How would you take this message?

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PhoenixRising
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Posted by firefox921
If someone wrote this on Facebook how would you take it?

What's the meaning behind this?

"I seem like a dead fish in bed. Who knows when i'll see fireworks".

Well, if they were talking about him/herself or you, it's not good. Sex is basically boring.

On the bright side, they did use the word "seem", which suggest there is a possible cause vs you or they simply suck and it could turn around, they just don't know when that will happen lol.
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Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by PhoenixRising
When did hell did FB become people's personal diary? Why would anyone write that...?
Umm I think it’s been like that since the beginning 🤨
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Naw. A place to brag about how wonderful you would like people to think your life is, sure. A place where you discuss things best shared between the pages of a journal or with a therapist (or dxp apparently), within the last five years or so.



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The phrase "I seem like a dead fish in bed" says whoever that person is make parallel criticism. One is as she/he knows their potential didn't reached so view as 3rd person view.in that form self criticism. On the parallel side criticism towards the partner as its a complaints that potential hasn't been driven out.

The second phrase again parallel. As contained criticism as she/he knows what fireworks is, secondly it make it doubtful for various reasons. I recon its again the criticism of the partner dependence if this happens.

In summary. Altough first seems as self criticism in majority, its actually taking responsibility off in deeper context and make a blame for her own restrictions

The person has big ego, however not fully satisfying the narcissistic spectrum as narcissists especially somatic are all about their own performance. She is full of herself though