Are Sagittariuses emotionally closed?

We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff. But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with
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  • ChocolateHazelnut
    Lover of chocolate and hazelnuts combined 20 years old female
    We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.
    But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

    Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?
    I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.
    But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

    Sags do you have same experiences?
  • ChocolateHazelnut
    Lover of chocolate and hazelnuts combined 20 years old female
    Posted by UnicornSag
    Yes I can only agree to that. Despite being so blunt and honest and straight forward my deepest emotions are always kept to myself. I find it hard to express them, feel awkward when I do and usually regret it later. One way or another it gets turned against me every single time, by every single person.
    Yesterday I've been called unemotional and insensitive. I literally cried (hidden ofc) but I said nothing to it or did anything to object to that statement. Cause I just feel tired of people misunderstanding me and I'll rather be like that than overly emotional.
    I feel like I have to tell my things to someone as well but I never do tell my deepest thoughts. It's like I always say part of everything, I just can't trust people in general and there are things that bug me cause like you said it feels so overwhelming to not tell it to someone but cause of the wight of it I feel like at some point it will be used against me and I just keep it to myself instead.
    And regarding being blunt and hurting others in process it's not intentional and doesn't happen so often lately cause I learned to chose words more carefully but it did use to happen at some point. It can happen tho when I really want to hurt someone who has already hurt me, I know exactly what and how to use against them and it's nothing but truth, no insults or anything, just a plain truth but put in a way to put them back in their place


    I get it. Our experiences seem similar. When I mentioned I clear out my thoughts to someone up to now it's like a relative that I know is trustful and there for me since birth. Thankfully I am lucky to have that. But sometimes there are things that bother me that I find both illogical and painfully embarrassing and silly to talk about that I keep them inside my head and these thoughts grow gigantic and create me problems.

    Lately I watch myself opening up to more people. Its probably cause I clarified some old situations and that helped a lot. Released some suppressed and buried emotions and all got better. And also currently I don't care about opening up. People can do whatever they want with what I tell them. Its nothing that can harm me really. :p

    My own mother tells me she thinks I am unemotional and I am like..... That's funny, you don't know me at all.... Uhh
  • OneKnight
    Sun: Cancer Rising: Leo Venus: Leo Moon: Cap
    39 years old male from NJ, USA
    Yes.
  • Posted by ChocolateHazelnut
    We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.
    But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

    Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?
    I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.
    But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

    Sags do you have same experiences?


    Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.
  • CuddleBug88
    Yo, add me on twitter if ya wanna chit chat off-DXP, @ is CuddleBug1288
    female from USA
    Opening up means vulnerability, vulnerability relates to trust...and sometimes that's hard to come by...says the Scorpio-dominant Sag.

    For realz though. I have no issues opening up to someone, it's the sustained part that I get clammy about. Just cause I open up about something once doesn't mean I want to continue to bring it up. I'm an awkward human bean who can show emotion easily but doesn't necessarily want to dwell on it. I use humor to diffuse A LOT. I don't care for confrontation, but push me far enough and I'm a completely different person...idk lol smile
  • ChocolateHazelnut
    Lover of chocolate and hazelnuts combined 20 years old female
    Posted by UnicornSag
    Posted by ChocolateHazelnut
    Posted by UnicornSag
    Yes I can only agree to that. Despite being so blunt and honest and straight forward my deepest emotions are always kept to myself. I find it hard to express them, feel awkward when I do and usually regret it later. One way or another it gets turned against me every single time, by every single person.
    Yesterday I've been called unemotional and insensitive. I literally cried (hidden ofc) but I said nothing to it or did anything to object to that statement. Cause I just feel tired of people misunderstanding me and I'll rather be like that than overly emotional.
    I feel like I have to tell my things to someone as well but I never do tell my deepest thoughts. It's like I always say part of everything, I just can't trust people in general and there are things that bug me cause like you said it feels so overwhelming to not tell it to someone but cause of the wight of it I feel like at some point it will be used against me and I just keep it to myself instead.
    And regarding being blunt and hurting others in process it's not intentional and doesn't happen so often lately cause I learned to chose words more carefully but it did use to happen at some point. It can happen tho when I really want to hurt someone who has already hurt me, I know exactly what and how to use against them and it's nothing but truth, no insults or anything, just a plain truth but put in a way to put them back in their place


    I get it. Our experiences seem similar. When I mentioned I clear out my thoughts to someone up to now it's like a relative that I know is trustful and there for me since birth. Thankfully I am lucky to have that. But sometimes there are things that bother me that I find both illogical and painfully embarrassing and silly to talk about that I keep them inside my head and these thoughts grow gigantic and create me problems.

    Lately I watch myself opening up to more people. Its probably cause I clarified some old situations and that helped a lot. Released some suppressed and buried emotions and all got better. And also currently I don't care about opening up. People can do whatever they want with what I tell them. Its nothing that can harm me really. :p

    My own mother tells me she thinks I am unemotional and I am like..... That's funny, you don't know me at all.... Uhh


    this is so funny that you mentioned cause I also feel like my own mother doesn't know me at all actually...and it's not wrong at all! But this goes for other people sometimes, it just feels sometimes like they don't get me at all. But luckily it passes by soon enough to forget about those thoughts and it just feels easier to not think about it. I find it so funny how people often misunderstand Sags cheerful nature and chattering for not having depth and being shallow. People think they have you all figured out yet you see from their words and actions they're not even close to understanding you lol
    I did that release of emotions past summer and my friends just got shocked when I started opening up finally lol until then they all thought I'm so perfectly calmed and everything going so smoothly until that suppressed river of emotions came out finally lol
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    So that's how it goes. From suppressing my emotions I had started to lose contact with myself and who I am. Or they would get out in a psychosomatic way, which really waked me up about how harmful it actually is to suppress emotions. Hopefully I will keep expressing them for as long as I can. I wish you the same smile
  • ChocolateHazelnut
    Lover of chocolate and hazelnuts combined 20 years old female
    Posted by EveryOunce
    Posted by ChocolateHazelnut
    We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.
    But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

    Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?
    I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.
    But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

    Sags do you have same experiences?


    Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.
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    I am not sure of what things are going to come out in this situation.... I dont really want to know xD
  • ChocolateHazelnut
    Lover of chocolate and hazelnuts combined 20 years old female
    Posted by Cvurkoo
    Posted by EveryOunce
    Posted by ChocolateHazelnut
    We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.
    But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

    Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?
    I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.
    But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

    Sags do you have same experiences?


    Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.


    Sag moon is way more open.
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    Yes I believe that too. Cause moon is all natural to us. The sun is not so close to express itself as the moon.
  • dewiklaessen26
    26 years old female
    i am not a Sagittarius but i do have a sagg moon so i share something similar whenever i am emotional i'd rather cry alone or not at all my optimism keeps me from becoming emotional but i can be really depressed because of that the only person i show my emotions to is my sagg although i am an open book and i will express myself i keep my deepest thoughts and emotions for myself.
    After i have been emotional i become sober again which sort of cleanses my mind and then i am over it or at least that's what i say to myself i just never mention it again and i leave be as it is
  • I used to be closed off, and my emotions would come out at the weirdest times. Like delayed sometimes. I used to shut them off, until they were shut off too long. When they came back, they came back so hard I had a sort of meltdown.. for a few years. 😳 I had to learn about vulnerability and open up like a rosebud opening its petals. Anyway, now I open up when I feel safe to do so & sometimes I force myself to. Way too many emotions!!! Ugh. But it is healthier for me. Sometimes people want me to shut up lol.
  • dewiklaessen26
    26 years old female
    I hide my emotions by being sarcastic by making jokes making other people laugh so i forget my own pain etcetc i try to focus on other things like my body sports,fun things and every now and then some alcohol but almost never. I don't know if it's Sagittarius moon but i often feel empty for no reason out of nowhere and no other feelings i feel at that moment
  • ChocolateHazelnut
    Lover of chocolate and hazelnuts combined 20 years old female
    Posted by Cvurkoo
    Posted by ChocolateHazelnut
    Posted by Cvurkoo
    Posted by EveryOunce
    Posted by ChocolateHazelnut
    We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.
    But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

    Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?
    I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.
    But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

    Sags do you have same experiences?


    Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.


    Sag moon is way more open.

    Yes I believe that too. Cause moon is all natural to us. The sun is not so close to express itself as the moon.


    Plus, the moon is the planet that represents emotions and being in a sign that is more expressive its easier for emotions to be shared. Even if the sun is in an otherwise reserved sign. I have a Cancer sun, Sag moon friend, and even if its hard for her to express her feelings, she still does via writing or just by being direct.

    On the contrary, my sag sun, pisces moon and heavy cap stellium gf is extremely social but rarely if ever lets other people in that very very private space. One of her best childhood friends told me they have rarely ever spoken about emotions and hard moments Big Grin

    I like that in sags actually. Im grateful she has started to let me in that space.
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    From what you describe if she has a pisces moon she must be very emotional and sensitive.
    And yes it's very beautiful to see people tumble down their walls and let you in. It's actually the best thing. Cause you see you have earn their trust and respect.
  • ChocolateHazelnut
    Lover of chocolate and hazelnuts combined 20 years old female
    Yes I get what you all describe. We pretty much share a similar experience on this.
    I think that's how we have learned or tend to live from some reason and sooner or later each one of us realises that suppressing our emotions is not a healthy or even realistic way to live and we try to change that and let them out.

    Think Cancers for example. Most of the times they will tell you straight or show you how they feel. The rest of us think they are cyclothymic. But all they actually are is emotionally open. Yes this may leads to being clingy and other stuff, you can't only be based and live by emotions.
    But these people must feel true to themselves even in this way. Plain logic and suppressing emotions all the way down to life can cause serious harm and a lot or wrong decisions.
  • ChocolateHazelnut
    Lover of chocolate and hazelnuts combined 20 years old female
    Posted by Cvurkoo
    Posted by ChocolateHazelnut
    Posted by Cvurkoo
    Posted by ChocolateHazelnut
    Posted by Cvurkoo
    Posted by EveryOunce
    Posted by ChocolateHazelnut
    We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.
    But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

    Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?
    I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.
    But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

    Sags do you have same experiences?


    Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.


    Sag moon is way more open.

    Yes I believe that too. Cause moon is all natural to us. The sun is not so close to express itself as the moon.


    Plus, the moon is the planet that represents emotions and being in a sign that is more expressive its easier for emotions to be shared. Even if the sun is in an otherwise reserved sign. I have a Cancer sun, Sag moon friend, and even if its hard for her to express her feelings, she still does via writing or just by being direct.

    On the contrary, my sag sun, pisces moon and heavy cap stellium gf is extremely social but rarely if ever lets other people in that very very private space. One of her best childhood friends told me they have rarely ever spoken about emotions and hard moments Big Grin

    I like that in sags actually. Im grateful she has started to let me in that space.


    From what you describe if she has a pisces moon she must be very emotional and sensitive.
    And yes it's very beautiful to see people tumble down their walls and let you in. It's actually the best thing. Cause you see you have earn their trust and respect.


    She is. And yes, i really appreciate it. These things are significant to me.
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    I am glad for that. What's your sign and moon?
  • ChocolateHazelnut
    Lover of chocolate and hazelnuts combined 20 years old female
    Posted by Cvurkoo
    Posted by ChocolateHazelnut
    Posted by Cvurkoo
    Posted by ChocolateHazelnut
    Posted by Cvurkoo
    Posted by ChocolateHazelnut
    Posted by Cvurkoo
    Posted by EveryOunce
    Posted by ChocolateHazelnut
    We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.
    But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

    Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?
    I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.
    But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

    Sags do you have same experiences?


    Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.


    Sag moon is way more open.

    Yes I believe that too. Cause moon is all natural to us. The sun is not so close to express itself as the moon.


    Plus, the moon is the planet that represents emotions and being in a sign that is more expressive its easier for emotions to be shared. Even if the sun is in an otherwise reserved sign. I have a Cancer sun, Sag moon friend, and even if its hard for her to express her feelings, she still does via writing or just by being direct.

    On the contrary, my sag sun, pisces moon and heavy cap stellium gf is extremely social but rarely if ever lets other people in that very very private space. One of her best childhood friends told me they have rarely ever spoken about emotions and hard moments Big Grin

    I like that in sags actually. Im grateful she has started to let me in that space.


    From what you describe if she has a pisces moon she must be very emotional and sensitive.
    And yes it's very beautiful to see people tumble down their walls and let you in. It's actually the best thing. Cause you see you have earn their trust and respect.


    She is. And yes, i really appreciate it. These things are significant to me.

    I am glad for that. What's your sign and moon?


    Pisces sun and Aqua moon (in the eight)
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    Sounds a pretty nice pair to me. Especially the sun's.
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