone where I don't frequently go or attend bcuz it brings up that memory over and over like a bad record
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Posted by sierra_
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Posted by blvckphase
Posted by sierra_
used to have a cousin-in-law flirt with me every year (family reunion)

he thought i was dating one of his cousins at first until im all like:

"i am your cousin." 😆

but then again, one of my friends married her second cousin so.. *shrugs
Haha. When it's cousin in law, you are only related by marriage, not blood, so it's not that weird 😛
thank god coz i did feel very attracted to him
It could be because it's convenient. I had one of mine do it and ppl were weirded out in away but I mean it depends on how strong u think the bond is and not the "D". You may face some trials with that especially if the couple has children but u would possibly still be cousins to them as well. Hey if it's worth it go for it but remember if u guys end or even on bad terms u will always see him and his new girl at the family reunion which could make u feel butt hurt. Like they say don't eat where u shit or mix biz with pleasure. I always like meeting someone where I don't frequently go or attend bcuz it brings up that memory over and over like a bad record
yeah i guess and also when you think about it.. it would be pretty hard to be jerks to each other or cheat, etc. coz all our relatives would find out, guilt the offending party and would always somehow want our relationship to work out... coz they know and love us both

man i was strongly attracted to him

but i think science can explain that

im not dating him though (he lives waaaay too far up north) but i did consider it
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I would hang with him but wouldn't ever have sex with him so he has time to go and differentiate his feelings because u maybe persuaded by the family to make it work but guys are different they even marry women their mother doesn't like just to despise them. So all I'm saying is guard ur heart and depending on ur age u still have time and long distance relationships suck! U have to be very strong for those