Posted by Evoxxxscorpioshit why didn't i think of that? hitting the gym tomorrow. thanks 😄Posted by confusedaries7513Lift heavy weights lol
So i have already googled this and tried pretty much everything but nothing's working and i'm running out of patience here. cause tbh feelings are shit and i don't want them. period. so, any advice on how to get over a stupid crush would be greatly appreaciated. thanks.click to expand
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Talk with them until they do/say something that makes them seem normal.
Posted by tizianiDon't wanna seem too eager tho 😢 SHITPosted by confusedaries7513Make it 5? He will trip up eventually 😄Posted by tiziani
Talk with them until they do/say something that makes them seem normal.
I talked to him for 2 hours and 30 mins exactly and that's when the feelings got worse!
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Posted by 5TwentyOnelol what does that mean ? i don't come on dxp much except for when i become miserablePosted by 5TwentyOneI do believe the Leo/Leo moon boards need volunteers.
Develop a new crush.
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Posted by 5TwentyOnefuark he has leo placements lolPosted by confusedaries7513Leo placements need attention.Posted by 5TwentyOnelol what does that mean ? i don't come on dxp much except for when i become miserablePosted by 5TwentyOneI do believe the Leo/Leo moon boards need volunteers.
Develop a new crush.
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Posted by 5TwentyOnehonestly who doesn't like attention? i dont even have any leo placements but i like attention lolPosted by confusedaries7513LolPosted by 5TwentyOnePosted by confusedaries7513Leo placements need attention.Posted by 5TwentyOnelol what does that mean ? i don't come on dxp much except for when i become miserablePosted by 5TwentyOneI do believe the Leo/Leo moon boards need volunteers.
Develop a new crush.
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Posted by Damnata
-Think of a person out there of your own gender that makes you insecure as fuck.
-Summon imagination to the rescue.
-Imagine this crush with this person, having sex and laughing and planning a life together.
-Try to swap yourself with that person in that scene (remember, it's a person you cannot win against..it's crucial to select someone that fits the bill).
-Realize how that scene looks grotesque and how you don't fit in -that picture at all meanwhile the other person does.
-Cry.
-At some point crying takes so much emotional/mental energy you can't even feel anything about that make believe scenario. You turn numb.
-Wish them best of look in that fantasy.
-Step away.
I mean I am not saying you will feel good but you will probably swap obsession for depression so idk? Win?
Posted by confusedaries7513Just noticed you have one of my friend's sun/moon/rising lmao.Posted by Damnata
-Think of a person out there of your own gender that makes you insecure as fuck.
-Summon imagination to the rescue.
-Imagine this crush with this person, having sex and laughing and planning a life together.
-Try to swap yourself with that person in that scene (remember, it's a person you cannot win against..it's crucial to select someone that fits the bill).
-Realize how that scene looks grotesque and how you don't fit in -that picture at all meanwhile the other person does.
-Cry.
-At some point crying takes so much emotional/mental energy you can't even feel anything about that make believe scenario. You turn numb.
-Wish them best of look in that fantasy.
-Step away.
I mean I am not saying you will feel good but you will probably swap obsession for depression so idk? Win?
PERFECT! LOVE IT. THANK U. and no worries cause i'm generally depressed all the time so... 🙂
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Posted by DamnataPosted by confusedaries7513Just noticed you have one of my friend's sun/moon/rising lmao.Posted by Damnata
-Think of a person out there of your own gender that makes you insecure as fuck.
-Summon imagination to the rescue.
-Imagine this crush with this person, having sex and laughing and planning a life together.
-Try to swap yourself with that person in that scene (remember, it's a person you cannot win against..it's crucial to select someone that fits the bill).
-Realize how that scene looks grotesque and how you don't fit in -that picture at all meanwhile the other person does.
-Cry.
-At some point crying takes so much emotional/mental energy you can't even feel anything about that make believe scenario. You turn numb.
-Wish them best of look in that fantasy.
-Step away.
I mean I am not saying you will feel good but you will probably swap obsession for depression so idk? Win?
PERFECT! LOVE IT. THANK U. and no worries cause i'm generally depressed all the time so... 🙂
Double what I said then because that shit really worked out for him.
He had this unrequited love thing and he's the type of person that processes emotions by talking about them so we're out one night and I'm listening and at some point he goes "while I am here running my mouth they are probably having sex with someone else". So I just ran with that (I'm not a sadist I swear) and started describing sex scenes and stuff and how much better that other person is and he just...stared at me then started laughing amidst all the crying. I don't know why..it's like he finally burned out of sadness and masochism at that point. Maybe it was the shock value. He's doing better now.
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Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXwill you do the honour?
Cut your head off.
Posted by Damnata
-Think of a person out there of your own gender that makes you insecure as fuck.
-Summon imagination to the rescue.
-Imagine this crush with this person, having sex and laughing and planning a life together.
-Try to swap yourself with that person in that scene (remember, it's a person you cannot win against..it's crucial to select someone that fits the bill).
-Realize how that scene looks grotesque and how you don't fit in -that picture at all meanwhile the other person does.
-Cry.
-At some point crying takes so much emotional/mental energy you can't even feel anything about that make believe scenario. You turn numb.
-Wish them best of look in that fantasy.
-Step away.
I mean I am not saying you will feel good but you will probably swap obsession for depression so idk? Win?
Posted by tizianiThis.
Talk with them until they do/say something that makes them seem normal.
Posted by schwarzthanks famPosted by Damnata
-Think of a person out there of your own gender that makes you insecure as fuck.
-Summon imagination to the rescue.
-Imagine this crush with this person, having sex and laughing and planning a life together.
-Try to swap yourself with that person in that scene (remember, it's a person you cannot win against..it's crucial to select someone that fits the bill).
-Realize how that scene looks grotesque and how you don't fit in -that picture at all meanwhile the other person does.
-Cry.
-At some point crying takes so much emotional/mental energy you can't even feel anything about that make believe scenario. You turn numb.
-Wish them best of look in that fantasy.
-Step away.
I mean I am not saying you will feel good but you will probably swap obsession for depression so idk? Win?
My Virgo rising came up with it long ago
it didn't work
even the strongest things in the world-my inferiority complex and possessiveness couldn't override this infatuation
stay strong OP
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Posted by Ram416he is already normal too and i know his flaws but why am i still obsessed?Posted by tizianiThis.
Talk with them until they do/say something that makes them seem normal.click to expand
Posted by schwarzwow, reading that helped me realize the same thing actually. im gonna read what u said over and over again till he leaves my mind
But I did something that helps me stop thinking about him when he isn't around. One particularly sleepless night this sentence just popped in my mind
"You're not a part of his world"
And then some thoughts that seemed a bit foreign to my mind emerged. I just thought how inadequate it looks to be investing energy in him. As if for the first time in my life I actually put myself in someone else's shoes. And I felt like an intruder. How dare I pollute his energetic field with my incessant fantasies.
I feel like directing thoughts at someone does affect them on an energetic level.
So, this sentence seems to do the job when I try to stop thinking about him.
Posted by SentimentalCrabbybeautiful! thanks so much
How to lose feelings for someone:
- Go out with your friends
- Do things you like & get distracted by it
- Think of how to pamper yourself & make yourself look good.
- Watch funny prank videos in YouTube
- Watch something logical
- Play video games that you been wanting to play for a long time now.
- Talk to new people
- Focus on studies & goals that will benefit you
- Find something atlethic to do
- Sing in the shower
- Do something weird that will distract yourself
Posted by Skyei'm stupid. for having feelings for him 🙂)Posted by confusedaries7513
So i have already googled this and tried pretty much everything but nothing's working and i'm running out of patience here. cause tbh feelings are shit and i don't want them. period. so, any advice on how to get over a stupid crush would be greatly appreaciated. thanks.
Why are you calling your crush stupid? I say embrace your feels! hahaha
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Posted by confusedaries7513this is the worst idea I've ever heard of.Posted by Damnata
-Think of a person out there of your own gender that makes you insecure as fuck.
-Summon imagination to the rescue.
-Imagine this crush with this person, having sex and laughing and planning a life together.
-Try to swap yourself with that person in that scene (remember, it's a person you cannot win against..it's crucial to select someone that fits the bill).
-Realize how that scene looks grotesque and how you don't fit in -that picture at all meanwhile the other person does.
-Cry.
-At some point crying takes so much emotional/mental energy you can't even feel anything about that make believe scenario. You turn numb.
-Wish them best of look in that fantasy.
-Step away.
I mean I am not saying you will feel good but you will probably swap obsession for depression so idk? Win?
PERFECT! LOVE IT. THANK U. and no worries cause i'm generally depressed all the time so... 🙂
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Posted by Adreamuponwakinglol why? would have been nice if it actually worked on mePosted by confusedaries7513this is the worst idea I've ever heard of.Posted by Damnata
-Think of a person out there of your own gender that makes you insecure as fuck.
-Summon imagination to the rescue.
-Imagine this crush with this person, having sex and laughing and planning a life together.
-Try to swap yourself with that person in that scene (remember, it's a person you cannot win against..it's crucial to select someone that fits the bill).
-Realize how that scene looks grotesque and how you don't fit in -that picture at all meanwhile the other person does.
-Cry.
-At some point crying takes so much emotional/mental energy you can't even feel anything about that make believe scenario. You turn numb.
-Wish them best of look in that fantasy.
-Step away.
I mean I am not saying you will feel good but you will probably swap obsession for depression so idk? Win?
PERFECT! LOVE IT. THANK U. and no worries cause i'm generally depressed all the time so... 🙂
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Posted by confusedaries7513it's just going to make you feel bad about a situation that has the potential to do so.Posted by Adreamuponwakinglol why? would have been nice if it actually worked on mePosted by confusedaries7513this is the worst idea I've ever heard of.Posted by Damnata
-Think of a person out there of your own gender that makes you insecure as fuck.
-Summon imagination to the rescue.
-Imagine this crush with this person, having sex and laughing and planning a life together.
-Try to swap yourself with that person in that scene (remember, it's a person you cannot win against..it's crucial to select someone that fits the bill).
-Realize how that scene looks grotesque and how you don't fit in -that picture at all meanwhile the other person does.
-Cry.
-At some point crying takes so much emotional/mental energy you can't even feel anything about that make believe scenario. You turn numb.
-Wish them best of look in that fantasy.
-Step away.
I mean I am not saying you will feel good but you will probably swap obsession for depression so idk? Win?
PERFECT! LOVE IT. THANK U. and no worries cause i'm generally depressed all the time so... 🙂
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Posted by Adreamuponwakinghis thoughts are keeping me from studying. and that's why i'm super annoyed. i have exams to focus on 😢 i'm gonna go hang out with a few guy friends tomorrow , see if i can get him out of my mind
Divert your attention to work....if you hate your job then divert your attention to new hobbies that you've always wanted tp pursue.
I'm in the same boat as you right now. This helps.
I myself am currently learning how to skateboard.
Next week I'm going sailing. I'm refreshing my maritime skills by crewing on a yacht for a couple of days.
Posted by confusedaries7513oh yeah i know how that goes.Posted by Adreamuponwakinghis thoughts are keeping me from studying. and that's why i'm super annoyed. i have exams to focus on 😢 i'm gonna go hang out with a few guy friends tomorrow , see if i can get him out of my mind
Divert your attention to work....if you hate your job then divert your attention to new hobbies that you've always wanted tp pursue.
I'm in the same boat as you right now. This helps.
I myself am currently learning how to skateboard.
Next week I'm going sailing. I'm refreshing my maritime skills by crewing on a yacht for a couple of days.click to expand
Posted by LivenLuvPosted by confusedaries7513Aww you sound very much like my Aries son who doesn't know about a girl he works with. He's crushing on her, she's flirting with him, and he's confused. Know your worth. That's all I can say ❤️
So i have already googled this and tried pretty much everything but nothing's working and i'm running out of patience here. cause tbh feelings are shit and i don't want them. period. so, any advice on how to get over a stupid crush would be greatly appreaciated. thanks.click to expand
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