@crabRiot
11 Years1,000+ Posts
Friends or Not
Posted by clooneyyears
i'm not someone who asks for help from friends so yes.
Who do you ask then?
Posted by clooneyyears
i just cry on the couch. 😛
Awww poor baby..
Yeah, they're still friends. I only have one friend I occasionally talk to about issues. Normally, I deal with them myself. If I couldn't go to that friend, that's fine. She has her own issues to deal with. Friends, to me, aren't about sharing emotions (though I'm still loyal and care about them). They're for company and entertainment (though, it's give and take. They get things out of the relationship, as well).
I have many friends, and many levels of friendships. However, I only have a small handful who are inner circle friends, the kind of people I trust with my life.
Friends should be either ride or die friends or nothing. If they arent ride or die id rather be alone. I dont need any weak links.
Posted by crabRiot
Will you still call a person a friend if you can't seem to go to them if you need help?Your thoughts on this. .
If there is no give and take then no. If I'm your shoulder to cry on, but when I need someone to turn to you are ghost....expect a demotion. I'm not interested in fair weather friendship.
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This...I love my friends and my lover (s) hard, I expect the same type of devotion and if I don't get it, I start questioning your true worth to me.
Meaning I'm expecting a give and take and no disappearing on each other.
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Friends should be either ride or die friends or nothing. If they arent ride or die id rather be alone. I dont need any weak links.
I actually like this but not all of your friends is gonna have what it takes to be ride or die.Some are just there for entertainment purposes lol.
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Friends should be either ride or die friends or nothing. If they arent ride or die id rather be alone. I dont need any weak links.I actually like this but not all of your friends is gonna have what it takes to be ride or die.Some are just there for entertainment purposes lol.
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Those arent friends then imo, those are casual aquantances 🙂
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Will you still call a person a friend if you can't seem to go to them if you need help?
Your thoughts on this. .