how much do you judge a date?

do you judge his house, car, the way he dresses, if it looks like he has money? if he is messy or neat? what if he is a great and fun guy? how important are the material things etc? i've dated some great guys that were a mess and some perfectionists with money that were evil and awful. what is important to you in a guy?

If he has money amd an asshole, I don't like him and will walk away.

If he's messy, a mess period and a nice guy, I will walk away.

Cant be happy with either one of those scenarios.

No one is oerfect, but.at least have your priorities straight amd not be a dik about things. There's decent people out there. I won't surround myself with effed up people. They can go somewhere else with that bs.

I'm a Cap woman.

Posted by Greentea
If he has money amd an asshole, I don't like him and will walk away.

If he's messy, a mess period and a nice guy, I will walk away.

Cant be happy with either one of those scenarios.

No one is oerfect, but.at least have your priorities straight amd not be a dik about things. There's decent people out there. I won't surround myself with effed up people. They can go somewhere else with that bs.

I'm a Cap woman.

but don't you think if hes at least a good guy he can be worked on?

Posted by HeartOnMySleeveSag
Who are ME to judge

-Delivert

amen. he who is without sin cast the first stone..you know the rest

FYI, people with wealth tend to not show it. People who show off are typically in debt for a reason.

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Posted by Greentea
If he has money amd an asshole, I don't like him and will walk away.

If he's messy, a mess period and a nice guy, I will walk away.

Cant be happy with either one of those scenarios.

No one is oerfect, but.at least have your priorities straight amd not be a dik about things. There's decent people out there. I won't surround myself with effed up people. They can go somewhere else with that bs.

I'm a Cap woman.

but don't you think if hes at least a good guy he can be worked on?

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Depends on what they need to work on, I feel at a certain age, you should be mature enough to have your shit together.. I'm not trying to find someone that's a project for me to work on.

@ OP- hmm I can sometimes. I have VIT and Cancer rising. I am sorta picky.... but it's the chemistry and connect first. Then looks. I tend to walk down and be in my own world.
But I look at height and eyes and they way act...be it at work or the store.

Opps typo height, eyes, and their actions..even if I like what I see I sit back and observe because I can go head strong on you. If I even think there is an attraction.